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bigbootyjudy1
12-23-2012, 10:57 PM
A year later and I still love this thread.

LaurenAus
12-23-2012, 11:42 PM
im horny

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Kellydancer
12-26-2012, 12:44 PM
Since this was bumped (and yes this is a great thread)I think I will add an update about my previous post from a year ago. I have met a man who I really like and who apparently likes me. He stares at me every time we are at an event together, he comes over just to touch me (as in we'll shake hands but then he doesn't want to let go of my hand)and will talk to me. He has also told mutual friends that he is interested in me. At a party he made a point to introduce me to his sister and she knew who I was. At an event his mom pointed me out to someone and said "that's her". His mother has met my parents at events (my dad and him both belong to the American Legion) and she has told my dad she thinks I am a nice girl. What he hasn't done though is ask me out. I was told by several mutual friends that I need to tell him I wanted to get together with him because he doesn't think I like him because he feels inferior to me. I also don't think he has much dating experience which is a new thing with me. So I have casually suggested getting together and have put the ball in his court. As it turns out he has other pressing personal issues that take priority over dating (he is struggling to keep his store afloat and he has an elderly mom he takes care of)but he has told me he wants to date me. I even asked him point blank that if he's not interested let me know and he has said he definitely is and he wouldn't lie if he isn't.

To some this may sound like a repeat of other guys and maybe it is but I am doing things differently. For one I am not pursuing him and asking him out, nor am I buying him gifts etc. Also, while I am not interested in other men I am still open to meeting other guys if they come around. I have removed most of my online dating profiles, but that wasn't because of him but because they were a waste of time and it got me upset. Maybe once he deals with his issues he will ask me out, but maybe he won't and I am still fine with that. Years ago I would have gotten upset and been sending him letters or gifts and calling him constantly. I don't do that at all. I don't even approach him at events, he approaches me (and he ALWAYS does, including at parties where I am the first person he approaches).

Blondieblue
07-17-2013, 03:22 AM
Sorry if we aren't supposed to bump old threads.... but this really stuck out for me:


If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not just mom).


I know from experience.... if a guy treats his mom, sister, or other female relatives disrespectfully... he'll eventually treat you the same way. Good thing to watch out for and remember

Blondieblue
07-17-2013, 03:23 AM
Sorry if we aren't supposed to bump old threads.... but this really stuck out for me:


If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not just mom).


I know from experience.... if a guy treats his mom, sister, or other female relatives disrespectfully... he'll eventually treat you the same way. Good thing to watch out for and remember

charlie61
07-17-2013, 12:05 PM
^Bumping old threads is totally fine! Some people seem to have a weird pet peeve about it, which I don't really understand.

Blondieblue
07-17-2013, 02:13 PM
Cool thanks. Didn't know if I broke any rules

Kellydancer
07-17-2013, 11:51 PM
This is actually a cool thread to bump. I still don't have an update about that situation but my mother told me she sees me pursuing him like I did other men and to back off. I didn't even realize I was doing this until she mentioned it but next time I see him am going to play cool. Last time I backed off he started approaching me. I am also going to let it be known other men are interested in me (not interested in them but he doesn't need to know this). My own dad told me to do this. I'll probably see him next week at an event and I invited an ex-boyfriend to come as well. However this ex-boyfriend is just a friend now and is married and my idea is to get him to see me hanging out with my ex. Not sure if he will attend yet or bring his wife and kids but either way just having him see me with another guy could be interesting.

Kellydancer
07-17-2013, 11:53 PM
Sorry if we aren't supposed to bump old threads.... but this really stuck out for me:


If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not just mom).


I know from experience.... if a guy treats his mom, sister, or other female relatives disrespectfully... he'll eventually treat you the same way. Good thing to watch out for and remember

Very true. As it turns out this guy I am interested in treats his mom amazing as he does his sisters. But yes I judge men on this.

SimoneGray
05-22-2014, 12:46 PM
Thank you, thank you, thank you!! I needed this so much, I will look at it everyday and make it a mantra.

It is sometimes a bit complicated though because I was with a guy who treated the women in his family like gold, they were everything to him, and yet he treated me like shit and broke me to pieces. It was confusing and horrible but at least its over now. Let the healing begin.

Elektra Luxx
10-29-2015, 10:12 PM
I thought of creating a thread where people can post little quotes and sayings that will inspire someone. So, I'll go first

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Elektra Luxx
10-29-2015, 10:18 PM
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Tsepmet1
10-30-2015, 07:28 AM
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whirlerz
10-30-2015, 10:04 AM
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow,
what you stop, & what you reinforce.

NoRegrets
10-30-2015, 02:06 PM
http://weknowmemes.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/if-you-think-a-stripper-actually-likes-you.jpg

slowpoke
10-30-2015, 03:25 PM
http://rlv.zcache.com/if_you_look_like_food_you_will_be_eaten_tshirt-r6f6547774f0548caa894c14d27c04f5f_wio57_324.jpg

whirlerz
10-30-2015, 03:33 PM
Watch out for Snakes!
Don't get in a peeing contest w/a skunk!
Don't spit in a well, you might want to drink from it.

absolutelyadorable
10-30-2015, 04:31 PM
Don't spit in a well, you might want to drink from it.
I always say don't spit in the air, it might fall in your face. High five!

Everything that glitters isn't gold.
The grass may be greener on the other side, but if you water your lawn it'll probably look just as good.
Hit dogs holler.
God don't like ugly.

R-209
10-30-2015, 08:16 PM
http://i.imgur.com/yQROSTL.jpg

BambiCutie
10-30-2015, 08:39 PM
http://i1378.photobucket.com/albums/ah93/princessbambicutie/fc550x550white_zpsv4tn0gow.jpg

SweetJulia
11-01-2015, 06:02 AM
Electra:you finally got a custom avatars again!

Mine-karma takes too long sometimes, you free to help me out this afternoon?

Elektra Luxx
11-01-2015, 01:04 PM
Electra:you finally got a custom avatars again!

Yes, I'm able to change my avatar at will.

JoJoX
11-01-2015, 10:56 PM
Start where you are.
Use what you have.
Do what you can.

I love this quote because it is never too late to get what you want and you ALWAYS have the right tools to get there.

Flickdreams
11-02-2015, 05:24 AM
Subscribing.

BobbleHead
11-02-2015, 12:36 PM
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Aurora_Sunset
11-02-2015, 01:07 PM
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Elektra Luxx
11-04-2015, 02:27 PM
This is a good one.

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Elektra Luxx
11-05-2015, 02:42 PM
I wish I had someone to play this game with.

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R-209
11-05-2015, 11:06 PM
Start where you are.
Use what you have.
Do what you can.
I love this quote because it is never too late to get what you want and you ALWAYS have the right tools to get there.

Love it. Reminds me of this:

http://i.imgur.com/yKa8XBw.jpg


I wish I had someone to play this game with.

I'd settle for Monopoly at this point.

Elektra Luxx
11-05-2015, 11:26 PM
I'd settle for Monopoly at this point.

I'll take that as an invitation, but I want to be the little car. :)

wednesday86
11-06-2015, 06:49 PM
http://www.motivationalquotesabout.com/images/quotes/you-get-depressed-because-you-know-that-marilyn-manson.jpg

R-209
11-07-2015, 11:08 PM
I'll take that as an invitation, but I want to be the little car. :)

Deal. I'll be the little Scottie dog, although it would be a tougher choice if I had a newer set with the cat. I should look and see if I still have the deluxe set I got when I was a kid, which came with the locomotive...

JenniferNorth
11-08-2015, 07:15 AM
^ I'll join you guys, but only if I can be the bag of Money...hehe...


And here is a quote that got me through my divorce (I'm not religious but found this beautiful)

God changes caterpillars into butterflies
Sand into pearls
And coal into diamonds
Using time and pressure
He's working on you, too

Again, not religious by ANY means, but this quote brought me a lot of comfort during a dark time

whirlerz
11-08-2015, 03:57 PM
Had a good 1 but forgot it. :(

R-209
11-09-2015, 12:23 PM
http://i.imgur.com/F2leu31.jpg

wednesday86
11-09-2015, 05:01 PM
http://www.lorensworld.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/1521681_10151866402183581_1697233341_n.jpg

R-209
11-10-2015, 11:08 AM
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whirlerz
11-14-2015, 12:23 PM
"I will do what I can, speak softly & wait for better times". Spoken by Elizabeth I's loyal servant.

hollywood6
11-16-2015, 02:08 AM
One of my favorites :)

Elektra Luxx
11-16-2015, 06:05 AM
One of my favorites :)

Wow, that is a good one. That's so me a lot of the time.

whirlerz
12-05-2015, 08:15 PM
Don’t get mad. Don’t get even. Do better. Much better. Rise above. Become so engulfed in your own success that you forget it ever happened.

Flickdreams
12-05-2015, 08:20 PM
Whirlez for the win

lovelydancer
12-05-2015, 10:36 PM
Anyone that encourages intellectual, emotional, artistic or spiritual growth is worth keeping.

Flickdreams
12-10-2015, 03:37 AM
If you love someone set them free, if they dont come back hunt them down and shoot them
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R-209
12-10-2015, 10:48 AM
http://i.imgur.com/9BApvNA.jpg

ScarletKitten
12-18-2015, 04:30 PM
1. Have no expectations.
2. Have no regrets.
3. Always have peace with the love in your heart.

Flickdreams
12-20-2015, 06:00 AM
We don't need no water let the mother fucker burn,
Burn mother fucker, burn.

SexyPorsche
12-26-2015, 04:27 AM
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Flickdreams
12-26-2015, 07:04 AM
43759........

Vyanka
12-27-2015, 11:53 AM
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