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Silky
12-24-2005, 01:45 PM
I am 21 and was dating a 35 year old for a little bit but it's not working out. The age part wasnt why... we got along very well, but i was not ready to be physical as he was.
To me age is just a number as long as the two have somewhat similar life goals.... values... and stuff in common =)
I just left him a drunk-dial phone message lastnight telling him how i thought he was a great guy and sorry that i yelled(one night i got mad at him) and that my issues had nothing to do with me. Yep and i left it with a sweet merry xmas, you do not have to return my call. We are still friends and all i guess.
MishaBliss
12-24-2005, 02:06 PM
i'm just 27 and my husband is 33 in a couple of months.
The oldest guy i've been with was 12 years older than me.
GoldCoastGirl
12-25-2005, 07:04 PM
My only LTR wsa around 3 years long... we got togther when I was 23 and he was 32. That has so far been my longest and only real LTR.... and he's also been the biggest age gap. Mostly I date a little older as I'm 27 now.. so I'll looking at men in their 30s.
I would only date men 40+ if we "meshed" however I have hardly met any that weren't "dirty old men" (as such). I'm not speaking about within the club either.
I prefer to be the younger person in the relationship, if possible.
KamrynAnne
12-27-2005, 05:44 PM
dated a few men in their forties. they are always sweet and will go out of their way to do anything for you, but hands down in my experiences the sex is usually a lot better with some of the men closer to my age (23) then the older guys.... but i guess ya never know....
Silky
12-27-2005, 06:52 PM
blah my post should have said i told the older guy my issues had nothing to do with him.
Kamryn did you have any fantasies beforehand about sex with an older man?
I have those fantasies sometimes(with men atleast 10 years older than myself) and thats why i thought it may be great sex for me. I may possibly try it when i am comfortable enough with someone to have sex again.
jadenphilly
12-29-2005, 02:10 PM
My So is 7 years older than I am we have been together for 7 years, and I have always just wound up dating older men. For as long as I can remember. But I have also known some really inmature older worse some of the young guys that I know. Age is REALLY just a number.