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smartcookie
08-15-2005, 03:04 PM
We've addressed the issue of violent porn here before. Lately, guys, in my sexual experiences, a lot of your gender are trying to stick your fingers in my ass, and then in straight into my mouth or my pussy. I KNOW it's because you watch porn and see it as a training manual, and you're getting these cues from A2M (or ass to mouth for the uninitiated).

I'm all for buttlove, gentleman, but this is my public service announcement. Y'all need to understand that A2M (ass to mouth) is NOT a healthy practice. I'm not sure why so many men find it sexy to put their partner's physical practice in danger, but sticking an unwashed penis or finger into a vagina or mouth can result in conditions including the following:

hepatitis
bacterial vaginosis
e.coli poisoning
amoebic dysentery
shigella

And that isn't all. A penis or finger that's been in a butt needs to be washed with antibacterial soap and hot water if it's bare before it goes ANYWHERE else, or the barrier (condom, glove, dental dam) needs to be CHANGED. Got it? Good.

:P

pet_rock
08-16-2005, 10:44 AM
Um, because it's degrading?

"Meat Holez" makes no bones about the woman just being there for their pleasure--they want to do as much disgusting, degrading stuff as they can and that pretty much sums it up. It's not about sex or pleasure--it's about power.

Of course the problem is that even if there are no camera tricks in the video, your average guy is not going to understand how thoroughly she was enemized/douched/cleaned-out in the hopes that she would NOT contract anything. Or that she probably takes massive does of Vitaman C to try and stay healhty.

That latter tip was taken from something I read in passing about a coprophragiac--shit eater--so don't take that as anything reasonable. It IS interesting that more men are into coprophragia than women for some reason, and so perhaps there are a lot of guys too scared to do it themselves and so try to get the women to do it indirectly? :P There WAS a famous German porn star who would eat shit, but she died (what a surprise!); her name escapes me now but some women ARE coprophragiacs and would not mind 'dirty' A2M at all.

I LOVE analingus but I'm sure we're clean before going there--but you have a lot less of the rectum to clean out even if you're gonna stick your tongue in there. (Is that a Greek kiss? }:D ) I guess this sort of hygiene is NOT covered in sex education class...

I'm sorry that so many guys are so clueless and pull this stuff on you--it's yet another reason I'm glad I AM a guy!

All Good Things
08-16-2005, 01:12 PM
All true, SC. Thanks for the PSA.

I'm more alarmed by the idea that your guys of choice are using porn as training materials. I mean, we're all professional wankers, of course, but that usually means way, way too much pole waxing and not nearly enough real pussy. And an appalling lack of technique, don't you think?

I suppose it's possible that they are fantastic in bed except when they attempt to transfer intestinal parasites directly into your mouth. :-\

Katrine
08-17-2005, 07:35 PM
I got into a huge fight on aspd over this. They banned me for a week because I had to object to one member talking about A2M as his ultimate fantasy. Ok, keep it a fantasy, but please allow yourself 30 fucking seconds to hear about the risks.

I like the type of porn that has these acts, but the A2M itself doesn't appeal to me at all. Luckily, it happens pretty quickly. Any man who tried it with me would get head-butted.

xdamage
08-17-2005, 09:46 PM
You got me, I don't understand the appeal at all. Since no (normal) guy would stick his finger up his own ass and then suck it, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to connect the dots.

Malibu
08-18-2005, 03:04 AM
Ick.

I did see porn once where a guy was butt-fucking one girl and then another female came onto the scene and started sucking his dick straight after he removed it from her friend's ass. Myself and my then boyfriend both were like ''WTF?? Eeeww...''.

It is totally unhygienic practice. Unless you've clarified that I've got a shit-tasting fetish and totally dig the idea of contracting some nasty bug (which will NEVER happen btw), just don't even fucking go there.

You've been warned!!

aggieed
08-18-2005, 06:46 AM
I think I was on the Hustler website sometime back and was watching one of their streaming videos with Brianna Banks (I think; don't really remember the video). She had some guy fingering her ass, and then she told him to stick his fingers in her mouth because she wanted to "taste her own ass." I immediately looked for something else to watch...

pet_rock
08-18-2005, 07:59 AM
I'm more alarmed by the idea that your guys of choice are using porn as training materials.

You know, I was talking to my ATF the other night and she was telling me about trying to make her son understand that what's in movies is NOT real...

Back when I was a kid there was no internet and not even VCRs--I DID find some Playboys and Penthouses before I became sexually active, but there wasn't anything in them that would ruin a kid...

Jump forward to today and how many boys will have their first sexual experience BEFORE seeing porn of some kind? Not many, I'd bet. So if they DO find some of this on the internet are they really going to have any clue that real people generally don't do this stuff?

Then he duplicates it with a yong girl as part of his first sex and what does she learn from that?

Mommas, how much education are you giving your sons as to what a woman really expects from a guy? From that one thread on the pink side a lot of guys don't even know to wipe, fer cryin' out loud, so do YOU need to sit him down and show him some porn and whack his wiener with a ruler :O when he responds to violent/degrading stuff to teach him what's what? (Never mind, that's just going to turn him into something else...)

stant
08-18-2005, 08:12 AM
...head-butted.
So trying to get your johnson butt-head will get you head-butted?


It's not a home run, but certainly a base hit.

SportsWriter2
08-18-2005, 10:35 AM
Young dancers who watch porn seem to have no clue about health risks. I had a favorite ask for finger A2M during a $20 dance. I turned her down and we had a long talk. :O

Katrine
08-18-2005, 11:31 AM
You seem to have many favorites....how about some of the second-stringers? Why don't we ever here about them, lol?

SportsWriter2
08-18-2005, 12:35 PM
You seem to have many favorites....how about some of the second-stringers? Why don't we ever here about them, lol?
Chili keeps 15-20 in rotation. I have an ATF in one club and 8-10 favorites in four other clubs, so the favorites are actually the second stringers. I mean who would want an A2M ho as an ATF, but she's not gonna let me suck in her boobs if I call her my second-stringer. :-\

Third-stringers are the ones who come over to announce that "none of your girls are here." One's on her way, but the third-stringer doesn't know that yet.

infra-red
08-18-2005, 02:11 PM
Very popular in interracial dvds...imagine that!

mr_punk
08-20-2005, 09:30 PM
We've addressed the issue of violent porn here before. Lately, guys, in my sexual experiences, a lot of your gender are trying to stick your fingers in my ass, and then in straight into my mouth or my pussy. I KNOW it's because you watch porn and see it as a training manual, and you're getting these cues from A2M (or ass to mouth for the uninitiated).so, why not suggest that he uses one hand for ass play and the other for pussy and mouth play?

I'm not sure why so many men find it sexy to put their partner's physical practice in danger, but sticking an unwashed penis or finger into a vagina or mouth can result in conditions including the following:because sexual acts that seem verboten, taboo, transgressive, etc can also be exciting.

Um, because it's degrading? "Meat Holez" makes no bones about the woman just being there for their pleasure--they want to do as much disgusting, degrading stuff as they can and that pretty much sums it up. It's not about sex or pleasure--it's about power.i disagree. A2M is just plain risky. there are many sex acts far less risky than A2M. yet, many people would find them degrading. IMO, many acts that appear to be degrading or humiliating during sex is mostly a state of mind.

I LOVE analingus but I'm sure we're clean before going there-case in point: many people would find the idea of tossing someone's salad or having their salad tossed to be degrading.

MinahSky
08-20-2005, 10:16 PM
Very popular in interracial dvds...imagine that!


Of course, the black girls are worthy of it, right? <sigh>

Anyone that doesn't value their own health isn't going to get a chance to mess up mine. There are too many penises in the world, I can find one attached to someone with a brain...

threlayer
08-24-2005, 06:39 AM
Even with a pre-sex Fleet enema, that is NOT something I would ever have any IRL or fantasies about, even in porn loops. At All. I vote NO.

Katrine
08-24-2005, 08:47 AM
Of course, the black girls are worthy of it, right? <sigh>


Actually, its usually the opposite. They like to give it to the white girls, the blonder the better. I've never seen a black porn actress take A2M.

SportsWriter2
08-24-2005, 03:34 PM
I've never seen a black porn actress take A2M.
Courtney Divine does. She's 20, cute, and talks dirty like Jenna Haze.



You want blacker, Messican, Asian, girls from the red planet, I'll give you da links.

threlayer
08-24-2005, 05:50 PM
It's just a degradation like a lot of other stinky kinky porn acts.

dlabtot
08-24-2005, 10:45 PM
the deal is, it's gross.

I guess the idea is that if the girl will do this, she'll do anything.

yuck

smartcookie
08-27-2005, 01:43 PM
so, why not suggest that he uses one hand for ass play and the other for pussy and mouth play?

Because I shouldn't have to tell them this - they should know already!

Furthermore, they should know that the ass isn't a self-lubricating organ like the pussy, and sticking a dry finger up there HURTS!

They also should know that it's nice to trim their bloody fingernails and wash their hands before attempting insertion of any kind - 1/4 inch nails with the content of one bag of peat moss under them ain't something I want in my cooch or bum!

I'm sticking to girls from now on...at least they know how to fuck.

Casual Observer
08-27-2005, 02:34 PM
Because I shouldn't have to tell them this - they should know already!

This line of quasi reasoning is exactly why women are so dissatisfied in so many areas of their relationships; they simply presume men are supposed to know everything from the word GO.

Women don't want men with huge cocks or wallets, they want mindreaders.

SportsWriter2
08-27-2005, 03:07 PM
This line of quasi reasoning is exactly why women are so dissatisfied in so many areas of their relationships; they simply presume men are supposed to know everything from the word GO.

Women don't want men with huge cocks or wallets, they want mindreaders.

And the guys who can read minds wonder about what they read. :O

Katrine
08-27-2005, 03:46 PM
This line of quasi reasoning is exactly why women are so dissatisfied in so many areas of their relationships; they simply presume men are supposed to know everything from the word GO.

Women don't want men with huge cocks or wallets, they want mindreaders.

Is it too much to ask for a man who has done a LITTLE research ahead of time? At least enough reading to know that about sanitariness and lubrication? Face it, men need to work harder to satisfy us, and reading a little about "her pleasure" before the act is going to do a lot more for the experience than working overtime at the Brake Check for an extra hour. ::)

Ladies, are these pay4play guys or just regular shmoes who are behaving like such tools anyway? I can see this happening more with the pay4play guys. Since they are shelling out the bucks, they feel like they don't have to contribute a damn thing besides the cash. I could be wrong though, very wrong.

Unrelated, girls are SUCH better kissers. Its really no contest. I can kiss girls for hours. The last time my trick tried to kiss me deeply with tongue, I had some vomit come up in my throat which I swallowed down so I wouldn't lose the good money he pays me. :O

smartcookie
08-27-2005, 04:19 PM
This line of quasi reasoning is exactly why women are so dissatisfied in so many areas of their relationships; they simply presume men are supposed to know everything from the word GO.

Women don't want men with huge cocks or wallets, they want mindreaders.

You HAVE GOT to be kidding me. You're saying it requires telepathy in order to know that eating shit (literally) is bad for you? Nope, it requires having a functional mind.

Casual Observer
08-27-2005, 06:21 PM
Is it too much to ask for a man who has done a LITTLE research ahead of time? At least enough reading to know that about sanitariness and lubrication?


You HAVE GOT to be kidding me. You're saying it requires telepathy in order to know that eating shit (literally) is bad for you?

I was referring more broadly to the assertion that somehow only girls know how to fuck and that they have these skills innately.

Katrine
08-27-2005, 06:59 PM
I was referring more broadly to the assertion that somehow only girls know how to fuck and that they have these skills innately.

But it tends to be true, at least with one another. }:D Most men are easy to please too. As long as you have the look they want and their cock in your mouth, they are pretty happy. That's a broad sweeping generalization, I know. 8) I have acting like I enjoy soft, gentle, romance with them when I prefer more Sporty-oriented encounters actually. :P

Moneywise
08-27-2005, 07:54 PM
I think I was on the Hustler website sometime back and was watching one of their streaming videos with Brianna Banks (I think; don't really remember the video). She had some guy fingering her ass, and then she told him to stick his fingers in her mouth because she wanted to "taste her own ass." I immediately looked for something else to watch...

buhahahah! I would have done the same thing. As soon as I heard the "taste my own ass" comment Frazier would have went south on me.

Funny... before I clicked this thread I saw A2M in the title and knew exactly what it was. I'm not sure if that's a good or bad thing. :O

I will admit... I've tongued an ass or two in my time but the tongue never disappears inside. Before the morality police come out from the woodworks I made sure we were both clean beforehand usually by offering to wash her back. That works just about every time. Things usually get started in there anyways. Sometimes it makes it to the BR. Other times not.

SportsWriter2
08-28-2005, 03:28 AM
I have acting like I enjoy soft, gentle, romance with them when I prefer more Sporty-oriented encounters actually. :P

Kat, you really don't have to feel conflicted. Sporty-oriented encounters begin and end soft and gentle. :)

mr_punk
09-03-2005, 01:07 AM
Because I shouldn't have to tell them this - they should know already!true. still, i think you're giving us (men in general) way too much credit.

Furthermore, they should know that the ass isn't a self-lubricating organ like the pussy, and sticking a dry finger up there HURTS! They also should know that it's nice to trim their bloody fingernails and wash their hands before attempting insertion of any kind - 1/4 inch nails with the content of one bag of peat moss under them ain't something I want in my cooch or bum!ouch! even i make sure my hands are freshly washed and nails clean and trimmed before getting a simple LD. when i originally wrote that statement. i was about to add, "and make sure his finger is lubed", but i assumed that most men would know it's not a good idea to stick a dry finger in a woman's ass. it seems i gave my brethren too much credit as well.

Ladies, are these pay4play guys or just regular shmoes who are behaving like such tools anyway? I can see this happening more with the pay4play guys. Since they are shelling out the bucks, they feel like they don't have to contribute a damn thing besides the cash. I could be wrong though, very wrong.uh oh, looks like Kat is going to make it a hat trick.

I was referring more broadly to the assertion that somehow only girls know how to fuck and that they have these skills innately.if it were only true. speaking of an organ that isn't self-lubricating (externally). i've met many women who think that the seminal fluid is meant for giving a guy a HJ. ouch! talk about a tugjob. sigh......when will people ever learn about the wonders of lube.

As long as you have the look they want and their cock in your mouth, they are pretty happy.i'm happy as long as she is supplementing that with an aggressive approach towards cock sucking, some DT, BLS, hand action, plenty of saliva, and those gurgling, gagging sounds in the back of her throat would hurt either. see..i'm a simple man.

Jenny
07-24-2006, 01:06 AM
Oh, Cookie - I had event to think of you this weekend when I went to see Clerks 2, and leaned over to my pal to whisper "That's not true - you don't EVER go ass to mouth."

Vyanka
07-24-2006, 04:31 PM
Yuck. NOTHING appealing about sticking it in the mouth after it's been up the asshole. Who likes shitty breath??! :O

Everytime I read/hear about A2M it reminds me of jail sex.

Yekhefah
07-24-2006, 05:25 PM
I kinda like to watch it in porn, but I don't do it. Porn isn't supposed to be realistic; disease doesn't exist in porn.

cherryripeboy
07-25-2006, 07:07 AM
If you stick it in the sewer, you don't put it back in the playground.

Just because you see it on TV, does not mean you should try it at home.

lunchbox
07-26-2006, 06:50 AM
Just because you see it on TV, does not mean you should try it at home.
lol, I guess porn needs a Fear Factor like warning...

fancygirl
09-29-2006, 05:12 PM
sorry to dredge up this thread, but I'm curious--

Does a dental dam help here? And does it feel the same?

mr_punk
10-01-2006, 09:40 PM
no, a dental dam (or any kind of protection) defeats the purpose. the appeal of the act lies in the fact that it's taboo, verboten or very nasty.