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Sunshine73
08-31-2006, 11:02 PM
I met my boyfriend at the club, and when the time is right, I would love to marry him. :D He's "the One". I just know. I love him with all my heart and there is not a thing I would change about him.
playmate22
09-07-2006, 10:25 PM
my friends mom married a customer. its not going well
obscurity
09-08-2006, 02:10 AM
in my three yrs. i only dated one man i met in my club. he had brought his best friend out after he and his girlfriend had a big fight. he was very kind and considerate of his friends. he didn't want them to break up over it, so he took his buddy out for some"man" time. well, his friend kept calling me over commenting on my rear, they were pro bodybuilders so they appreciated my 6 miles a day ass. his friend was all about me, ron, was scared to make eye contact. he was so beautiful asian/italian perfect skin, voice,face, etc. fast forward 8 hrs. he asks for my number, so i gave it to him gladly. to make a long story short i lost him because of my typical bitchy stripper attitude. i was cocky outta this world. he was too sweet for who i was then. when he broke up with me he was crying, saying he didn't want to but had to. i was just to much to deal with. wen got along so well besides my hatefulness. neither of us drank, smoke, partied. we worked out religously. i miss him and wonder where he is now. i took him for granted, and wish i could find him to tell him i'm sorry.i think had i not been a stripper it would have lasted longer.
Jamies_Girl
09-14-2006, 09:07 PM
The reason I auditioned for a while was that my friends from the eastern block countries have met some real cool guys at some clubs in NNJ. There just the same guys you'll meet at a dance club in the city or J shore. What guy has not been to a strip club anyway? So I do know a girl or two that has married a bouncer and former customer. People are people so why think too hard about it.
alethea8888
11-10-2006, 08:59 AM
My best friend married a custy 6 months after meeting him in a strip club. They have been happily married for 4 years and have a beautiful relationship. I also know my ex boyfriend married a dancer (I was not a dancer when he and I dated), they had 1 child together and were divorced after 3 years.
hyzenthflay
11-15-2006, 07:40 PM
I'd never dated a customer until about 2 years ago. I was yet another newbie to that club who dated their local "male whore". We have alot of those at that club. Everytime I see them talk to a "newbie" I think, "there's goes another one." That year I went out on few dates with one or two young guys I'd met in there. Nice guys but not my type. To the point: I've been dating and living with a guy I met at that club for almost 2 years. I know we'll get married in another year or so. He didn't frequent clubs then and still doesn't, and never says anything negative about my job. He only comes in if a TDY sneaks up on him and that's the only way he can tell me goodbye.
Pretty_Penny
11-15-2006, 09:00 PM
one of my best regulars is married to a woman he met while she was dancing. they've been married 13? years i think. she danced for a few and then i don't think she needed to anymore. they have problems though, mostly because he goes to strip clubs constantly.
drewcifer
11-27-2006, 06:50 AM
I worked with a dancer who married her regular. It was all good for awhile, he was really well off and she was able to quit dancing. After about a year of married life though, he was back in the club (without her) getting dances from other girls, which I thought was kinda weird. Now they've started coming in as a couple, trying to get other girls to come home with them for threesomes.
cherry_sin
11-30-2006, 09:11 AM
I married a custy -- and his wife. LOL.
His wife was a dancer who met and married him in the club.
Seriously -- yet another reason why "The Game" formula does not work. He's the most opposite of the formula cited in that book I can think of, and he married TWO strippers. At the same time. LOL.
Brooke
12-01-2006, 10:03 AM
I am engaged to a customer. We have been together for almost 5 years and I will marry him after I complete my Masters program. I'd say so far it worked out beautifully :)
He was not a regular. I agree that if he had been someone I relied on for income it never would have happened - would have taken the money. He tipped generously, but honestly he only came in twice before I asked him to meet me OTC.
I was not a full time dancer, but I had also quit my day job when we met. He knew that I would find another professional position soon, and did not intend to dance forever. But I made it very clear that I had NO problem with being a dancer and if he intended to "rescue" me or something stupid like that it wouldn't work.
For the first several years it was no problem. When our relationship went through a rough patch, that changed. He f'ed up and got scared that I would leave him. Unfortunately, because I met him at work, he thought that I might find someone else there. That was royally stupid of him - with years more dancing experience, that was the LAST place I was going to find a replacement (that I wasn't looking for).
Despite how much friction it caused and how nasty he would get about dancing when he was jealous, I never backed down. I danced until I was in a place in my life where quitting was the right thing to do: financially for myself. And when that came I quit. He was relieved, and I am glad the decision made him happy, but I made the choice for me.