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tempest666
11-21-2010, 10:37 AM
What it boils down to is we all like what is different from us, regardless of nationality.

Addison
11-21-2010, 10:51 AM
I'm not sure if this is even relevant or not but this is an all-time hilarious rip-off story:

I was working in Dallas, in a multi-level club, on the cusp of day/night shift. This black man, probably early 30's, approached me for dances. I obliged, and we were dancing upstairs for several songs. I kept trying to get him to pay up every song, but he said he needed to go to the ATM first (no problem, we have 3 of them in the club). So after about 4 songs I started to relax because I figured, "I keep asking him if he wants to keep going, he's aware of our song count, and he knows how much he owes, and he's already told me the money situation". After our 9 total songs, he must have bust, and we went downstairs to the ATM. The ATM we went to is towards the back of the club in a little booth, and out of respect, I always accompany them, but I stand to the side so they don't think I'm eyeing their pin code or some nonsense. Well, I'm standing there waiting for him to finish and I see money coming out, but when I turn around the double service doors that are a few yards away are swung open. Yes. He dashed out the double service doors, while I stood there like an idiot waiting for him to finish his withdraw. I know this says nothing about black customers in general, but what a funny experience. I was so mad at first, but after two minutes, all I could do was laugh my ass off and get a shot of tequila. I mean really, who dashes out the back doors? The funniest part though?? The guy was wearing a track suit. Yes, that's right - he walked in the club knowing he was going to set a new track record running out those doors. Hilarious.

Graziella

This had me LMAO! The track suit was the icing on the cake!

xGigi
11-21-2010, 06:48 PM
I think almost every dancer is guilty of taking one quick glance over at a customer and automatically assuming he won't like you or doesn't have money because of how he looks.

I find that the best way to deal with that problem though is just make the guy think that you like HIM. I get asked all the time by black guys "oh so have you ever been with a black guy?" and they're always surprised to hear that I have in fact been with more black men than white men and they LOVE it.

you've probably heard a guy say "I think all women are beautiful." it's uncommon for a guy to have a "type" so if you make him that that he's YOUR type, you automatically become HIS type.

tempest666
11-21-2010, 06:59 PM
*looks at ass* I know I'm their type }:D

Heatherette
11-22-2010, 01:41 PM
like lizette, i am also asian american, and although ive been told i have a nice ass, it's really on the small side so im always hesitant to approach black guys. however, one of my club's best customers (one of mine also) is a black guy and he is such a nice and respectable guy. he always promises about 5 or so girls dances/15 min rooms and goes through with them. he also tips. i once did a 1 hr with this black guy who was hilarious and we had an amazing long conversation before going upstairs.

aside from these two guys, i noticed that at my old floorwork club, they would always shower us with tons of singles but not really get dances. my current club is very different, no floorwork and mostly white clientele. i think a lot of black guys i have talked to at this club like to buy bottles of champagne and have girls drink with them. with these experiences, they were usually very nice but i didn't get money from them.

tempest666
11-22-2010, 01:43 PM
*purring from the vanity cocoon* Listening to "This is why I'm hot"

xGigi
11-23-2010, 08:23 AM
*purring from the vanity cocoon* Listening to "This is why I'm hot"
:rotfl::rotfl: :rotfl:

natyempress
11-23-2010, 12:42 PM
Wow this is really interesting thread. I'm black, and i not offended at all. I used to be the same way when i first started with white guys. I never approached them because i didn't think that they would like me. Now i approach everyone. I stereotype, not based on race, but more like clothes and mannerisms. I go to the oldest man in the room, first, ALWAYS. has never failed me.. Next the party dudes. I really try to avoid young guys of all races, unless its dead.

My top two clients off all time was this redneck dude from west Virginia, missing two front teeth, who told me he has always been attracted to black women, but his family gave him shit. We did a VIP and he talked about how he used to love pam grier, Said the thing he loved about me was my hair. ( i wear it naturally kinky curly).

and this young trust fund baby.

I generally don't approach Asian men, cause they usually go for pale blondes :)

Generally i like working in a mixed club though.

natyempress
11-23-2010, 12:48 PM
I think Latinos like all women. I sat with a group of 6 Mexicans. I speak Spanish, but more of a Caribbean accent, which is totally different. anyways. There were 3 black girls, 2 Asians, and one blond.

ladyambition
11-30-2010, 06:31 PM
It really is no different than any other race. Be yourself. If your curious, approach them individually. If your asian like me they will like your boldness. Most asian dancers in my club ignore them and say they are cheap. One of my best customers has been young black men. You can't expect every race to be the same. Just like asians, we aren't all the same.

But to me, maybe I am just accepting of people for who they are becus I am mixed (half asian and half puerto rican) but all my friends are from everywhere. If your bold and true to yourself you can win anyone over. but sure enough it makes it even easier for me when girls going around saying oh this girl meaning me"s mann in black. Hahhaha which is true. So I see no color in people and you shouldn't either. Go getg your hustle on!

Jay12
12-03-2010, 04:23 PM
Like half of my regular customers are black dudes because they just love my huge ass.

Jay12
12-03-2010, 04:25 PM
I think Latinos like all women. I sat with a group of 6 Mexicans. I speak Spanish, but more of a Caribbean accent, which is totally different. anyways. There were 3 black girls, 2 Asians, and one blond.

YEs, they do like all women. Remember that Spanish is spoken by people of all colors and races, so they're used to diversity.

kaiarose
12-03-2010, 04:27 PM
This hustle doesn't work with everyone but because it's my personality style, it works for me :) I will go up to a black guy and say "Would you like some vanilla with your chocolate??!" It usually gets a laugh.. Making them or any guy laugh is really important I think. I will also say, "Hey baby, I'm black from the waist down" (turn around and show them my very bubbly booty, do a booty pop or two, turn back around and giggle) I've never had problems getting dances from them.

Pure
12-03-2010, 04:47 PM
This hustle doesn't work with everyone but because it's my personality style, it works for me :) I will go up to a black guy and say "Would you like some vanilla with your chocolate??!" It usually gets a laugh.. Making them or any guy laugh is really important I think. I will also say, "Hey baby, I'm black from the waist down" (turn around and show them my very bubbly booty, do a booty pop or two, turn back around and giggle) I've never had problems getting dances from them.

Ugh, I find this corny and tasteless....I hate when I go to a club with my hubby and his friends( black men) and a white girl comes and does some variation of this. Don't try to prove your booty worthy of black folks attention. It either is or ain't.... Just be yourself. It's way more attractive. This is not personal to you KaiaRose, if it works for you stick with it, those are just my thoughts on that approach

tempest666
12-04-2010, 01:35 AM
I still maintain my "black is a goth's favorite color" works ::)

kaiarose
12-04-2010, 11:35 AM
Ugh, I find this corny and tasteless....I hate when I go to a club with my hubby and his friends( black men) and a white girl comes and does some variation of this. Don't try to prove your booty worthy of black folks attention. It either is or ain't.... Just be yourself. It's way more attractive. This is not personal to you KaiaRose, if it works for you stick with it, those are just my thoughts on that approach

Like I said it's MY style.. and yeah calling me corny and tasteless is an attack, thanks.
I've never offended anyone with this line or had any eyes rolled at me so I'm going to stick with this approach. I'm a goofball and it works for me. It's all in good fun :)

Mindy Bares All
12-04-2010, 12:11 PM
I'm telling ya, they donn't give a crap! I have a nice ass, but it is by no means a bubble butt. And I have never had a complaint from a guy about it. Too me if you have a "big ass" then you are going to have big everything else, and I don't mean boobies. (There are some exceptions to my previous statement but I know that statement is going to tick some people off, well I don't care it's the truth) I have never seen a thin woman with a nice big fat ass, and I mean thin like 5'10" 127 lbs, you are not going to see a woman that size with a big ass. If I was to gain fifty lbs, then I would probably have a fat ass.

Shit. I'm a twig- 5'4" and 110. I have no boobs, so to speak, and I have a huge ass. My white friends always tell me I have a black girls ass, and I've had NUMEROUS black guys, white guys tell me I have a nice, big ass.

It's just a genetic gamble...

tempest666
12-04-2010, 12:39 PM
Like I said it's MY style.. and yeah calling me corny and tasteless is an attack, thanks.
I've never offended anyone with this line or had any eyes rolled at me so I'm going to stick with this approach. I'm a goofball and it works for me. It's all in good fun :)

You keep shaking that gorgeous ass no matter what anyone says }:D

Mindy Bares All
12-04-2010, 12:52 PM
It may be idealistic, but I just always naively assumed that in a strip club, everyone got attention from the strippers, that no one was ignored, regardless of race.

Well ladies, we've all learned a valuable, and lucrative, lesson: you could be anyone's type, so pay attention to every guy. ;)

SupaByoch
12-04-2010, 01:44 PM
I've never had any trouble getting dances with black men. Most say they love my ass/legs or just my general figure (by measurement I'm the very definition of a natural hourglass but kinda athletic). I don't have a huge ass but it is pretty nice.

I think the main thing though, is that I'm very confident, approach them very directly like any other customer, and have some serious attitude. In my experience black men tend to appreciate my attitude more than any other race. Of course some men of any race like me, but there are still patterns I've noticed over the years.

Pure
12-04-2010, 03:01 PM
Like I said it's MY style.. and yeah calling me corny and tasteless is an attack, thanks.
:)

if you read carefully I said I find "this" corny and tasteless.... This being the style of approach, not YOU as a person. I thought I made that clear./:O

crystalize
12-06-2010, 07:14 AM
just like with white men, any man in fact, you never ( REALLY never) know by what they look like what they're gonna be into. That'S the one thing I learned for sure. The only thing that I've noticed different about black guys (young/old/professional/whatever) they are looking for a beautiful girl (whatever that may be to the individual), meaning if they don't like you physically, good luck trying to change their mind. They usually are also not afraid to show you they're not interested and I don't hear the usual dumb excuses from them (just here to have a drink/maybe later, etc). Not all of them like thick girls. I would say their taste is just as varied as white people's.

ManyRoses
12-10-2010, 06:53 PM
I think that black men, sadly, get a really bad rep in the club for being cheap, or sleazy, or whatever....(please note - I am not saying that this is a deserved rep - it just seems to be an assumption of many dancers) I think that this has something to do with the type of black men that I come across in clubs - especially in my city (which is predominantly white, or asian) practically the only black men that come in are waving their doucebag flag high - expensive labels with some relation to tattooing (affliction, ed hardy, whatever) big hoodies, low slung jeans, HUGE fake bling in their ears...swaggering, being rowdy (not the good kind of rowdy) trying to grab the girls, referring to them as "bitches" etc etc....I thought that I was maybe being a little racist by ignoring these guys, until I realized that I wasn't ignoring them because they were black - I was ignoring them because they were ASSHOLES!

I ignore the white guys that come in packing this kind of attitude too, because most of the time, even if I'm getting dances from them (the rare occasions they will "stoop" to paying for it) it puts me in such a foul mood that it throws off my hustle. If a guy comes in who is black (or any color, really!) and who is dressed nice, or who is sitting with friends in jeans and a t-shirt having a normal conversation, or who is on their own having just got off work - I'm there in a heartbeat!

tempest666
12-11-2010, 01:01 AM
I did the full on goth thing today and it worked....I walked up to them and purred "Well I have black on me how about some black in me?" }:D damn I love being a little goth girl with a big ass life is grand.

anosrepanosrep
12-11-2010, 08:25 AM
Lizette, I'm sorry they called you names =(. some people can be so classless and should just be ignored. you shouldn't feel intimated to approach black men, they actually really like petite asian women. I can't do the super ghetto act lol, i sound and look stupid when I try. don't know why, but black men like it when I call them big daddy, regardless of their social class. It makes them laugh and help break the ice. maybe you can try that out.

Jay12
12-15-2010, 01:10 PM
I think almost every dancer is guilty of taking one quick glance over at a customer and automatically assuming he won't like you or doesn't have money because of how he looks.

I don't think like that; I think that I'm God's gift to men and homesexual women. ;D;D;D;D


you've probably heard a guy say "I think all women are beautiful." it's uncommon for a guy to have a "type" so if you make him that that he's YOUR type, you automatically become HIS type.

I've known a few guys that have a "type", but I tell them: "well today, I'm your type, so shut up."