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Vyanka
10-18-2005, 12:10 PM
Female Ejaculation:
What it is and how to do it.

History

If you were to refer to literature over the last 50 years you
would be lead to believe that females have only been able to ejaculate
since about 1980. Of course this is absurd, and just shows how "the
experts" can be wrong for decades on just about anything. Many knew
the experts were wrong, but had little success in convincing anyone.
Needless to say this lead to many problems, needless surgery (to fix
the poor women who would ejaculate), expensive counselling (got to
find out what happened when they were children to cause this
"problem"), and in some cases divorce. "The G Spot" by Alice Kahn
Ladas, Beverly Whipple, and John D. Perry, has dozens of letters from
women who went though various personal tragedies because they would
ejaculate during lovemaking. Doctors, gynaecologists, and
psychiatrists invariably told them they were peeing and needed either
surgery or psychotherapy.

Newsweek published an article entitled "Just How the Sexes Differ"
in May of 1981. One of the major difference was listed was that men
ejaculate, but women do not. However, Aristotle wrote about female
ejaculation, and Galen knew about it in the second century. The female
prostate, which generates the fluid which is ejaculated, was described
in some detail by De Graaf in his "New Treatise Concerning the
Generative Organs of Women". (1) "... during the sexual act it
discharges to lubricate the tract so copiously that it even flows
outside the pudenda. This is the matter which may have been taken to
be actual female semen." He describes the fluid as "rushing out" with
"impetus" and "in one gush." (2)

The medical community was finally awakened in 1980 when Perry
and Whipple showed a film of a female ejaculating to the SSSS (Society
for the Scientific Study of Sex). Martin Weisberg, M.D., a
gynecologist at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital in Philadelphia
responded, "Bull ... I spend half my waking hours examining, cutting
apart, putting together, removing, or rearranging female reproductive
organs. There is no female prostrate, and women don't ejaculate."

Yet after seeing the film and witnessing the event in person he
changed his tune: "The vulva and vagina were normal with no abnormal
masses or spots. The urethra was normal. Everything was normal. She
then had her partner stimulate her by inserting two fingers into the
vagina and stroking along the urethra lengthwise. To our amazement,
the area began to swell. It eventually became a firm one by two cm
oval area distinctly different from the rest of the vagina. In a few
moments the subject seemed to perform a Valsalva maneuver (bearing
down as if starting to defecate) and seconds later several cc's of
milky fluid shot out the urethra. The material analysis described in
the paper (Perry & Whipple's) is correct, its composition was closest
to prostatic fluid".

Fluid Characteristics

The ejaculate is very much like prostrate fluid. It is usually
clear, or milky and as thin as water. It does not have the look, smell
or taste of urine. It is almost odorless. The taste varies, depending
on the time of the month and diet, and possibly other factors, such as
amount of stimulation received prior to ejaculating or time since the
last ejaculation. It can vary from an almost honey sweet, sour,
bitter, or a combination of these tastes.

Even though it is ejaculated from the urethra, it is most
definitely not urine. It is absolutely impossible to pee during a
orgasm unless there is a weak pubococcygeus muscle. This is very
important, and it is important for the female and her partner to both
understand this. The pubococcygeus muscle contracts when terminating a
stream of urine, and is the muscle which contracts during orgasm. This
contraction helps prevent retrograde ejaculation (ejaculation back
into the bladder), and of course prevents the bladder from draining
during orgasm.

Problems Women have Ejaculating

I think there are two major problems women face that prevents
them from the immensely enjoyable experience of ejaculation. They are
the female's mental attitude, and their partners inability or
unwillingness to spend the time and effort during lovemaking and to
learn the necessary techniques. We will address both of these problems
and the solutions here.

The ejaculation is done through the urethra. This is the same
tube that is used for urination. It is located outside the vagina,
between it and the clitoris. The fluid is water like, and non-
lubricating. In no way does ejaculation improve the chances of
conceiving, it offers no lubrication, and is dumped outside of the
vagina. The only conceivable purpose of female ejaculation is for
pleasure. And the pleasure is intense, in many cases far surpassing
the best orgasm's. Often ejaculation takes place during both a
clitoral and a vaginal orgasm (yes there are two type of orgasms,
clitoral and vaginal, but often orgasm is a combination of the two),
giving the female extreme pleasure, sort of a triple whammy. Sometimes
after ejaculation the female will virtually pass out from the intense
feelings.

It can be argued that since the only reason that females can and
do ejaculate is for pleasure, then there should be no reason for them
to not do so, and as often as they please. It is one of the safer sex
acts, since in most cases it can be triggered with fingers alone.
Ejaculating from intercourse is more difficult, especially when
performed from the missionary position, but still possible.

Preparation Recommendations for the Woman's Partner

Wash hands well. Trim fingernails. Make sure that the thumb, and
first two finger nails do not extend past the fingertips. Trimming
them as far back as possible would be best. Make sure that there is no
dirt or crud under the fingernails.

Place a towel on the bed. A surprising amount of fluid can be
released during female ejaculation. Compared to a male it can be like
a water cannon instead of a water pistol.

Have some K&Y Jelly handy. At some point additional lubrication
may be necessary, even if she is having heavy orgasms and climaxes.

Set aside enough time. The first successful ejaculation may take
from 10 minutes to over an hour.

It may be wise to exercise your hands, fingers, and arm for
several days prior to this exercise. The motions necessary can become
quite tiring after a while if you are not in good physical shape.

Before beginning the first time, discuss it. Let her know that
you are striving to give her an ejaculation. That female ejaculation
is perfectly normal, and a wonderful experience for both of you.
Convince her that there is nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed
of. Explain that just prior to ejaculation, she most likely will feel
like she is about to pee. This is a difficult point for many women, as
they will immediately draw back. Convince her that it is normally
impossible to pee during an orgasm, and that the feeling is simply the
first sign she is about to ejaculate.

Since the movement of the fluid through the urethra will
initially feel exactly like when she starts to pee, this is very
important. The reflex to stop peeing will immediately abort the
ejaculation, so she needs to be told to relax, and allow the fluid to
pass. In other words when she feels like she is about to pee, she
should go ahead and pee. Only it really won't be pee, it will be an
ejaculation, and within a couple of seconds it will be very obvious to
her that this is something quite different. Once she knows the
feeling, she will be able to push it out once it starts, with
astounding results. It is best for the partner to be sitting between
her legs at this time, else she may overshoot the towel or even wet
the far wall.

Once she has ejaculated, rejoice with her. Don't make fun, or a
joke. If you do it may be the last time she will be able to ejaculate,
at least in your presence. Unlike a man, this is not the end. You can
continue, and she may well have multiple orgasms and ejaculations with
further stimulation.

The above is pasted from very-koi.net. Heres the link:

http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/female/female.htm

FBR

Vyanka
10-18-2005, 12:11 PM
Technique

Start slow. Use typical foreplay. You may want to start with her
on her back. Stimulate the clitoris. This can be done with a moist
finger, or with your tongue. Performing cunnilingus while rubbing her
breasts with your hands can be quite stimulating for her. At any rate,
continue clitoral stimulation until she is lubricated. At this point
slide two fingers into her vagina. Allow them to move along the front
wall of the vagina. You should encounter an area about 2 inches in,
which should be somewhat enlarged. This is the G spot. It lies
directly along the urethra, and is located almost directly behind the
clitoris. Slowly stroke this area. It should start becoming more
enlarged.

Ejaculation is almost always triggered by stimulating the G spot.
Clitoral stimulation can often assist in helping her reach an
ejaculation, and also can make it more intense. But stimulating the G
spot is usually necessary at least initially. Once she starts
ejaculating easily, she may find that clitoral stimulation alone is
sufficient.

Stroking can be done a number of ways. The two fingers can rub
the area as a unit, or they can take opposite strides, similar to
walking. A third method involved sliding the two finders out a
fraction of an inch, and pushing them back in, similar to the in- out
motion of intercourse, but with smaller strokes. Initially pace the
stimulation somewhat slow. Alternate with clitoral stimulation either
with the thumb, other hand, or mouth/tongue. Also try simultaneous
stimulation of the clitoris and G spot. Watch her reactions.

Simultaneous may be too intense for some but necessary for
ejaculation for others. Take your cues from her. When she starts
bearing down, and you feel the vagina contract, begin pumping rapidly.
When she is in the middle of an orgasm, stimulate the clitoris at the
same time, and pump the G spot gently, but very rapidly. Talk to her.
Say, "your getting it, go for it, don't worry, relax and let it come"
or other similar words. She may need reassurance that if she drenches
you, you will not be upset. Tell her how erotic you find it for her to
ejaculate. Make her comfortable with both you, and the idea of
ejaculation.

This actually is not the best position. If she does not succeed
after a short time, have her roll over on her stomach, and get up on
her knees. You will find stimulating the G spot much easier in this
position, and she will most likely respond much better. With the two
fingers turned down, slide your two fingers back into her vagina. Find
the G spot and continue stimulating the G spot. You may use the other
hand to stimulate the clitoris. If after a couple of orgasms, using
rapid pumping on the G spot during orgasm, she still has not
ejaculated, then turn the hand around, putting the thumb into the
vagina.

The thumb will likely not reach the G spot, but don't worry, it
should come up to meet the thumb during orgasm. Take the two fingers
and lay them down on the clit. Allow the entire curve between the
thumb and forefinger to lie along her from the vagina to her clitoris,
and begin pumping with the thumb, and rubbing the clit at the same
time. When she starts an orgasm, start pumping the entire hand
rapidly. At this point she will most likely ejaculate. The trick is to
massage the area where the urethra comes out, while stimulating the
clitoris and G spot. This will help to override the feeling she is
about to pee, and allow her to let it pass.

Be aware that the female is not only capable of multiple orgasms,
but also multiple ejaculations. It is not unusual for her to have from
3 to 5 ejaculations before depleting her supply of cum. Once she has
ejaculated one or more times, you can continue with intercourse.
Entering from behind will stimulate the G-spot more easily than
missionary style, and often additional ejaculations will occur during
intercourse. Even if they don't, she will be highly excited, and very
sensitive. The final result will most likely be the most intense and
pleasurable sex she has ever had.

The above is pasted from very-koi.net. Heres the link:

http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/female/female.htm

FBR

CuriousJ
10-18-2005, 03:52 PM
I have had two women in my whole life who did this I think its too cool - I want it shot all over me as I like to shoot all over them oh ya thats what I'm talkin about .

Mastridonicus
10-18-2005, 04:00 PM
uhm
thanks vyanka

even if she doesn't ejaculate, I know I will be doing better!

Katrine
10-18-2005, 08:01 PM
I havn't had a g-spot orgasm in years. :(

Rick1
10-19-2005, 10:07 AM
Years ago my ex and I were having a nice evening in the bedroom. I decided to go down on her for an extended period of time. I have always really enjoyed this and will make it go on upto an hour (I don't care how long it takes to make it nice).

I can feel when she starts to cum up, then I would change to let her go down a little, gradually stair stepping up and down. I just close my eyes and go by feeling her body contract, tighted, loosen. Enjoyable to say the least.

I could feel that she was getting to the point of no return and I start to stimulate her constantly, fast and slow, licking and sucking without stopping.

Then woosh I get a mouthfull, totally unexpected. I was thinking it was urine, I head to the bathroom, washout my mouth, comeback with a big grin, she has a pillow over her face in embarassement. I tell her "hunny, I'd do anything for you". We finished the event very nicely.

I then went on a search to find out more about this. Found a couple of books and brought them home and we discussed it.

I tried many times to bring her to this level again, and never quite got the same response.

In the opening text, it talked about possibly passing out from the intenseness of the orgasm. When we first got together, she would cum hard enough that I thought she was going to crack my head between her thighs. When she finally climaxed she would pass out everytime. And would remain totally out until I entered her.

She had been married 5 years before me and I was the first one to give her an orgasm.

We had a great sex life, but there is more to living together than sex. O'well.

Rick

Vyanka
10-19-2005, 10:59 AM
um, there have been several times that i had to stop my bf bc i had the urge to go pee. didn't know it was that kind of an orgasm. :-\ ;D

mr_punk
10-19-2005, 03:59 PM
Set aside enough time. The first successful ejaculation may take from 10 minutes to over an hour.<snip>LOL...thanks, but no thanks. way too complicated and time consuming for my tastes.

Vyanka
10-20-2005, 07:52 AM
LOL...thanks, but no thanks. way too complicated and time consuming for my tastes.

I know, i'm so lucky i'm not a man bc ya'll have to do all this work just to make a woman cum. LOL.

Ah, but i'm a lucky gal to have my man though. :)

Rick1
10-20-2005, 09:33 AM
Vyanka

I'd recommend you go pee before you start. If this feeling came on early, it was most likely a need to pee.

After the feelings start to build, if you feel the need to pee, just live with it. Make sure your bf knows what may be comming.

The long build up is what I like, it gives me lots of control.

Goal; To make it more intense than the last time.

Rick

Vyanka
10-20-2005, 09:37 AM
Vyanka

I'd recommend you go pee before you start. If this feeling came on early, it was most likely a need to pee.

After the feelings start to build, if you feel the need to pee, just live with it. Make sure your bf knows what may be comming.

The long build up is what I like, it gives me lots of control.

Goal; To make it more intense than the last time.

Rick

Yes, I always pee before we do anything. And I wont drink anything 30 minutes before either.

CuriousJ
10-22-2005, 06:38 PM
^ Almost sounds like a road trip lol