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CaptainQuantum
11-12-2005, 09:22 AM
Natural tits, it's not the time or place for "better living through chemistry", and I dont want to sound like your mom, but a nice personality. It does not matter what you look like if you are obnoxious.

I beg to differ. A hot looking stripper who's obnoxious...I still wanna tickle her feet just as much as if she was nice. Maybe even moreso because I wanna make her suffer for being obnoxious ;D

mollyzmoon
11-12-2005, 03:48 PM
Not to get too clinical and render the audience comatose, but Bridgette has outlined the simple truth regarding weight management (really, it's mass management, since weight is a factor of mass but that's another story...). In this country, we're hung up on the wrong numbers entirely. Most weight assessment is done according to the BMI scale (example here (http://inch-aweigh.com/bmi.htm)) rather than a more accurate body composition measurement (done by either calipering or displacement measurements). This makes some people appear healthy and others overweight or obese.

So when it comes to dancers and their body types, it's about more than the weight--it's about how a woman carries that weight and in what proportion.

:)

I used to be in women's wrestling...haha, very unsexy, but the most fun I've ever had in sports. I was also at that time (three years ago) in the absolute best shape of my life. I weighed 57kg (126llbs) on a 5'7" frame, which is slim, but I looked far thinner than what my weight would suggest. To illustrate: at most regional competitions, there were no scales, so my coach would put me in the 54kg category and no one was the wiser (because I looked 115). When I was properly weighed in one time (I happened to be an unfortunate 57.2kg, which plopped me into the 64kg category) the girls in that weight class practically refused to fight me because I looked so much smaller, but I weighed in the same as them. It really depends on how much muscle you've got...even at my thinnest (115 pounds) at this height, my family feared that I was anorexic (wrestling has an unfortunate side effect of making you extremely weight conscious, so yes I was dieting too much) because I was all bones and size 0 was falling off me.

Now I've lost most of that muscle, but I am trying to get back to that angelina-angular look I had!

hopeless romantic
11-13-2005, 08:24 AM
each guy is differant, but generally men are attracted to health and fertility and femaleness in contrast to maleness.

So, fertility is suggested by youth and 'ripeness' (full breasts)

health is self explanitory, but for example long poor health history would result in hair troubles, so long luxurious hair gives the impression of health, and hence fertility.

femaleness is having the smaller finer features that men don't have. for most men that includes the softer, rounder, curvier, higher body fat shape- so the rail thing fashion model or the ripped fitness model or the thing with huge obviously fake and hard looking boobs are all generally less appealing to men, though many men like them and they come and go as fashions.

so generally, don't bother dieting to look 'thin'. look at the super market tabloids and see if the coverages of Lindsey Lohans and others who go from luscious to skinny is ever postitive...I think girls do this for other girl's approval not to attract men.

MsTopaz
11-13-2005, 08:37 AM
some women are thin because they're born that way. some are thin because they work out and eat right, and they like what they see in the mirror. they don't do it to get points from others. they feel confident about how they look. that confidence is a good thing and usually has a positive effect on the income.


just my :twocents:

:)

dippidy dave
11-13-2005, 10:19 AM
most of my favorites have been tall & thin with natural tits

TicklerBart
12-04-2005, 08:35 PM
I like tall slender (NOT skinny) girls with HIPS. She must have nice hips. (And LIPS)
Breast size is of NO importance to me at all.
Long legs are a plus.
I really like the Asian look for hair style. Straight hair is great for me.
However, that is not a priority, but just a preference.
As far as weight is concerned . . . it really REALLY depends on the individual girl.
I've seen some VERY beautiful girls that needed to lose 30 or 40 pounds.
And, yes, unfortunately, I was not as attracted to them because of it.
I guess that makes me kind of shallow.
To be honest . . . I have a MAJOR foot fetish, so if she's wearing any kind of shoes that
show her feet, I like her.
Some dancers dance barefoot from time to time. NOW you have my FULL attention.

aussiepunkshocker
12-04-2005, 08:56 PM
I beg to differ. A hot looking stripper who's obnoxious...I still wanna tickle her feet just as much as if she was nice. Maybe even moreso because I wanna make her suffer for being obnoxious ;D

Not sure if your were being serious or not, but I am often surprised at how rudeness works. I am only rude to customers if they are rude to me first and then I am pretty good at telling people to fuck right off and shut up etc. Afterwards I always always get an appology but there have been times when I will get a tip or a show out of it too! Quite funny dancing for someone you've just hit off really badly with! :)

thegoods
12-27-2005, 06:54 PM
Be confident no matter what your body shape is... that's what we all find sexy. Personnaly, I prefer a fit girl with DD+ implants. But that's just my personal taste... dancer or not!

Lio
12-27-2005, 11:06 PM
If I could build the perfect stripper, kind of like how they did in that 80s movie Weird Science she would have to be short. Around 5 foot is perfect with an athletic build and dirty blond hair. The boobs Aren't so important either B s or C s are fine. It's the boody that has to stand out, a nice perfect tear drop shaped butt that comes out so far you could set a beer can on it. In the real world Im not that particular. One of my favorites is about 6'2 without her heels. She works out every day, and is very solid, no fat on her at all. It was funny, one time she introduced me to her boyfriend. He stood about 5'8 and looked almost exactly like a mini Vin Diesel.

Gemini25
12-28-2005, 10:48 AM
It's been my experience that most guys pay more attention to a woman's confidence and fun level than her body type. And when they do look at body type, most of them want a womanly body, not a teenage boy with breast implants. Embrace your curves and enjoy being a woman; stop killing yourself. Most of the guys who like super-skinny chicks are assholes or gay.


Precisely! I definitely prefer a woman who embodies the feminine form, i.e. looks like a woman (read: curves). My gf is about 5'9", size 7, and very curvaceous. However, I know many guys who would consider this to be "thick" or "could lose a little weight," but as Yekhefah so astutely observed, most of these guys are assholes. Furthermore, these guys often lack distinction when it comes to their own physiques.

Boo439
12-29-2005, 04:12 PM
I've only been to a SC about 4 times and I never had a body preference until the last time I went. I was immediately attracted to a girl that had to be about 5'-5'2" without shoes, she had brunette hair in a bun with a beautiful flower in her hair, she was extremely slender and had *maybe* A-cup breasts, they were perfect, and fair skin. As for body weight, I saw dancers that were heavier than her and they were all beautiful in their own way. I find women's bodies beautiful no matter what so long as they're not *fat or obese* meaning over plus-size. I am a female and those are my preferences. My hubby doesn't like strippers so I won't even bother asking him. :(

the801
01-02-2006, 12:53 AM
Personal preference: For me, When I'm TALKING it's all in the eyes (eye contact is very strong) and mouth (smile!), smart, fun, engaging, interested, a little wild & silly P.E.R.S.O.N.A.L.I.T.Y ;D ........when I'm LOOKING, natural, healthy looking, strong, firm, smooth, athletic, (brunettes are always sexiest), speak volumes about self respect. Long, silky-shiny, healthy dark brown hair, oh my! :P BTW, I love seeing my ATF's when they first come to the club before getting "Made-up". They usually stop for hugs and I get to see them in OTC mode-very cool!........... When I am TOUCHING, it is all about "substance". It's a difficult to define condition that all women share to a certain degree, I think. It's what tends to make women's bodies so different from men's: soft and round in all the right places, firm and smooth in all the others. Don't forget scent though; this is for me a critical element. Here in PDX, my nose is the only appendage I can legally make contact with!!! ;) and well, girls just smell, like...........girls for gosh sakes! Self explanatory for anyone who has smelled one!! So when will they ban smoking in the strip clubs here in Portland? I want to be able to use all of my senses when in their company and many times the second hand smoke just kills the incredible pheromones these ladies give off!!! :P My two cents and worth every penny!!

Cheers,

801in PDX

NinaDaisy
01-02-2006, 01:04 AM
If you're 5'4" and 125 pounds, you're definitely not at all fat. Not even close, especially is you have a flat stomach. You sound like an hourglass type chick and a lot of guys dig that.

the801
01-02-2006, 01:19 AM
A couple of other thoughts that bubbled to the surface just now concerning body types,etc: I am more aware now of the presence/absence of Tattoos and piercings than in the past. I guess I just prefer natural looks!! There is a woman who dances at Dolphin 2 in Beaverton weekdays (She is a newby, single mom, been dancing for all of three or four months) who has no tattoos, no piercings, dances barefoot, is slim and slender, small breasted and petite. She also is very direct, gives great hugs and has a smile you can see across the room. (along with with sexiest hip-motion, yikes!!! I asked her how long it took to perfect this dance technique and she said she was dancing this way from the first. "my butt just has a mind of it's own!!" :D ) Betcha can't tell she made an impression! 8)

Cheers,

801inPDX

Chris Fox
01-04-2006, 12:05 AM
I'm a 5'7 guy and all I care about is...

* they gotta be shorter then me, tall girls intimidate me...and I hate that, they think they are so cool...

* they need to be in my playing field, which means, they need to be cute enough for me to think that I could actually pick her up in a club under different circumstances...

* Brunette, just cause every girlfriend I've ever had was Brunette...blonde seems like a fantasy to me and when I get a dance, I want it to feel real and flowing...

* First thing I'll look at is her ass, cause that's the biggest turn on for me....The ass has to be covered enough to tempt me, so I know in the private dance I'll actually get her to slowly strip off...i.e. if I've already seen her ass on stage, or she is walking around in a G-Banger, then that bores me cause I've seen it already.

BackseatBoohoo
01-05-2006, 07:04 PM
I'm small, so I tend to like dancers who aren't so much bigger than me that they're overpowering. As long as they aren't twice my size, I'm alright. However, I like my men with a bit of chub, and I like my women fuller but with curves, especially great hips.

Again, I'm not picky, but I usually prefer fair skin over tan skin, dark hair over light hair, and a nice face over a perfect body.

pumpkin22
01-24-2006, 02:02 AM
I was really worried when I started dancing that people would think I was fat (5'5" and 138 at the time). I was also worried because I have tattoos, very pale skin, and red hair. Surprisingly, it was never a problem. Some guys didn't like me, but that is true of every dancer. I got a lot of customers that I would never expect would be into me, but I think a lot of it had to do with the fact that I ooozed confidence even if I wasn't feeling it on the inside. I have a thick, toned, hourglass figure (sounds like you do, too, except you don't sound that "thick" even) and it has made money for me! If you are having problems at your club, you might try working during the day when the older guys come in. I've noticed that a lot of them can't get enough of those curves!

nylonfeetlover
01-24-2006, 02:22 AM
Average.Not too big not too small.

stripclubgoer
01-24-2006, 10:54 PM
Personally, I like a natural girl. That takes precedence over all else. I really don't care how big your boobs are as long as they're real. Second, I usually tend to like a curvy girl. I'll go for the girl who's maybe a little heavier over the girl who's all skin and bones any day. But of course, these are just my personal preferences. Everyone's a little different.

ga peach
07-26-2007, 12:34 PM
I am 5.8 i weigh about130 I have natural 38 d boobs and Ive never had any complaints I also have long blonde hair and blue eyes but I think what makes a women sexy is her attitude

goethe
07-26-2007, 02:03 PM
I think what makes a woman sexy is being 5'8", 130lbs with natural 38ds, long blond hair and blue eyes!

billybob853
07-26-2007, 02:22 PM
A natural well toned body does it for me.

Taylorlila
07-27-2007, 08:17 AM
Most guys highly underestimate women's weight. I know a girl who is 5'2" and 96lbs. She has a very pretty face, but doesn't earnd much because she is sooooo thin. Usually the guys are as off put by her body type as they are the girls who are little over weight. I mean ribs and jutting hip bones aren't sexy.


true. true. I'm 5'2 about 112lbs...guys always say I can't weigh more than 95lbs...and I don't know if they're trying to be complimentary...or if they just really have no perception of a girls weight.

teeth_of_the_hydra
07-27-2007, 11:10 AM
^^^No perception of a girl's weight. According to the average customer, I'm 5'6", 110 pounds, 20 years old, and I wear green contacts. Haha. I'm 5'3", 125 pounds, almost 25, and my eyes are natural, kthanx.

I will always go for the coolest stripper in the club. I don't really care what she looks like or how she's shaped so long as she looks happy, has good skin and decent teeth, and exudes coolness. I can't describe exactly how this comes across, but it's certainly what I strive to present in the club :)

Fiama
07-27-2007, 12:05 PM
Off the top of my head, I would say I prefer curvy women; however, I agree with many others in this thread.

Personality wins out over physical appearance the majority of the time. My favorite dancer usually ends up being the one who's smiling and laughing and having a good time.

bem401
07-27-2007, 12:52 PM
true. true. I'm 5'2 about 112lbs...guys always say I can't weigh more than 95lbs...and I don't know if they're trying to be complimentary...or if they just really have no perception of a girls weight.

Well, if a girl asked me either how old I thought she was or how much I thought she weighed, my first instinct would be to miss both of those on the low side. I would automatically subtract 5 years or 10 lbs. from my best guesses so as not to offend.

yoda57us
07-27-2007, 05:42 PM
I prefer small girls with curves and natural everything....
As far as guessing a gal's weight or age? Never gonna go there on the weight thing...I've scored numerous stripper hugs over the years for looking shocked when a lady told me she was in her early to mid 30's after I had just guessed "27?". I don't intentionally aim low, I'm just lousy at judging it...

jaizaine
07-29-2007, 03:38 AM
I am 5'0, 101 lbs, natural b cup, I have long legs tho for such a short girl.
I am 27 but customers seem to think I am anywhere between 19 and 23.

I love looking this way but if I were wanting a lap dance my ideal dancer would be anywhere between 5"0 and 5"7, large fake breasts and tanned. I dont care about weight as long as it is carried well.

StevieStar7
07-30-2007, 06:55 PM
Not to thread jack, but what I'd really like to know from the guys...how much does cellulite really bother you? I've always had it (even as a teenager, all the women in my family have it) it bothers me to no end!!! Does it really gross you guys out that bad? How many of you girls on here have cellulite and you feel like it affects your $$$?

yoda57us
07-30-2007, 07:04 PM
Not to thread jack, but what I'd really like to know from the guys...how much does cellulite really bother you?

Cellulite in and of itself doesn't bother me all that much. I'm interested in the total package. Perfection is highly over-rated if the woman in question has no personality.

WiseGuy_TX
07-30-2007, 09:45 PM
...it seems to vary, usually toned girls, thin to small, but personality wins out ....and "red stage lights" are not a dancers friend.

Magnate
07-30-2007, 11:14 PM
Talking about body preference you can have the best body in the world but if you don't know how to use it's just not going to draw attention and you won't be able to project good vibes.

A bit of flab/chubby area that's easy to grab but not toned and doesn't look like it's overhanging is ok if you're worried about that. Stay away from being a stick and stay away from being too wide, you gotta find that balance in between.

Know what you got, and Know how to use it!

jaizaine
07-31-2007, 01:22 AM
...it seems to vary, usually toned girls, thin to small, but personality wins out ....and "red stage lights" are not a dancers friend.

LMAO tell my manager this!! It makes girls without cellulite look like they do.

I am blessed enough not to have any ;) but I hate those red lights, UV all the way!!!!!!

StevieStar7
07-31-2007, 01:39 AM
...it seems to vary, usually toned girls, thin to small, but personality wins out ....and "red stage lights" are not a dancers friend.

That's exactly what I'm talking about....the"RED LIGHTS" >:( Why!!!! The club I work at LOVES the light shows! And on every stage too.

I mean I'm only 5'4" and 125lbs ( still trying to lose an extra 5-10bls. from having a baby 6mo ago :p) but I've always had cellulite and until recently never worked out a day in my life!

I've made peace with fact that I've got it, but shit you would think the club would like ALL of the girls to look flawless ;) ...I wish it was all Black lights too!!!
They make your skin look creamy and smooth;D

Svelt
07-31-2007, 10:48 AM
Not to thread jack, but what I'd really like to know from the guys...how much does cellulite really bother you? I've always had it (even as a teenager, all the women in my family have it) it bothers me to no end!!! Does it really gross you guys out that bad? How many of you girls on here have cellulite and you feel like it affects your $$$?

My current fav has some cellulite, I didn't realize this until recently. I don't care, and hell she is one of the top earners in the club.

bem401
07-31-2007, 11:00 AM
Like Svelte, if I noticed a favorite had cellulite once we established a rapport, it wouldn't phase me, but I doubt I'd approach a girl I didn't know if her cellulite was very noticeable.

Andygirl
07-31-2007, 12:26 PM
I like red lights if they are combined properly with other lights. I can't stand clubs where it's almost completely dark, that's odd to me. If you want to hide your (not you personally) body, then why be a stripper?

As for body types, you can't go wrong with the hourglass shape. There's a girl at my club who is very popular and gorgeous (IMO) and she's what some would consider overweight. She might weigh 140 or so, at 5'4. But she has that weight in all the right places and she has a pretty face and knows how to carry herself with confidence. That's the key.

Weakness4Blondes
08-03-2007, 10:11 PM
When it comes to women as it pertains to body features, I tend to go through phases. At any particular time I could be into:
*petite, 18ish, blonde cheerleader type
*tall, muscular, tan, dark features
*chunky (not obese), wide hips, thick legs
*anorexic, crack-addict looking girls
*older, mature-looking women
*My taste in breasts runs the full spectrum as well: flat-chested, perky, average "C" size, Big natural "DD"'s, Huge fake ones.
*I've also found I'll get fixated on a specific type of girl for a short time; such as Hispanic girls with thick lips, Asian girls with blonde hair, Girls with really short hair, Super intelligent girls, dumb as rocks girls, Southern accents, long thin legs, short meaty legs, punk rock look, many more.
*My current "phase" is black girls that wear only white and pale blonde girls that wear all black.
In short, I just admire all women of different types I guess. Live right near Mons Venus in Tampa and one of the reasons I love it so much is I can find pretty much any "type" I am looking for on a particular night as well as discovering new ones. :)

Zyzzx
08-04-2007, 08:03 AM
I like different types. It really depends on how a girl carries herself.

Mostly though, I like them slim. Breast size is not nearly important as shape.

x_Rattler_x
10-22-2007, 08:45 AM
Body type for me isn't really all that much of an issue but there are things I look for in a dancer that makes the dances way better. I have a thing for straight, jet black hair and green eyes...although green eyes IS negotiable hehe...GOOD looking tanned skin is always a plus for me. I know the black lights and cigarette smoke can be hell on your skin so any dancer who I see with great skin is a huge plus....

Be Cool....The Rattler

Jay Zeno
10-22-2007, 09:02 AM
How do you effectively negotiate eye color?

Lapaholic
10-22-2007, 11:32 AM
^^^ What if its a non-contacts club?

Katrine
10-22-2007, 12:30 PM
although green eyes IS negotiable hehe...r

Its difficult to see eye color in an SC sometimes. I have green eyes and I have to hold a candle to my face for them to be seen. Girls with those really fake bright contacts get good response. Hey why not. Whatever it takes to entertain!

Madcap
10-22-2007, 03:44 PM
I like the hourglass figure type. I won't even try getting into numbers on a scale vs. height, whatever, i have no idea what i'm talking about with that. NOT into the emaciated cocain addict look AT ALL. It depends on the girl, but i'll always pick soimeone with a few curves over someone without them.

But that's physically. That's the least important thing. Personality beats looks damn near every time.

That said, no girl is all things to all men so don't kill yourself trying to be that.

dollyrocker
10-23-2007, 09:24 AM
I like tall, Amazonian, long-haired brunettes.
A girl to tower over & dominate me.

Oops.....have I shared too much???


Heeey, come to PHX! I'll tower over and dominate you REAL GOOD. }:D }:D

ARCOR
10-23-2007, 05:27 PM
I like younger girls, slender, 5'7" and up with perky boobs. :D
Blond, Brunette it doesn't matter but no fat chix or overally tattooed.

I get asked all the time at clubs "what your type?"
I say I don't have one but really it kinda hard to ansewer, "younger girls, slender, 5'7" and up. with perky boobs."

Yeah, I know I am pickey. /:O

PokerLover
10-23-2007, 05:44 PM
Must be femmine looking. Defined breasts and hips.
Don't like really large breasts and bad boob jobs.
Curvy is fine, over-weight isn't.

To be honest, personallity matters the most. Someone who's energetic, is fun to be around, at least creates the illusion of having fun, flirty and can get into my head a bit.

ironmaidern
10-26-2007, 01:08 PM
Fake Boobs - Got to go. Also, girls with big boobs don't have anywhere to put them so a nipple is always being forced in my mouth.

Big Booty - I like big butts however dancer must be clean & smells good in this area.

A little fat is good however, there is a such thing as being too thin or too fat. I saw a very cute girl last night but she was overweight....prevented me from asking her for a dance.....

I stay away from "very" skinny girls because I am suspicious they either shoot up, smoke crank or have HIV. Again, I don't really care of what others say....this is a common perception. So I always judge a girl as being healthy as having the big ole booty, a little tummy is OK, but leave the fake boobs at home.

Sophia_Starina
10-26-2007, 01:17 PM
Fake Boobs - Got to go. Also, girls with big boobs don't have anywhere to put them so a nipple is always being forced in my mouth.



Bwahahahaha! You seem to have some sort of complex about nipples getting in your mouth. Did you have a traumatic nipple-related experience?

yoda57us
10-26-2007, 08:25 PM
Bwahahahaha! You seem to have some sort of complex about nipples getting in your mouth. Did you have a traumatic nipple-related experience?

I know, jeeezz, he says it like it's a bad thing.../:O