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hannah83
01-04-2006, 10:01 AM
whoa there buddy...calm down. Most of us didn't read it and can you blame us?? We don't know you, your just some random guy who came here to a STRIPPER forum to ask for relationship advice.
We don't need to read all of that to figure out what's going on. You cheated on her...and now your trying to redeem yourself by buying her love. If you didn't want honest opinions, you shouldn't have asked for it. If you don't like the response you got...well that's your own problem.
Mastridonicus
01-04-2006, 10:03 AM
Hannah,
Hats off to you m'lady.
Mast
The fire is out anyway.
kitana
01-04-2006, 10:04 AM
What the fuck...are we the dear fuckin abbey of the net now?
Dear Stripperweb,
My life is going to shit cuz I fell in love with a hottie and then stuck my dick in some ho, now my girl won't talk to me anymore what should I do?
Signed,
Pathetic Loser
Dear Pathetic Loser,
Grow up! Don't go looking for answers on a website designed for exotic dancers and the adult entertainment industry employees, we don't give a rats ass
edit...maybe we should start an advice colum, I volunteer to give advice to the lovelorn!\
OMG, Blade I love you!
Truer words have never been written!
kitana
01-04-2006, 10:14 AM
I am very appreciative for the feedback I have received but I am no dummy. U cant sum me up in a negative fashion and in the same breath admit that u didn't even read the story! That demands a lashback, its direct to my character. We all adults here.
Ok, well I for one suffered through the whole thing.
And I have to say you are an asshat. You fucked around on the "love of your life", you threw away her trust in you and everything else that was percious, and you actually EXPECT her to be ok with that???????! What a nutjob.
First off, this is not Dear Abby, this is not your local crisis center, this is also not your head shrinker's office. This is web site for EXOTIC DANCERS to discuss OUR lives at work and at home. What in the blue hell makes you think that we are not only qualified to help you, but that we actually care in the first place?
Grow up, you fucked around, and you deserve to be single for it.
Either admit it and start paying for the PRIVLEDGE of her love, or do the girl a favor and leave so she can find a real man.
Blade
01-04-2006, 10:16 AM
Ya know fuckers I also went and posted sound advice! Can SOMEONE at least comment on my thoughtfulness and compassion or do I have to skin some poor schmuck alive?
onlythebest
01-04-2006, 10:34 AM
I am very appreciative for the feedback I have received but I am no dummy. U cant sum me up in a negative fashion and in the same breath admit that u didn't even read the story! That demands a lashback, its direct to my character. We all adults here. What does your quote say?............
Piss me off and screw me over and it's gonna be Defcon 1 for you!!!
CHINESE BIG BOOBS!!!
What does my quotes have to do with this???
sir dickie
01-04-2006, 10:35 AM
Ok I'm going to go out on a limb and do something I don't usually do, I'm going to be nice. I will try to offer some deep insightful advice here.....
My wife is a Leo and I am an Aquarious, everyone told us we wouldn't work and for the last 10yrs we have...she is my soulmate, my life, my reason for breathing, so I can understand being blown out of the water by a woman and wanting to give her the world.
You cheated on her with an ex..that's 2 MAJOR sins right there and if I read correctly she has self esteem issues due to weight and acne. I think one reason she seems distant is because you crushed her. I know from personal experience when a person suffers from low self esteem and the person they love cheats, it's like the world crashing down on their shoulders.
I'm assuming that along with her deep ties to her familia she has deep religious ties?
I would suggest that if you TRUELY love her, then you seek some form of counselling before the marriage.
She may only be staying with you because she a) either feels she owes you or b) she feels she can't do better. Either way you need to sit down with someone and get to the root of the problem
The wedding is most likely consuming her so she doesn't have to think about the other problems..often times people who suffer with low self esteem will focus on other tasks so as not to have to face the issues at hand
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Thanks Blade, U beat me up pretty bad earlier! LOL
Sharing ur story with me is worth so much. She knows that the cheating was just a thing, I am not interested in living that life. I have gotten advice from couples who have been through this and much worse and have triumphed and r still happy after 30+ years. This is my counseling and its free!
She loves me but really struggles in communicating with me. So I have to play a guessing game. Her self esteem is really not much different from what most women go through. I did crush her and she would happily go through life focusing on her loyalty and ignoring her own feelings. I am trying to get her out of that so that she can express herself easily. One of the replies was to use our differences as strengths and that is the direction I have been headed.
I let her read some of the replies re: our sit, and just this lil thread has begun to open her eyes in such a positive way. She would never do anything like this so her seeing “us” through others eyes is a great thing. Thanks
sir dickie
01-04-2006, 10:38 AM
Its nothing onlythebest. Sorry if I offended u in anyway. I am not here to fight.
Mastridonicus
01-04-2006, 10:39 AM
Ok I'm going to go out on a limb and do something I don't usually do, I'm going to be nice. I will try to offer some deep insightful advice here.....
Its your thread...but I still think you shoulda done that BEFORE posting it.
hannah83
01-04-2006, 10:43 AM
hey mast... look @ that response again. he just copied what blade had said, lol.
Mastridonicus
01-04-2006, 10:45 AM
Dammit Hannah.
Good call.
And you're avatar taunts me cause its exactly the expression I would expect on your face telling me that.
hannah83
01-04-2006, 10:46 AM
i won't lie Mast...i was laughing @ you. :)
sir dickie
01-04-2006, 10:47 AM
Ok, well I for one suffered through the whole thing.
And I have to say you are an asshat. You fucked around on the "love of your life", you threw away her trust in you and everything else that was percious, and you actually EXPECT her to be ok with that???????! What a nutjob.
First off, this is not Dear Abby, this is not your local crisis center, this is also not your head shrinker's office. This is web site for EXOTIC DANCERS to discuss OUR lives at work and at home. What in the blue hell makes you think that we are not only qualified to help you, but that we actually care in the first place?
Grow up, you fucked around, and you deserve to be single for it.
Either admit it and start paying for the PRIVLEDGE of her love, or do the girl a favor and leave so she can find a real man.
i dj strip clubs do I have a life here?
Im not single, she has not left me. I know that story was long and u so very busy.
Everyone on here vents and to be able to empathize as civil humans, make for a better society.
By the way, the personal attacks....very classy
hannah83
01-04-2006, 10:52 AM
i don't think you really have much room to talk about personal attacks. Weren't you the one who was making fun of OTB?
okay...i think i'm done with this thread. good luck with whatever happens.
sir dickie
01-04-2006, 10:53 AM
hey mast... look @ that response again. he just copied what blade had said, lol.
yeah I seem to be having a tech problem quoting sometimes. I figure people would figure it out. My reply is below.
sir dickie
01-04-2006, 10:56 AM
i don't think you really have much room to talk about personal attacks. Weren't you the one who was making fun of OTB?
okay...i think i'm done with this thread. good luck with whatever happens.
I didnt make fun of anyone that didnt start with me and I would never stoop to name calling. How juvi
sir dickie
01-04-2006, 11:01 AM
Its your thread...but I still think you shoulda done that BEFORE posting it.
Yeah I could not "quote" blade so I copied it as a new reply.
My reply is below that.
Congrats 2 u and Rhi on the shorty! Matzel Tov!
Mastridonicus
01-04-2006, 11:03 AM
Congrats 2 u and Rhi on the shorty! Matzel Tov!
Thanks, we've been trying for months. But finally she let me have sex with her.
Worst mistake ever.
ROFLMAO.
Mastridonicus
01-04-2006, 11:04 AM
i won't lie Mast...i was laughing @ you. :)
Well online, I prefer it that way :D
I'm good to laugh at.
GURLS R HARD.
threlayer
01-04-2006, 12:28 PM
The guy came here to get advice. I don't know why he went to a strippers site, except that we are a community, and he may have seen that.
Some of you gave him a good going over. You notice that he was respectful and didn't fight back. And he stayed.
I think the problem here was that we do get a quantity of trolls who come in, ask the stereotype questions, chuckle at the responses and then drop off their angry responses just before they leave forever. So you get tired of it. And I don't blame you. But sometimes people ask questions before they become part of the community. We'll see.
Rhiannon
01-04-2006, 12:37 PM
Thanks, we've been trying for months. But finally she let me have sex with her.
Worst mistake ever.
ROFLMAO.
Pay no attention to Mast, Sir Dickie. He lies. Mast has been sending me his potent sperm for months now and the turkey baster has been getting a workout..
So I have not let him sex me up or anything.
:laughing:
madmaxine
01-04-2006, 01:44 PM
Patt on the butt for Blade. Again, Irishmen, smartest in the Universe. It's frightening.
Blade
01-04-2006, 03:58 PM
Patt on the butt for Blade. Again, Irishmen, smartest in the Universe. It's frightening.Max touched my butt! :skips away happily singing:a hottie touched my heinnie, a hottie touched my heinnie
sir dickie
01-04-2006, 04:18 PM
The guy came here to get advice. I don't know why he went to a strippers site, except that we are a community, and he may have seen that.
Some of you gave him a good going over. You notice that he was respectful and didn't fight back. And he stayed.
I think the problem here was that we do get a quantity of trolls who come in, ask the stereotype questions, chuckle at the responses and then drop off their angry responses just before they leave forever. So you get tired of it. And I don't blame you. But sometimes people ask questions before they become part of the community. We'll see.
Thanks for the explanation, I appreciatu u taking ur time. I have been surfing back when compuserve and aol where the only isp any u were lucky if u got 14kbs. Its funny how some of the people make it seem like stippers are aliens. LOL
I work with many and because they have been throgh so much, they tend to understand a lil more than the average "hater".
Its also very funny how quick and easy people can be. Mom used to say, think, b4 u speak. Cats here just goin off on me like they know something. I can count on one hand who is actually sincere. So what if they dont know me. I have had the blessing of literally saving lives of people that I did not know, those lil paragraphs I wrote is nothing.
I am not asking for anyone to read nor can I cant tell anyone not to post, but if u not genuine and just wanna beat on sombody, then so be it. Its no skin off my back, they only expose their own evils.
sir dickie
01-04-2006, 04:53 PM
Pay no attention to Mast, Sir Dickie. He lies. Mast has been sending me his potent sperm for months now and the turkey baster has been getting a workout..
So I have not let him sex me up or anything.
:laughing:
Mast just wears his heart n his sleeve. I wish u an eventless pregnancy producing a very healthy bundle o' joy!!!!!
Rhiannon
01-04-2006, 05:18 PM
Thank you :)
madmaxine
01-04-2006, 05:42 PM
All kidding aside sir dickie, I'm speaking from the perspective of BEING a girl who dumped a couple guys because my family didn't approve. Just like "bros before hoes"- blood before men. You can't separate Latin families from eachother, you can't ignore family opinions.
You should be more worried she'll up and leave at some future date when she realizes she's not sure she wants to have kids with you......
Maybe we're just telling you what you don't want to hear. But that's OK, don't listen. Marriage ain't gonna fix a lack of trust. Nothing will.
lares
01-04-2006, 05:51 PM
if she was perfect for you, you wouldn't have even thought of having an affair w/ your ex. How do you expect her to believe you when you say "you're perfect" when your actions have said nothing but "you're not good enough so i had to get w/ someone else". the material things you have tried don't mean shit and are worthless compared to the precious trust you have broken. Marrying her will not mend this and she may never fully trust you again. Can you live your life with a woman who doesn't trust you? If you have always had problems then why are you getting married? True love only conquers when the situation makes both people happy. And that doesn't seem to be the case. As a Latina I can say that from our culture cheating is unacceptable..I really doubt she will ever truly forgive. I wish you the best, but from what you posted it seems as if the relationship may be beyond repair. But you should definitely seek counseling before giving up for good. I think counseling will help her deal with all the hurt she is still harboring inside.
Bridgette
01-04-2006, 05:53 PM
Well I read the whole thing. I'm weird like that. heh
I say:
Don't marry her. Break up with her, and don't go back.
The two of you have very different (incompatible) love styles, and that's something that really can't be changed. Also, you cheated on her, and she may not ever have truly gotten over it - she might not ever. Best to cut your losses I think and move on.
sir dickie
01-04-2006, 07:53 PM
All kidding aside sir dickie, I'm speaking from the perspective of BEING a girl who dumped a couple guys because my family didn't approve. Just like "bros before hoes"- blood before men. You can't separate Latin families from eachother, you can't ignore family opinions.
You should be more worried she'll up and leave at some future date when she realizes she's not sure she wants to have kids with you......
Maybe we're just telling you what you don't want to hear. But that's OK, don't listen. Marriage ain't gonna fix a lack of trust. Nothing will.
Max, Its nice 2 see this side of U! Her fam loves me, Anything is possible but her fam and friends would trip on her if she left me. I guess I should be clear, we dont hate each other. Our song is "No ordinary Love" ~ Sade. I am just pushing to bring out the very best in her, which only helps me. It is for the kids like u said. I want to make sure that she is not hiding from me anything that would not translate well with the future, Women will sacrafice to their own detriment. I want her to be more than a woman (sorry bee gees) and she has it but is scared to take that leap. Almost like when God is calling u but u turn away, its like that. Everyone that knows us can see it, but friends and fam always shut their lips, thats why I am here. Give it 2 me raw. Thank u dear
sir dickie
01-04-2006, 08:02 PM
if she was perfect for you, you wouldn't have even thought of having an affair w/ your ex. How do you expect her to believe you when you say "you're perfect" when your actions have said nothing but "you're not good enough so i had to get w/ someone else". the material things you have tried don't mean shit and are worthless compared to the precious trust you have broken. Marrying her will not mend this and she may never fully trust you again. Can you live your life with a woman who doesn't trust you? If you have always had problems then why are you getting married? True love only conquers when the situation makes both people happy. And that doesn't seem to be the case. As a Latina I can say that from our culture cheating is unacceptable..I really doubt she will ever truly forgive. I wish you the best, but from what you posted it seems as if the relationship may be beyond repair. But you should definitely seek counseling before giving up for good. I think counseling will help her deal with all the hurt she is still harboring inside.
Thanks Lares U rock!
She is bright, she knows that no one is perfect. She understands the nature of men too. What she has gotten from me has outbalanced out the bad and the cheating, incredibly she is not stuck on it. Its just so easy to give up. I have dumped and ran so quickly in the past that it aint funny. There has to be more to life than that. At least this one give me a challenge. I love her like no tomorrow. The cheating was like another person and it was so long ago. Once a cheater, NOT ALWAYS!!!!!! There are real men out here that can take u places u hhave never been b4 if u just believe (sorry disney). It is true. I once stopped talking to my mom for months. Now we are closer than ever. I did what I am doing with u guys for mom, I grew and learned from consulting var. lives. I thank u so much for your reply.
Bridgette
01-04-2006, 08:26 PM
Dickie, staying for the sake of staying isn't the answer either. The fact you've dumped others quickly in the past isn't a reason to stay with someone.
You say she gives you a challenge and you love her like no tomorrow. Maybe it's really the challenge you love, and not so much her.
You shouldn't have to change your lover to make it work. You should be able to accept each other as you are and make it work.
And what's this crap about the nature of men? Are you trying to excuse your infidelity by saying men are just cheaters by nature and can't help it? Because that's a load of crap.
madmaxine
01-04-2006, 11:27 PM
Sir Dickie must really be Prince Charles Nelson in disguise.
McCain
01-05-2006, 03:23 PM
McCain
...WHOAAAAA WAIT! HOLD THE HORSES BACK.
Did you say fight "over" her?
*eyes perk up*
This could be an interesting date.
Mast
:D I did, indeed, say "fight over" her.
Your choice of weapons: silk thongs, cans of Redi-Whip, or water pistols filled with lube.
If we do this right, Max might be able to charge admission, or market North American movie rights, and we can all clear a bundle.
First date, my ass. It's foreplay. ;)
~~McCain
Blade
01-05-2006, 03:27 PM
First date - my ass. I don't like a lot of foreplay. ;)
~~McCainNice! I want a first date with you before Mast
McCain
01-05-2006, 03:29 PM
Nice! I want a first date with you before Mast
You're such a smart-ass. But I suppose it's better to be the whole ass, instead of a little wisecrack. :P
~~McCain
Mastridonicus
01-05-2006, 03:31 PM
Oh, well be warned, with me, I will not let it stop with mere foreplay.
The weapons are all fine, I'll take the redi-whip.
Hope you like to be restrained. Cause if the prize is maxine, I'll make the game just as good. :D
Mast!
McCain
01-05-2006, 03:41 PM
Oh, well be warned, with me, I will not let it stop with mere foreplay.
The weapons are all fine, I'll take the redi-whip.
Hope you like to be restrained. Cause if the prize is maxine, I'll make the game just as good. :D
Mast!
WHOAAAAA WAIT! HOLD THE HORSES BACK.
Did you say "hope you like to be restrained"?
*eyes perk up*
OMG.
*Gets down on one knee*
You, my dear manbot with the cans of Redi Whip, may be the coolest thing since sliced whole wheat. And I can not lie. Dem odder sistahs cahn't dee ny.
~~McCain
(Having lost all capability of original and grammatically-correct thought after reading the part about restraints...)
Mastridonicus
01-05-2006, 03:47 PM
WHOAAAAA WAIT! HOLD THE HORSES BACK.
Did you say "hope you like to be restrained"?
*eyes perk up*
OMG.
*Gets down on one knee*
You, my dear manbot with the cans of Redi Whip, may be the coolest thing since sliced whole wheat. And I can not lie. Dem odder sistahs cahn't dee ny.
~~McCain
(Having lost all capability of original and grammatically-correct thought after reading the part about restraints...)
LOL.
I only discovered the pleasures of restraining recently. With the proper equipment it could become sublime, however I am sure you know this as well as have more to teach.
What can I say. I like butts dat cannaht moooove and I can naught liez.
Wasn't there supposed to be someone else in this? *looks around*
Underneigth the shell of every gentleman....
And to think, you're within a good...you know what? forget I said anything.
Mast!
Blade
01-05-2006, 03:48 PM
Anyone else notice this thread has been hijacked? And whilst you 2 ding-a-lings are fightin over Maxine, I've already done McCain in the butt and have fathered 7 yep 7 of Maxines kids...2 of which are now learning monkey knife fighting to protect her honour form you guys
Mastridonicus
01-05-2006, 03:48 PM
Who are you again?
*squints*
I'm just...well...the title is 'Give it 2 Me Raw'
:D
Give a whiteboy a rope and he wants to be a cowboy :-/
McCain
01-05-2006, 04:00 PM
LOL.
I only discovered the pleasures of restraining recently. With the proper equipment it could become sublime, however I am sure you know this as well as have more to teach.
What can I say. I like butts dat cannaht moooove and I can naught liez.
Wasn't there supposed to be someone else in this? *looks around*
Underneigth the shell of every gentleman....
And to think, you're within a good...you know what? forget I said anything.
Mast!
*growl* I discovered this a long time ago, but have actually had very little experience with it. Most of my partners have been a little too psychotic to be good risks, and the others have been too skittish.
And you are correct, sirrah, we are missing a few other parties in this - most notably Maxine and Blade...
Wait, I stand corrected:
Anyone else notice this thread has been hijacked? And whilst you 2 ding-a-lings are fightin over Maxine, I've already done McCain in the butt and have fathered 7 yep 7 of Maxines kids...2 of which are now learning monkey knife fighting to protect her honour form you guys
Blade, that's it. You are now officially drafted as cameraman, fluffer, and on-set childcare provider. You must perform all three jobs simultaneously without breaking any major laws, because the resulting movie is what will be paying your child support to Maxine for those 7 kids, lmao....
But, wait again, what's this?
Who are you again?
*squints*
I'm just...well...the title is 'Give it 2 Me Raw'
:D
Give a whiteboy a rope and he wants to be a cowboy :-/
Oh, okay, that explains it all. Well, they do say "Save a horse..."
~~McCain
(Men, women, it's all a buffet... and sometimes the best buffets are found at parties...)
Blade
01-05-2006, 04:03 PM
*growl* I discovered this a long time ago, but have actually had very little experience with it. Most of my partners have been a little too psychotic to be good risks, and the others have been too skittish.
(Men, women, it's all a buffet... and sometimes the best buffets are found at parties...) Chinese Bondage is a specialty of mine, except not being chinese it's more Irish bondage
Let's have a party!
McCain
01-05-2006, 04:08 PM
Let's have a party!
Okies, so...
You bring the ropes and cameras.
Mast brings the Redi Whip.
I'll bring Maxine.
If she's willing and I'm properly motivated, I might share. }:D
~~McCain
Mastridonicus
01-05-2006, 04:10 PM
Blade you couldn't father boiled water let alone have sex that doesn't resemble shooting pool with a rope. But I digress, you do fling all your other body excriments well. Hahah you know I lub ya brother! And Maxine should only be so lucky to ride the Excalibre of penis.
McCain... verrrryyyyy interesting. I havn't experienced being restrained yet, but only thing holding me back from trying is a safty word. However my bark maybe louder than my bite. The world may never know.
Oh, okay, that explains it all. Well, they do say "Save a horse..."
Do they say that now? Is that what you say?
Lets just hope the experience isn't as bad as the song.
(Men, women, it's all a buffet... and sometimes the best buffets are found at parties...)
I disagree. I find the best buffets are found in panties. But alas I digress.
Ok, gym time.
Mast!
Cally
01-05-2006, 04:11 PM
Wow you guys are sick sick fucks... nice job on the highjack though! And Blade dont forget about the 14 kids with me ;)
Blade
01-05-2006, 04:11 PM
McCain git yer boootay into chat!
Blade
01-05-2006, 04:13 PM
14? I thought we had like 23? Maybe I'm measuring kids in U.s in stead of Can?
Mastridonicus
01-05-2006, 04:15 PM
If she's willing and I'm properly motivated, I might share. }:D
I have it on good authority/assumption that I may be the one deciding to share.
I mean, I don't know if I can follow excalibre penis over there, but he's already had his way with her, and well, I'm a 'No surprises up front and honest' kinda guy, and according to you women, I don't exist.
Feeling a little third wheelish blade? :D
Mast!
Cally
01-05-2006, 04:15 PM
wait I have 14 with mast... I have 32 with you :)