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Tigress
01-06-2006, 12:05 PM
Ok ladies looking for imput here.
I have my first private show of the year tonight. He is a super regular whom I see at the club and also for private shows. Tonight I am going to his hotel for a toy show, no big deal done it lots of times. Here's the thing he is super sexy tall dark handsome 35 and extremely well off. We have had lots of fun together. Last time in town in the fall I did a toy show in his room. I really got into it seriously turned on and so did he and during he offered me 2000 for full service. I was so turned on I ALMOST did it. After I left I was like woah that was close. So now I am wondering if its offered again will I be so strong. Should I avoid the show and tell him to come to the club or continue with the plan and hope I can be super strong and no moments of weakness.
Help need to decide fast! :-[

Lena
01-06-2006, 12:31 PM
I'm not much help, I'd talk him up to 3 grand and do it.

OTOH, if you know that you don't want to do it, make it very clear ahead of time. Explain to him that it was hard to say no last time but that this boundary is very important to you and you won't cross it. Tell him that if he asks again this time, you will have to leave immediately. Make sure you get the $$ before you start the show.

Loli
01-06-2006, 01:23 PM
he is super sexy tall dark handsome 35

is this the type of guy that you would go on an ordinary date with and have sex with anyway?

LuckiCharm
01-06-2006, 02:34 PM
Tigress, think about this. if you accept that money for "full service", after you do it, its gonna be hard to turn down money like that every time someone asks you for it. your gonna be like "oh ive done it before, one more time wont hurt", but really, its not easy to turn down something youve done before. pretty soon, its gonna change your profession all together. youll go froma stripper to something a whole lot different. i know you dont think you would get that serious, but ive seen it happen so much. our industry takes alot of strength to be able to say no to "full service", no matter how much money we are offered. yeah the money is good, but what are you gonna think about yourself 20 years later? BE STRONG! and good luck whichever decision you make.

Loli
01-06-2006, 02:43 PM
if you feel guilty for accepting that money, then just donate a small portion of it to a charity such as the make-a-wish foundation. i honestly don't see anything wrong with accepting a large gift of money from an attractive guy who you'd do for free if you met him anywhere else.

Tigress
01-06-2006, 03:13 PM
Lena - thanks you 3 grand sounds better LOL And He will respect my boundries he is an awesome sweet guy
Loli - yes I totally would sleep with him outside of work
LuckiCharm - you are right once it is crossed it gets easier that would be the problem even though I would say only this one time it wouldn't be that way
I was just in the shower thinking about the situation and I still am unsure if I can say no. Arghh Once that line is crossed I am a prostitute. I am freaked out up here!!

Loli
01-06-2006, 03:21 PM
it's not "prostitution" if he pays you to star in his "movie". a pornstar isn't a prostitute...right?

mild2wild
01-06-2006, 03:25 PM
WOA, private shows are alot different in USA compared to australia!

hannah83
01-06-2006, 03:32 PM
heh...what a good idea!!! Just tape it and then destroy the tape when you leave!

Lena
01-06-2006, 03:33 PM
Obviously don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Know yourself, respect yourself, and protect yourself.

But if you're not uncomfortable with the act, only uncomfortable with the label/social construct of "prostitution," that's something different.

Tigress
01-06-2006, 03:39 PM
I am just going to go with the flow. If it happens it happens. I am just going to go and put on the show of my life and have a blast doing it. Lena you are right it is just a label and a stigma that really has no meaning. My personal boundries are there for me if I expand them then that is ok. Wish me luck! Whatever happens I know I am going to have a blast! LOL
The taping idea sounds like fun!

Darling
01-06-2006, 04:38 PM
Hey, Let us know what happened. It sure sounds super sexy. I've been in positions like that before. I didn't end up doing it. But I thought he was sexy, and ended up sorta regretting it and have spent many hours masturbating to the idea since....lol. Good luck! Just be careful!

GuyPOV
01-06-2006, 05:09 PM
Just be careful, guys can go from sweet to stupid when worked up.

susie
01-06-2006, 05:29 PM
I'd do the show make the money. Wene it's done make him go out to a resteraunt for coffee, then you take him home. He won't mind, and will understand the seporation of business and pleasure. Just make sure he understands it is a one time thing. Or, keep milking him, as he won't be likely to pay for something he feels he has posessed.

Yekhefah
01-06-2006, 06:07 PM
I know it may sound far-fetched, but what if he's a cop?

Lena
01-06-2006, 06:11 PM
I know it may sound far-fetched, but what if he's a cop?

Anything is possible, but as a general rule cop budgets don't allow for becoming a regular. If he's had the money to regularly do rooms with her and regularly get private shows with her, he's probably not a cop.

Loli
01-06-2006, 06:58 PM
i got it! i got it! :idea:

here's what you do. tell him that you want to handcuff him spread eagle on the bed. then you blindfold him. get on top of him and slide his cock into this fake vagina. he will think that he's banging your real pussy, and you will get his money. it's a win-win situation, and everybody will be happy.


http://abitnaughty.com/images/dj5520-01.jpg

just be careful not to turn on the vibrating function. he'll think that you're having a seizure. :shocking:

LittlePixie
01-06-2006, 07:10 PM
Tigress, think about this. if you accept that money for "full service", after you do it, its gonna be hard to turn down money like that every time someone asks you for it. your gonna be like "oh ive done it before, one more time wont hurt", but really, its not easy to turn down something youve done before. pretty soon, its gonna change your profession all together. youll go froma stripper to something a whole lot different. i know you dont think you would get that serious, but ive seen it happen so much. our industry takes alot of strength to be able to say no to "full service", no matter how much money we are offered. yeah the money is good, but what are you gonna think about yourself 20 years later? BE STRONG! and good luck whichever decision you make.

I have to disagree with this logic, just because you do it once doesn't mean it makes it easier the next time or that you will turn into a prostitute. My earlier career was escorting (8-9 years) and I have a lot of personal experience in the matter not to mention the thousands of people in the industry I've met or witnessed.

The situation that Tigress describes isn't a desire to try escorting as a new side job. It's about one particular person that she feels a certain attraction to making the offer tempting for personal reasons instead of strictly financial. I can't see how she would suddenly find it easier to escort because she did it once with a good regular for personal reasons.

As for the whole "did it once, it'll be easier now or harder to resist" just doesn't jive with reality. I've seen a vast larger percentage of escorts drop it forever after their first experience than those who kept going. When you do it for the first time for money only, you find out real quick if it's for you or not. Out of those who continue on, yes it is sad to say that some are doing it against their morals and wishes.

Myself, I've retired from escorting 3 years ago and never went back. Sure the money is tempting but when it's not working for you, it's just not. Time to move on to something else. Now that I'm dancing, I find my previous experience invaluable on things like standing my ground with pushy clients and hustling lots of $$$. And no, I don't do any extras at work NOR am tempted to because of my past.


Tigress: Only do it if you WANT to and because you feel some attraction and would enjoy yourself. You obviously are only considering doing this because of something more than the money if you are so conflicted about it.

If you do go ahead with it, milk the secondary benefit to it's max = $$$. If he offered you 2k before, I'd ask for double or even more! Remember that you aren't an escort therefore such a priviledged "service" is truly unique, if he's really into you and seems to have the means, I'd ask for a good 4-5k. If he dares question it or try to bargain, say that he was lucky enough to get that offer and pull it off the table.

This hustle tactic is important for two reasons. It clearly reminds your regular that this is certainly not something you offer and is in fact a very special one in a lifetime treat.

The outcome can vary if it happens and you MUST expect it to after going that extra step. He can either continue to patronize your services, dancing only or more depending on your wishes, and be an awesome regular for longer. Or, since he's obtained his ultimate goal: lose interest and slowly fade away, try and bargain you down for your services afterwards or try and initiate a personal relationship.

There is also the possibility that you develop some genuine feeling for him after getting more intimate.

So many factors that play in to this equation. You seem like a very intelligent and stable woman, I say follow your instincts and you will do fine :)

Loli
01-06-2006, 07:33 PM
LittlePixie, didn't you read my idea? *sighs* ::)

venusofwillendorf
01-06-2006, 09:03 PM
*(~gryns at loli~)* do you think any of them feel that real? i've never had any personal experience with fake pussies, and all of my cocks sit in a black box by the couch so i wouldn't know.... but damn, that'd be funny!! :)

LittlePixie
01-06-2006, 09:29 PM
LittlePixie, didn't you read my idea? *sighs* ::)

Sorry, wasn't posted when I started writing my reply...

Loli
01-06-2006, 09:57 PM
*(~gryns at loli~)* do you think any of them feel that real?
oh please...guys think that their right hands feel like real vaginas. :laughing:

i touched the outer skin on one of those vaginas at a sex store before, and it really did feel like soft human skin. if that guy is wearing a condom, then it will definitely feel real. ;)

LittlePixie
01-07-2006, 11:11 AM
Trying to con someone out of real sex who's paying lots of $$$ and very horny can lead to disastrous results. I strongly advise against it or other similar schemes. Even if there's not a lot of money involved, this is one of the best ways to turn a situation violent.

At best you can pull it off a few times, but it's inevitable that someone catches on and gets really really pissed when he discovers he's being taken for. I've never seen a woman be able to pull off this con game well or without consequence.

If you don't want to do it then just don't! Not worth the risk to fake it and get hurt...

asianlady
01-07-2006, 12:48 PM
hell if I was turned on that much . I would have said fuck it and fucked him for the sheer pleasure of it and taken the money a purely a tip. theres never a time when I could not use another 2000 take it when you can get it.the question is how often do you get that worked up. for me not that often when I do I want the freedom to take full advantage of the situation.Ok its selfish but me first

krchab99
01-07-2006, 02:36 PM
Honsetlty if he is someone you realy want to have sex with just have sex with him and don't charge. It dose seem fair to charge for something you want and plus its illeagal and not worth the risk or the hurt to your pride.

242_fair
01-07-2006, 02:54 PM
plus its illeagal and not worth the risk
It's not illigal here to prostitute.

kitana
01-07-2006, 05:08 PM
Well did you do it or not? Spill the goods sista!!!!

LOL, I have been in that situation before, I didn't take the money but the sex was great!!!!

Tigress
01-08-2006, 10:59 AM
Hi Guys! sorry I was away from the computer!
Well....... The night was...AMAZING!! LOL
I arrived and we had a glass or two of wine and I started the show By the time I was naked and doing the show I was so horned up it was just crazy. I honestly had an orgasm while using my toys after like 5 minutes! And there was no way to hide my excitement LOL
Well the offer came and I took it! With no guilt or remorse we had incredible sex...twice all safe and fun. It was a terrific night. He was so gentle the first time then the second we lost all abandon and went crazy :) All over the hotel room. So I did it ! And I loved every second of it!
Thanks for all of your support!! I was thinking of this whole thread and all the words while driving to the hotel LOL

NinaDaisy
01-08-2006, 12:36 PM
The most important thing was that you both enjoyed it and you were comfortable and happy. Plus, to be perfectly honest, $2k for full service with someone that you actually thinks is hot and turns you on isn't too shabby.

It's not like now that she's done this she's gonna do every customer that comes into her club waving a Benjamin. If you can get a nice regular hookup out of this from the guy, even better!

Loli
01-08-2006, 03:22 PM
$2k for full service with someone that you actually thinks is hot and turns you on isn't too shabby.
i agree. tigress is too lucky.

i wish i were in tigress' shoes...and her purse :P

tigress, what are you going to spend all of that dough on? do you need any help? ;D

NinaDaisy
01-08-2006, 05:28 PM
Oh honey, don't spend it all. Please tell me you'll put at LEAST half in an IRA or something. Just don't be typical and blow it on a purse.

Tigress
01-09-2006, 07:40 AM
Haaa shopping spree!!
No seriously I am going to pay a few holiday bills and put the rest in my retirement fund. I am way past the point of blowing every penny that I make!

venusofwillendorf
01-09-2006, 08:05 AM
i am so jealous of you tigress :)

Tigress
01-09-2006, 08:26 AM
Nothing to be jealous of Venus. It was just the right time and place. It could happen to anyone. It was just my turn !

asianlady
01-09-2006, 09:40 AM
as far as I am concerned good for you

MulattoKitten
01-09-2006, 09:57 AM
I know it may sound far-fetched, but what if he's a cop?

I don't think that's far fetched at all. Although, I seriously think cops need to do more IMPORTANT things with their time. Like, catching drug dealers and real criminals.

Wwanderer
01-09-2006, 11:21 AM
I don't think that's far fetched at all. Although, I seriously think cops need to do more IMPORTANT things with their time. Like, catching drug dealers and real criminals.

The undercover stings run by vice cops in the US do seem insane. I once had a lady working in a (legal) brothel in Australia essentially call me a liar to my face when I described such LE activities to her. She said that everyone knows that the serious crime problems in the US are so bad that the police would never have time to bother with such things and, furthermore, that Americans are so concerned about personal freedom and civil rights that they would never put up with the cops doing such things anyway.

-Ww

Yekhefah
01-09-2006, 11:35 AM
She said that everyone new that the serious crime problems in the US are so bad that the police would never have time to bother with such things and, furthermore, that Americans are so concerned about personal freedom and civil rights that they would never put up with the cops doing such things anyway.

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Tigress
01-09-2006, 11:52 AM
Here in Canada prostitution is legal as long as you are not running an incall. Outcalls are perfectlty legal. Also up here cops rarely bother with private incalls unless their is a complaint and almost never bother with outcalls. They do try to concentrate on more pressing matters. The US I cannot comment on