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KateJ
08-18-2005, 08:16 AM
What should I know about doing private parties? I have an opportunity to go with a girl to dance at a bachelor party. This girl isn't a friend, per se, she's more of a friend of a friend, so my level of trust has yet to be tested with her, and the things she tells me I want to double check through other sources...

She assures me of our safety, she brings a bouncer from the club she works in for protection. She claims we’ll make about 300 dollars an hour plus tips. She also told me that she does toy parties—for extra money--and went on to explain she basically takes dildos and other sex toys and uses them in front of the guys. Is this common for a bachelor party? I’m not sure how I feel about doing something like that. Dancing is one thing...but sex toys...I don’t know. Is it just a matter of inserting a dildo, or is it more intense than that? Does anyone here have any experience with that? How do guys react? Do they get that much more wild with the appearance of a dildo? She also said some guys want girl-girl shows. Now, I'm afraid to ask--but what does that entail?!? What kinds of games are safe but still go over well with the crowd? Anyone who has advice please help!

Princess Sex
08-18-2005, 08:20 AM
I do parties, for a good whip-round we shag each other with a strap on and use a double-ender on each other. It's normal. It's not like lapdancing. Be afraid.

jellob1976
08-18-2005, 09:47 AM
Guy's perspective:

I went to a bachelor party a couple months ago where the girls did this. They actually let us use the toys on them; and to be honest, it wasn't all that fun. Basically the girls laid down on a mat, and the guys took turns (like 30 seconds a piece) using a dildo or a vibrator; and more than anything, it was embarassing for us guys because you'd be down there, and 20 of your guy friends would be yelling and making fun of you. Not sexual or arousing at all. That being said, I think we had a pretty respectful set of guys, and I could see this activity getting out of hand with the wrong bunch.

alicia0033
08-18-2005, 10:23 AM
i would want no part of that. Talk about degrading. One thing is having a pretty sexy entertainer dancing for a group but toys especially the double ender makes me think of Requirem for a dream. I'll NEVER forget that scene. :O

ksalerio
08-18-2005, 10:38 AM
I work for a company where i go to bachelor partys. Yes this is very common.

When its just one girl she has the bachelor do it. Its like 2 songs, 2 1/2 minutes each. The price depends on the amount of guys and stuff.

Then the 2 girls have a bunch of toys. Double headers, strap ons, one that goes on to the guys forhead or chin (ive seen that toy being used both ways)

Its a lot of extra money, but just think if its something you want to do.

Good luck

kassyS
08-18-2005, 10:45 AM
First, how much you gotta pay your girl friend?
How much for the bouncer? He is not gonna be there just for fun and games, he wants money too.
Don't know about toys. Depending on who does the using, the consequences could be very physically damaging.

Just my thoughts.

Susan Wayward
08-18-2005, 10:48 AM
It's pretty much optional; I used to do parties with another girl where we did a lot of toy stuff (only with each other; it certainly wasn't an interactive part of the show) but on my own I didn't use them, and I didn't exactly have guys screaming for me to whip out a dildo. I don't think you should do it if it doesn't sound like fun to you. There's a ton of other things you can do that are fun without being really explicit, and to be honest, I think a lot of guys get uncomfortable with the explicit stuff. At a party it's not necessarily a lot of really experienced, hardened sex industry customers. It's just a bunch of guys who feel obligated to hire a stripper since that's part of the tradition for a bachelor party. A few games at the expense of the bachelor and lapdances all around usually suffice.

two-timer
08-18-2005, 11:40 AM
They actually let us use the toys on them; and to be honest, it wasn't all that fun.
That would excite the hell out of me. http://www.stripperweb.com/gallery/files/3/3/4/8/0/pirate.gif (http://www.stripperweb.com/gallery/showimage.php?i=4071)

IvyLeague
08-18-2005, 11:54 AM
i've done private parties for 5+yrs and never did toy shows. I actually sat in on a couple of shows after i had been done doing a clean single show and noticed that the girls doing toy shows walked away with less in tips then i did. I guess its hit or miss, depends on the guys in the party.

krchab99
08-18-2005, 06:12 PM
sounds like a nasty bachlor party. I think it would be more fun to have a good dancer that could do lap dances and a stage/floor show. Its more classy and tranditinal.

Vyanka
08-19-2005, 10:02 AM
Are the majority of all bachelor parties like that? With the toys?

venusofwillendorf
08-19-2005, 10:14 AM
i don't think it's so much about ethics as it is about comfort level and the quality of the show. if you're not comfortable with it, you shouldn't do it. you'll feel bad about yourself, and it won't make for a good show. besides, as has been said before, guys can be shy, too- they just feel like they're obligated not to be. i think many of the bachelor party men aren't all that comfortable with hardcore action..... and if they were looking for that, specifically, they'd probably be looking for women from other parts of the sex industry. many dancers are dancers because they want to dance, as apposed to the many other possible activites under the broad umbrella of "sex work". are you hiring yourselves as "dancers" or as "escorts"? that's an important distinction, so you get the customers who are wanting the services you will offer, rather than something more.

colleen
08-19-2005, 10:54 AM
[QUOTE=Page] I could easily keep a crowd entertained for an hour or more by doing things that were a little risque, but not downright nasty.

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I have to do 2 of the dumb things Saturday night. Could you please share your ideas??

ctstriptease1
08-19-2005, 09:49 PM
I could easily keep a crowd entertained for an hour or more by doing things that were a little risque, but not downright nasty.

I run a stripper agency in Connecticut () and toy shows are mandatory, I hit dancers with fines if they forget their vibrators. Bachelor party goers expect to see more; What would be the point of hiring dancers for a bachelor party if they got the same show they've seen at the club. No matter how thrilling, lapdances will eventually get old, especially with bigger crowds with guests who are impatiently waiting for the dancers attention.

Personally, I find toy shows more entertaining then girl/girl shows and they generate dancers a lot of money (especially the interactive ones). We break our hour shows down into 2 halfs, wild lapdances then toy shows. Audiences can't wait until dancers break out the vibrators, double-sided dildo, strap-ons and crowds save there bigger bills for these type of shows; if the price is right, It's common for dancers to sterlize (run hot water over) Corona bottles or Red Bull cans and use it as there toy. If you have a good crowd they won't respond with just dollars for that type of entertainment

I am very interested in reading how Page entertains guests without toys!

TigersMilk
08-19-2005, 10:33 PM
, It's common for dancers to sterlize (run hot water over) Corona bottles or Red Bull cans and use it as there toy.
Youve got to be kidding? Please tell me youre kidding.

242_fair
08-19-2005, 10:39 PM
sterlize (run hot water over) Corona bottles or Red Bull cans and use it as there toy....
:'(

That is not steralization.

PaigeDWinter
08-19-2005, 10:54 PM
I wouldnt do it. If I wanted guys to pay to watch me have sex with myself, I'd make a porn or three. It's make me more money.

DancerX
08-20-2005, 03:10 AM
No way!! I went to nursing school and had to learn about sterilization, of course. Not even the dishwasher would clean those toys off, and not even boiling it in hot water.

krchab99
08-20-2005, 06:53 AM
You know i don't understand why a toy show would be something expected at bacholer parties from a dancer. When i think of a bacholor i think you will be getting many types of men men that are married men that don't fruequent strip clubs and things mixed with ones who do. I think classy dancer is best you don't want to go to over the top at an event that is for close family and freinds. Strippers are tradtional but i don't think all bachlor parties want a rauncy porn show. But thats my opione i would not be comfortable with a toy show.

ctstriptease1
08-20-2005, 11:06 AM
Strippers are tradtional but i don't think all bachlor parties want a rauncy porn show. But thats my opione i would not be comfortable with a toy show.

Krchab99

Toy shows & girl/girl shows are the part of the difference between working parties and working clubs. Party goers pay more for parties so they expect more than they would normally see at the club; they want a show, and they want the shows to be interactive (touching boobs, ass smacking, etc.,) and with lots of variety (strap-ons, double ended dildos, whipped cream shows, banana shows, etc.,)

It's a standard for 99% of the parties we've worked, I've never seen a crowd get upset that a dancer used a toy, and I've never seen a dancer make less than a dancer who didn't do one ...

P.S. That Corona bottle and Red Bull can trick is really a common thing, I got a black dancer that can hold beer bottles with her ass cheeks!

cinammonkisses
08-20-2005, 11:09 AM
I've never seen a crowd get upset that a dancer used a toy, and I've never seen a dancer make less than a dancer who didn't do one ...


So if that is the case, why is it mandatory for your dancers to use the toys @ parties? :-\

TigersMilk
08-20-2005, 11:26 AM
ctstriptease1 I guess thats normal in your area? *gives odd look* Glad I dont live there.

Ive heard there are plenty of things to do than toys at parties..such as types of games. I mean youre there for an hour and Im guessing at least with someone else so there is things to do besides toys.

IMO, I think in some areas with a group of rowdy guys bringing out toys may start get the alcohol flooded brains of the guy thinking how far you will go?

Page
08-21-2005, 06:09 AM
Corona bottles or Red Bull cans and use it as there toy. If you have a good crowd they won't respond with just dollars for that type of entertainment

I am very interested in reading how Page entertains guests without toys!

Maybe it's just the area I'm in (Denver) but when I was working for an agency these things were definately the exception to the rule. Most of the girls didn't do toys.

Maybe guys in Denver are just cheap, but I know I made as much doing a non-toy party as the nasty girls did with toys. In fact, I had a party that I did with another girl who went on and on about what she didn't do (being touched, etc.), and what she did was toys. I told her fine, that I would do my thing without them, and she could do whatever she wanted. After the party she was crying on the way home. Seems she made $80 and I walked away with over $200. The comment I kept hearing was that the guys just wanted to have fun and be entertained, and that I was sweet and classy, and she was overwhelming.

I'm curious to know what kind of money these girls are making in your area who are doing these things. I easily averaged $300 a party (for an hour) not having to resort to disgusting behavior.

What kind of dancer do you send to a birthday party for a guy in his 50s? They can't possibly be expecting a toy show, and an hour of lapdances gets really boring quick. Dancers encounter all kinds of people and situations at private shows and it's important to have a variety of things to keep everyone happy and entertained.

sidhs
08-21-2005, 12:21 PM
Kate, your question is interesting, see in pratical if you use dildos infront of guys, no matter they may get wild and you may suffer some problems, so its always better to take care, I am also a guy if some stripper use dildos I will definately get wild and insist her to do more in pratical with me.

naughtynaomi
08-21-2005, 01:04 PM
One of my friends went to a bachelor party at which the girls used toys and allowed the guys to fuck her with the dildo as well. He said it was great.

That being said, I would be horrified to find that this was expected of me. Especially letting some guy shove a dildo into me. I can see guys getting really carried away and expecting the girl to let them shove "other things" into her as well. And me, I guess I'm sort of a prude, but I'd NEVER be comfortable letting someone other than my fiancee do something like that to me. And if I ever found that my fiancee was screwing some chick with a dildo at his bachelor party I'd probably rip his head off. Lap dance, OK, but they way I figure it, I don't let guys touch me at work, I certainly don't let them insert things into me, so unless he wants me to start doing it at work I wouldn't want him to do these things to a dancer.

Whew. That was a big mess of rambling.

Think of it this way-if you wouldn't be comfortable with your sig other doing it with someone, you probably shouldn't let someone do it to you. If you're single, well then I dunno, I'm gonna sound like a prude again, but think about it-the bachelor at least has a s/o and I'm fairly sure she wouldn't be OK with him dildo fucking someone.

AGH I'm torn-I know girls should do whatever they're comfortable with to make money and if they're comfortable using toys then great, but jeez, if I ever knew my fiancee used a toy on a girl (even at a bachelor or b-day party) I'd be out for blood.

venusofwillendorf
08-21-2005, 04:32 PM
everyone, please calm down. i definately agree that no one should do more than they are comfortable with, but you being uncomfortable with toy shows does not make those who do them "disgusting" and "nasty". life is hard enough on sex workers and women in general. we need to stick together, and not start looking down on each other for crossing the thin white lines. if you don't want to do toy shows, don't do them. but please don't insult those of us who do.

as to the question of ethics, what makes you so sure that the bachelor is doing all of this behind his fiance's back? i've told my boyfriend that when we get married, he can feel free to have a bachelor party and go all out- provided that i get to do the same. :) true, your customer may be lying through his teeth to the poor woman, but so might be the married older gentlemen in the clubs whose wives consider looking at another woman to be adultery. just because you draw the line at insertion doesn't mean everyone else does.

naughtynaomi
08-21-2005, 05:08 PM
^ Which is why, in the last segment, I said that *I* would be unhappy about it, BUT if a girl is comfortable with it then OK.

**Dream**
12-26-2005, 02:38 AM
I'm glad this thread was made, because I was thinking dildos were mandatory for dancers to use at parties. It's good to know that I'm not the only one who feels like screwing yourself in front of some guy is not cool. Besides I'm not good at faking oragasms any way ;D

I rather put on a hot ass show the old fashion way.

ksalerio
12-26-2005, 04:52 AM
I think you should do it if you are comfortable with it and not do it if you are not comfortable with it

Pamela
12-26-2005, 09:38 AM
Yes dildo shows, shower shows, stripping, ld's (first of course) will bring in time 3 times the amount of just a strip with ld's! That is boring.

Shower shows i would let the man/men lather me up...and at times wash my hair. No pussy, no tits!

A kiddie pool where they can pour mild down your tits and choclate of your belly and do body shots ROCKS!

It's great money!!!! You keep EVERY penny! 45 minute shows, all services listed i charged crazy shit money...but they paid!

Be safe, have a Body guard, and pay your taxes!

Again i think location helps to! Grab doctors and lawyers if you can! Those lawyers are FUN!!!!

Pamela

MishaBliss
12-26-2005, 12:23 PM
Guy's perspective:

I went to a bachelor party a couple months ago where the girls did this. They actually let us use the toys on them; and to be honest, it wasn't all that fun. Basically the girls laid down on a mat, and the guys took turns (like 30 seconds a piece) using a dildo or a vibrator; and more than anything, it was embarassing for us guys because you'd be down there, and 20 of your guy friends would be yelling and making fun of you. Not sexual or arousing at all. That being said, I think we had a pretty respectful set of guys, and I could see this activity getting out of hand with the wrong bunch.
I've done xxx toy shows and no way in hell would i let a drunk stranger (which is the usual kinda customer) have control of the toy! This can be extremely dangerous.
Only use toys (and i mean your own toys) if you're comfortable with it, otherwise it won't come off looking sexy, and sterilise your toys before you go. Pyrex toys are most hygenic.

mild2wild
12-26-2005, 03:14 PM
ok firstly sterilization does not mean running hot water over something, it means using an antibacterial wash, cloth or product on what ever you are washing, but with some thing like a red bull can or beer bottle it would look very cheap esp if you are sticking them up your who ha

Toy shows are very common in australia, as to fruit and vegetable shows, pearl shows and the list goes on....

In my agency i always allow the girls to choose what they want to do, as in if they only do nude shows i will only offer them nude shows, if they do masturbation show i would never offer them a toy show etc.

I guess it would be a matter of interest to ask your agent to be 100% specific in what he/she/they expect of a particular show, this is very important. Always if you are using toys sterilize them before the show and after the show to ensure your hygeine, and NEVER let a man in the audience have control over the toy

Another thing to rememebr when doiing private shows is to do something different then what they see in a club, here in australia the girls in the club dont do theme stage sets very often there fore a majority of the girls shows here are dancing with the last quater of the dance being actual moisturizer, pearls, toys etc.

Also i always remind the girls to take a rug/mat with them as when doing floor work it saves your knees and ensures that dirt never gets in your cracks both front and back. It also looks alot more professional too.

Private shows are alot of fun for both the performer and the crowd providing that everyones safety and hygeine is put first.

Hope that helps with your questions or quiries

Heaven
12-27-2005, 01:10 AM
I've done a few private shows but I have never used toys. And as far as other random objects - HELL NO!! I save that for the privacy of my own home. :) Kidding...

GoldCoastGirl
12-27-2005, 12:45 PM
As someone who was a "traditional" stripper (the most I would do is full nude open leg show) I can tell you for a fact that here in Australia (or the Gold Coast at the very least) it is the XXX showgirls who make the most money.

Granted, majority of the time the XXX stripper here goes to the party, does the 30 min show and leave. Generally (and locally) speaking, XXX strippers do not do hour long shows or anything like that where they have to come up with games and what-not. Also, generally (and locally) speaking, the majority of private parties who hire a XXX stripper do not come ready to tip.

They may tip their topless waitress to go nude (or to do tricks) -if the party has a topless waitress- however the majority of the time the stripper goes to the booking, collects the money, does the show and leaves.

It is just that bachelor parties these days want something more kinky than they can 'get' at a strip club. A run of the mill (standard full nude open leg strip) show would probably satisfy them however that's not what they demand anymore.

Personally, I'm about to enter the realm of XXX shows by doing 'natural masturbation' shows (where I use a lollipop and/or finger). I don't feel I'm less moral or ethical because of it. I'm just making myself more market-able to the agencies I work with :)

In the end, whether you do a toy show or not is up to you. There is nothing "nasty" or wrong with doing them ... and never ever allow the guys to use the toys on you! Have control at all times.

Plus all the shows I do are themed: outfit and music... therefore they are shows before I would even delve into the more explicit end of the show.

To each their own in the end. XXX is not for everyone.

shwankie
12-27-2005, 06:01 PM
I did bachelor parties for an agency in Detroit for two years. Toy & girl/girl shows are so common there that you cannot make money not doing them. That said, I was VERY strict about what I would do. I would only work with my girlfriend, and my bouncer. For safety reasons, I am not touching some random chick's hoohoo, nor letting her touch mine. We used only our own toys, cleaning them between each show with toy cleaner and hot water, then wrapping them in fresh paper towels and a new ziploc baggie. No client was EVER allowed control of any toy, or to touch either of us while we were doing the show. We looked like sisters--both very attractive--and our toy shows rocked (we are both very acrobatic, and we rehearsed some of the moves so the double-ender never left us even when were were turning around and changing positions). She and I were very into each other, so it was hot. We made mad money, and I only quit doing them when she quit. I cannot understand women who change partners for shows all the time--the health risks are just huge.

A lot depends on your area, I think. Areas like Detroit, you just can't do shows and make good money without toys--its become so much the norm that dancers who don't do it are not well recieved. Men book parties expecting to be able to pay for additional shows (our minimum for girl/girl toy shows was $300, or $20/guy, whichever was greater, for two 2.5 min. songs. They were also expected, and we said as much, to tip big during the show--we never walked away with under $500 for those two songs.) Other areas this may not be so, and may even be a problem. And, if you're not comfy doing it, or not comfy with your partner, it's not going to be a good show or good for you in the long run. Money isn't everything, and if it's a moral or ethical problem for you, the money probably isn't worth it.

I would never work for an agency that told me I *had* to do any kind of toy or girl on girl show. There are parties where my partner and I did not offer the additional shows for a variety of reasons, feeling the loss of money was worth it (guys were too grabby, unsafe location, etc). Being able to make my own decisions is one reason I dance, and I am unwilling to give up being able to make decisions about what I do with my own body. For example, I always reserve the right to not accept or leave a show for reasonable cause. If you have a good work ethic (a *lot* of bachelor party agencies have HUGE problems finding reliable women who aren't into drugs and getting drunk at parties) and are a hustler who makes the company money (always make sure the men get cards with your name on the back--I got tons of referrals this way), agencies are almost always willing to work with you.

Mimi NY
12-28-2005, 09:12 PM
NO NO NO!

I have never felt so degraded and humiliated in my life as at a bachelor party. nothing is sacred. I ended up with some skinny ass model's butt on my face while she pretended to lick me out. I was sober and not willing, but that doesn't matter in a bachelor party. It's a cattle show. It's chaos. DON'T DO IT IF YOU WANT TO STAY SANE!

SinfulStrips
01-02-2006, 06:38 PM
OK OK Ok. With everything being said here, I will say this: I have never worked in a club. I have only done private parties. And now, I only book them for other girls. Throughout my career as a bachelor party dancer I did toyshows. As far as my comfort level, did I find it degrading? No. The good out weighed the bad by FAR! I had my shitty nights, but what dancer doesn't? I had a wonderful partner whom I loved working with, and we did an awesome show.
However, with that being said, every dancer has to do what they are comfortable with. If toys isn't your thing, don't do them. I do have to agree with CTStriptease though. Around here (NY) toyshows are EXTREMELY common practice and are basically mandatory. If a girl doesn't want to do them, it's fine, but I really am not able to supply them with much work. I simply don't have very much demand for them. I don't know how things are in other parts of the country though. Maybe they are different...?

fancygirl
01-02-2006, 08:31 PM
I never did toy shows but worked with a lot of girls who did (including the lit candle. "Make a WISH!!!) My money was good when I worked with a girl who did more than I did (although I would do different things like the Man game (nipple bite through a dollar) or the whip, so I was also contributing.)
You're new. Don't do it. You want to obvserve for awhile. you can only make big money if you charge them a base fee to do it (so your friend will make more), but your tips will also increase.
Honestly, the few shows where it wasn't included and the girl charged, were few and far between. It's welcome if it's free or cheap, but charge 50-75-100 and you'll get fewer takers.

So, I would say, watch for awhile. And afterwards if you think you might want to do it, charge high and see

Tigress
01-04-2006, 10:11 AM
I do private shows for my regulars from the club. Sometimes they fly in and don't want the restrictions that the club has so we arrange to go to his hotel or home or whatever. I have no problem with using toys in these settings. It is so much more intimate that a simple dance around the room or plain lap dancing/grinding. I have a few favorites that I bring. I know you other ladies say they never let the customer have control of the toy. But I have found that by going with my super regular customers that it adds even more intimacy. I let them hold it or move it in and out with my hand near by. It drives the guys crazy! I also let them get comfortable (naked) and they can masturbate themselves or I give them a hand job. But that is only like 3 regulars that get the special treatment. Maybe a little too far for you ladies but it is my personal boundries.

JadenJ
02-26-2011, 11:22 AM
everyone, please calm down. i definately agree that no one should do more than they are comfortable with, but you being uncomfortable with toy shows does not make those who do them "disgusting" and "nasty". life is hard enough on sex workers and women in general. we need to stick together, and not start looking down on each other for crossing the thin white lines. if you don't want to do toy shows, don't do them. but please don't insult those of us who do.

as to the question of ethics, what makes you so sure that the bachelor is doing all of this behind his fiance's back? i've told my boyfriend that when we get married, he can feel free to have a bachelor party and go all out- provided that i get to do the same. :) true, your customer may be lying through his teeth to the poor woman, but so might be the married older gentlemen in the clubs whose wives consider looking at another woman to be adultery. just because you draw the line at insertion doesn't mean everyone else does.

I agree 100%. I have never done a PP but I would never ever judge anyone who has, whether they do it topless only, or do interactive toy shows, etc. We are all workers in the sex industry we need to stick together, not make each other feel bad because one persons level of comfort is different than our own.

Kellydancer
03-07-2011, 01:12 PM
I noticed this thread is old but I disagree with a few comments in this thread. I have done hundreds of shows in many years and only one involved toys. It was a situation where I did a fake girl on girl show (where we pretended to lick each other but did not)and we used toys on each other. I normally wouldn't have done the show but they paid a lot of money and the girls who normally did it were unable to.

Otherwise than that I've NEVER done a toy show nor would I. I've always been about the tease and got many jobs word of mouth. If all guys wanted toy shows then I never would have done hundreds. In fact I've never done most of the things mentioned in this thread. I did one time apply at an agency where they told me toys were to be expected but I walked out. Not interested in that.

CourtneyTease
03-21-2011, 02:31 PM
I charge 100 for my toyshow or for babyoil or whipped cream shows there is an extra fee. I charge 200 hour regularly or 3 hours for 500.

I will allow the bachelor or best man only to toy me or to do the oil or whipped cream! I oay my driver 30-35 a show plus 10 a night for gas!

miss1dancypants
03-24-2011, 09:05 AM
i do toy shows at almost all of my shows. each girl generally makes $100 plus tips for a 5 minute show. it brings in a looooot of money and creates a ton of excitement and really gets things rolling for the rest of the party... after the toy show, we make bank, because the guys are all worked up.

we lay down a big blanket, and tell the guys, this is our play space, do NOT get on the blanket or hover over it or else we will stop... and of course no one wants us to stop... usually this kind of thing is self contained because if a guy gets too close all of his friends will yell at him and tell him not to ruin the show.

i have no problem with toy shows. for me, it's just part of my job, it's legal, and it just doesn't bug me. each to their own, do what works for you and what you are comfortable with... no matter what things you are doing, you won't make as much money if you are uncomfortable. when you are comfortable and confident is when you will do your best. that's my opinion at least

ur1anonlyfantasy
03-27-2011, 07:43 AM
I also do toy shows at almost all my parties. Just kinda second nature with parties and I've been doing parties for many years now. It's a way to keep the party interesting without having to get closer to the guys.

Jay12
03-30-2011, 12:21 PM
I run a stripper agency in Connecticut (www.ct-striptease.com (http://www.ct-striptease.com)) and toy shows are mandatory, I hit dancers with fines if they forget their vibrators. Bachelor party goers expect to see more; What would be the point of hiring dancers for a bachelor party if they got the same show they've seen at the club. No matter how thrilling, lapdances will eventually get old, especially with bigger crowds with guests who are impatiently waiting for the dancers attention.

Personally, I find toy shows more entertaining then girl/girl shows and they generate dancers a lot of money (especially the interactive ones). We break our hour shows down into 2 halfs, wild lapdances then toy shows. Audiences can't wait until dancers break out the vibrators, double-sided dildo, strap-ons and crowds save there bigger bills for these type of shows; if the price is right, It's common for dancers to sterlize (run hot water over) Corona bottles or Red Bull cans and use it as there toy. If you have a good crowd they won't respond with just dollars for that type of entertainment

I am very interested in reading how Page entertains guests without toys!


Excuse me?!

I also do private parties, and I have never had the need to use toys nor being touched "down there" (or have my nipples touched). Where I live, strip clubs are not even topless nor they offer lapdances so doing clean (just dancing; whether topless or nude with minimum/medium contact) private parties is actually lucrative.

If I have a customer who feels like playing with himself while watching me dance, or if I'm touching him (minus down there; I have a zero genital contact policy), I have no problem with that as long as his fluids do not touch me.

Plus, I charge quite a bit more than most girls I know since I also triple as security and driver.

miss1dancypants
03-31-2011, 05:35 AM
...Threw up in my mouth a little.
A. That's disgusting.
B. OUCH.

In all honestly... this is probably the most disgusting thing I've ever heard/read/seen.
The idea of girls so money hungry they'll fuck themselves with a beer bottle is indescribably disturbing to me.



yeeeah... i, and no one i know in the private party business, would do this, or LET their dancers do it... and i don't think any guys at any party i've been to would want to see it either. nasty.

phoenixxxrising
04-08-2011, 07:08 AM
what kind of monstrous pussy must one have to fit a red bull can inside it?

I don't have a red bull in front of me & I know they're smaller than the average can of soda but they are still MUCH larger than the average penis & they DONT have a tapered head!

I cringe at the thought of what that pussy looks like.

Jay12
04-09-2011, 11:46 AM
I don't care if you claim to be the most hardcore sergeant cum dancer in the world, that's a very stupid idea.

It is not. I just didn't spend hours getting beat up by marines for nothing.

Self defense is something that, especially for dancers who do private parties, is always a good investment. Way better investment than botox, big boobies, butt implants or any other stupid surgery.

What if you get to go to a party without a bouncer?

What if you get lost?

phoenixxxrising
04-09-2011, 02:53 PM
I agree that you should know a lil self defense on your own because being able to defend yourself is vital but it doesn't hurt to have extra defenses. I don't think anybody is just so badass that they couldn't use a little backup. Just my opinion tho.

miss1dancypants
04-09-2011, 04:28 PM
It is not. I just didn't spend hours getting beat up by marines for nothing.

Self defense is something that, especially for dancers who do private parties, is always a good investment. Way better investment than botox, big boobies, butt implants or any other stupid surgery.

What if you get to go to a party without a bouncer?

What if you get lost?




idk about any other girls here but i DEFINITELY never go anywhere without my driver/bouncer...