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maylith
08-31-2005, 10:24 PM
My partner and I are two ladies that on rare occassions, go to SC's. Usually we take a male friend with us (he's gay too, but we feel safer and he can get some ideas for his drag routine). Neither of us will even touch unless the stripper initiates, and never more that what is actually okay with that stripper. We tip well and buy drinks for the girls if they want it. We make them aware of the situation with us and our friend so they don't waste dance moves on him (though he does seem to attract a lot of chat about clothing and costumes).

We don't go very often at all, and we usually have our friend approach girls one or the other of us are interested in and explain the situation and ask them to come to our table to chat if they are comfortable with it since we don't go often enough to be considered regulars. We both usually zero in on a girl, tip well at the stage and usually get at least one to three privates with tips as well. Most clubs in our area are medium to high contact and we do enjoy that but we have no interest in extras.

We're both around 40 and certainly enjoy some contact with some younger girls but that just makes us want each other all the more. We both highly appreciate the female form, and think strippers provide a service that should be well awarded.

MinneapolisDancer Lady
09-02-2005, 07:57 PM
Congrats MplsDancerLady - I hadn't heard this before. Wow. That just boggles my mind.

Although I do slightly remember going into Choice (the only time I've gone) and seeing an aggressive female couple trying to get men to buy them drinks, etc. They were ejected from the club fairly quickly.

And on a tangent, welcome to stripperweb.

-afx


Thanks AfxTurnip, glad to find this place ;D

Stringer
09-05-2005, 02:55 PM
I just witnessed a situation like this Sunday at the strip club. A bunch of girls came into the club and sat at one of the stages. They just talked amongst themselves and didn't tip the dancers who were there in front of them. I never really noticed before, but I see that the dancers were annoyed.

kitana
09-06-2005, 08:15 AM
I'm very intimidated by groups of women at the club. If it were up to me, they wouldn't be there. Too many times they are sitting there sizing us up, saying who is "too fat", "too skinny", "too fake", etc. The guys are just happy to see a naked chick, and if she's not his type, will be way more polite about it than the women. Plus women will look at you like you have three heads if you want a tip for your dance and you are not the one they have collectively chosen as their favorite (usually the pole tricks girl because at least that they can sorta admire in a circus freak way). And somehow they think that one dollar is sufficient for the whole group. I won't even approach them anymore because I have sufferened through too much scrutinization and humiliation for way too llittle money.

And if they are the "cool" girls who tip everyone...they are even more annoying because they want you "to work for it" (because if you are just a lowly stripper, they are going to make sure you feel like the freak show they think you are). I don't clap like a circus seal for a dollar. No, you don't get to bark orders at me to "spin around" so you can pull my g-string all the way out until it snaps into place on the dollar. You cannot smack my ass or grab my tits. And yes I will get pissed off if you do.

I feel bad for male strippers.

And to the chicks who are just there trying to get the customers to buy you drinks...GET OUT! it's bad enough when dancers do this. And the customers aren't going to talk to us as long as you're chatting them up for free.

Amen sister!!!!

But the real question is, how do we fix it?!

The last time I even went up to the gaggle of chickens for a tip, one of the was talking shit. I told her, "Aww hunny, why don't you come with me? We will get you a nice pair of thongs and some heels, and you can have everyone laugh at your fat rolls." She balked.

I then proceded to tell them, until they have the balls to get on my stage, then they need to shut the fuck up, or go home. Because when you get me age, I seriously doubt you will look this good after 3 kids and no surgeries.

My next set, one of the girls tipped me a twenty, and said I was right.

But for the most part, I hate the gaggles of girlies. They just bring a bad vibe to the place.

CharlotteInTN
09-12-2005, 02:51 AM
My experience with women is about 80% bad to 20% good.

When the women are there to have a good time and truly enjoy strip clubs (like many of the posters in this thread) they are a lot of fun to have in the club, but the majority of my experience is that women are bad for the atmosphere of the club.

At my club they have to be escorted to get in, but that could be 12 girls and one guy.

The majority of the women fall into a few specific categories. The ones who were dragged in by their b/f or husband. The ones who came to watch over their b/f or husband. They usually spend the evening with a sour look on their faces, making rude comments about all the dancers to hide their own insecurities. They also spend no money, just take up space.
Then there's the ones who pretend to be there to party. They come in groups all dressed up. Dancing and making a lot of noise. Acting like they're trying to compete with the dancers for attention. Annoying.
Then there's the ones that think because they're a girl the rules don't apply to them. I have more problems with women trying to touch, lick, kiss me than with men by far. I don't know how many times a woman has tipped me on stage and just reached out and grabbed by boobs or ass. Or tried to kiss me. Eww. I don't know you.
My experience with couples and lapdances is even worse. Almost always they (both man and woman) expect me to kiss the girl, let her touch me and I've had quite a few spread their legs for me and expect me to just go to town. (one woman had no panties and was visible to the whole club) I won't even give a dance to a lady in a skirt anymore. The couples in my area are always coming in thinking we'll go home with them. I guess they think because we're strippers we'll just jump in the sack with anyone. Come on, if you want to try a threesome go meet someone on one of those websites or at one of those clubs.

So yeah, I've had bad experiences. I don't really even go by tables with women anymore unless they ask me to, because I can never tell what type of female customer they are or what they want. I've had some great female customers, but they're few and far between.

velvet
09-12-2005, 02:46 PM
My partner and I are two ladies that on rare occassions, go to SC's. Usually we take a male friend with us (he's gay too, but we feel safer and he can get some ideas for his drag routine). Neither of us will even touch unless the stripper initiates, and never more that what is actually okay with that stripper. We tip well and buy drinks for the girls if they want it. We make them aware of the situation with us and our friend so they don't waste dance moves on him (though he does seem to attract a lot of chat about clothing and costumes).

We don't go very often at all, and we usually have our friend approach girls one or the other of us are interested in and explain the situation and ask them to come to our table to chat if they are comfortable with it since we don't go often enough to be considered regulars. We both usually zero in on a girl, tip well at the stage and usually get at least one to three privates with tips as well. Most clubs in our area are medium to high contact and we do enjoy that but we have no interest in extras.

We're both around 40 and certainly enjoy some contact with some younger girls but that just makes us want each other all the more. We both highly appreciate the female form, and think strippers provide a service that should be well awarded.


this is NOT what we are talking about. we are talking about young straight girls acting like the stripclub is a nightclub! you two would be more than welcome!!!

MissMisha
09-14-2005, 01:27 AM
I have to say I'm torn on the women in the club issue. When we get the young girls who are up there for a lark and spend the whole time bitching and slagging us they really shit me. We have also had several times where a female custie has just decided she'll get a few cheers, or worse money, from the regular custies and started striping at the table......
However I do have a few regular female customers who come in with thier partners, get dances that they really do appreciate and enjoy and are wonderful to talk to. I always have a chat with them about how their job, kids etc are going and they are fine. Also we have a pole dancing school around the corner from us that will bring the graduating students into the club to see what we really can do on stage and they love it! They clap and cheer and tip and sometimes get dances.
I think itreally has to be up to management to decide wherther girls should be allowed to stay. If they will behave and enjoy bring them on! If they are gonna take custies attention for free, or bitch kick them out because they will only loose the club and dancers money...

Sienna_TX
09-19-2005, 08:48 PM
When I took to the stage for the last time Saturday night, I was exhausted. I'd already gone up 3 or 4 times, and been in and out of VIP all night. Still, I smiled and acted upbeat. The club had died down a bit for some reason, and the only ones on the front row were a guy with two women. They talked and mostly ignored me, but I caught the eye of one of the gals and held her gaze with a sexy grin on my face until I got her to smile back.

When she stuck a dollar into her mouth, I leaned over and told her that we were only allowed to accept tips in our garters (local rules). She asked me how long I'd been dancing, and I told her a little under a month. "Yeah, I can tell," she said.

I just blinked at her, turned around and continued my set. I heard her saying that to the others that she thought she offended me. No, honey, nothing you could say could ruin my mood or my hustle. When I got off side stage I proceeded to make another $100 in the last 30 mins. :)

Can't say I've had good experiences w/women customers. I've found that it's like pulling teeth to get a measly dollar from them while I'm on stage...and my VIP experiences have been less than positive, too. :-\

Natalia108
09-19-2005, 11:32 PM
lmao we have been having this same convo at our club for a while..

we get way too many of them up ..

i dont mind as long as they have respect and dont make any uncalled for comments

Deogol
09-20-2005, 06:05 AM
When I took to the stage for the last time Saturday night, I was exhausted. I'd already gone up 3 or 4 times, and been in and out of VIP all night. Still, I smiled and acted upbeat. The club had died down a bit for some reason, and the only ones on the front row were a guy with two women. They talked and mostly ignored me, but I caught the eye of one of the gals and held her gaze with a sexy grin on my face until I got her to smile back.

When she stuck a dollar into her mouth, I leaned over and told her that we were only allowed to accept tips in our garters (local rules). She asked me how long I'd been dancing, and I told her a little under a month. "Yeah, I can tell," she said.

I just blinked at her, turned around and continued my set. I heard her saying that to the others that she thought she offended me. No, honey, nothing you could say could ruin my mood or my hustle. When I got off side stage I proceeded to make another $100 in the last 30 mins. :)

Can't say I've had good experiences w/women customers. I've found that it's like pulling teeth to get a measly dollar from them while I'm on stage...and my VIP experiences have been less than positive, too. :-\

Maybe it is "people" who are assholes and not just guys.

I find it difficult to encounter quality people.

onlythebest
09-20-2005, 03:01 PM
I'd rather they quit letting so many chicks in. They often turn the mood of the room to something more like a nightclub than a stripclub. Too many chicks kills a room.

That is exactly what was happening at Rick's before the storm hit.It seemed like all of the sudden,it was cool and hip to hang out at strip clubs if you were 20-something.

20-something=no money,90% of the time.

My $.02.