View Full Version : Signs they will not spend money
sexy_celeste
01-28-2006, 01:14 AM
"There is no way in hell if I were married to you, I would let you go running around in a strip club like this. I can't believe she let's you do what you want, even though you are an adult and are completly capable of making your own decisions. How bizare."
I love you!
I will SO use that line next time!
the801
01-28-2006, 08:52 AM
Molly sez:
And pdx, of course I like nice people better than jerks. I am no social masochist. But when I'm at work, I'm there for money, not to make friends. I'll be very friendly (within the limits of my principles) for someone who spends, but nice as you are, I will not hang out at your table all night for the pleasure of your company. That would put me in the hole. Shame on me, shallow girl I suppose. ::)[/QUOTE]
I disagree. You are not shallow at all if you are focused on why you are there, which is to make a living! To me that's being a good business-woman, plain and simple. I should clarify that it's not all "idle chit-chating with my friends at the SC", these ladies get paid nicely for all that therapy! 8) I recognize time spent talking with me, equals time spent away from potential paying work, and I am not going to get in the way of that.
And Lizette said:
523. They say that they respect you.
(the801, this is not necessarily directed at you. From experience, it seems that the customers who must tell me how much they respect me as a person spend the least,
IME, if people have to TELL you that they respect you, then well..........they don't. They have to SHOW you respect, not tell you about it, and part of that respect is understanding what motivates you to be there in the first place. (i.e. uhhhhhh, Rent?, Food?, Electricity? School?) And that, as in all business, Time= money!
best,
801inpdx
Bewitched
01-28-2006, 06:37 PM
WHEN THEY WON'T BUY YOU A DRINK:
When they refuse to buy you a drink, it's seriously time to move along.
90% of the time this is true.
10% of the time they just want the "other girl" (but even then, what's a drink?)
Bewitched
01-28-2006, 06:40 PM
Oh, and when you approach a customer and he reaches for his drink, he's nervous... Doesn't necessarily mean he's not going to spend, but at least you know what you're working with. ;)
Bewitched
01-28-2006, 06:44 PM
3) They just ordered a drink and need to finish it first or get a buzz on.
And it's usually true. :O
Alcohol loosens wallets. ;)
miabella
01-28-2006, 06:54 PM
WHEN THEY WON'T BUY YOU A DRINK:
When they refuse to buy you a drink, it's seriously time to move along.
90% of the time this is true.
10% of the time they just want the "other girl" (but even then, what's a drink?)
actually, this isn't true. plenty of customers are a little bit antagonistic about giving too much money to the club, and often don't buy drinks for the girls because they want to spend more money on the dancer(s). a guy with 100 to spend would often rather give it all to a dancer instead of having to spend 20-35 of it on drinks. and these days you have a lot more of those guys than men with 1000 to spend who don't sweat 100 in drinks.
Yekhefah
01-28-2006, 11:10 PM
"What do I get besides a lap dance?" *wink wink* - I usually say, "I can shove my stiletto up your ass crack, but that costs extra."
:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
Seriously, I am screaming with laughter here. That's the best line I've ever heard! Kudos!
exotisch23
01-30-2006, 04:01 AM
When you go up to say hello & introduce yourself and the first thing out of thier mouths is "no thanks" without even saying anything else.. that's just plain f*ckin rude!
colleen
01-30-2006, 12:46 PM
Oh, here's another good one:
When they open up a Bible and start to preach at you!
Yep! Happened to me last night! Didn't get a dime out of him!
TigersMilk
01-30-2006, 12:51 PM
Wait wait wait: I have the best one from last night at my regular club......
When they try to PIMP you!!!:O::) "Girl, I'll show you how to make money."
Jillian
01-30-2006, 01:24 PM
When you go up to say hello & introduce yourself and the first thing out of thier mouths is "no thanks" without even saying anything else.. that's just plain f*ckin rude!
or how about just "busy"....yeah me too so I'll keep moving - that happened to me the other night. I literally danced my entire 5 hour shift that night.
Bridgette
01-30-2006, 08:20 PM
The #1 most common sign for me is when he starts trying to grab/fondle all over me the moment I approach ::) :beat: NEXT!
Lizette
01-31-2006, 04:00 AM
"I only date strippers." (Or some variation)
He'll tell you he will help you get a job doing something else, usually working for him.
xcuzmylife
02-12-2006, 11:30 PM
I have had this happen a few times and I HATE it:
A customer calls you over to talk. You shoot the shit for a bit. He doesn't buy a drink for you. You ask the magic question "So, would you like a dance".
He replies "Not now sweetheart but come find me for the special". Riiiight.
If they hadn't called me over, I would not have issue with that.
The ones who tell me they are close with the owner, managers, etc., I say "Yeah, I know Bellsouth, Cingular and my landlord and I don't care who you know".
keira
04-29-2006, 02:16 PM
About the only sign I'll take as positive they are not going to spend is them walking out the door. Everything else is game on.
mollyzmoon
04-29-2006, 05:22 PM
Here's my new favourite: "I came to watch the game" as he literally cranes his neck to look at the tv behind me. "Come see me at intermission". Grrr! Sure, they come to the club, but they want hockey! and then after, they want to drink beer and talk about hockey, and oh, maybe grab like one dance.
I wish our team would hurry up and lose and get the hell out of the playoffs! That's right, I said it. haha
scarlett_vancouver
04-29-2006, 07:02 PM
lol^, I said the same thing a couple of weeks ago - I'm (secretly) SO glad the Canucks didn't make the playoffs!
If they ask "what's your real name" too quickly (or really, ever, but especially in the first minute), that's a big red flashing sign for me to move on. What the fuck is with that, anyways? It's so annoying.
Everyman
05-01-2006, 12:21 AM
How about when they try to sneek a peek at your titties when you are dancing for the guy next to them? ANd they are not even slick about it?
Don't see what this has to do with whether he's a spender or not. If you don't think a guy, any guy, spender or cheapskate, is going to "sneak a peak" at a half-naked girl dancing right next to him, well then I'm not sure you understand guys at all. Bare tits are like a magnet that turns the head in that direction, we have no control over that. ;)
Izabella
05-01-2006, 10:00 PM
I totally agree with the fondling thing. I way I know they won't spend is when they tell me, you're just too nice too.... I'd feel bad getting a dance from you, but I'd take you out to dinner.
Nakedtruth
05-02-2006, 12:12 AM
lol^, I said the same thing a couple of weeks ago - I'm (secretly) SO glad the Canucks didn't make the playoffs!
If they ask "what's your real name" too quickly (or really, ever, but especially in the first minute), that's a big red flashing sign for me to move on. What the fuck is with that, anyways? It's so annoying.
I agree, very annoying! I tell them (stage name) is my real name, I use a fake one at home. They usually quite asking then.
Paris
" 2. He is bumming smokes from other patrons"
How about when they try to bum smokes from you?!
Honest to god, it happened all the time at my previous club!
kitatonic
05-02-2006, 12:59 PM
When a middle-aged man claims he's never been in a strip club before and doesn't even know what a private dance entails!
-also-
when they tell you they prefer to 'take dancers out after work' instead of buying a dance because its 'degrading'?????
cinammonkisses
05-02-2006, 08:28 PM
If they ask "when are ya'll gonna have some specials"
or
If they say, " I dont' have $20, I got $15"
Pretty_Penny
05-02-2006, 08:43 PM
when they ask how much the drink you want is going to cost. that's a quick way to lose my interest. oh and i HATE the "when are the dance specials" thing. >_<
anomar
05-03-2006, 05:36 PM
If they ask "when are ya'll gonna have some specials"
or
If they say, " I dont' have $20, I got $15"
Well if they really do have $15, it's really satisfying to still get that money out of them by offering a lovely hand massage/neck massage. After they say they have $15, keep talking to them but gently take their hand... start massaging... when they say it feels nice, say that if they're not interested in a dance, you can give them a really lovely, intimate and deep hand massage, just for $15. It's worked for me SEVERAL times.. especially with the drunk guys that really do just pull $$ out of their wallet and stare at their $15. :P
Zoe_en_Australie
05-04-2006, 01:59 AM
When they say you should be the one buying *them* a drink, cuz they're such good company. Even worse than the "oh, you want me to give you a dance?" guys...
OR
They bitch about a $6 beer (bottled) I don't know where they hell they drink otherwise, but that's pretty standard.
The Unknown
05-04-2006, 04:42 AM
About the only sign I'll take as positive they are not going to spend is them walking out the door. Everything else is game on.
I like your post. It shows a positive sign. I know that some men have only a limited amount that they can spend in the club for that night. They don't want to walk in and blow a large chunk of the money within the first 10~15 mintues of getting there.
There's also the factor of they might have an eye for a particular lady that dances there.
For me, and i hope that this is ok, I find honesty works in my favor. I just say.. I'll buy ya a drink, but you gotta do something for me. I'll get them to ask the lady that I'm infactuated with to come over and hang out. Or I'll just buy a drink and hang out. It never hurts to just get in the club and send off the right vibes by buying a drink and talking with a lady.
I have to admit, I have sometimes refused to buy a drink at that moment just to see the ladies reaction. If she's pissy acting I wont buy her any that night. If she's cool and say something like "ok but you owe me a drink" I'll end up spending some cash with her that night.
I mean it's all about the dollar in the end. But I wont spend my cash on ladies that aren't at least in somewhat of a party mood or civil at the bare minimum.
Hope that this doesn't upset anyone, it's just my $.02
Party On People
The Unknown
Jenny
05-04-2006, 06:54 AM
Meh. I'll only be civil for cash.
Okay, kidding - I'll be civil regardless; and refusing to buy me a drink I do think is weird if you expect me to sit there. I would likely then skip to the "wanna dance" and then move on. There is something very offputting about customers who want to "test" us - like is she only interested in me if I spend money? Yes! And then I'm only marginally interested. I'm only full on interested if you spend a lot of money.
If someone said I'll buy ya a drink but you've gotta do something for me, I would absolutely decline the drink. I trade nothing for a drink. I make nothing off a drink. The drink is a mere indicator. If you refuse to buy me a drink you are probably not enjoying my company, and will not buy anything else either. If I'm going to "do something for you" - and that means anything - I want the 20 bucks.
The Unknown
05-04-2006, 07:52 AM
Meh. I'll only be civil for cash.
Okay, kidding - I'll be civil regardless; and refusing to buy me a drink I do think is weird if you expect me to sit there. I would likely then skip to the "wanna dance" and then move on.
Hi Jenny, thanks for interest in my little thread. That's a good positive attitude.
There is something very offputting about customers who want to "test" us - like is she only interested in me if I spend money? Yes! And then I'm only marginally interested. I'm only full on interested if you spend a lot of money.
In the same respect, it's very offputting for a dancer to 'expect' that a customer will just throw money at anyone that walks by. ;)
If someone said I'll buy ya a drink but you've gotta do something for me, I would absolutely decline the drink. I trade nothing for a drink.
I think that I've not made myself clear on respect to this. I meant to say that I'd buy a drink and ask the lady to introduce me to another dancer if I'm more interested in that dancer.
I make nothing off a drink. The drink is a mere indicator.
The same could be said for the customer. With the exception that the customer is spending the money.
If you refuse to buy me a drink you are probably not enjoying my company, and will not buy anything else either.
Thats true in most cases. I think that a customer is appealed to a certain lady then the customer would naturally want to spend more time with that particular lady.
If I'm going to "do something for you" - and that means anything - I want the 20 bucks.
;D 20 bucks in my book means you will have to do something for me. I had to do something to earn the money.. and I'm thinking the dancer will have to do something to earn the money. ;)
hope that clears up any confusion.
POP
The Unknown
Alanna
05-08-2006, 03:14 AM
When they can't wait to tell you how "lucky you are" to be "making so much money" doing "the easiest job in the world". UGH!
I usually wear slip-on shoes, and when I run into a putz spewing this crap, I take off a shoe, hold it right in front of his face and say "how many minutes do you think you'd last in a pair of these?" Shuts them right up! heh heh!
}:D
Izabella
05-08-2006, 04:30 PM
:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: Allana
melanie05
05-08-2006, 06:26 PM
In response to number twelve, ask the guy if he will buy "him" a dance.
buffie06
05-09-2006, 10:09 AM
when they try to make bets with you for free dances, soo annoying. or when they talk about their namebrand shoes and cars and tell you their pants are 300 thread count and say they will pay you b/c they know your time is money and they give you a 2 dollar bill.
leogirl876
05-10-2006, 08:27 PM
How about after you do the dance, they give you a $20 for a $10 dance and ask you to give them change back!!!!! Cheap bastard!
One guy last night gave me a $5 and said I want you to go tip that girl over there on stage. Ughh!! Stupid, LAZY, cheap ass!!!
This one guy I talked to last night that was sitting at the tip rail with his friends all night long and we started talking and said he couldn't do a dance because he already spent all his money getting dances from this other stripper. BULLSHIT!!!!!! Then was trying to get me to fly to San Diego to see him and that he'd be a total gentleman to me, blah, blah, blah!
anomar
05-10-2006, 09:03 PM
One guy last night gave me a $5 and said I want you to go tip that girl over there on stage. Ughh!! Stupid, LAZY, cheap ass!!!
I don't get how that was bad. Do you mean he wanted you to give him 5 $1s (make change for you) or just that he wasn't tipping you but wanted you to do the tipping for him?
leogirl876
05-10-2006, 10:13 PM
I don't get how that was bad. Do you mean he wanted you to give him 5 $1s (make change for you) or just that he wasn't tipping you but wanted you to do the tipping for him?
He wanted me to go tip a dancer but wasn't willing to tip me for doing it. Basically, go walk on the other side of the club to tip her but none for you. I'm more than happy to go tip another dancer as long as I'm getting a tip for it too.
Aprilleigh
05-10-2006, 11:22 PM
my "favourites" are:
1. when you walk up to a guy and he immediatly slides his hand around your waist, he is trying to get as much hands on as possible before he rejects you.
2. scenario-
me> " would you like me to take you away for a private lap dance"
customer> "how much is that going to cost"
me> "starts at $20 baby and we can go from there"
(customers smiles with a snigger)
customer> "how about I give YOU a lapdance instead"
GOD i hate that!!!!!!
Jenny
05-11-2006, 07:13 AM
2. scenario-
me> " would you like me to take you away for a private lap dance"
customer> "how much is that going to cost"
me> "starts at $20 baby and we can go from there"
(customers smiles with a snigger)
customer> "how about I give YOU a lapdance instead"
GOD i hate that!!!!!!
"Hmm. Well. That will cost you $50."
That one is just embarassing. Moreso because the guy doesn't realize he should be embarassed, so it's like you have to be embarassed for both of you.
sexysweet
05-12-2006, 07:34 AM
The guys who call you over and immediately start to tell you about the strip club they are going to buy.
leogirl876
05-14-2006, 01:09 AM
Or how about right before you're about to do the dance the say "Oh my friends got it, he'll give it to you after the dance" The only time I'll let that happen is if I've already given him more than 2 that he's paid for.
I had this idiot tonight that wanted me to give him a dance, he asked how much they were and I said $10 minimum and he said "how about $5 instead" I said, no, the dances are $10. So then he said "well let me see your ass" and I said "Gotta pay up $10 first" and then he looked me up & down and goes "nah". So then I just gave him the look, you know the you are such a cheap pathetic loser and I moved on and made about $60 in about 4 minutes right after him! Ha ha ha ha!!!!!
NewbieTx
05-14-2006, 07:35 PM
guys that try to squeeze another free song with you by continuing to talk as a new song begins so you won't be able to ask him for a dance.
TaLlOnE
05-14-2006, 11:44 PM
Must say that I do a few of the things here but I believe that's an unfair evaluation since the thread title is "signs they won't spend money" meaning in my definition that it is a customer that comes in an spends little money as possible since he just wants to see beautiful naked women.
BUT.. A LOT of girls cope an attitude an say things that seem to plainly say. NOT SPEND MONEY ON YOU.. if a guy doesn't want a dance, it's pretty obvious. I tell them no but it's annoying when they WON"T STOP ASKING, then afterwards the get all bitchy an trash talk you behind your back telling all the girls your a broke loser. Never mind that I come in when my favorite dancer is in town an purchase an hour or $320.00 once a day.
An all my favorite girls give GREAT dances. and i'm pretty much loyal only to them , now an then I will get ONE dance from a new girl an usually 70% of the time I don't like it so I stick to my fav's. New girls also are SC One timers an you'll never see them again for a LONG TIME.
Also since naturally there is jealousy issues, YES IT"S TRUE, Thou on the surface they say it's ok an it's a job. 1 favorite dancer suddenly becomes more cold an bitchy when you spend money on your other favorite dancer, so bad sometimes that you won't go to the SC or spend money on either when they work at the sametime.
1. Buys 1 dance to see what it's like : um DUH!, why would any guy purchase an hour of time from a girl that's a total nasty bitch or just a lousy dancer. From a man, many women give TERRIBLE dances. (eg, too far away, they were closer on the stage than inside., no emotion, blah blah)
2. Doesnt' tip the waitress or door girl: now how can you see the guy tipping the door girl when you only tip the door girl when you get your coat to leave????. Also, if the waitress is a snob an most SC waitresses tend to be, I don't feel like tipping. Nothing makes me angrier than to get cold snotty looks from a women.
3. Hangs out at the DJ booth: I do this because I like talking to the DJ so I don't understand this one at all.
Finally, One thing I can't stand is girls giving me the cold treatment an when I buy like a half days worth from my favorite dancer one night (usually early) an all the girls are there, suddenly I"M EVERYONES NICE GUY again..
This is why there are only a FEW chosen favorite girls an all the others (regardless of how beautiful, sexy, or whatever) always get the cold treatment. You have to form a bond with your customer, an also respect the fact YOUR NOT EVERY GUYS FANTASY!. some guys only like asian, black, or hair color, length, breast size, etc, etc. Naturally as a young guy who wants attention as my personal preference. I don't like or get it with girls who are there for ONLY the money an forget the customer relations aspect,
One thing I say to some girl that's like that who asks me for a dance because THERE IS NO ONE ELSE there, is "gee, some old came in , I'm sure he'll want a dance.. then she'll turn sad cause YES it's true, he has money but he's OLD haha. Also a nice way of showing my distaste for her an that I find her a turn off an why.
blondhottie
05-15-2006, 07:53 AM
-If he says he comes to the club a lot, but none of the other girls bother sitting by him. It's probably because they already know him and they know that he's not going to spend much.