View Full Version : Motives of a dancer
LemonLime
08-19-2005, 12:42 PM
You know, you are reading too much into it.
Enjoy it. You don't know how lucky you are.
Heh.
threlayer
08-19-2005, 12:57 PM
Sometimes SEX is just SEX.
Usually (but not always) people want it to be a pleasant experience so they chose pleasant people to do it with. Sounds to me that so far so good, except maybe for the excessive liquor.
Emily
08-19-2005, 01:00 PM
I can't believe that so much has been written about this. Is it that hard to believe that a stripper would want to have sex for the sake of sex?
RayzrShrp
08-19-2005, 01:41 PM
Being hung like John Holmes doesn't hurt lol j/k
I realize how lucky I have it now and I accept it! and I LOVE it
Something dawned on me, there is no way in hell she is getting that drunk off of 3 or 4 malibu & oj's, that stuff is like 25 proof if that.
laplover69
08-19-2005, 02:10 PM
I can't believe that so much has been written about this. Is it that hard to believe that a stripper would want to have sex for the sake of sex?
One reason is that it kind of de-bunks the stereotype that all a dancer wants from a "customer" is $$$, and all that a "customer" wants from a dancer is sex. I would definetly say that this particular situation is not that common, and even more unique if these "encounters" turn into a long term healthy relationship.
RayzrShrp
08-19-2005, 02:19 PM
I agree I would say this is a very very rare situation
BFinTraining
08-19-2005, 07:08 PM
true, but a guy with money has to be more wary, of ALL women, not just strippers. because there are a lot of golddiggers out there looking for someone to take care of them.
Why i advocate if you are rich to dress and act like you're poor if you're looking for true love. Live in a small apartment, drive a modest car, and tell women you live off of selling stuff on EBAY or daytrading stocks, but only enough to pay the bills, or make up a fake retail job, and then once she's proven she's really into you, THEN drop the news you're a lottery winner :)
Isn't that opposite of Lycos 101 - make them believe you;re rich even if you dig ditches and spend as little as possible to get nice ass? Seems for 20 bucks this guy is already ahread of the game. Why screw it up now with wanting to fall in love?
kassyS
08-19-2005, 07:19 PM
Well, lover boy, you are not out of the woods yet.
Plenty more where that came from and plenty more to see.
Casual Observer
08-19-2005, 11:37 PM
I can't believe that so much has been written about this. Is it that hard to believe that a stripper would want to have sex for the sake of sex?
Emily, we're on the Pink Side, remember? That sort of thing is only supposed to happen on the Blue Side...
;)
Blueyez
08-22-2005, 07:16 PM
She may really like you or she may be planning to harvest your organs. Either way, enjoy the ride.
LMAO! ;D
Gendai73
08-23-2005, 08:00 AM
I think personally think you should treat it no different than an other realationship
EXCEPT for remove money from the sceen. spending alot of money on her will get you put back into the customer catergory real fast
RayzrShrp
08-25-2005, 08:16 AM
Hmm a new development. What does it mean when a woman asks you how long it's been since you last had a girlfriend?
dlabtot
08-25-2005, 08:43 AM
It means she wants to know how long it's been since you last had a girlfriend.
JumbliesMan
08-25-2005, 10:04 AM
Jesus christ, is this the first woman you've ever met? I smell an attention whore. (attention gigolo?)
Bella21
08-25-2005, 01:04 PM
What? No, it means she wants to make sure you're not on the rebound... or a player... I ask that before I get seriously involved with a guy and he hasn't already told me.
RayzrShrp
08-25-2005, 02:32 PM
This is the first stripper I've met who has shown any interest in me outside the club. Don't be upset because it's not you :P
JumbliesMan
08-25-2005, 02:38 PM
Don't worry about me pal, I married a stripper. But for christ's sake, do you really need affirmation of every single thing this girl says to you?
Ana_217
08-25-2005, 02:56 PM
You’re going to lose that girl, you’re going to lose that girl.
If you don’t take her out tonight, she’s going to change her mind,
And I will take her out tonight, and I will treat her kind.
You’re going to lose that girl, you’re going to lose that girl.
If you don’t treat her right, my friend, you’re going to find her gone,
‘Cos I will treat her right, and then you’ll be the lonely one.
You’re going to lose that girl, you’re going to lose that girl.
I’ll make a point of taking her away from you, yeah,
The way you treat her what else can I do?
You’re going to lose that girl, you’re going to lose that girl.
I’ll make a point of taking her away from you, yeah,
The way you treat her what else can I do?
If you don’t take her out tonight, she’s going to change her mind,
And I will take her out tonight, and I will treat her kind.
You’re going to lose that girl, you’re going to lose that girl.
--Beatles