View Full Version : licking your own tits on stage
amity
10-14-2005, 04:09 PM
Actually....some men, perhaps not all, DO notice a stripper who is more dirty on stage & will definitely feel more confident to be dirty with specifically her. I know this for a fact because a customer told me he saw how I danced on stage & that although he thought I was "beautiful", he didn't want me to dance for him. Next thing you know, I see one of the dirty girls giving him a nasty dance. So, I'm thankful that my cleaner dance saved me from being treated like a whore.
It's just how it is.... Everyone knows if you're dressed like a slut OTC, some people assume your a slut & treat you like one. Is it fair? No. But how we present ourselves does affect the way people view us. We can always be surprised. You may see a dancer who's clean on stage & dirty on the floor. Or you see a girl who's dirty on stage, but clean on the floor. But that's why it called a surprise...
If someone wants to dance clean & save herself from any trouble, I applaud her. Since when is it so bad to to claim that you're trying to just do what stripping USED to be, an fantasy/entertainment experience....
justine08
10-14-2005, 04:33 PM
Presenting onself on stage to me is creativity, more so than the blatent black or white lines (thought process) written by amity...(no offense, we all got our opinions), but as Amethyst has explained (quite well IMO) stage is a show, not a go! Perhaps using this "skill" as an enticement factor can be done better by some versus others...do what (is legal) and works for you...sheesh, did I just spot the Kremlin? This is America folks, and if kept within the laws boundaries we are blessed to have a job that allows individuality and creativity that can be uniquely expressed and experienced.
Mia M
10-14-2005, 07:26 PM
Like I said before..it's tacky as fuck and not sexy IMO...and i'm a dancer...I don't have time for all that bedroom action shit on my stage while i'm dancing. If i'm doing all that shit on stage...what will the men expect a private is like? When everyone finish with their opinions...mine stays the same.
Nobody is telling you to get on stage and slobber on your own titty so why are you getting so defensive?
Has long as you're not breaking any rules, the move makes you $$$, and you're comfortable doing it, who cares? I'm too busy working to worry about coworkers being "tacky"...
Everyone has a different opinion about what is hot. What one person thinks is gross, another will find sexy. Who the hell am I to judge?
akashia
10-18-2005, 09:12 AM
It all depends on the situation. I do it on occasion because I don't go around the stage sticking my tits and ass in every guys face like the other girls... but I also have huge tits and I do it in a silly way to indulge those ass holes and entertain anyone w/ a sense of humor!
Heaven
10-18-2005, 01:27 PM
I used to do the boob lick thingy when I very first started dancing, but like a lot of the thngs I did when I first started - I don't do anymore. I have to admit that an occasional, good, loud smack on the ass seems to get a lot of guys excited. Why? I have no idea, but if they like it, I love it. And as far as a little bootie bouncing and clappin', I throw in maybe a second or two just for a little flava. But I don't let the crowd sit there and watch my butt go like it's powered by an Energizer. :)
I have a short tongue and small boobies, but I don't mind girls who do lick their own tits.
I do slap my ass during dances, I wouldn't call it spanking myself just a nice loud ass slap.
Leadlips
10-18-2005, 03:25 PM
to each her own. i don't lick my own tits because it's gross due to all the body spray, deoranant, and sweat that i deal with. i've been slapping my ass for so long that it's just like walking. i don't even think about it being sexy or stupid. it just happens.
Helle
10-18-2005, 05:53 PM
Things that will always be tacky, whether I mind my own business or not:
1) Teased bangs
2) Tuna casserole at a five star resteraunt
3) Britney Spears
4) Licking your own tit on stage
jonniejasmine
10-18-2005, 06:46 PM
"spreading it"..? I'm afraid to ask. I haven't seen a girl lick her tit without trying ot be pornographic about it and that just disgusts me on stage......I perfer the artistic approach, or the njoying myself up here approach.....save the down and dirty for the bull pin...lol unless its another girl...then do as the two of you wish
Melonie
10-18-2005, 08:27 PM
I stick to crushing empty beer cans in my cleavage onstage LOL.
Actually, girls licking their own boobs onstage are sending a pretty clear message to would be private dance customers ... who are liable to be disappointed after they pony up the private dance price and then aren't allowed to continue licking where the dancer left off !
madmaxine
10-18-2005, 10:05 PM
Never did it, never will. I have the idea now of taking my top off at the dairy and letting a milk cow think I'm a salt lick. It could be theraputic......LOL
kitana
10-18-2005, 10:47 PM
I stick to crushing empty beer cans in my cleavage onstage LOL.
OMFG!!!! ROFL! I thought I was the only one who did that! Actually, now that I work in a bar that has only beer bottles I have to stick with crushing Red Bull cans, lol.
But it's too damn funny to see the guys looks!
quaid
10-18-2005, 11:24 PM
if you're gonna lick your boob do it, i don't (i've never really tried) but i don't care if another girl is doing it.
richardchristy
10-20-2005, 08:07 AM
As a customer I have to say I think the licking your boob meneuver depends on the girl. If done in a "cute" more innocent way I think it works. But sucking on it...a little much.
Now, the spanking thing I am SO sick of seeing. I just dont understand what response the girls are looking for with that.
And what exactly is "pussy popping?" Is that the gynocological exam I am forced to witness on occasion?
cinammonkisses
10-21-2005, 05:36 AM
Like I said before..it's tacky as fuck and not sexy IMO...and i'm a dancer...I don't have time for all that bedroom action shit on my stage while i'm dancing. If i'm doing all that shit on stage...what will the men expect a private is like? When everyone finish with their opinions...mine stays the same.
I got this from another forum that you wrote in.......
I smoke a BIG joint and drink long island iceteas to deal with the fact that some fucko is touching my body. I never let them get to the point to fingering me or anything like that, but I do allow them to grab my tits and my ass, but only if i'm in the mood for it.
Now, look whose calling the Kettle black? You think a girl lickin her tits is tacky, but you will let them grab on you...now I call that tacky and not sexy!!
miabella
10-21-2005, 07:46 AM
i don't think letting customers touch is tacky UNLESS you only feel comfortable with it after lots of self-medication. onstage, i agree with everyone who said it depends on the girl. some can carry it off, and others make it look tawdry. given the dance environments many dancers have to function in, and the lack of significance of stage in many locales, the whole debate is a bit moot. any individual dancer can disregard or migitate the potential bad effect of a girl doing something 'porny' (sexually oriented vs. sensually oriented) onstage.
Amethyst
10-21-2005, 09:42 AM
Like I said before..it's tacky as fuck and not sexy IMO...and i'm a dancer...I don't have time for all that bedroom action shit on my stage while i'm dancing. If i'm doing all that shit on stage...what will the men expect a private is like? When everyone finish with their opinions...mine stays the same.
I got this from another forum that you wrote in.......
Quote:
Originally Posted by The Original Babygirl
I smoke a BIG joint and drink long island iceteas to deal with the fact that some fucko is touching my body. I never let them get to the point to fingering me or anything like that, but I do allow them to grab my tits and my ass, but only if i'm in the mood for it.
Good lord...
Now, look whose calling the Kettle black? You think a girl lickin her tits is tacky, but you will let them grab on you...now I call that tacky and not sexy!!
That's the interesting thing about this thread:
Grinding = cool.
Putting your tits in someone's face = classy.
Letting someone else feel you up = not so bad.
Suckling another dancer's tit = divine.
Putting YOUR own tongue on YOUR own boob = tacky, tacky, tacky and too pornstar-ish. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v151/Syren77/Emoticons/dunno.gif
given the dance environments many dancers have to function in, and the lack of significance of stage in many locales, the whole debate is a bit moot. any individual dancer can disregard or migitate the potential bad effect of a girl doing something 'porny' (sexually oriented vs. sensually oriented) onstage.http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v151/Syren77/Emoticons/cheerleader02.gifhttp://img.photobucket.com/albums/v151/Syren77/Emoticons/cheerleader02.gifhttp://img.photobucket.com/albums/v151/Syren77/Emoticons/cheerleader02.gif
blondhottie
10-21-2005, 09:15 PM
I don't do it; I think it looks stupid.
brookesxe
10-23-2005, 12:28 AM
at my club it is full nude on one side/topless on the other but i typically do the full nude. the guys throw down 20s on the table when you do this...lick ur finger...and rub it around the nipple...its not as tacky as licking (my chest is too small anyway) and it makes the men crazy...as well as wanting a private dance. as one customer said "oh my god...when i saw you do that...i had to see what you would do when you got me alone." its a winner!