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rain
11-21-2005, 05:17 AM
A few sentences into your original post and I was annoyed. To answer your question, you probably annoy her, too. Especially if you get "pissed" at her. She's not your fucking girlfriend!

amylynnej
11-26-2005, 11:33 AM
I like mine. At least most of mine. Usually Ill reserve friday nights for my regs. So its nearly impossible to get a dance from me if someone is a new custy.

Generally on fridays Ill make 1200-1500 and saturdays 800-1000

madmaxine
11-26-2005, 12:01 PM
I don't.

amylynnej
11-27-2005, 10:28 AM
Just realize that without regs, you have to hustle just like all of the other girls. With regs I can pretty much guarantee Ill make what I need to everynight.

Some are idiots but most are pretty nice guys. You have to learn what each one likes or dislikes and try to make them happy.

I almost look at it as being an actress and playing a role. Its alot easier that way.

gypsy_girlchild
11-27-2005, 10:50 AM
I'm tired of getting asked out and then dropped because I say no, enough said?

yoda57us
11-27-2005, 11:42 AM
I'm tired of getting asked out and then dropped because I say no, enough said?

Well, that kind of goes with the territory. From what my favs tell me (yes, I'm a "regular" and no, I don't ask girls out) the asking-out part happens almost as much with first timers as it does with regulars. In any event it's a pain-in-the-ass part of the job and the lament of many girls that I have known. If you ladies can make bank without regular customers more power to ya'. I'm mostly a daytime guy and most of the girls I know depend on regular customers to have a good week. Whatever works I guess.

I think Amy Lynn has it nailed-it's all down to how good of an actress you are.;)

mercedez
11-27-2005, 06:55 PM
I love my regulars.....I know there stories.................there like friends..

yoda57us
11-28-2005, 06:29 AM
I love my regulars.....I know there stories.................there like friends..

Interesting, at the risk of being branded a total PL I must say that I feel pretty much the same way about my favorite ( AKA "regular") dancers. That's part of the fun. Obviously a regular has to respect the dancers need to earn and some guys don't. I think that's where the trouble starts.

Crow
11-28-2005, 09:36 AM
Regulars? There are two kinds of "regs" that come into a strip club. Guys that come in, sit, want to chat - tip a lot, get us (dancers that have taken the time to get to know these guys ) drinks and generally BS. These guys I adore. They usually make my night, as it's a safe haven to sit, chat with someone pleasant and have a drink, waiting for some guys that will perhaps get some LD's to come in.

Other type of regulars are the ones that come to see me exclusively, which I consider friends. I like these guys a lot, as I already know them. I know how to make them feel like a king and they leave me happy.

I agree with you Jay, keep it in the club please - or you'll get dropped like a hot rock.

ARCOR
12-02-2005, 10:28 PM
Hmm...I go to SC to unwind from work sometimes twice a month. I see regs in there but never consider myself as one because I don't see a particular girl. If a girl I gotten a good dance from the past is there in I will ask her for a private. To be polite I ask some of the girls about their private life, most are honest and tell me but sometimes I forget what they tell me. I don't expect the girls to remeber my name. If a girl sits next to me and just talks to me I always get at least one private from her. Girls are there to make money not friends.

rusdancer
12-04-2005, 08:51 AM
I love my regulars,it's been so long,that we are all friends.I'd rather hang out with them than sit with someone new.

jake99
12-04-2005, 03:52 PM
Well I used to be a regular for a few girls I liked. They would come and sit with me whenever I went to the various clubs over the years. But now I dont go to strip clubs anymore. My last experience where I was a regular I would go see my ATF about three times a week. I would wait until she got on stage and then I would tip her $100 on stage and then take her to the VIP for an hour. It ended up badly because she started taking me for granted and I felt pretty used. In the beginning she would dance a few dances and then sit and talk. Over time it got to where she wouldn't even do one dance in the VIP - even if I asked her. She would say ok in a minute and then the hour would be up. Then I would tip her the $100 and she would take it, go strip and then go dance in front of some guy for $1.00. When she got back to me she would dance for 5 seconds and then pull out the garter for another tip. Other guys would give her $10.00 (the cost of taking "it all off") and she would strip and then go dance in front of them. If I said anything she would get pissed and it would be all my fault. Sometimes when she didnt feel well I would tell her to take the night off and I would cover her - and I did. I stopped going to see her and she started going off on other girls I talked to - texting them and calling them whores and stuff like that. It ended very badly a few months later. I am glad she moved away. I don't hang out with strippers any more since then. In the beginning it was cool and I thought we were friends - we even went out a couple of times - her suggestion - but in the end she was a bitch. She probably still tells people I ruined her life. On the bright side I save about $500 a week now :)

mspussykatus
12-05-2005, 08:07 PM
Mr. Humpalot, I would like to point out that many guys SAY that they will tip us just to sit and talk to them. Very few follow through on that promise. The mistake that was made was that you said nothing to her. Since you are a regular, it seems this aspect of your relationship has never been explored. The next time, simply hand her $200 at the beginning of each hour, tell her it's to stay and talk 45 minutes out of each hour (management may not like her sitting with you and only you seemingly not making any money-keep them off her back). Then let her make a few extra dollars elsewhere. Make sure you take care of any drinks she needs as well and pay for her to stay off stage. If there is a VIP room, then take her in there unless she would have to pay them to much for it.


I could not have said it better myself!

dlabtot
12-05-2005, 09:05 PM
Well I used to be a regular for a few girls I liked. They would come and sit with me whenever I went to the various clubs over the years. But now I dont go to strip clubs anymore. My last experience where I was a regular I would go see my ATF about three times a week. I would wait until she got on stage and then I would tip her $100 on stage and then take her to the VIP for an hour. It ended up badly because she started taking me for granted and I felt pretty used. In the beginning she would dance a few dances and then sit and talk. Over time it got to where she wouldn't even do one dance in the VIP - even if I asked her. She would say ok in a minute and then the hour would be up. Then I would tip her the $100 and she would take it, go strip and then go dance in front of some guy for $1.00. When she got back to me she would dance for 5 seconds and then pull out the garter for another tip. Other guys would give her $10.00 (the cost of taking "it all off") and she would strip and then go dance in front of them. If I said anything she would get pissed and it would be all my fault. Sometimes when she didnt feel well I would tell her to take the night off and I would cover her - and I did. I stopped going to see her and she started going off on other girls I talked to - texting them and calling them whores and stuff like that. It ended very badly a few months later. I am glad she moved away. I don't hang out with strippers any more since then. In the beginning it was cool and I thought we were friends - we even went out a couple of times - her suggestion - but in the end she was a bitch. She probably still tells people I ruined her life. On the bright side I save about $500 a week now :)

I'm sure your experience is unique. I've never heard anything remotely resembling your story before. ;)

Yeah, it's great being a 'regular' ::)

RS
12-06-2005, 12:29 AM
I like change too much to be a regular... that and the fact that I usually "fall in love" with a new girl each time I go to a SC... (I know, I'm a real class act ;) )

raine_ashlan
12-22-2005, 04:42 AM
I have regulars who feel entitled to my whole night when they are in there, because they come and see me every week and spend three or four hundred every time, however, it is hard for them to understand that my money actually would go down on their nights if I only spent time with them. My strategy is to spend 45 to 60 mins with them, then hustle around a little, then come back to them. I make it very clear that I am working, that I do enjoy the time we spend together, but that I am WORKING and need to work. Buying dances or giving me more money gets more of my time. Period. My advice is that you should hand her some money at the beginning. If you REALLY were going to spend $800 on her, give her a quarter of it in the beginning, and them meter it out to her throughout the time she spends with you. Otherwise, she is not going to know that you value her time. In fact, it will seem to her like you are playing a power game over the money. And you say you spend on her "most of the time." Maybe she was starting to worry that night was one of the times not included in "most of the time" and that she was not going to be compensated for her time. If you are really as goodhearted and wonderful as you say, then you should have no problem giving at least SOME of the money up front.

RS
12-23-2005, 09:42 AM
...and spend three or four hundred every time... If you REALLY were going to spend $800 on her...

I must be really square but that seems like sooooo much money... who are these people? super rich I guess...