View Full Version : Ever do a custie?
BrunetteGoddess
12-12-2005, 11:03 PM
Yup, my now S.O. was my first lap dance when he was just my friend and now I've been doing him at least 5 times a day for a week now ;)
Tigress
12-13-2005, 09:33 AM
I can admit the truth sure I have done it a few times, when I was single. Why not like everyone says we are only human! So I'm a skank along with you guys!
threlayer
12-14-2005, 07:20 AM
It can't be both?? Um I mean, yeah, "do" is for fun. "Service" is for money.
Sex is fun. Money is fun. Sex for money would seem to be more fun (fun squared). But on the pink site, it doesn't often seem to be. I have heard that the 'best' call girls have fun, in spite of the stereotypes. (Best as regarded by their clients.)
But what do I know? I've never gotten a dollar for providing sex.
MeganS
12-14-2005, 07:27 AM
I'm a dirty rotten slut bag, and I LOVE sex! Married a custie, dated a few, and engaged in a little bit of sexual activity! Shit, I work so much, it's become my social life!
threlayer
12-15-2005, 09:46 AM
I'm a dirty rotten slut bag, and I LOVE sex!
To me this translates to "I LOVE sex!".
Now if you steal, maim, deal drugs, and are a gossip-monger, then perhaps the whole phrase applies. Don't let that 'nasty girl' talk get to you; it could be jealousy that they cannot let go.
Quiet
12-24-2005, 07:15 PM
Don't feed the trolls! But yeah, sure. We're human.
I'm not a troll >:( ! By the way what is a troll I have heard that term used on boards but I don't know what it means besides having negative connantation.
dlabtot
12-24-2005, 07:23 PM
I'm not a troll ! By the way what is a troll I have heard that term used on boards but I don't know what it means
If you don't know what one is how do you know you aren't one?
lol
yoda57us
12-24-2005, 07:38 PM
That was gonna be my next question....
onlythebest
12-24-2005, 07:47 PM
Why isn't this thread shut down yet?????
tampadancer
12-25-2005, 12:17 AM
yep, sure have.
}:D
**Dream**
12-25-2005, 01:05 AM
Yeah 1, and it was the biggest mistake of my got damn life! Well I guess it was just bad choices in men, but still I will never do it again.
ex-lurker
12-25-2005, 09:06 AM
Met a couple of bf's while working. Never works. Never.
Except for the times that it does. :)
I do agree though that the dynamic works against it working most of the time.
Desiree
12-28-2007, 08:33 PM
I don't think I'm a bad person for saying yes... its sort of the same as meeting a guy in a bar, and having a one night stand. You already know why he's there, and if you know that going in, what's wrong with having a little fun?
I've only done it twice... one was just a guy who I thought was smokin' hot who was at the club for a bachelor party. (He looked like Orlando Bloom's twin I swear!) We did it once and that was it. The other one was a guy who had definite sugar-daddy potential, but I actually liked him and thought he was hot. And he was really good in bed.
And I don't regret either one bit!
Lysondra
12-28-2007, 08:35 PM
^ Ooooold thread.
But, um, yes. <3
VegasPrincess
12-28-2007, 08:36 PM
Twice. They were both guys I met at SR in Vegas, both hot, and I must have good judgement because I still speak to them both even though I met one 4 and one 3 years ago.
That said, I would not be comfortable with somebody I was fucking still being a custy of mine. Once you fuck em, they are no longer custies.
(they can still buy me presents and give me money and shit though ;) )
GoldCoastGirl
12-28-2007, 08:53 PM
My response in this OLD thread still is true!
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showpost.php?p=646997&postcount=43
He has been the one and the only ... and hopefully the last as well!
missfOxxy
12-28-2007, 09:01 PM
nope but i've done strippers :P
xoxoGracexoxo
12-28-2007, 09:17 PM
I remember this thread! Could swear I posted in it at the time, but apparently not. Anyway, my answer has changed.
About this time last year I hit it off really well with a customer and invited him to meet me and my boy outside the club for a potential threesome. We all got along great and had a fun evening downtown...my guy and I were down, but the other dude ended up chickening out at the last minute. No hard feelings, though. We all parted on good terms.
I've yet to meet another customer who turned me on so much. Maybe it was a once-in-a-stripping-career type of thing.
krchab99
12-28-2007, 09:35 PM
Well. I'll be the skank. Yes. And if I happened to feel like it I would do it again.
somone else qouted this but i want to to alos. Thank you enough said.
Sparxxx
12-28-2007, 10:57 PM
nope, i could never jeopardize my relationship with my husband, but if i were single.............:thumbsup: :thumbsup:
SundayMorning
12-29-2007, 11:36 AM
Haven't, but I wouldn't rule it out. Big spender, good rapport, right mood--I don't think it's likely that the stars will all align to make it happen, but it is possible.
cutey5032
12-29-2007, 11:51 AM
I've never even so much as given someone my number to go on a date. I'm in a relationship though. I think in all of 3 years, I was VERY physically attracted to one guy, and once I went to the CR with a really cool guy that I would have definitely dated. But besides those 2 instances, I think it would feel too weird.
shasta
12-29-2007, 12:28 PM
[QUOTE=
In 5 1/2 years of dancing, I've been attracted to 2 other guys. But I didn't go through with it, and far more importantly, they didn't bring it up.
Hey "Quiet"...good name to live up to! Yikes...[/QUOTE]
In my experience it is never the ones that bring it up that I would want to "do."
Though about it, but no.
cherry_sin
12-29-2007, 12:32 PM
I've done two custies. One was a big chested blonde girl and the other was a small, mousy little lesbian who just seemed so - awesome.
And lots of strippers.
cameron_keys
12-29-2007, 12:42 PM
I thought I responded to this the first time around, but I guess not.
I've done it twice. But they werent really customers....they were locals that hung out in the bar(this is common in Key West).
Took FOREVER to shake both of them even though I told them up front I was married, not lookig for a relationship and just wanted sex. They both claimed to fall in love and wouldnt stop calling me. One emailed not too long ago when he found me on myspace...I was with him @SIX YEARS ago. He's in his 40's, has kids, and works for the Dea/Cia and just spent several years in Bagdad. Not like he doesnt have a life so just obsesses over me.The only pic on his myspace profile(outside of an old one of himself) was one of me he took back then. Creepy
I doubt I'd ever do it again. It wasnt worth it.
ahmeerah
12-29-2007, 01:02 PM
Once, yes. I don't think the second time counts.
sol_de_pr2
12-29-2007, 01:24 PM
I do not 'look down' upon patrons and customers however it is just a personal preference to not 'sleep' with those who have seen me naked first.Huh, even OUTSIDE the club????? j/k;D
NatalieFRPhilly
12-29-2007, 02:21 PM
I have..he was my last boyfriend BAD IDEA! Now I'm gonna see him in the club whenever I'm working and he's there and it will just suck.
PhillyDancer1982
12-29-2007, 02:26 PM
LOL yes, many times...
When I first started dancing, I was a Model Stripper as far as following the rules. But one time, it was a cold snowy night and I really didn't feel like going through the cold and taking 3-4hrs to get home via late night mass transit(I didn't have a car and I couldn't afford a taxi at the time). These really cute Irish guys came to my club and they asked if I wanted to hang out with them afterwards, so how could I turn down the lure of hot Irish guys + a nearby place to crash so that I could avoid taking 3 busses and a train home? So I ended up staying with the one blonde Irish guy and banging him hahaha. It was a lot of fun...but months later, those same guys would come back to the club and bring like literally 10-15 of their Irish friends, who'd recently moved from Ireland to the States to join them. These Irish guys were loud, obnoxious drunks...but a lot of fun and if they took a liking to you(most of them seemed to like me pretty well), you could get a lot of money out of them LOL. I wanted to bang a few of the other Irish guys as well, but by this time I had a boyfriend...him and the Irish guys did NOT like each other at all hahaha.
Oh yeah there was another customer I banged from my first club. This one really cool, fun customer(23 yrs old) hit it off really well with my now-ex boyfriend when my now-ex visited the club one time(this was before my now-ex and I were monogamously dating). They started hanging out and became good buddies for a short time, and I would hang out with them. I started banging both this guy and my now-ex...it was a Threes Company situation. The customer even invited me on his trip to Aruba with his family! He was a really cool guy, but jealousy issues between him and my now-ex caused huge rifts and then I stopped associating with him. The last I heard, he passed away only a few months before my now-ex, which makes me feel terrible that I didn't try to make amends with him or see how he was doing. :(
Now I don't know if he really counts as a customer to me, since technically I met him before I ever got involved with dancing, but...there was this really cute guy from Poland that I would sometimes bang(LOL obviously I go for the foreign guys...can't you tell?). We met long before I started dancing, but then I would see him frequent my clubs a lot with his Polish buddies, so I started to get to know him better from coming into the clubs. It's been a year and a half since he's seen me dance, but we sometimes still talk and hang out. I even tried hooking him up with my best girl friend. I used to mock him for trying to pick up dancers at the club, but I guess I wasn't any worse than him LOL. I guess it was a case of the pot calling the kettle black? IDK LOL.
During the last several months that I was dancing, I was burned out and didn't care about dancing nearly as much anymore. I cared more about my own enjoyment than following stupid rules that most girls broke anyway. I remained a clean, rule-abiding dancer at work, but...I would frequently exchange numbers with hot young customers and then hang out with them outside of work, where I was legitimately able to bang them. I met so many hot guys from work! There had to be around half a dozen customers that I banged during that time hahaha.
And now onto my current club...I don't dance, but I work as a cocktail server/shotgirl. LOL I am VERY WELL KNOWN at my club for picking up customers and managers' friends, but luckily the managers don't care...everyone laughs it off and thinks it's amusing, probably because they know me well enough to know that I'm doing it for the fun of sex, NOT prostitution. Here's a condensed list of some people I met at my club that I've banged:
- the floor manager's 33-yr-old older brother
- the club owner's 28-yr-old friend
- the DJ/manager's 30-yr-old good friend (also friends with 2 former barbacks)
- this Irish "regular" customer who comes in a lot and works at another bar a block away
- a cute blonde that works in finance in NYC
- this guy that was visiting the States from Sweden for his friend's wedding/bachelor party
There were a few guys that were total dick teases though, acting like they wanted to meet up afterwards and then bouncing. Dumb cunts. Ugh. Ironically, the very two guys that "dick teased" me in the past BOTH showed up(first time in like half a year) at my club last Friday(not at the same time though). I reacted cooly by playing the passive-aggressive card. They both said "hi" and were all like, "Remember me?! We talked so much the other time I was here!" and I pretended to not even recognize them, as if they're one of 100000 meaningless customers to me haha.
There's probably others that I'm forgetting, but anyway...it's definitely a big running joke at my club that I'm not afraid to hit on hot customers and seduce them afterwards.
AudreyLeigh
12-29-2007, 03:02 PM
Yes and he is now my husband :)
Silverback
12-29-2007, 08:50 PM
Yes and he is now my husband :)
That'll teach him! :P
LittleMissy
12-29-2007, 09:24 PM
No custies, but stripper love is amazing :)
Casey4Now
12-29-2007, 10:16 PM
Nope not at the club, but 1 at my 9 to 5 and I married him. Does that count?
britt244
12-30-2007, 12:18 AM
I have..he was my last boyfriend BAD IDEA! Now I'm gonna see him in the club whenever I'm working and he's there and it will just suck.
oh god.. remember my whole brian mess?! call me missy!
i have. i think.. 2.. but i might be forgetting. i used to drink a lot. as you know. and i messed around but didnt sleep with another.
when i worked at hooters i used to hang out with guys from there all the time. did some stupid stuff.. but a guy i met on my first night there i still am friends with to this day.
mollyzmoon
12-30-2007, 12:28 AM
Yeah, once. We ended up dating for a few months.
misslizzy
12-30-2007, 03:38 AM
Yes, but we met while I was still bartending. We ended up involved for a couple of months, and it ended not so well. If we had met a week later, after I started stripping, I wouldn't even have entertained the notion.
I get a lot of "would that I hadn't met you here" moments, but I'm not sure I coul get past the "nasty custy" association.
laplover69
12-30-2007, 08:03 AM
Kind of a shame that some "dancers" label "customers" as "pervs" and customers label dancers as "whores". What an unfair trap... I don't judge a book by it's cover, but unfortunately some people of both sexes do...
poca-sita
12-30-2007, 09:47 AM
put me down as a skank too! 1 customer a few times and 1 hot blonde stripper from an out of town club. but all times my husband was there "assisting" so it wasnt like i was cheating. would be fun to find another custy/dancer im attracted to but i guess im too picky.
zxcire
12-30-2007, 10:26 AM
No.
But I wanted to a few times.
Desiree
12-30-2007, 02:55 PM
Oh yeah, I forgot to mention...I boned like the HOTTEST of HOT girl that used to work at my old club... and her boyfriend. I mean the first time I met the boyfriend he was in the club. Does that count?
sun child
12-30-2007, 04:14 PM
It was the hottest fuck of my life. He was an ex-Marine ex-NYC firefighter who was still fighting fires and starting up his own construction business. I met him in the club when he was there with some of his firefighter buddies. He spent no money (think he might have brought some drinks) and I got his phone number because he was so cute. I called him and drove about 25 minutes to go see him. His body was amazing and he was amazingly sweet and complimentary. I usually go for the skinny musician heroin-addicted types so branching out was good for me. He was a good boy. I followed up with one more visit but then I had to move away. No regrets.
The only negative was that he wanted to watch a freakin' fireman movie after the deed. Not Backdraft but another one.
stellaforstars
12-30-2007, 04:15 PM
Not willingly.
Bella21
12-30-2007, 04:16 PM
I never have and I never will. I don't know if it's because I view them as icky as soon as they walk in the door or because once they walk through that door, they are a wallet and not a person... Probably some combination of both, depending on the guy.
^ you are a troll. and probably a man.
:rotfl:
So true
And to answer the question:
No. I have not banged a custie. But thats not cause I couldnt. LOL
Sindi
12-30-2007, 06:12 PM
Not sex but I have fooled around with my share and I look forward to doing agian xoox
Kaylinn
12-30-2007, 06:30 PM
Yes. I banged a custy. twice.
Once when I was young and dumb. I foolishly went on a date with this cute young guy who tried his hardest and suceeded in getting into my pants. Not my proudest moment. After that the rule became no dating customers.
And then the second act. A couple who had spent a conciderable amount of money on me in the club offered me a few thousand to have a threesome with them. I never had a threesome before, it sounded fun, they were cool, wealthy, and a generally "together" type of couple, so I went for it.
I met them at their room, had fun with the wife, let the husband bang me, got paid and left.
Victoryx0x0
12-31-2007, 08:28 PM
No, I have just admired from afar... i have met some good dude's since Ive been dancing, but they will make some other woman happy some day
DominicaBella
12-31-2007, 10:37 PM
Once when I was younger. I went out with a guy I met at a bachelor party I was doing for his uncle. We dated for awhile. Doubt I'd do it again.
Sindi
12-31-2007, 11:41 PM
Yes. I banged a custy. twice.
Once when I was young and dumb. I foolishly went on a date with this cute young guy who tried his hardest and suceeded in getting into my pants. Not my proudest moment. After that the rule became no dating customers.
And then the second act. A couple who had spent a conciderable amount of money on me in the club offered me a few thousand to have a threesome with them. I never had a threesome before, it sounded fun, they were cool, wealthy, and a generally "together" type of couple, so I went for it.
I met them at their room, had fun with the wife, let the husband bang me, got paid and left.
Good for you !! I would have , hope I get too xo
Desiree
01-20-2008, 03:07 PM
And then the second act. A couple who had spent a conciderable amount of money on me in the club offered me a few thousand to have a threesome with them. I never had a threesome before, it sounded fun, they were cool, wealthy, and a generally "together" type of couple, so I went for it.
I met them at their room, had fun with the wife, let the husband bang me, got paid and left.
I've been offered a few thousand to do this once, and was kind of scared and didn't do it. The husband was ok, but I was more interested in the wife. Plus who knows, they could turn out to be psychos and kick my ass. I don't know, maybe I'm just paranoid. I hope I get another opportunity to get paid for the threesome thing. There's a sexy couple that comes into the club a lot and they both seem very interested in me. I know the husband has lots of money because we do lots of rooms together both just him and with his wife. I would do them both for free, but I don't because I don't want them to stop paying me in the club.