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cinammonkisses
02-08-2006, 04:34 AM
Oh I got one!
Spend less time watching what girls are going into VIP/Champagne rooms and focus more on how spend your night in there instead!
gypsy_girlchild
02-08-2006, 11:50 AM
^^^ i actually knew girls that would watch me get dances, keep count and then try to top me, that was their goal of the evening... worked for them and worked for me, kept it light and nonthreatening, but boy did they work it!
anomar
02-08-2006, 01:32 PM
Develop savings goals early. I like to have a few different ones -- put $400 toward my cc debt every month, save about $1000 for summer rent, etc. It's a good way to set smaller goals (i.e., I want to make $500 tonight so I can put money toward my goals) and also goes hand-in-hand with careful income tracking. As Malibu said, watch your earnings and see if you can figure out what your best nights for dances are, for stage tips, etc.
Also, find a way to quickly center yourself if you experience stress. I love being able to duck into the bathroom, close my eyes and visualize for thirty seconds -- I'm refreshed for a few more hours after that.
velour1141
02-21-2006, 02:05 PM
Don't do anything you feel uncomfortable doing just for the $$, customers sometimes forget that we are entertainers, not prostitutes!
dutchsofa
02-24-2006, 09:51 PM
Stop slouching!
papillonluvr
02-25-2006, 11:59 PM
Drink water! If you don't keep hydrated, then you will get sick, dizzy, headachy, etc.
And please don't come to work sick-I don't want your germs and I am sure the custy's dont either.
mollyzmoon
02-28-2006, 11:18 AM
Stay out of the club drama, as much as is humanly possible. Do not sleep with coworkers (sounds easy, doesn't it?). It'll really kill your sales to be too distracted to pay enough attention to the customers or the job at hand.
AnnaPDX
03-06-2006, 12:01 PM
A lot of good stuff has already been said, but I second the recommendations to save money and keep track of earnings. I keep a detailed spreadsheet on my computer: how much I made each shift, what shift and day of the week, how many hours, which club. At the end of each month I add it all up and calculate what I made per hour overall. That has really helped me keep my attitude more positive, because on the really bad days where I make like $40 total I can remind myself that it all balances out to a pretty fucking good hourly wage, MUCH better than I could be making in any other job. It's also interesting to try to spot patterns in your earnings and see if you can figure out what was going on in your life/the world to explain why some months you do really well and others you don't.
daphnecat
03-06-2006, 12:39 PM
I try to make friends with the doormen and waitresses, they know who is willing to spend a lot by the tips. I try to call the most upbeat waitresses when I 'm with good customers they in turn call me when a high roller asked about the best dansers, it all comes down to scratch my back and I'll scratch yours. This also works with the other girls seems like the nights I compliment a girl on their dress ,song whatever, is the night that she will bring me along to join the customers she hustled and I then will return the favor. This is a good strategy when you know atleast ten girls a night and they all owe you one from last week. Always remember to say thank you, because they didn't have to call you over.One danser is strong but a group of girls working together is dangerous....
cinammonkisses
03-06-2006, 12:40 PM
Stay out of the club drama, as much as is humanly possible.
Ain't that the truth 8) Girls at my club like to plop down next to me and get to gossiping. I just smile, and then politely excuse myself.
My mom always told me: Never gossip, when you do, what YOU said will come back on you. No one else will care what anyone else had to say but YOU.
So, with that being said, I don't gossip. ;)
Angel1112
03-06-2006, 09:39 PM
confidence,a positive attitude and smile,flirt,be friendly and approachable..always look busy better yet be busy,be a classy lady...eye contact
sexy_celeste
03-07-2006, 03:47 AM
A lot of good stuff has already been said, but I second the recommendations to save money and keep track of earnings. I keep a detailed spreadsheet on my computer: how much I made each shift, what shift and day of the week, how many hours, which club. At the end of each month I add it all up and calculate what I made per hour overall. That has really helped me keep my attitude more positive, because on the really bad days where I make like $40 total I can remind myself that it all balances out to a pretty fucking good hourly wage, MUCH better than I could be making in any other job. It's also interesting to try to spot patterns in your earnings and see if you can figure out what was going on in your life/the world to explain why some months you do really well and others you don't.
I do the same! I have 3 consistantly high shifts which I ask for every week now, and if I get called in I check to see my average for that shift - if its no good I dont bother!
chocolatebombshell
02-22-2017, 12:52 AM
Bumping 🤗 lol
Cali1993
02-22-2017, 05:07 PM
Always ask for tips after a lap dance, VIP or champagne room (not while on stage)! I did not know to ask until I was upset one night about never getting tipped and a fellow dancer offered the advice that all I needed to do was ask. And, well, most of the time it works! But, what took a little time was perfecting the way that I asked. I do not ever just ask for a tip. I let the customer know how much he/she owes me for the cost of the dances and then I add, "And if you think I DESERVE a tip that is up to you!" Most of the time I will get a tip. I gave them a choice and did not demand a tip like it was expected. Instead the key worD here is DESERVE. I don't ask if they want to give me a tip or if they can afford it but, instead I use the word deserve. And after dancing half naked in someone lap with will generally not disagree that you deserve to be tipped so, they hand over a rip whether they originally planned to or not.