View Full Version : Guys SPlooging In Their Pants During Lap DAnces?
Mallory
12-13-2005, 03:58 PM
Yekhefah all the clubs i work at you have to have a towel on the guys lap or they fine you
Yekhefah
12-13-2005, 04:04 PM
Wow. Y'all must be doing some serious grinding up there!
Mallory
12-13-2005, 04:08 PM
*tee hee* thats all we doo , guy comees in the club has a couple of drinks
get him in the vip & get his money before the bar does & send him on his way NEXT!
threlayer
12-13-2005, 07:42 PM
It's just all my pent-up sexual frustrations, I guess. And you are right, guys do like girls that can climax easily, and have multiples. It's totally an ego boost.
Now, I wouldnt mind participating in a discussion on this topic, but it's off-topic in this thread. Let me just say this, 20 seconds is just way too damned fast! (Maybe Sex Talk on the blue site?)
Okay I've had a few cum in their pants. One was from 3 + hours in the damn VIP and it was just a hot session .
Another was completely A Premature EJ issue.
I could careless either way. Point is Mister A. ( vip guy ) warned me and sorta moved me off of his lap.
Mister B..didnt and I about beat his ass.
You know when you are going to cum...say something! and we dont do heavey grinding in our lap dances either.
as far as getting knocked up.. ziltch unless he sprays INTO you lol
as far as STDS..umm yes possible as far as HERPES .. HEP C... etc are concerned., but you'd both have to be pretty much nude..his dick would have to be out..something of that nature. But if it's cum on your leg... thong ... but not even enough to notice . and it shouldnt saturate it , and if it does i offer no advice because that is just fucking gross.
use towels ( but i thought this was enforced in most nude clubs. ) if you do full nude.
because you should be MORE concerned about some stripper that just grinded on his lap last not so much him because he has barriers. she didnt. and you are now grinding in her MESS.
Another novel idea...if you are WAY concerned...double up on thongs. A lot of girls do this...
mark45y
12-14-2005, 04:53 AM
I have a girlfriend and a second girlfriend. They are both in their mid thirties. They get along very well and I feel very lucky to have them both. I support my girlfriend and pay for the entertainment expenses for the second girlfriend when we go out. Occasionally we all have sex but that is not a regular occurrence it is more like a friendship. I don’t mention this to brag but just to give a sense of the relationship.
I have a couple of male friends who also have liberal relationships with their wives or girlfriends. Last week we all decided to go to a strip club. The girls insisted if we go to a female strip club that we take them to a male strip club. OK so that’s no prob.
The female strip club was interesting but a little boring and we didn’t stay long. The girls were antsy to go the male one anyway. The first thing that I noticed that was odd about the male strip club was the price of the drinks. They were three times the price of the female club. And the doorman at the male club advised us to get a table close to one end of the club so we would have a good view of the show.
The guys were dancing on a long stage that snaked through the club in jockey shorts feeling themselves up and trying to maintain erections while they danced. A little eye contact and they would come over and dance for tips. The lineup changed every three songs and another 8 guys filed on stage. I didn’t really see any table dances and there was no VIP room.
Then the show started, which is really the point of this post. The lights went down and four guys dressed up as boy scouts came out on stage with the scout master. The music started playing and the scout master stripped the shorts off of the four guys and they started masturbating to the music.
The guys were all in their early 20 and two were hung like John Holmes. They played three songs. All in all there were four women with us watching the show. None of us really knew what to expect but when the first guy shot his load I put on my hat and ducked.
Three of the girls went under the table. One was transfixed like she had been hypnotized. The rest of the show was pretty good with a variety of dance acts and a couple of comics who used us as grist for his show. Insisting the girls were transvestites and we were all closet queers. It was fun and the girls had a good time.
My overall observations were that in my small circle of friends 25% of the females like to watch guys cum.
threlayer
12-14-2005, 06:44 AM
^ If I were to ever say the word "gross" on SW, it would be in response to these misbehaving 'scouts'. But instead I'll leave it to others.
evan_essence
12-14-2005, 08:11 AM
also, i dont see a connection between cumming durring a dance and wetting the bed. maybe there is and im an exception.Well, neither stream made it to the preferred destination.
-Ev
sander8son
12-14-2005, 11:36 AM
Well, neither stream made it to the preferred destination.
-Ev
if you think some chick's pussy is my cum's preferred destination, you're way off. nah, id prefer it in my pants.... i dont need any freakin kids. seriously, would YOU want someone like me to have kids? }:D and also, im a guy. we can pee anywhere :P
doc-catfish
12-14-2005, 12:02 PM
Well, neither stream made it to the preferred destination.
Bah, unless a paternity suit or lewd conduct charge may result, we don't care where it goes. The bathroom sink, an old tube sock, a fire hydrant, the side of a building, any of them will suffice. (Well, I doubt I'd come on a fire hydrant, or pee on a tube sock but you get my point).
In either instance, it just feels good getting rid of it. ;D
velvet
12-14-2005, 12:37 PM
moved to blue so you guys can hash it out here. by special request. hope FBR AND JAYZENO. dont mind. if so just lock it back
evan_essence
12-15-2005, 02:52 PM
Bah, unless a paternity suit or lewd conduct charge may result, we don't care where it goes. The bathroom sink, an old tube sock, a fire hydrant, the side of a building, any of them will suffice.
if you think some chick's pussy is my cum's preferred destination, you're way off. nah, id prefer it in my pants.... Well, a female can only surmise about this topic from what she observes. I therefore assumed that the average guy's scale of sexual gratification showed a higher preference for full-on intercourse than hand job/grinding through the pants. I stand corrected, at least in two instances.
i dont need any freakin kids. seriously, would YOU want someone like me to have kids? }:D Well now, whether I want you to have kids or your parents to have had kids is a totally different subject matter. Completely seriously: No, I don't wish kids for anyone who doesn't want them, especially for the kids' sake, so I sincerely send you my best wishes on avoiding that. However, I don't think an inclination not to have kids impacts one's innate desire to have sex a certain way over another way. That more powerful desire is what I meant by preferred and again, I was assuming. I wasn't trying to boast about my plumbing.
and also, im a guy. we can pee anywhere :PI realize, but I wasn't talking about the convenience factor of a quick void. I once again surmised the bed wasn't the preferred destination because you wouldn't want to sleep in the wet spot afterwards. But I stand corrected on that, too.
Finally, kudos to you boys for not wanting someone else to clean up after you. I dare say there's a fair number of guys trying to whip it out under these circumstances who lack the chivalry you boys display by carrying around your own cum stains.
-Ev
sander8son
12-16-2005, 03:26 AM
Finally, kudos to you boys for not wanting someone else to clean up after you. I dare say there's a fair number of guys trying to whip it out under these circumstances who lack the chivalry you boys display by carrying around your own cum stains.
-Ev
the bigger the stain the bigger your braggin rights. thats right, potato sized! top that!!!!!! :P
i splooged in a club in NYC once when i was visiting a friend from home who was going to school in NJ. we took the train back and he enjoyed talking about my stain in an extremely loud voice on the train. THAT was embarrassing because that was around people who weren't in the club. as far as having pants full of cum in the club goes, i dont give a shit. but out in a non-club setting... yah, id prefer to avoid that. normally after i shoot, i leave the club and go home, satisfied.
thanks for re-opening velvet...guess i didn't win afterall ::)
Richard_Head
12-16-2005, 07:29 AM
How did I miss this thread? Very entertaining stuff :D.
How about pre-cum? Does that count? Is that PL worthy?
I've never actually cum from a dance but have noticed some pre-cum leakage on occassion.
Do dancers know the difference?
Seems we've discussed this all before but WTH, it's good reading.
infra-red
12-17-2005, 12:37 AM
Most guys I've known actually place a condom on themselves before dances. Well, the nice guys do, I guess.
Are you serious? MOST? Seems like these guys are a little sensitive in the crotch area!
Richard_Head
12-17-2005, 07:42 AM
Most guys I've known actually place a condom on themselves before dances. Well, the nice guys do, I guess.Can someone please explain the logistics of this to me?
sander8son
12-17-2005, 09:53 AM
richard licker,
you have to get arroused PRE dance. so however, you're gonna do that(cabarets, stage action, do it yourself...) then go to the bathroom. jump in the stall and put it on. but its just a pain in the ass and i dont bother anymore... because then i always would wonder if it was still on or not. "now" i just warn the girl if im gonna pop. though im not sure i could get off in a LD anymore.
Richard_Head
12-17-2005, 10:05 AM
richard licker,
you have to get arroused PRE dance. so however, you're gonna do that(cabarets, stage action, do it yourself...) then go to the bathroom. jump in the stall and put it on. but its just a pain in the ass and i dont bother anymore... because then i always would wonder if it was still on or not. "now" i just warn the girl if im gonna pop. though im not sure i could get off in a LD anymore.You're right it does sound like a pain in the ass, seems to me that a warning should more than suffice.
threlayer
12-18-2005, 07:50 PM
And you are right, guys do like girls that can climax easily, and have multiples. It's totally an ego boost.
Dont remember exactly how we got here, but I said I'd respond to the statement.....
I've been with a few who would climax within only 15-20 seconds (with oral), and even though it is fun for me and for each of them, it would have been a LOT more fun if they would have let me tease it out for several minutes. They were just too impatient. I think they maybe just weren't very experienced.
Other experiences include (different) women who liked theirs over up to a half hour. One I was able to pleasure for over two hours; there is a lot of repetition there for me, so I started counting and got up to seven when she whithered away and went to sleep. I told her I could go the rest of the night. She laughed and soon started snoring.
So, so doing women who come quickly is nowhere near as much fun. But one who cannot or will not come at all, is just frustrating to us both. It is sort of a minor ego boost, but mostly I just like to watch and listen to them have their pleasure. Sometimes I learn something too. And eventually I get mine in return, typically with a lot of affection.
This experience only applies to the few women I've been with in the last 10 years. But the point was about my feelings, not necessarily just how they responded to me.
threlayer
12-18-2005, 07:58 PM
As for the topic in the title, I don't think I ever could get that far along with just a lapdance; it would take some pretty direct stimulation for that. Even with the GF. (smiles)
mr_punk
12-19-2005, 02:32 PM
And you are right, guys do like girls that can climax easily, and have multiples. It's totally an ego boost.hmmm...so, does that work in the opposite direction? wait...don't answer that question..just say "yes".
yoda57us
12-20-2005, 07:10 AM
Honestly what is the big deal? In any high contact club I've ever been in both customers and dancers expect this sort of thing to happen on a regular basis.
I don't see how self control enters into the equation. If you want to shoot a load in your pants you are going to find the dancer to make it happen, if you don't you won't. There is no self control involved in the thought process at all. It's simply a matter of finding what you want.
This thread has confirmed my belief that stripperweb is a parody site.
Nobody would ever accuse me of having a high opinion of women, but some of the posts in this thread are just beyond even what I expect.
Duffy
04-24-2007, 01:32 AM
"Splooging." What better way to judge your performance as a lap dancer. Kind of like a standing ovation. If y'all are busy grinding away, as is the case in many Tampa Bay ckubs, I'd think this would be the inevitable result. Dancers can get a little wet "down there" too.
lestat1
04-24-2007, 04:28 PM
The dancers at my clubs are either very different than those who post here, or some of the very finest actresses to walk The Earth.
datchapin
04-24-2007, 05:10 PM
I got a question. A few weeks ago I was with this girl, I was high, anyways this girl took advantage of me (I'm planning on returning the favor when I see her again. lol.). She was jacking me off through my pants. Anyways, I pre-came and it left a moist area in my pants. I think it was pre-cum, because I was still hard as a rock when she pointed this out to me. Also, I know when I nut and I didn't notice this so it actually made me laugh when she told me (I don't know how I would have reacted were I sober.)
My question is this, did I splooge? It seems everyone is talking about guys nutting, but what about pre-cumming? I thought it was natural.
Darcy Foxx
04-25-2007, 06:52 AM
Old thread, hah.
I've never had a guy 'splooge' during a dance with me. If a guy even looks like he might be enjoying it too much, I move to the opposite chair immediately and tone my dancing down 100%. I get shudders if a guy even moans during a dance haha. If a guy came in his pants during a dance with me I honestly think I'd be so emotionally traumatized I'd need to go home immediately to shower and cry and I'd probably not go back to work for a week. If I was in a bad mood and it happened, I'd probably attack him with my shoe or something... I honestly think I'd absolutely fucking flip out and scream abuse and attack him. My dances are very low contact, I don't let them even lay a finger on my leg, and I don't grind at all.
But hey, I'm a total princess. I was trained in a princess club where I actually saw the manager throw a girl's suitcase down the stairs and scream at her to "get the fuck out of my club you stupid little slut" for letting a guy touch her boobs in VIP, and saw him fire girls for grinding too hard. We were trained strictly as visual erotic entertainers, and it was hammered into our newbie heads that grinding/contact = BAD.
I can't imagine working in a club where it's normal to have guys come in their pants. Makes me feel physically ill just thinking about it... ick. As drama queen as it sounds, I don't know if I could even bring myself to go back to work at all if I got a guy's splooge on my leg. It's weird, I'm totally 100% cool with the idea of guys jerking off thinking about me when they get home, or doing it while watching one of my webcam shows or looking at my photos... but the idea of seeing/hearing/feeling them or being in their presence when they orgasm, seriously upsets and offends me.
As for 'getting a little wet down there' during dances... ew. Sexual arousal is the absolute last thing on my mind while I'm giving a lapdance lol.
xdamage
04-25-2007, 08:03 AM
My question is this, did I splooge?
Ahhm.... well.... if you don't know we don't know. Can't we just leave this question in the category of one of the great unsolvable mysteries of the universe and move on?
mr_punk
04-26-2007, 03:51 PM
I can't imagine working in a club where it's normal to have guys come in their pants. Makes me feel physically ill just thinking about it... ick. As drama queen as it sounds, I don't know if I could even bring myself to go back to work at all if I got a guy's splooge on my leg.shake it off, princess. rub some eucalyptus on it. besides, if your club is as lame as it sounds. the only thing you have to worry about is PLs falling into a narcoleptic state.
mdiver
04-26-2007, 04:59 PM
shake it off, princess. rub some eucalyptus on it. besides, if your club is as lame as it sounds. the only thing you have to worry about is PLs falling into a narcoleptic state.
:rotfl:
Santos
04-26-2007, 10:59 PM
As drama queen as it sounds, I don't know if I could even bring myself to go back to work at all if I got a guy's splooge on my leg.
1), I have no desire to pre-cum, cum, after-cum or any other kind of cum in my pants while I'm in a strip club. That ain't my thing.
2). Darcy, while I would have the same reaction to someone "splooging" on my leg, something tells me you would get over the "trauma" within a few days :-) Honestly, the description you've given of your "princess" club is not the norm.
And finally . . .
3). For christ's sake why dredge up a "splooging" threads from 2005?:)
WillStrip4Shoes
04-26-2007, 11:29 PM
I haven't experienced this since my last club, but I don't enjoy it. I'm not sure the risks associated with it, as they seem incredibly diminished, what with layers and all between you. The worst that's happened to me, I was shocked and jumped up, because I could feel the moisture .. it was so disgusting. But I went right into the dressing room and used half of my box of baby wipes!
Jenny
04-26-2007, 11:31 PM
I got a question. A few weeks ago I was with this girl, I was high, anyways this girl took advantage of me (I'm planning on returning the favor when I see her again. lol.). She was jacking me off through my pants. Anyways, I pre-came and it left a moist area in my pants. I think it was pre-cum, because I was still hard as a rock when she pointed this out to me. Also, I know when I nut and I didn't notice this so it actually made me laugh when she told me (I don't know how I would have reacted were I sober.)
My question is this, did I splooge? It seems everyone is talking about guys nutting, but what about pre-cumming? I thought it was natural.
Look - if you have to ask... yes, you did.
xdamage
04-27-2007, 07:05 AM
Honestly, the description you've given of your "princess" club is not the norm.
The norm probably depends on what country/state, etc., you live in. She's in Australia. For all we know that's the norm there. Different country, different expectations then the high contact clubs in the U.S.A.
Darcy Foxx
04-27-2007, 02:20 PM
shake it off, princess. rub some eucalyptus on it. besides, if your club is as lame as it sounds. the only thing you have to worry about is PLs falling into a narcoleptic state.
haha, no, there are a handful of dirty girls at my club who make it their primary objective to feel that sticky wet patch on their leg. they sit in the back dark corners of the VIP room against the wall so the customers can finger them with their hidden hand. we have one charming girl who makes a habit of sticking her fingers up her muff then wiping her pussy juice across her PL's face. you can't imagine how many disgusted customers i've had complain to me about that lol. it's an open room so there's no FS or BJ, but we do have some rather dirty girls.
i'm just not one of them ::)
Jenny
04-27-2007, 02:23 PM
haha, no, there are a handful of dirty girls at my club who make it their primary objective to feel that sticky wet patch on their leg. they sit in the back dark corners of the VIP room against the wall so the customers can finger them with their hidden hand. we have one charming girl who makes a habit of sticking her fingers up her muff then wiping her pussy juice across her PL's face. you can't imagine how many disgusted customers i've had complain to me about that lol. it's an open room so there's no FS or BJ, but we do have some rather dirty girls.
i'm just not one of them ::)
But seriously, babe - I'm betting that you can't imagine the number that really, really like it. The dirty girls aren't really doing it for fun; they're doing it because it makes them money.
Howie
04-27-2007, 03:56 PM
Last time I splooged in the club, it wasn't in my pants.
Santos
04-27-2007, 07:04 PM
we have one charming girl who makes a habit of sticking her fingers up her muff then wiping her pussy juice across her PL's face.
Yes, I had a dancer attempt to do this to me once. She inserted her fingers into her vag (OK, so far no problem), but then she attempted to put her fingers in my mouth:O
I have to know a woman a little longer than a song or two before I would engage in that sort of activity, and I would never do it in a SC, no matter how long I knew the dancer.
Darcy Foxx
04-27-2007, 09:33 PM
But seriously, babe - I'm betting that you can't imagine the number that really, really like it. The dirty girls aren't really doing it for fun; they're doing it because it makes them money.
lol yeah, i know. it just amuses me how many customers i've spoken to who have been FREAKING OUT about it, i had one of our VIP members who was so disgusted and upset that he actually asked me for an anti-bac wipe to clean his face because apparently the girl was really wet and wiped stuff over his whole face and mouth with no warning.
i mean, if you wanna do that stuff for extra money, that's fine, i don't care as long as they're sitting in the 'dirty' side of the room so i don't have to be near it. but at least give the customers a warning or ask first before assaulting them with bodily fluids haha.
xdamage
04-27-2007, 09:47 PM
She inserted her fingers into her vag (OK, so far no problem), but then she attempted to put her fingers in my mouth:O
Ah yea, been there, done that.
I'm pretty sure I saw an "Ingest my STD" look on her face.
Jenny
04-28-2007, 07:25 AM
lol yeah, i know. it just amuses me how many customers i've spoken to who have been FREAKING OUT about it, i had one of our VIP members who was so disgusted and upset that he actually asked me for an anti-bac wipe to clean his face because apparently the girl was really wet and wiped stuff over his whole face and mouth with no warning.
i mean, if you wanna do that stuff for extra money, that's fine, i don't care as long as they're sitting in the 'dirty' side of the room so i don't have to be near it. but at least give the customers a warning or ask first before assaulting them with bodily fluids haha.
Oh my gosh - you have a dirty side? That's awesome. I have customers who are constantly trying to find out of the way corners (and really, in this city what you can do in the open is all I'm interested in doing for 20 stupid dollars) and they will try to be all discreet about it, like they just happen to be walking around, looking for the best seat - like which one of these couches is the most comfy? or something. And then I just say "there are none" and he says "What?" "There are no seats here where people can't see you. Every booth is in a high traffic area. Every single one is like en route to the stairs, bathroom or DJ booth. Sorry."
xdamage
04-28-2007, 08:36 AM
lol yeah, i know. it just amuses me how many customers i've spoken to who have been FREAKING OUT about it, i had one of our VIP members who was so disgusted and upset that he actually asked me for an anti-bac wipe to clean his face because apparently the girl was really wet and wiped stuff over his whole face and mouth with no warning.
What does concern me as a customer is that I really don't want any STDs. I really don't care what people do sexually that doesn't affect me, but if a dancer sticks her fingers between her legs and shoves them in my face that puts me at risk. Not cool.
Darcy Foxx
04-28-2007, 09:38 AM
Oh my gosh - you have a dirty side? That's awesome.
well, yeah, there's kind of an 'unspoken' dirty side of the VIP room. our VIP room is a big open room with lots of little couches all squished together but the lights are dim and there's a few chairs in corners against walls that make it much easier for girls to get away with stuff. we actually have some dirty girls that will sit and wait with their customer til one of those couches is available lol.
then there's the opposite - chairs that are lined up in a manner that you're in the open but not next to any other girls, which is the prime seating position for me and my fellow princesses. i avoid those corner chairs like the plague. i don't care what other girls do to make money, the only time i have an issue with it is when i get stuck sitting in a chair directly next to one of the dirty girls and have to listen to their PL moan and spasm as he blows in his pants, while my customer sits there looking at that, then looking at me like, "why aren't you tarting it up?"
What does concern me as a customer is that I really don't want any STDs. I really don't care what people do sexually that doesn't affect me, but if a dancer sticks her fingers between her legs and shoves them in my face that puts me at risk. Not cool.
my thoughts exactly. even though i think it's gross, i can understand why some men would enjoy getting a load off at a strip club cos some girl grinds on your cock. however, i simply cannot fathom why anyone would want to injest the vaginal secretions of some drugged out skank (refering to the girl in my club who does this) whom they paid $20 and only met 5 minutes ago. /:O
*shrug* maybe it's cos i don't like the taste of pussy, but i just don't get it.
mr_punk
04-29-2007, 10:47 AM
But seriously, babe - I'm betting that you can't imagine the number that really, really like it. The dirty girls aren't really doing it for fun; they're doing it because it makes them money.i'm the worst gambler in the world and even i know that's a sucker's bet.
haha, no, there are a handful of dirty girls at my club who make it their primary objective to feel that sticky wet patch on their leg.dirty girls? i think you're forgetting your place, princess. this is SCJ, a wholly owned subsidiary of the patriarchy. you're all considered to be nasty, cock-rubbing skanks down here. but hey, it's cool. we like nasty skanks.
they sit in the back dark corners of the VIP room against the wall so the customers can finger them with their hidden hand. we have one charming girl who makes a habit of sticking her fingers up her muff then wiping her pussy juice across her PL's face. you can't imagine how many disgusted customers i've had complain to me about that lol. it's an open room so there's no FS or BJ, but we do have some rather dirty girls. i'm just not one of themthat's it? finger banging and cock grinding? call me jaded, but that's still rather tame. BTW, if you ever make it to the states. you be sure to stop by houston. you'll learn a whole new meaning of the word 'dirty'.
i don't care what other girls do to make money, the only time i have an issue with it is when i get stuck sitting in a chair directly next to one of the dirty girls and have to listen to their PL moan and spasm as he blows in his pants, while my customer sits there looking at that, then looking at me like, "why aren't you tarting it up?"LOL..well, can you blame him? anyway, just tell him you don't do that because you're an artiste, princess.
my thoughts exactly. even though i think it's gross, i can understand why some men would enjoy getting a load off at a strip club cos some girl grinds on your cock. however, i simply cannot fathom why anyone would want to injest the vaginal secretions of some drugged out skank (refering to the girl in my club who does this) whom they paid $20 and only met 5 minutes ago.why not? do you think it makes a difference if she was his ATF for a couple of months before he DATY? you're a sex worker who must have read hundreds of romanticized and besotted posts about strippers around here. that fact alone should shine some light on the subject.
I haven't experienced this since my last club, but I don't enjoy it. I'm not sure the risks associated with it, as they seem incredibly diminished, what with layers and all between you. The worst that's happened to me, I was shocked and jumped up, because I could feel the moisture .. it was so disgusting. But I went right into the dressing room and used half of my box of baby wipes!cowboy up, lamb chop! you don't have to like it, but you gals sharing of your "tramatic" dancing experiences reminds me of an ending in this porn movie. as usual, this guy was jerking off over this woman for the money shot. unbelievably, she broke down and started crying hysterically shortly after turning into a human glazed donut. ironically, this also exponetially increased the stroke value of an otherwise mundane scenehttp://www.xxxporntalk.com/ubbthreads/uploads/196524-2183.gif.....http://www.xxxporntalk.com/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/masturbanana.gif. my point is what did she think was going to happen? raspberry jam was going to fly out of his willy. silly tart.
Darcy Foxx
04-30-2007, 03:48 AM
DATY??
evan_essence
04-30-2007, 06:04 PM
dirty girls? i think you're forgetting your place, princess. this is SCJ, a wholly owned subsidiary of the patriarchy. you're all considered to be nasty, cock-rubbing skanks down here. but hey, it's cool. we like nasty skanks.So? WGAF about your personal preference of semantics? It was clear what she meant by context.
that's it? finger banging and cock grinding? call me jaded, but that's still rather tame. BTW, if you ever make it to the states. you be sure to stop by houston. you'll learn a whole new meaning of the word 'dirty'.Um, dear dipschtick, the World Wide Web, is um, WORLD WIDE. Did she say anything about being in the USA? We have to be USA centric now? WGAF about what's going on in Houston with respect to what she was describing as the norm for her club. Everytime you post something about what goes on in your club, I'm going to start saying, "Hey, why don't you go to Australia, honey! Call me jaded, but you're a pervert compared to how things are handled there!"
LOL..well, can you blame him? anyway, just tell him you don't do that because you're an artiste, princess.Well, yeah, I can blame him but then I'm cunty that way. I mean, why don't the guys in the darkside chairs see the light in the chairs next to them and ask for tamer dances instead? Like, "Hey, skank, why can't you be classier like her?"
why not? do you think it makes a difference if she was his ATF for a couple of months before he DATY? you're a sex worker who must have read hundreds of romanticized and besotted posts about strippers around here. that fact alone should shine some light on the subject.Well, no it doesn't matter. Ingesting the vaginal fluids of a person you barely know into your mouth is a high risk activity for passing an STD. That's kinda the point. She never contended otherwise. Why would that not gross out any strip club customer who was rational and sane, which there seem to be more of in Australia than there are in the USA.
cowboy up, lamb chop! you don't have to like it,Nope, don't have to put up with it either if you can make a living not.
my point is what did she think was going to happen? raspberry jam was going to fly out of his willy. silly tart.Why, mr_p, I had no idea you had enough personal experience with having someone else's sperm on you to opine on it. Why don't you share those fond memories?
-Ev
Darcy Foxx
05-01-2007, 12:05 AM
Well, no it doesn't matter. Ingesting the vaginal fluids of a person you barely know into your mouth is a high risk activity for passing an STD. That's kinda the point. She never contended otherwise. Why would that not gross out any strip club customer who was rational and sane, which there seem to be more of in Australia than there are in the USA.
Exactly. Regardless of whether you can see a reason for it or not, it's not the most hygeinic practice.
Even it was within my needs to pay for sexual contact and orgasms, I still think I'd manage to refrain from desiring to have vaginal discharge wiped across my face and mouth.
xdamage
05-01-2007, 05:50 AM
Ingesting the vaginal fluids of a person you barely know into your mouth is a high risk activity for passing an STD. That's kinda the point. She never contended otherwise. Why would that not gross out any strip club customer who was rational and sane, which there seem to be more of in Australia than there are in the USA.
I don't know about Australia specifically, but I'd gamble that the reality is (based on other threads) there are plenty of guys out there who do engage in high risk activities with women (strippers too) they barely know.
Put another way, presumably if a stripper is wiping her vaginal fluids on guys faces, at least some of the guys are buying more because of it (well that, or she is a slow learner, or is intentionally trying to pass something on to the customers).
I guess I really don't know where this is going. It looks like it's going to end up where we all kind of know it always does. Some customers are going to the clubs to blow their load, some not. Some customers are there to engage in high risk activities, some not. Some dancers are willing to engage in these extras, some not. Darcy is not, so I'd guess tends to attract a higher a percentage of the customers who are not looking for these things, yet it's apparent that there are other girls in her club that are providing extras, and presumably among them are Australian customers who are attracted to higher risk activities. Why doesn't risk of STDs freak everyone out? Apparently it doesn't because it's still a problem that STDs are being passed on world-wide outside of the clubs too.
yoda57us
05-01-2007, 06:36 AM
Why doesn't risk of STDs freak everyone out? Apparently it doesn't because it's still a problem that STDs are being passed on world-wide outside of the clubs too.
Exactly. Honestly, splooging in one's pants during a lap dance, the original topic of this thread, is a relatively low-risk sexual activity. Also, unless you are talking about dry-humping with the girl you just picked-up in your Honda Accord after closing time, it is something that is relegated pretty much to strip clubs. Indiscriminate exchange of bodily fluids happens every day between consenting adults in all sorts of environments. I'm quite sure that DATY with a total stranger happens a lot less in strip clubs than it does an hour after closing time in bedrooms all over the world.
xdamage
05-01-2007, 07:14 AM
I guess if there is a difference, it's that in theory the random girl you engage in high risk behavior with in the motel is somewhat less likely to be infected then the hooker/stripper who engages in the high risk behavior multiple times a day. So one's skank-o-meter should ring a warning bell, !!!danger!!!, ...except... well, it often doesn't work that way.
The dancers know that they are putting themselves at risk, but they do so anyway for the bucks. The customers know they are putting themselves at risk, they but do so anyway for the sex. I guess socially I could understand how someone could assume that the dancer's reason (money) is a ?better? one then the customer's reason (sex), but there is a strong bias that this not necessarily based on anything more the confusing one's own values with truth. In what way?
It's easy to imagine that all of these girls performing extras are doing it in a state of destitution, unable to feed themselves or their kids through any other means, but I don't know that's reality. It's just as likely that they do it for the same reasons the customers do it. It's not that they absolutely need the money to survive (i.e., they could live without the extra money from performing extras, or could live working in another field where the money isn't as good), but that they want the extra money to improve the quality of their life. Same with the customers, they don't "need" the extra sex in the sense that they would cease to exist without it, but they want the extra sex because it improves the quality of their life.
Both basically are able to shut-off the parts of their brain that tells them they are likely to get an STD in favor of what they want more of. Shrug, this is the way it is. Not everyone weighs everything they want vs the risks the same, and particularly when it comes to STDs, it appears many people don't seem to be that concerned (in and out of the club).