View Full Version : Uh, dancing with your mom right there?
misschevious420
11-16-2005, 10:26 AM
I had been working at the time for about 1 year, when my mom walked in. /:O I had been at the same club I had started with, so my relations with staff and regular customers was in great standing. I was on stage about to transition into my second song. No sooner had the top hit the floor, walked in my mother, my older sister & a friend of my sis.
At first I freaked, covered myself and told the dj to cut the music. I screamed for the bouncer not to let them in!;D Then on of my regulars came up with a shot and told me "You've got this! If they wanna see what you do here go ahead and give it all you got." I took my shot and said ok. I danced my ass off to that song! My sis came up with her friend and they both said "wow didn't know you had it in ya." My mom wasn't proud that I was taking my clothes off, but she was happy that I was good at it. (if that makes any sense)
When I returned to the floor, I politely asked them to leave and they did do so.
My embarrassing moment...
MishaBliss
11-16-2005, 12:23 PM
When my mother said she wanted to come and see my show i was horrified!
For starters when i started dancing (at 17, almost 18 ) she was completely opposed to it and didn't like it one bit. Then i think the idea kinda grew on her and she'd start to admit to people what i did for a living when people asked. She said she was no longer 'ashamed' of my job. But asking to see my show was so out of the question. Never.
I did take her to see a friend of mine's show tho, who also happened to be quite a bit older, closer to my mothers age than mine. /:O
bambiblue
11-19-2005, 06:52 PM
I have worked in a club where the mom and daughter both danced and worked the exact same nights. I guess the mom got a drunk driving ticket and needed a ride to work. Anyway, it didn't earn either of them any respect from the customers. They both looked washed up and were horrible alcoholics.... I have also worked at a club where this girl brought her mom in to "visit her' how weird. She even sat at a table with a few of her regulars. Maybe I'm a hypocrite, but I couldn't deal with guys ooogleing at my little girl. It all just seems weird, but I guess it depends on how you were raised.
I guess it's just a matter of attitudes toward sexuality. I would love to live in a society where sexuality wasn't something to be hidden or embarrassed about.
My mother has moved through the stage where she would have tried to drag me out by the hair, and she's actually taken some belly dancing classes lately. We've talked a little about dancing (I used to belly dance and use some of the moves in the club), and I wish that she could see me dance on stage, but I don't think she could handle seeing me doing lapdances and stuff.
laplover69
11-20-2005, 04:48 PM
I know of a couple of mother-daughter combos that have worked at the same time and club! They seemed to have good working relationships... Normal? I am not the judge for that. I also know of a dancer whose mom would come in and watch her dance on occasion, and they both are what a consider "normal" people from what I know about them.
Krazyjane
11-20-2005, 08:44 PM
If my daughter was stripping (I don't have kids yet), I'd probably grudgingly accept it and occastionally visit the club to ensure that she was in decent working conditions, and get her to change clubs if it wasn't a good place. As a former stripper, I'd have no room to talk if I told her not to strip. Any girl who's decided to strip has made up her mind and as a mom, it would be better to work with her than against her. When I'm a mom, I'm going to tell my kids, "Go ahead, tell me anything, I'd rather know now than later when it's too late." Such behavior has nothing to do with being a cool mom and everything to do with the fact that if you try to be a dictator, they're only going to rebel more. This is not to say that I'm never going to discipline them, it means that I'm going to try to be open.
Bridgette
11-20-2005, 09:36 PM
We go on and on here about how this is JUST A JOB. And then get all freaked out upon hearing about a girl who's mother obviously accepts her JOB enough to support her in it. WTF people???
As a custy, are you weirded out because you're afraid you might not be able to 'behave normally' in the custy position when you know her mom is there? ::)
As a dancer, if your mom is open-minded and fully supportive of your job, what's the big deal?
It's not unheard of for a mother and daughter to be in the strip club at the same time, even working together. I'm thinking this mother was probably a stripper or ex-stripper and wanted to help her daughter out. Why not give your daughter pointers on how to make as much money as possible? I mean, really, who else would have your best interests in mind and want you to do your best, as much as your mom? And if she's been there, why not take her advice???
I would love to have a mother I could be so honest with.
madmaxine
11-28-2005, 12:07 AM
OK, I don't WHY I'm sharing this, but my brother bounced for me at a party. I needed the money! I had him show his military dog tags to the guys at the party & half-jokingly warned that he could make things ugly if they got out of hand. I DID NOT do anything I couldn't handle him witnessing.
LOL I have now completed my Angelina Jolie Life Arc (unnaturally close to my brother). Uh, well, minus Brad Pitt.
babydolly
12-14-2005, 09:15 PM
our bar is small and friendly a working-class boozer.
My mum has often come in after my shift to pick me up...stay for a juice. ..whatever! she gets on great with all staff dancers and customers and even makes us all clothes for the stage.
She was dissapointed at first that i was not like her...a`proper` dancer but now she has actually SEEN what goes on she is delighted not only at our sales skills and fitness...but also at the art ,skill,and humor of a strip-tease!
SthnrnGrl77
12-14-2005, 09:46 PM
I think it is strange IMO.
dlabtot
07-05-2006, 09:00 AM
We had a new dancer at the club yesterday whose dad came in and sat at the rail for her stage sets, where she did spreads for him, etc --- wtf? if they think that is ok behaviour in public, what do they do at home? what kind of father would do that? I feel sorry for her if she thinks it's ok, but he is just sick.
Yekhefah
07-05-2006, 09:23 AM
^^^ Eeeeyyyuuugghhhh!!!! :yuck:
How many years you reckon he's been fucking her?
dlabtot
07-05-2006, 09:34 AM
and her 'best friend', a chick, was hanging out in the club for her whole shift... apparently she didnt think there was anything strange about it either....