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Feiticeira
02-10-2006, 05:05 PM
Hmm, I have some....dont remember the order though, so forgive me.
-The deadbeat. When i was working for an escort service, he was one of my drivers. At first I hated him because he was a big asshole. The more I got to know him, the more I found that it was just a front he put up, and I fell hard for him. The day our company got raided, I came running to him and we hung out. Things went from there. He had issues though, for one, he stole all the time. He stole from my ex's wallet as we were getting my shit together to leave him. He went and stole copper from his ex employer to sell to other places. He stole bottles of pills from Walgreens and tried to return them for money(they caught on after a while). He lived out of his Cavalier. He didn't even own it yet, and he was behind on payments. But instead of taking the money he got to make payments on it, he would use it to get MORE TATTOOS. ::) He couldn't understand why that was ass backwards. I ended things after I realized that I could never move in with him when he did get a place because I would always be afraid that he'd sell my shit to pay rent. :-\ I tried to get my shit I lent him, but he disappeared and I just gave up.
-The just plain loser. I met him of of an internet dating site. He had the highest percent compatibility with me, so I contacted him. We went on a date to the dog park and then walked around with my dog in the park. We spent countless hours together the next 5 days straight until he finally kissed me. Things were good. He always seemed to have an excuse for everything though. Why he couldn't ask for a raise.Why he let people take advantage of him. Why he didn't make it in the air force. Things got worse when I moved in with him. He started taken advantage of me. Once I got there, I was the one who would clean the apartment by myself when there was 4 other guys living there as well! Nobody took care of the cats anymore-they had a litterbox that hadn't been changed in SIX MONTHS! I started caring for them, but on days where I worked 2-3 days straight for my escorting, I asked him to care for the cats while I was gone. His response?"Theyre not my cats!" So they were neglected again. Never got vaccines either. Those days I was gone?He wouldnt call, even when I was gone for a week straight for work. Once I ended things, he got stupid, telling people that I was crazy, and that they'd see it soon enough. Be careful of her.... yeah, I thought we could be friends, but I had to finally cut all contact once I realized he was playing games with me.
-The mostly sweet guy. Only bad thing about him was he realized he wasn't ready for a relationship. How did he end things? He had his mom call my mom and tell her to tell me this!
Pffft.
There's more, like Harry the emotional manipulator, but I posted at least twice on him, so Im not going to go through it again...

quequisiera
02-12-2006, 02:33 PM
I have dated a lot of losers. So here are just a few reasons why I love my vibrator :D
1: Medgar the monster- I met this guy at college. He never graduated but tells all his employers that he has a degree. He stole money from me. He was constantly trying to convince me to swindle money from my father just because he was "white". (father is 1/2 Blackfoot). He paid his friends to follow me around, and report back to him. He had narcisistic personality disorder. He said repeatedly that he wanted to get me pregnant then kill me after the baby was born. "It will be just like OJ" he had said. He was half latino too just like me. Thank god I did not strip when I was with him. Because I would have fallen into the sterotype of stripper who gives all money the loser boyfriend.
I would go on but this one takes the cake.
Thank God!!!!!!! :dance: :dance: I am no longer with him!!!!!!!!!!! Here is to making good decisions and learning from mistakes. :beer2:

kirbie_kyle
02-12-2006, 03:54 PM
Wow... My experiences pale in comparison, but I'm gonna try:
I was pretty much an ugly duckling until the age of 16 when I hit 105 lbs. (yay boobies!!!) and got my braces off. At that point, boys started taking notice of me.

1. My first BF was two years older, and had just graduated and gotten a job roofing. He was nice and made pretty good money for an 18 year old, but decided he also liked my sister (who was 14 at the time).
2. The next guy was a casual hook-up who pretty much treated me like shit: I had just turned 17 and decided to go "badass"... Which involved a 22-year old, half a bottle of JD, and me blacking out. About a month later I found out that the reason he was at my best friends house in the first place was that his "close friend" was having an affair with my best friend's dad. EWWW
3. My first "serious" relationship was with a guy I met at the beginning of senior year.
We dated for a year until he randomly broke up with me (that was a first too, ouch!) because he "didn't see a future"... He was totally paranoid about everything I did even after we broke up, and I'm not gonna lie, even though he's a total asshole, there's something about him I can't shake...
4. The next guy was a whack job who masturbated so much it took about 2 hours of oral to get him to come. I think he cared more about his skateboard than me and he left me alone in his apartment (hung over) to go out with his friends
3 (again). We spent a weekend at his house over break (on the condition that we'd keep it secret) and he decided to tell his friends
Hopefully no more "loser" stories from me again, but we'll see...
Kirbie

CherryPie~
02-15-2006, 04:32 PM
Wow, reading this thread is so therapeutic...thanks ladies

My first (as in cherry popper) boyfriend dumped me on Valentines Day...No let me clarify...he just stopped calling about a week before. I was super worried cause I knew he'd been having some health issues, so I went to surprise him @ work. Haha, You should've seen the look on his face!! "uh I was gonna call you" psh. Ass.

Then that week I found a love letter to his ex, after we'd broken up.

NOW, he just goes on CraigsList all the time talkin shit about me. Even though HE dumped ME. Oh my God, these total bald-faced lies, like how I have chronic yeast infections, don't shave, etc etc. And there's death threats, and telling people I am worthless and a slut. The worst part is, it's the internet so I can't DO anything about this asshole...GET OVER IT IT WAS TWO YEARS AGO you pathetic limpdick stoner!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whew. Thanks for reading I feel so much better. ;D

PhillyDancer1982
02-18-2006, 06:23 PM
Hmmm, um, where can I start?

When I was 16, I dated a very sweet guy for a year. He was my first, sexually speaking, and when we eventually split ways a year later, we were both looking to play the field. So when I was 17 and newly single, my friends would sometimes put in word for me, to guys I'd referred to as "hot." I was introduced to a 24 yr old who was a bit of a goody-two-shoes, and that's even coming from my mother who was a goody two shoes herself!! He was cute, but the stereotypical "nice guy who finishes last." Even though he was 7yrs younger than me, he'd had less sexual experience than me. I kept dropping that I'd just gotten outta a relationship and wanted to explore the field, but he kept denying it, when he found out I was seeing other guys on the side he was very angry.

There were a lotta brothers, LOL...when I was 18, I started going for younger guys and dated a 15 yr old. Worked well, until his crazy sexist mom got mad that I was a female and the older partner, so she got all psychotic and started calling my house, yelling to my mom to keep me away from her son. WE WEREN'T EVEN HAVING SEX OR ANYTHING!! And if I was so "old" for her 2.5yr-younger son, then why was she treating me like a child by calling my mommy?? I gave up soon after, but the boyfriend didn't...he even showed up at my high school with his bro and friend! This was very very tricky to explain to the parents. But sometimes good comes from bad...3yrs later, I started hooking up with his same-age brother!(who was 18 by this time...and hung very well! :) )

During the time that I was avoiding the 15-yr-old boyfriend(5yrs ago), I cheated on him with this male-slut in our town. This guy was 22yrs old, blonde hair blue eyes, built like a pogo stick(6'5", 150 pounds! and 6.5" LOL), and constantly bragged about what a slut he was and claimed to have slept with over 100 people. I didn't want him as a boyfriend or anything, more as just a one-night stand because he was good-looking and had good marijuana. (Let's just say, the 15yr old was NOT very happy when word got around town about me cheating on him with this big-mouthed bragger!! haha) Over time, we actually developed a big rivalry, one of the things being who could seduce more people!!(oh, the joys of being a juvenile lol) But the worst revenge to this guy, was when I seduced his older brother! Me and the older brother eventually dated, and it developed into a serious live-in relationship! Luckily though me and the "pogo" have agreed to a truce.

Ok the older brother that I dated...he is the most recent ex-boyfriend of mine currently. We'd been hooking up for years, but didn't start seriously dating until last spring, up til this January. He was a very nice guy, my parents loved him, but he was an alcoholic! Beer did nothing but make our arguments worse; sometimes he acted like a crybaby when drunk, other times almost violent(but hey, I was violent back hahaha I can't count how many things I've thrown & broken in our apartment when mad). The only problems I have with him is, he tries to be too much of a parent; I want a BOYFRIEND, not a parent. It was annoying how overprotective/strict my parents were when I was a teenager, but they were entitled to it because I lived rent-free in their house. But when I am paying rent MYSELF and if anything paying a larger share for the bills than the boyfriend was, the last thing I needed was someone telling me how to live my life. My past flings with his younger brother and many other mutual friends make him paranoid of my faithfulness; but that's hypocritical when it's coming from a 29-yr-old male divorcee who himself has slept with people well in the double digits. Overall he is a sweet guy, we both have personality kinks to work out, but I'm trying to give myself time away from relationships due to recent family traumas and the need to do "real" jobsearching.

Now let's save the absolute worst for last...

First year of college(3-4yrs ago), I dated this total psycho!! He was VERY insecure of himself and apparently was an outcast in high school. He constantly LIED about things! For example, he made up stories about "imaginary" friends, then later in time when he wanted sympathy from people, he would make up stories about these "friends" dying. He was an attention whore who constantly lied to make himself look like a bigger man. For example, he claimed he had a DMC Delorian(car from Back to the Future), but crashed it into a tree one day while attempting suicide; none of this ever occured! He was super possessive, obsessively visiting at my work(this was before my dancing days), bitching whenever I wanted to hang out with friends esp male friends. It's because of him that a lot of my friends ditched me and my family temporarily disowned me. During our relationship, the asshole got "comfortable" and put on a shitload of weight, making his looks almost as unattractive as his personality. He was also very very irresponsible with money. He racked up bills in both of our names, leaving me with a huge fucking debt when I was already broke as a joke; he kicked when I was down in a BIG BIG BIG way. I paid off the debts to avoid credit damage, which meant using my college money(a gift from my mom) to pay all this shit, which in return made my mom practically disown me. The whole time, I threatened him that I was gonna become a stripper if he didn't pay up(b/c I couldn't afford college any other way!), and he went ballistic and commanded for me not to start stripping. Then when I got mad at him for not paying the debt he owed me, he DUMPED me!

Well, his dumping me was just another "drama queen" act to get my attention. He was hoping that by dumping me, that I'd become devastated and crawl back to him. Yeah f-cking right. Instead, I started hooking up with his former best friend(who was much hotter and thinner). When he saw that I wanted to move on with my life and exclude him completely, he did the worst thing ever...he made up stories about having cancer, in an attempt to get pity dates. Didn't work! I can't believe he would do such an unspeakable thing, esp since his OWN FATHER died of cancer when he was 8yrs old! It angers me immensely that he lied like this, esp since my own mother recently lost a battle with cancer. Not to mention 3 other relatives of mine...of those, 2 survived, 1 other didn't. To this day, I still wish that the "boy who cried wolf" will get devoured. Well, according to his most recent ex-gf, he has HPV and Herpes, so maybe cancer really ISN'T too far off for him...

Where are my psycho ex and I now? Ha I'm doing everything that the possessive loser never wanted me to do...I'm a dancer now, I make TONS of money, and yes I got the infamous boob job that he'd bitched about when I first suggested it. Up until rencently, I had a decent relationship with a guy that the psycho ex hated & was insanely jealous of. This past year, I sued the psycho ex in small-claims court for the money he owed me, and he paid up on court date in full...it sucks that I didn't get the money 3yrs ago when I needed it more, but hey at least I finally got his money and was able to put it towards the deposit for my 2006 Mustang GT. Oh and I recently completed my Bachelors, whereas he STILL hasn't returned to college after flunking out freshman year. Meanwhile he's working as an assistant at Jiffy Lube. Those things make me feel better, but his insensitivity about cancer still angers me.

NOTE: The only guy who was a true authentic "loser" was the psycho ex who lied about cancer and deaths. The others had their "moments" but overall were fairly normal people.

achick
02-19-2006, 07:23 PM
Oh I have PLENTY of losers:

1. My first boyfriend, Steve, is affectionately called by myself and all my friends as Steve the Crackhead. He stole from me, his parents, his friends, he pawned my stuff! I was so naive, I mean ladies, if you meet a guy that has 3 jobs, lives with his parents, and has no car, he's a crackhead. We lived together after dating for 3 months, and it would always take him 20 minutes or more to take out the trash (I started to time it after a while). We went to counseling, and to narc anon meetings. Then he would make excuses about not going to the meeting. Was still a crackhead when I left him. He cleaned up for a while, but that was the last I heard.

2. My second boyfriend, Tim, called The Fat Bastard. I actually went on a date with his brother, and Tim and I became friends. He was so nice, sweet and funny, and was doing and saying everything I needed to hear. I just neglected to process that 3 of his last girlfriends had filed restraining orders on him. I had to be the best looking gf of all his friends, I had to acknowledge him at work, even though we are not supposed to flirt with or kiss customers. I told him I was working and I couldn't kiss him, and he would go ballistic. I wasn't even stripping, I was the coat check girl at a club! If I didn't tell him if some guy hit on me, he thought I was hiding something. I started making up shit. Pretty soon I got fed up and left him. He started calling me from different numbers ( you can only block so many) and asking me how I could be out with someone weeks after we broke up. I asked him what would be the respectful amount of time. He said that if he told me, I would complete the time, and then move on. Exactly. Stalked me for a few months, and then I moved. Oh I forgot, why is he the fat bastard? He had legcankles, no knees, no calves, no ankles, just stumps for legs. And a big gut. He was taking diet pills and would get soooo moody from them. Asshole. I thought since he was nice, that I shouldn't be so shallow. Trust me, the uglier and fatter they are, the bigger the asshole they become.

3. That Damn Drummer...He was a drummer of a major US band. Nominated for a grammy, toured with Lenny Kravitz...hell, Incubus opened for them. One of the guys in the band was trying to give me some lame line and I walked away. That is when drummer boy stepped in. We chatted and he said he would like to get to know me. I said I am not getting on that bus or sucking your dick, pervert. He said, no I want your number. I said okay, thinking he would never call me. He called every day. Emailed me every day. I flew out to see him, I paid! Then he started saying things like if you want to be with me, you have to realize that I won't be there for you birthday or xmas because I will be on the road. Or there are alot of girls around me but I only like you. Sure, no problem. Then I would find phone numbers everywhere. He kept insisting that we were not bf/gf. But if I got someone's phone number, he was pissed. He would ask a girl on a date, go to dinner with her, and if he was no longer interested in her during the date, it was not considered a date! That is how he thinks!! I finally cut it off. He got married and had a kid in less than a year after that.

4. That French Fuck...we met in Paris. I was working with him at a shee-shee frou-frou restaurant. I didn't have a bf for 4 years, him, 7 years. We became friends and then it progressed. He asked me to come with him to Miami to open a catering business. I thought about, applied for some jobs, and got one as a private chef. Three weeks after I moved to FL, the bitch dumped me. Now he is with some rich chubby girl. He lost some weight too. Whatever, I still look fabulous. :P

PhillyDancer1982
02-20-2006, 12:53 PM
I agree with your theory, "the uglier and fatter they are, the bigger asshole they become." That's how it was with the loser bf I wrote about...it seems like ugly guys are insecure of their bad looks, so they feel the need to be more controlling/overprotective as a way to try and keep their gf from leaving them for someone better looking. Near the end of the relationship with the psycho ex I had, he kept guilt-tripping me by complaining, "I don't think you find me attractive anymore" and then would accuse me of "getting off" from a better looking guy. Of course I didn't!! He put on weight & "got comfortable" in the relationship, which wasn't the best, but his foul personality altered my perception of his attractiveness, too.

TifaRae
02-20-2006, 04:26 PM
:O You poor females.

I've only had relationships with 3 guys. They were all somewhat decent with quirks (talked too much, was usually late, too shy), but never that bad.

The guy I'm with now is def. not loser quality.