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TnT
07-17-2005, 09:42 PM
On a scale of 1-10 how important is it for you to get a girl off ?

How much time are willing to spend trying to make her cum ?

Do you prefer to make it happen before you cum ? After ? Or at the same time ?

What is your favorite way to make it happen ?

SportsWriter2
07-18-2005, 04:31 AM
On a scale of 1-10 how important is it for you to get a girl off ?

How much time are willing to spend trying to make her cum ?

Do you prefer to make it happen before you cum ? After ? Or at the same time ?

What is your favorite way to make it happen ?

10, hours, before (same time for her fourth), cowgirl :)

mr_punk
07-18-2005, 07:35 AM
On a scale of 1-10 how important is it for you to get a girl off?"get a girl off?". wait...are you saying that women get off too?

How much time are willing to spend trying to make her cum?theoretically, it should take only two perhaps three minutes (and that's pushing it) tops. that should be more than enough time.

lopaw
07-18-2005, 09:45 AM
"get a girl off?". wait...are you saying that women get off too?
theoretically, it should take only two perhaps three minutes (and that's pushing it) tops. that should be more than enough time.


:yawn: *yawn*

Mastridonicus
07-18-2005, 10:24 AM
On a scale of 1-10 how important is it for you to get a girl off ?


10. And there is nothing Mr_Punk can do to remove the P from this L's heart.



How much time are willing to spend trying to make her cum ?


For me, its not a matter of time. I love to eat teh poosay, so I'm assuming I am good at it. When I am in the mood that I want to get her off, I make it a very long event. You don't have to just go for the kill. I like it when I can tell that she's getting close so I can switch up and let her come down for a bit. :D The longer the better.




Do you prefer to make it happen before you cum ? After ? Or at the same time ?


A little bit of each. Sometimes I like to go first cause the remaining forplay gets me going again quicker, sometimes I like her to go first just cause I don't need to cum as much. And the same time is saved for the passion ones, not just fucking.



What is your favorite way to make it happen ?

Again it depends on the way the intercourse came about. But if its passionful, I like it to be a slow build up till she cums, if its done right, normally she kisses me during orgazm. This RULES.

If its a horned out just fucking thing, I normally like to use a toy or two to stimulate the pink and the stink while banging her, and normally if I pay attention to the nipples, I get the arms and legs stretched out orgazm, That has short twitches on the way down. I normally can't hold back during these ones. Its so hot.

I am by no means capable of this all the time. I am just answering your questions.

Thats why they call me the Zapper

::Mast::

The Snark
07-18-2005, 02:34 PM
Sorry to hijack a thread, but why is it that in pornspeak people feel compelled to say "cum" instead of "come"? Are people afflicted with a temporary bout of dyslexia when they're aroused? Does it feel more transgressive to misspell the word?

According to my favourite sex guide, the Oxford English Dictionary, the original spelling has been around for centuries.

"Then off he came, & blusht for shame, soe soon that he had endit."--Bishop Percy, 1650

The newer spelling seems to have originated in the 1970s.

And why is it "come" anyway? It seems more like an arrival than a coming. In Japanese, the expression is "ikismasu", mean to go--which seems closer to the mark.

I'm sorry; the hot weather is frying my brain. Back to your regular scheduled programming.

All Good Things
07-18-2005, 05:26 PM
On a scale of 1-10 how important is it for you to get a girl off ?

Bedroom rules: Three O minimum. As all gentlemen know, ladies cum first. That makes it a 10 to me, but if you start chasing closure for her too intensely, it can work against you both, as I'm sure you know. Her having fun is more important to getting there.


How much time are willing to spend trying to make her cum ?

Uh, well. A lifetime? If a guy is checking his watch, it's all over anyway.


Do you prefer to make it happen before you cum ? After ? Or at the same time ?

They happen before I cum. Damn, talk about selling a guy short. ;) And true simul? A remnant of really bad 80s porn, isn't it?


What is your favorite way to make it happen ?

My favorite ways to make them happen:

1. Two-digit G-spot finger reverse flip with light anal play. This takes longer than anything else to really master, but with a lot of practice and patience and a little mind fucking, you can induce insanely intense multiple orgasms with full fluid ejaculation. Chase down the multiples when she first flushes and rises --- keep up pressure and force after the first climax and don't release. Even if she looks hysterical or bites or scratches you.

2. Full tongue pressure on clit, withdraw and retouch with light tip contact, single finger vaginal penetration, hold ass under with other arm and firmly press her against your face. Restraint preference: silk rope restraints/arms and legs. In early stages of orgasm here, the clit will quickly withdraw into the hood because of the intensity of tongue stimulation, so be prepared to go chasing here, too.

3. Two-finger vaginal/anal penetration, light tongue work: rapid thrusting usually works best with this approach, and toys work really well, too -- this is really best for girls who have a thing for anal (Kat?) Oh, sorry, for Kat, it's 3-finger or the full dual rabbit, right.;)

4. Doggy-style penile penetration with underhand clit stimulation (yeah, I know, you forgot I had a cock, right?)

playstation
07-18-2005, 07:38 PM
to get to the point.....

10!
as long as it takes!
before!...i will alway's make sure i take care of her before me....ladies first!;)
we found the best way for us is....her on her back at the edge of the bed with me on the floor on my knees,her legs up,two fingers in deep pressing against her g-spot while i suck her clit....also,i only move my fingers in and out a little while trying to keep them on her g-spot.....dam!,i'm hungry now!:O

TnT
07-18-2005, 10:29 PM
get a girl off?". wait...are you saying that women get off too?
theoretically, it should take only two perhaps three minutes (and that's pushing it) tops. that should be more than enough time.

I take it the resident minute man has spoken.




Sorry to hijack a thread, but why is it that in pornspeak people feel compelled to say "cum" instead of "come"? Are people afflicted with a temporary bout of dyslexia when they're aroused? Does it feel more transgressive to misspell the word?

interesting question. I catch myself writing both, it doesn't have anything to with my mood though.



Thats why they call me the Zapper

LMFAO :D

Malibu
07-19-2005, 06:40 AM
A reg at work gave me this description as a way of getting women off in multiple O's. Haven't tried it yet but am hoping to soon...:)

1. Hold one hand in a fist with your thumb tucked neatly under your other four fingers.
2. Using the fisted hand, position the crooks of your bottom two fingers on the anus
3. Next, position the crooks of the index and middle fingers on the urethra (the thumb is tucked under because it's redundant)
4. Finally, place the fingers of the other hand on the clitoris.

Now the good part (apparently)...

5. With the fisted hand in position, apply pressure to the anus and the uretha while carrying out a vibrating motion. At the same time, rub the clitoris with the fingers of the other hand in a type of circular motion. You are carrying out two different motions with different hands so it might take some practice first. It is worthwhile to make sure you are applying pressure to the urethra correctly as that is where you are aiming most of the excitement (surprisingly, not at the clit, though I think it helps).

Like with any other type of sex, this doesn't work unless the female is totally and utterly relaxed. He tells me it can help bring on the multiple Os and ejaculation in a woman when they are in the right mood (hey, who am I to argue? He says it worked for him!)

If anyone tries this out, let me know how they get on. I have yet to put it to the test...!

mr_punk
07-19-2005, 07:56 AM
I take it the resident minute man has spoken.guilty as charged. i suppose, i could give my impression of dr.ruth, but what fun would that be.

TnT
07-19-2005, 10:08 AM
guilty as charged. i suppose, i could give my impression of dr.ruth, but what fun would that be.

pats little punk on the head

It's ok, now why don't you go outside and find some friends to play with :curlers:

SportsWriter2
07-19-2005, 12:19 PM
If anyone tries this out, let me know how they get on. I have yet to put it to the test...!
Yes, it works very well. The technique was actually developed in the early 17th century by Arabian palace eunuchs. ;)

Casual Observer
07-19-2005, 03:29 PM
On a scale of 1-10 how important is it for you to get a girl off ?

How much time are willing to spend trying to make her cum ?

Do you prefer to make it happen before you cum ? After ? Or at the same time ?

What is your favorite way to make it happen ?

TL, are you suggesting that women can have orgasms?

We've already established on the Blue Side that the myth of the female orgasm is just that. Get with the program.

doc-catfish
07-19-2005, 05:20 PM
On a scale of 1-10 how important is it for you to get a girl off ?
8 and a half. 8 and three-quarters if she dolls herself up before the festivities.


How much time are willing to spend trying to make her cum ?
As long as she needs. I believe in finishing what I start.


Do you prefer to make it happen before you cum ? After ? Or at the same time ?
Ladies first.


What is your favorite way to make it happen ?
:P <---
...and the assistance of a toy if neccesary. When it comes to tongue size, I'm no Gene Simmons.

xdamage
07-19-2005, 06:18 PM
On a scale of 1-10 how important is it for you to get a girl off ?

I'm a team player, always willing to lend a hand or whatever other body parts are needed to get the job done. 1-10? Up to her. I'll put in as much effort as she does.



How much time are willing to spend trying to make her cum ?


Like above, as long as it isn't a health risk. For example, carpal tunnel syndrome, a very painful and possibly debilitating disease. It is what is known as RSI, a Repetative Stress Injury. Now any doctor will tell you should take a break every 45 minutes or so to prevent RSI. Sounds like good common sense to me.




Do you prefer to make it happen before you cum ? After ? Or at the same time ?


Same time? That sounds like a trick answer. Before then. I wish I could say it was because I'm such a thoughtful guy, but it would be complete BS. Nope, unfortunately the truth is, well she is just wetter after she comes and I like it :P



What is your favorite way to make it happen ?


Tricky you, you want to know all of my secrets? Buy the book. Send $13.95 plus S&H to

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gdamadg
07-19-2005, 07:27 PM
10.

I usually lose track of time and it takes a lot of time to use all the tricks in the bag, lol. It takes me quite a while to come most of the time, so taking the time to make her come is definately good. Watching, feeling, hearing, and tasting her reactions is soo hot.

As for when: before, after, same time or as often as I can make her.

Favourite position for it, legs wrapped around my head and dripping down my chin.

TnT
07-20-2005, 10:08 AM
8 and a half. 8 and three-quarters if she dolls herself up before the festivities.


As long as she needs. I believe in finishing what I start.


Ladies first.


:P <---
...and the assistance of a toy if neccesary. When it comes to tongue size, I'm no Gene Simmons.

meow...my favorite answer so far :P



Tricky you, you want to know all of my secrets? Buy the book. Send $13.95 plus S&H to

XDAMAGE's FAVORITE WAYS
P.O. BOX 123
Wala Wala, ZI, 12345

}:D :-* }:D

Malibu
07-20-2005, 12:28 PM
Yes, it works very well. The technique was actually developed in the early 17th century by Arabian palace eunuchs. ;)

Seriously?! That's good news!

This guy told me it in such great detail and I kept asking him to repeat the technique so I could remember it incase I wanted to try it out one time. Now that someone knows what I'm talking about (and also says it works), I'm even keener to try it out!

Cheers SW2!

kitana
07-28-2005, 05:48 AM
Bedroom rules: Three O minimum. As all gentlemen know, ladies cum first. That makes it a 10 to me, but if you start chasing closure for her too intensely, it can work against you both, as I'm sure you know. Her having fun is more important to getting there.



Uh, well. A lifetime? If a guy is checking his watch, it's all over anyway.



They happen before I cum. Damn, talk about selling a guy short. ;) And true simul? A remnant of really bad 80s porn, isn't it?



My favorite ways to make them happen:

1. Two-digit G-spot finger reverse flip with light anal play. This takes longer than anything else to really master, but with a lot of practice and patience and a little mind fucking, you can induce insanely intense multiple orgasms with full fluid ejaculation. Chase down the multiples when she first flushes and rises --- keep up pressure and force after the first climax and don't release. Even if she looks hysterical or bites or scratches you.

2. Full tongue pressure on clit, withdraw and retouch with light tip contact, single finger vaginal penetration, hold ass under with other arm and firmly press her against your face. Restraint preference: silk rope restraints/arms and legs. In early stages of orgasm here, the clit will quickly withdraw into the hood because of the intensity of tongue stimulation, so be prepared to go chasing here, too.

3. Two-finger vaginal/anal penetration, light tongue work: rapid thrusting usually works best with this approach, and toys work really well, too -- this is really best for girls who have a thing for anal (Kat?) Oh, sorry, for Kat, it's 3-finger or the full dual rabbit, right.;)

4. Doggy-style penile penetration with underhand clit stimulation (yeah, I know, you forgot I had a cock, right?)

GOOD GOD!!! I knew I loved you all along. Lol, that's pretty much sums up what's good.

infra-red
07-30-2005, 02:55 AM
As long as I'm not missing "Everybody Loves Raymond", I'll stick with it as long as it takes. And it is VERY important to "get her off".

threlayer
08-01-2005, 12:27 PM
hours for multiples for her (i love this part) trying to extend each one until she gives in or until she says enough for now

then i can have however many i can stand thru the rest of the night (or session), usually trying to elongate the pre-orgasmic stage until i cannot stand more stimulation (she loves this part)