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LilAlize
02-08-2006, 09:39 PM
There is nothing wrong with black guys!! I love the thugs. They hustle, make money, take care of their family, defend their girl, and know how to defend their self. So all of yalls parents that think that they know what a black man is about have NO CLUE. Its the everyday struggle in life that makes them the way they are!! Majority of people that talks trash about blacks,CAN not say it in their FACE!!! 100% Guranteed

LilAlize
02-08-2006, 09:42 PM
Believe it or not most black women HATE to see a black man with a white women. They love owning their (big) dicks!!!

miabella
02-08-2006, 09:50 PM
most black men are not oversized. i would love it if that stereotype died.

MadisonM
02-08-2006, 09:56 PM
There is nothing wrong with black guys!! I love the thugs. They hustle, make money, take care of their family, defend their girl, and know how to defend their self. So all of yalls parents that think that they know what a black man is about have NO CLUE. Its the everyday struggle in life that makes them the way they are!! Majority of people that talks trash about blacks,CAN not say it in their FACE!!! 100% Guranteed

Wow the stereotypes. This may be true of some black guys, but not all. The same as all those statements are true of some white guys, but not all, and some Asian, Hispanic, and Indian guys, but not all.

Gia2608
02-09-2006, 02:56 AM
Oh god that is so racist. My dad's boss disowned his daughter for marrying a black guy. Guess she really loved him. She's still married to him and from what I hear he's a great guy. Her dad is just a bigot.

I never even expeirenced racism until I moved to the south, my parents are really cool, thank goodness. Date whomever u want to date.

melanie916
02-09-2006, 08:39 AM
boyfriend." I despise men who claim to have an Asian fetish and all Asian women as exotic, smart, obedient, gentle, beautiful lapdogs

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that sound like a good thing to me, better than them thinking you going to jack there car ever time they see you.

melanie916
02-09-2006, 08:53 AM
I never even expeirenced racism until I moved to the south, my parents are really cool, thank goodness. Date whomever u want to date.


WOW, i guess it is true white people don't understand what it's like for race to be a factor in every day life. So when a black person say some one/thing is racist you just say what are you over reacting or something. I'm glad you got a taste if any real racism at all, but it's good to know. I find blacks to be less racist with whites because they deal with them every day, and whites just will not admit that they are racist.

I have had race play a small factor in my life but nothing close to what blacks go through.

Star_bare_elegance
02-09-2006, 09:16 AM
All black men are NOT thugs. Some black women don't care to see or not to see black men with other races of women... It doesn't cause me to take a second look until they parade ______ around urban hangouts like "hey look at my nonblack women i'm special with her hanging off my arm" ::)

leilanicandy
02-09-2006, 09:57 AM
most black men are not oversized. i would love it if that stereotype died.
I agree with you my Irish boyfriend has a much bigger dick than my Ex which is black

melanie916
02-09-2006, 10:53 AM
All black men are NOT thugs. Some black women don't care to see or not to see black men with other races of women... It doesn't cause me to take a second look until they parade ______ around urban hangouts like "hey look at my nonblack women i'm special with her hanging off my arm" ::)
i agree, it's just a norther racist stereotype that all black me are thugs and run around with guns and talk like yo yo yo.

melanie916
02-09-2006, 10:56 AM
I agree with you my Irish boyfriend has a much bigger dick than my Ex which is black
but thats one man, vs one man. you have to have seen more blak dick to say thats not true.

gypsy_girlchild
02-09-2006, 02:14 PM
I don't judge a guy by his thingy size, unless it's too big (can't get it in) or two small (can't get me off), why would I care what color it is when my vibrator is hot pink?
Funny thing is both most big and most small were black guys, what's that say about that stereotype idea?

cinammonkisses
02-10-2006, 10:04 AM
All black men are NOT thugs. Some black women don't care to see or not to see black men with other races of women... It doesn't cause me to take a second look until they parade ______ around urban hangouts like "hey look at my nonblack women i'm special with her hanging off my arm" ::)

Ok, in response to that..I don't care who dates whom...it's just I dunno if you're gonna date outside your race, PLEASE let her be worth it.

For example, I mean dam if you're a black male and want to date white women, date someone like Carmen Elecktra. She's freaking hot, sexy!!

gypsy_girlchild
02-10-2006, 11:04 AM
This thread reminded me of a shirt my little brother had that said, "I love all black men."
On him it was defintiely interesting.

LilAlize
02-10-2006, 11:21 AM
Who said ALL black men were THUGS?
ajority of Hood men ARE Thugs. Majority-All Black men DO have big Dicks. I know!! You might run over 1 or 2 that is AVERAGE!!! But other than that they can get pretty BIG!! I love my black men. They are very strong. I should post pics of my everyday people!! I love them SO much that if anything bad is said about them I WILL take action. Black men Keep your heads up!! I love yall!!

Star_bare_elegance
02-10-2006, 12:12 PM
^^^ hmmmm that's just a lil scary......just a lil :-*

MsTopaz
02-10-2006, 04:17 PM
Who said ALL black men were THUGS?
ajority of Hood men ARE Thugs. Majority-All Black men DO have big Dicks. I know!! You might run over 1 or 2 that is AVERAGE!!! But other than that they can get pretty BIG!! I love my black men. They are very strong. I should post pics of my everyday people!! I love them SO much that if anything bad is said about them I WILL take action. Black men Keep your heads up!! I love yall!!


actually on average there's no difference in penis size among men of any race. maybe the one's you have been with had big ones. then that would mean that you don't know about the 'men' you haven't been with....and i would be willing to bet that you haven't been with every black man in the nation...have you?

:bored:

melanie916
02-10-2006, 05:39 PM
Who said ALL black men were THUGS?
ajority of Hood men ARE Thugs. !

Yeah but the problem is is when white people like my parents mix up the two, like thinking all black men a bad and will steal your car.

FemtasticEssence
02-12-2006, 10:00 AM
Some black guys are trouble...true...but so are some white,mexican and asian. I guess you just have to pick the right ones...Trial and Error is the key lol

leilanicandy
02-13-2006, 03:00 PM
I am so glad so many people know every person is not the same, and you should'nt judge people by thier race. I think some black men are wonderful!

Nautilus
02-13-2006, 04:53 PM
i'm amazed this thread deteriorated to a dick-size discussion...

cinammonkisses
02-13-2006, 06:37 PM
LOL I know right @ Natilus

Lena
02-14-2006, 12:08 AM
I'm amazed this thread is five pages long... who'da thunk there was so much to say about black guys?

Star_bare_elegance
02-15-2006, 09:32 AM
^lol there is a lot to say about all guys :-) especially when u ask a forum full of strippers :-)

Ivy1979
02-16-2006, 06:47 AM
Well i like black guys but my parents are telling me not to date them because they say "blaks guys are tourble" i know this is not true and mostley not for all black men. What do you girls think? what do like about them>?
I dont have a problem with a white girl dating a black guy. My only beef is with the ones that act like they are straight off of "Yo MTV raps", and for the last time PULL YOUR DAMN PANTS UP.

My take on the dick size myth is that its totally untrue. Now I have only been with 2 black guys and they were average at best.

she sells sanctuary
02-16-2006, 07:28 AM
My dad would freak if I was with a black guy, but it's okay (offensive, but okay) cos I'm not attracted to black guys. It's kinda a shame, too, cos if I were, I'd probably be dating this really awesome guy right now.

But since I'm into other types my dad would disapprove of, it's about 50/50 that he'll freak anyways. Unless I really loved the guy, though, I'd choose my dad over him. Stupid, but whatever.

melanie916
02-17-2006, 06:23 AM
My dad would freak if I was with a black guy, but it's okay (offensive, but okay) cos I'm not attracted to black guys. It's kinda a shame, too, cos if I were, I'd probably be dating this really awesome guy right now.

But since I'm into other types my dad would disapprove of, it's about 50/50 that he'll freak anyways. Unless I really loved the guy, though, I'd choose my dad over him. Stupid, but whatever.
how can you love him if you will not even give him the time of day?

greggy
02-17-2006, 07:55 AM
^^I think she means the other types that she's into which her father would disapprove of

TifaRae
02-19-2006, 11:12 PM
I despise men who claim to have an Asian fetish and objectify all Asian women as exotic, smart, obedient, gentle, beautiful lapdogs and arm candy (like my dad did, and he learned the hard way that Asian women are human)

My dad did the exact same thing. He's married to a Filipino woman who is hunchbacked, anorexic, catty, stupid, lazy, and a complete bitch who stole from me and kicked me out of the house, yet he still thinks she's a ''sweet companion''. She wouldn't even kiss him... ::)


A lot of my friends are Asian and have a hard time dating anyone outside the nationality... my close friend's grandparents think that if she dates a Vietnamese guy all her problems will be solved.

What's almost worst, I think, is when a kind of "ranking" is formed. The most common ranking among my Viet friends is: Viet, then Chinese/Japanese/Korean, then Filipino/Cambodian/other asian, then white, then Middle Eastern, then Indian, then Latino, and finally... black.

>:(


My parents don't blink an eye at race.

sarahdancesinchica
02-20-2006, 01:36 AM
As long as you genuinely like a person of any race then it really doesn't matter what other people think. What matters is the individual, whether they're white, black, asian, arab, indian, esikimo, hispanic or whatever else.

Also if you have preferences it really doesn't make a different either, if you like tall men, dark haired men, light haired men or whatever more specifically is that any different than liking people with certain physical features? No not really but as I'm sure we all know looks aren't everything.

What I have seen with regard to interracial relationships is people who get into them for the wrong reasons. People get into them because of stereotypes, because of image, or as someone else mentioned, to piss off their parents. As with any type of relationship you should get into it because of the individual not because of their race, nationality or heritage.

KamrynAnne
02-20-2006, 05:25 PM
two words.... big cocks

Ivy1979
02-20-2006, 08:56 PM
Not the two ive seen :-[

exotisch23
02-20-2006, 11:58 PM
Well i like black guys but my parents are telling me not to date them because they say "blaks guys are tourble" i know this is not true and mostley not for all black men. What do you girls think? what do like about them>?

I don't have any experience with them so I can't give any advice but I have never dated one & never will, I want to keep my bloodline scandinavian. Meaning I want to have blonde children w/light eyes so I will marry someone like myself. :) I've always preferred that.

Cupid213
09-29-2007, 01:27 PM
Racist is what I call it . I would not be upset if my baby girl came home with some one of another race as long as she was happy and he treated her well. I would date who the hell I wanted to. They will get over it one day.( I think) Any guy can be problems and thats a well know fact!::)

iambonbon05
09-29-2007, 01:33 PM
My sister married a Filipino guy. His parents always tell him he should've married Filipino former girlfriend Karen when he in fact couldn't stand her.

Personally I don't care but I really doubt that I'll ever actually date someone that isn't white. I grew up in a town that's not only mostly white but mostly Scandinavian so I don't know many non white people to begin with and it just seems odd. I wouldn't write it off but I doubt it would happen.

ahmeerah
09-29-2007, 01:34 PM
I tend to think that anyone who refuses to date someone of their own race or prefers to date any particular race has some sterotyping issues.

I'll date black men but I'm attracted to all races. My worst dating experiences havebeen with black men though. As a black woman I hate to say that, but it's true. i just picked WRONG. I tend to get more respect dating outside my race for some reason.

But sometimes, people are more respectful to those outside of their own race.

There's no hard fast rule when it comes to race and dating.

iambonbon05
09-29-2007, 01:34 PM
Forgot to add my parents are mostly ok with it but they have specifically said I'd better not date any middle eastern guys. I'm not sure what they'd think about a black guy. I think they'd keep quiet about it but bitch about it amongst themselves lol.

ahmeerah
09-29-2007, 01:42 PM
My parents don't care what race I date or marry as long as the guy treats me well.

The younger generations in my extended family have been marrying outside of the race. Our family reunions are very colorful. It's kinda interesting.

Corey
09-30-2007, 12:58 PM
Because the said if i date a black guy they will never let me back in there house ever again. I dont live with them but i do like seeing them.

My Dad use to tell me the same thing. (He married my mother is of a different race than him, go figure?) There was another poster who said you should use your best judgement and date who you want, regardless of race. I agree with this.

However, I think my Dad my have put some subliminal crap in my head while growing up. I have dated Afro-American men, yet never really seriously or long-term.

Who knows? Maybe it was my Dad's ranting or they just weren't the right ones/:O

xxxblueeyesxxx
09-30-2007, 11:51 PM
I am not raising my children with that preduduce i i will be happy with whom ever the date as long it is a man. :) and for my son as long as its a girl.

Ummmmm, so just to confirm that I'm understanding you correctly:

You're against bigots that direct their ignorance/hate towards racial issues, but WOULD disown your child (eg teach them hate towards *whomever*) if he or she was a homosexual..

Dottie Rebel
10-01-2007, 12:49 AM
^^^Whew! That was, uh, interesting.

Seriously, though: Bigotry against gays and lesbians is no cooler than bigotry against particular races.

krchab99: Are you seriously planning to disown your children if they turn out to be gay? My parents said that, too. They treated me like shit when I came out at 14. Now, after all these years, they realize I am their CHILD, for god's sake, and got over themselves. Growing up with the hatred they instilled in me toward gay people did NOT make me turn out straight. It just made me absolutely miserable and suidical when I realized I was what I had been raised to hate. You have no idea how difficult that is for an adolescent.

So if your kids do end up gay, I pray that you don't make them turn against you for life by turning your back on them.

erotictonic
10-01-2007, 01:07 AM
I think that judgment is made on the individual. Being black doesn't put one in a category to be judged against, although black people as a whole haven't made it easy on themselves, as far as stereotypes and judgments go.

Honestly, because of the fact that I know more black people who are unsavory, I would be leary, but the few I have known that are mostly good will allow for any black person the chance to prove themselves in my mind.

pookie
10-01-2007, 04:46 AM
If you really like him and he means a lot to you, don't let anybody stop you. You deserve to be happy.

and um... Old thread!

cameron_keys
10-01-2007, 11:20 AM
My take on black guys is that they frequently have darker skin then white guys.


That is all.

LilSweetVixen
10-03-2007, 03:54 PM
what kind of people would disown their own children for any reason, let alone because of who they decided to date? I prefer white guys but I have dated a ton of black guys.

TheSexKitten
10-03-2007, 04:25 PM
My take on black guys is that they frequently have darker skin then white guys.


That is all.

Brilliant! :D

Xiomara
10-03-2007, 06:51 PM
I dated black guys all through high school when my dad moved me from an all white town to a mixed city. He didnt like it.But he never treated me like crap because of it. He just would rather be there when I invited them over..and was more protective when I went out with them..(calling the cell to check up on me......etc...) when i married a black guy,he finally came around,we had a child together. Just do what makes you happy.If they cant love you for what you love then,shit,they are the ones making a mistake. Not you. My dad wouldnt have dated my mom if he wasnt attracted to her. SO why should he want you to date a race you were not attracted to?
Good luck,hope all works out.

ruru123
10-04-2007, 02:00 AM
My take on black guys is that they frequently have darker skin then white guys.


That is all.

well said! i wish people would stop making color and "black and white" such an issue, it's 2007!:)

twisterinAZ
10-04-2007, 03:29 AM
Well i like black guys but my parents are telling me not to date them because they say "blaks guys are tourble" i know this is not true and mostley not for all black men. What do you girls think? what do like about them>?

"Them ?" ...I didn't read the whole thread, but I don't like the tone of this . You can't classify all black guys in one way any more than you can make sweeping generalizations about white women . Everyone is different no mater what your race.
Not to be a total bitch here , but your parents sound racist to me.

kaiarose
10-19-2007, 09:37 AM
I like black guys cuz they like my big round ass! Plus, their penises are wonderful! :)