View Full Version : Do the dancers think the guys that come in are losers?
Eques
08-08-2005, 08:25 PM
I worked as a telemarketer for quite a bit. The people who called me, bought my shitty product, and forgot to cancel their subscriptions when the $20+/month hit. Yeah they were losers. The real estate agent/broker who had a use for the service? Nah they were fine.
Do/should strippers at a strip club consider customers losers? Sure some of us are. Some of us aren't. What does that make a stripper? A saleswoman.
LemonLime
08-09-2005, 10:17 AM
To me, a loser is someone who is consistently stupid, and islooking for something for nothing.
Some people like that come into a club with no money, no intention of spending any, and after a couple of dances, they quit, but are constatnly hollering for attention.
My time at a club is dearly bought. Whether I pay by night, or by the week, the club gets its money. Now, why can't I get mine? Realize, that I have put an investment of my money and my time, and I need to at least break even or I go into the hole.
Oh yeah, and regarding those wanna date wanna date types. I do date OTC. But only after I got to know you and I like you. But to those others, they can keep trying.
After all a man's reach should exceed his grasp.
Correctly stated, "A man's reach should exceed his grasp, or what's a heaven for?"
Maybe, baby, if you don't get it in this life, you will get it after you are dead.
Hopefully in heaven.
Derek
08-09-2005, 12:24 PM
I have had 3 dancers from 3 clubs OTC in my bed in the last 2 days. 2 of them I did today - one AM one PM.
I am gonna tone it down and just try to enjoy ITC activities for awhile and take it easy.
hardkandee
08-09-2005, 12:39 PM
I have had 3 dancers from 3 clubs OTC in my bed in the last 2 days. 2 of them I did today - one AM one PM.
I am gonna tone it down and just try to enjoy ITC activities for awhile and take it easy.
*le sigh*
The only dancer in my bed has been me. Damnit, can I have some volunteers?!
mikeyd1075
08-09-2005, 12:49 PM
*le sigh*
The only dancer in my bed has been me. Damnit, can I have some volunteers?!
:wave:
I'm volunteering!
Deogol
08-09-2005, 01:18 PM
I have had 3 dancers from 3 clubs OTC in my bed in the last 2 days. 2 of them I did today - one AM one PM.
I am gonna tone it down and just try to enjoy ITC activities for awhile and take it easy.
AIDS :O
Derek
08-09-2005, 01:44 PM
*le sigh*
The only dancer in my bed has been me. Damnit, can I have some volunteers?!
Sorry I will have to pass. I need to rest up for awhile, its been a busy week. Otherwise I would be interested.
Yep, Derek the poster boy for the free health clinic has spoken..
Miss R.
teddibare2
08-10-2005, 06:05 AM
The biggest loser custy's are the ones that will damn near break thier neck trying to see your goods.It's like they want to see inside you!Other than that I agree with the other replys mostly.Not all custys are losers.Sometimes I wonder what the custys think of us.Sometimes they look at you and you know they think you're a slut,just a piece of meat.Maybe I'm wrong?I recently worked at a club that packs in 5-800 custy's on the weekends and I guess dealing with that many drunk jerks has made me a little bitter.
Derek
08-10-2005, 06:15 AM
If you want to avoid high risk behavior - stay out of strip clubs altogether. Anything I do with them I use condoms but this does not prevent them from coming up and kissing u in unprotected areas. I have had dancers come up out of the blue, kiss me and then squirt say a mint into my mouth with a load of saliva. Another time my ear was healing from a scrape and burn and a dancer gave it some tongue. The thought of her saliva on a possibly open wound was not comforting. This also happened out of the blue during a lap dance. Did this worry me - u bet. Other times after having a coupla beers a dancer would really kiss with me during a lap dance and I would get carried away and really kiss her. Alcohol can impair your judgement. If u wannna be 100% safe - stay out of strip clubs.
hardkandee
08-10-2005, 08:48 AM
Sorry I will have to pass. I need to rest up for awhile, its been a busy week. Otherwise I would be interested.
Heh, I was looking for dancers, hon.
I've already got the guy.... just wanted a piece of hot stripper action! :devil:
tampadancer
08-10-2005, 03:23 PM
I have had 3 dancers from 3 clubs OTC in my bed in the last 2 days. 2 of them I did today - one AM one PM.
I am gonna tone it down and just try to enjoy ITC activities for awhile and take it easy.
Derek, you are so disgusting... taking advantage of dancers in precarious financial situations is really scummy. I just wanted to let you know that. Your posts make me want to vomit. I will probably get in trouble for this, but I really wish you would stay on the blue side. Your attitude, comments and descriptions of the activities you do/expect in strip clubs ruins the morale for the majority of the DANCERS here on the pink site.
I think the fact that you not only have to pay for sex, but you also have to take advantage of girls to get it, says a lot about how pathetic you are. You truly disgust me.
smooth_and_cool
08-10-2005, 05:20 PM
From what I have gathered having looser customers are a condition precedent for a viable club. Would anyone disagree? How could a club be profitable if these type of customers did not exist? Most of dancer's comments in this thread seem to indicate that an overwhelming number of their customers are loosers. Hence, do strippers cater to loosers? I don't know. I don't go to the clubs often but boobies on stage are quite nice.
One dancer in this thread made a fairly insightful comment. " A stripclub caters to their customers alter ego." (Well this was not her exact comment rahther my inference from it). Perhaps, one could say it would be abnormal for a man not to ask a beautiful woman for their number or at the very least have a desire to be with her. I dont know.
Last, this is an opinion. And its worth about a penny, but not quite 2 cents. Best Wishes.
tampadancer
08-10-2005, 05:24 PM
no, we do not think all of the men that visit our clubs are losers - just the ones like derek.
dlabtot
08-10-2005, 05:37 PM
Perhaps, one could say it would be abnormal for a man not to ask a beautiful woman for their number or at the very least have a desire to be with her. I dont know.
Guys turn off their brains, go to a strip club, drink, are treated seductively by beautiful, scantily dressed women... what will the guy do next?
Sometimes proper manners do not come naturally.. a lap dance where the customer has to keep his hands at his sides...sure any man should have the self control to do so but it should be recognized how it goes against every instinct for a guy to have a beautiful women rubbing on his lap and him just sit there motionless.
I would say that the losers are the people who label others as losers, but that would by my own definition make me a loser, so instead I will propose a Caucus Race: everybody wins, and all must have prizes!
bikinigirl04
08-10-2005, 07:55 PM
there are guys who come everyday but are not sick sad losers imo. there is a guy at my old club that came everyday on his way from work long enough for 2 or 3 beers, behaved nicely, tipped girls, sometimes got dances. never thought of him as a loser.
coming 5 times a week doesnt make u a loser but 5times a week while making an ass of yourself (in ways mentioned in this thread and others) does.
derek is a troll imo and thankfully we do not have to spend one second in the company of the likes of him if we choose not to.
smoothcool, quote:
.From what I have gathered having looser customers are a condition precedent for a viable club. Would anyone disagree? How could a club be profitable if these type of customers did not exist? endquote
:rofl: how could it be profitable without cheap assholes??? are u kidding?
i know what you are saying, but the jerks we are usually calling losers would not be missed by anyone if they quit showing up, not even the club managers im sure. they are not the ones keeping the club afloat. thats the dancer fees and door charges, and the champagne rooms.
my 2cents
i don't necissarily think a guy who is married and comes to the club is a loser, unless he is grabby/obnoxious,etc.