View Full Version : Worst Insult Given to you by a Customer
Kaiyla
02-07-2006, 04:45 PM
Everytime a customer asks me to go home with him or do extras I feel insulted. I think that it's just the worst to assume that since we take our clothes off for a living that we'll f*ck every Tom, Dick, and Harry if they pay us.
My response is always the same, "Nope. I'm a dancer, not a prostitute." After that they get the "cold" hustle and I never feel bad about milking them.
Feiticeira
02-07-2006, 05:30 PM
^^^^Exactly what I say
Miss_Eliza
02-07-2006, 05:49 PM
Some guys go to strip clubs just to insult women. they need the kick for thier ego and lack of self confidence. They think that because we are there to make money that they have the upper hand by haveing money.
Some younger guys like to insult the dancers to look cool infront of their friends.
We are the pretty girls that wouldn't talk to them in real life so this is their way of getting us back.
I've had a few try to insult me by being rude, but it dosen't bother me. I don't care what they think. They are just looking to make someone feel bad ; and it is not going to be me.
Now my friend . If there is a predtor looking for someome to hurt and insult and make cry it will be her. They flock to her to try to make her feel like crap. These kind of men know how to find a victim with low selfasteem.
DancerSarah
02-08-2006, 04:52 PM
you would be near perfect if you lost about 10 lbs and toned up your thighs....my response was to accidentaly kick him in the face doing floor word
DancerSarah
02-08-2006, 04:53 PM
We are the pretty girls that wouldn't talk to them in real life so this is their way of getting us back.
I say this all the time and it really could not be more true
Yekhefah
02-08-2006, 04:55 PM
you would be near perfect if you lost about 10 lbs and toned up your thighs....my response was to accidentaly kick him in the face doing floor word
What kills me is, the guys who say things like that would ALWAYS need much more than that to make them even moderately attractive. Which is of course why they say these things; they know they're ugly and need to put down a hot chick to make themselves feel better.
Crystal_eyes
02-08-2006, 05:37 PM
It always makes me smile when some fat balding loser is saying bad stuff about the way a dancer looks, yeah like your better. Anyone ever noticed that it's always those kinda guy that say those stuff ??
kittensgirl
02-08-2006, 05:52 PM
"don't you have any self respect? How do you think you'll get a boyfriend doing this?"
If he really felt that way it was a worse reflection on him being there and supporting the industry than it was on me. Anyway I enjoyed watching him choke by replying "Actually I'm married" and when he was just about to recover I added "I've been married for 15 years". The reaction from him was well worth losing a $20 dollar dance. But the funniest thing is later in the night he chased me down to get a dance anyway! Now I wonder who's the one with no self respect.
Angel1112
02-08-2006, 08:28 PM
just have confidence and be assertive not aggressive...........you don't have to be trashy or sluty...guys like a classy,confident ,sophisticated girl,more than anything.
oceanblue
02-10-2006, 09:18 AM
" You look like your gaining weight" or "I liked your other haircolor better, I think i will only buy one dance today, ok sweetie"
gypsy_girlchild
02-10-2006, 09:29 AM
I was sitting with a bunch of guys I adored (they were my break time guys that wouldn't mess with me when I just needed a breather.) They were telling one of their new friends how great I was and he looked me up and down and said I was all right, but I was too flat..
One of them slapped him upside the head and said he wasn't welcome to come back with them anymore. ... he he, never saw him again.
TaraDoll
02-10-2006, 12:43 PM
A mexican that didn't speak much english got a lap dance, after explaining for 5 minutes what that dance entailed then asked for another one. He was being very shy for some reason. Then when I said okay he started unzipping his zipper, after I told him he can't do that he said, "You suck my dick!" lmao... No I will not, and ubruptly got up and took his money for the first dance.
Cally
02-10-2006, 12:47 PM
I was kind of insulted when one of my fav regulars told me i've become more like a sister to him and hes not comfortable getting dances from me anymore :(
Thing is he was serious... he wont go for dances with anyone. I was the only girl he would go with and hes never been with another girl since lol. His best friend told me the guy just loves me like a sister now. He still comes and hangs out and tips me rather well on stage but he doesnt get dances anymore :(
kikiwiki
02-11-2006, 07:08 PM
I got "gee, you have a very motherly body, have you had kids?" I know I'm bottom heavy and don't have ripped abs but damn! I was hurt. This was many years ago.
Taking dollars is not a problem.. usually I put the tipper's face between my boobs. Okay? No problem.. One guy just refused, saying he didn't want to go where everybody else had been like I was diseased or something or that I had some sort of funk growing in there. How mean, as he was basically saying I was dirty.
yahottie2
02-12-2006, 02:15 PM
These guys are brutal and total assholes. All dancers I have seen are waaaayyyy better looking than most women I see at school, etc.
KittenCaboodle
02-19-2006, 03:12 PM
I had a customer shout "CRAP"half way through my private show then walk out.
My bouncer friend said the guy must'a been expecting extars
quequisiera
02-19-2006, 03:51 PM
Truthfully other dancers have been meaner to me than most customers. Since we are talking about customers one that I remember reminds me of some of the racial biases I face here in Dallas. As I sat down with a group of guys one said, "don't get a dance from her she's a gypsy." With that they sent me away.
I am mixed and the most annoying people get it into their head that I am one thing which is what ever they happen to assume at the moment. I just want to be what I am American.
exotic0690
02-19-2006, 03:54 PM
"Why do you wear so much make-up" and "You put too much black around your eyes"
F--- OFF !!!
Crystal_eyes
02-19-2006, 05:04 PM
Once a customer told me you'll never make money here you look like a princess and look like you think your better than us, you should be more blue collar : First I don't think I am I KNOW I am, and second who the f**k asked you anything. And I will never want to look like you piece of s**t.
yourgirlkt
02-21-2006, 10:26 AM
one guy that had gotten a few dances from me & i knew had money to spend says "you have meaty thighs"... THANKS?
last night a were drunk young guy approached me while i was on the pedastool & wants me to sit with him when i get done. so i do, & he's like "i want a dance from you" so he asks how much they are, i tell him $20, & he's like "i want to wait for the 2 for 1 though" ... ohkay cheap bastard. i'm like "that isn't for a while" & he proceeds to tell me he wants to give me all the money in his pockets, blah blah blah, then the conversation started turning sour.. he was saying he came to FL from NY to play golf & get laid. GREAT. He asks if he moved down here would I date him... normally I would play the whole hair twirling dumbass role but I was annoyed & said "No". He asks if I'm seeing someone & I said yes, stupid I know but he was just pissing me off. Then he asks if he moved down here & bought a house for me would I see him? No... then he says "I would date you based on your looks alone" & I said "What if I was a total bitch?" & he's like "You already are, I can tell that already" & I just said "Ohkay see ya" & I walked off as he proceeds to yell "Noooo don't go nooo"
UGHHHH. I always love the "You don't belong here I can see it in your eyes, you hate this" speech I get constantly..
but my FAVORITE are the girls who come into our club, come up to tip on stage, then proceed to tell me to "Do something" for the tip. Unless you are tipping me atleast $20, I'm not going to "DO SOMETHING". Girls are so much ruder then guys at my club.. they like to tell you how to do you job. I just feel like saying "Let me know the next time you're working at McDonalds & I'll make sure I let you know that I'm not paying unless I receive my food with a big genuine smile"
mermaidnz
02-21-2006, 06:04 PM
"you are typical fat ugly with stupid ozzie pride"
(in the broken jenglish one gets in jp clubs)
that customer ended up being a good friend and it was his standard greeting to girls from my country who intimidated him. (none of whom were fat or ugly)
that is disturbingly familliar- just trying to place those words witha face- theres one custy i had who also went to private eyes who said stuff like that. little guy. umm. always requested aussies,only to insult them, get really drunk and go home. glasses. um.. crap. his name is on the tip of my tongue...
KamrynAnne
02-21-2006, 06:18 PM
this is my favorite.. since i am a tall girl at 5'10, i constantly getting asked my height... but nothing is worse when someone calls me "big".... My build is comparible to an anna kournikova build as i was an athlete all my life before i started dancing..... if i remember correctly i wouldn't consider that to be in the heavy range... i'm at size 4..... its just like calling a short guy who's kinda on the thicker side of things stocky..... some people just don't know when to bite their toungue... ive learned to shrug off comments from mean men like that as i don't give a fuck about them, just their money.
TifaRae
02-21-2006, 06:22 PM
KamrynAnne, you're really cute. Big at a size 4?? Hahah! As if.
RicanAsianMa
02-21-2006, 07:14 PM
"Your boobs are just....um...too big...and natural...Sorry, your not my type."
That was the first time I've EVER got a complaint on my breasts. How can you have both too big and too natural breasts? Is that possible?
songofthesword
02-27-2006, 07:27 PM
customer: "how long have you been dancing?"
me: "this is my first night"
customer: "you will not believe how much your going to tone up in the next few months!"
not really an insult, but an atrocius choice of words by the partron
MADAM LIZZ
02-28-2006, 01:48 AM
I had a customer once, while i was getting off stage ask me if i would give him a dance for 1/2 price i said nope......he then kepted trying to negociate with me about prices for a dance,, when i said basicalyl fuck off,,,,,,,,,he threw his beer at me,,,,,it was a plastci cup but it got all over me and then i smelled like a dam trucker, yuckkkkk,. i got so pissed of at him, i tookoff my platfrom ( its a slip on -mule ) and threw at him........lollol i thin my shoe hurt him more than his beer did on me lololol and then a bouncer psuhed him outside
thechaosfairy
02-28-2006, 02:33 AM
I guess this is where working in a tiny friendly neighborhood bar is a good thing (I certainly don't do it for the big bucks!) I've never had anyone outright insult me. The worst thing I usually get is "you're young enough to be my (daughter/granddaughter)". This is usually not untrue, but it pisses me off, as the customers are often giving it as a reason not to buy a dance from me. If I think they might anyway (which is to say, they're being embarrassed about their age, not pulling the superiority act) I'll start talking about my love life and mention that one of my partners is in his early 40s.
esoterica
03-06-2006, 12:50 AM
Newb question - Have any of you ever gotten in trouble with management for defending yourselves against these louts? I love the "stiletto in the crotch" stories, but do you ever get in trouble for that? I'm used to retail, where you're told that the custy is always right and you basically have to put up with abuse.
greenidlady1
03-06-2006, 12:52 AM
It really depends on the offense. I would just always tell the bouncer to take of it and tip him well. I have had a custy bite me before and I slapped him for it. But I have never took the heel to the testes.
Tia_q
03-06-2006, 01:46 AM
Wow I can't believe the rude comments you girls have endured-some of them are absolutely horrible and would send me off crying! Congrats for having the strength to deal with them. Just reading them made me mad. I really don't get why guys would say such things... do most of you work in alcohol clubs? (I don't.. it's a juice bar) That's the only thing I could guess that would make them so mean. I've gotten some of the usual "how much?" ....but the vicious comments.. god.. I'm sorry some of you have had to deal with that:(
tenshigirl25
03-06-2006, 03:05 AM
yeah that is scary stuff..although when i tried it a couple yrs ago..(i wanna try it again this yr-im 25) i got a few nasty remarks.. usually when they thought i was "money hungry" or just plain mean..
"u look kinda fat"
"your not so beautiful"
"u look older"
"u look so tired"
yadda yadda
these were japanese men..weirdos..
exotisch23
03-06-2006, 03:33 AM
some guy mumbled something at me when I was walking by & I didnt hear him so he repeated, "you look great", ok, I said & kept walking but later that night some girl that was sitting with him told me what he REALLY said, he said "lose some weight" !!! I guess i was a little over weight when I first started dancing.
Darcy Foxx
03-06-2006, 05:25 AM
"so, you'd have to be the oldest chick here right?" (i was 19 years old, there was at least two 30+ year olds at the club, i was sooo offended by that)
"holy shit, look at the size of the ass on that bitch" when walking past a table
"hey nurse, you've got a nice pussy but the rest of you is fucking shit" - this guy was on his bachelor party night, and he ended up getting beaten into an absolute fucking pulp by the bouncers
one guy once actually grabbed my arm and tried to almost throw me away from the table, then waved his hand and said "shoo shoo, get back in the ocean little fish, we can do way better than you"
cinammonkisses
03-06-2006, 02:46 PM
some guy mumbled something at me when I was walking by & I didnt hear him so he repeated, "you look great", ok, I said & kept walking but later that night some girl that was sitting with him told me what he REALLY said, he said "lose some weight" !!! I guess i was a little over weight when I first started dancing.
Or maybe he really did say "you look great" and that dancer just wanted to mess w/ your head for the night :-\ Think about it like that.
maximvsv
04-20-2006, 10:41 AM
Also, notice that a lot of the insults come from some of the ugliest, most obese guys?
Us obese, ugly guys get more fixated on appearance than other guys. Sure, it doesn't make us correct, but since it's an extension of our own poor self-images, it's on our minds more often.
Feel free to slap the guy for being a jerk.
velour1141
04-20-2006, 11:19 AM
This happened the other night to one of the girls at my club.... I was even mad!
Girl: Asked custy for a dance.
Custy: "No, maybe later."
Girl: "Oh they always say that."
Cust: Looks her over and says, "Well, I wonder why."
That comment was so unnecessary... maybe I'm to sensitive but I thought that was really offensive. All he had to say was "No thank you."
buffie06
04-20-2006, 11:38 AM
When I decided to get my boobs done, I told a regular of mine and he said it was false advertisment. I didn't understand why and he explained that when i meet someone who wants to marry me they will think their daughters will have large breasts, and it's is not fair to them. WTF?!! Why in the hell would a guy care how big his daughters boobs are? Anyways he pissed me off so bad that I told him I was married. Ushould have seen the look on his face! PRICELESS!! he was a long time regular, but i would sooo do that again haha
Selina M
08-07-2016, 09:57 PM
Bumping this zombie thread because it's hilarious. Not that anyone being insulted is hilarious but because it's funny how mean some of the more pathetic customers get to pump their own egos up.
1) Giving a floor dance to some eastern European I could barely understand. He tried to BITE me and I scolded him, then turned around and went into air dance mode. He still tried to put his hands all over me, and I grabbed them, put them down on the chair and said "No honey..." He immediately went "Ugh we're done here", then looked at his friend, gestures at me without eye contact, and in his thick accent says "Pay her, she isn't worth a shit". SO rude, I can't imagine how they treat women in whatever country he is from.
2) Club regular that thinks he is a baller (young dude that somehow made a lot of $$ but is always wasted and being pathetic). I'm stupid thin, barely 100 lbs., but it was 'that time' + I had been eating nothing but Oreos and soda all week, so I was bloated as fuck. I walked past him and he goes "Dang you're getting a little pooch" and grabs his stomach while making a duck face at me. He did it again the next time I went past. I cussed him out that time, because this super sweet, easily upset girl was working that night and she was like 5 months pregnant; I didn't want him to do it to her. He apologized at least.
KaraLynn
08-07-2016, 10:05 PM
My first couple of insults on the job were a guy telling me I'm homely and another one saying I needed to tone up because I didn't have washboard six pack abs. Besides that I usually don't get anything too bad, usually guys are just vague and dismissive when they're not into me instead of insulting. I guess the fact that I've been told I come across as intimidating comes in handy in that way.
gratefulnothateful
08-08-2016, 01:22 AM
"I'm sure you could be hot (looks me up and down), just not the way you're doing it." I went on to make $800 dollars that night. I must be doing something wrong.
SylvySinclair
08-08-2016, 07:48 AM
fuck off u favela brazilian fuck! augh that was rough to hear lol
We had a rabbit like you
08-08-2016, 09:17 AM
That I'm too fat and need to cover up
That I'm too thin and have no ass
That I look like a boy cause I have no tits
That I looked like lady gaga ( that dude got cussed out good)
That I "shouldn't quit your day job"
RyanXO
08-08-2016, 09:52 AM
This really isn't an insult but strikes a nerve nevertheless...
"I'm glad this club is now hiring thicker curvier girls like you!"
Again, I'm sure this is a compliment, but I have struggled with weight and body dysmorphia, and toed the line with eating disorders, so when I hear "thick" or "curvy" my mind freaks out. I understand some people mean those to say you have an hourglass figure or a bigger butt and breasts, but I always considered those terms euphemisms for fat.
Other than that, I have been fortunate at my clubs that I've never run into customers saying rude things to me personally, only other dancers which is easy to ignore.
Oh, I almost forgot, the one thing that gets me FIRED UP like no other comment is when guys bitch about girls' c-section scars. It is rage inducing. I am not a mother but I work with many girls who are and it is soooo disrespectful to women in general. Ok, assholes, you labor for 16 hours or more and experience the trauma of emergency delivery surgery THEN maybe you can say something. End rant.
whirlerz
08-08-2016, 12:35 PM
When I'd gone back to dancing the last time yrs ago (danced yrs before) I worked in a bikini dive bar. These guys came in @ lunch a few times, the one guy in the group liked me, the one said I'm ugly disgusting as hell & made me cry as I walked away.
The barmaid asked me if they said anything (she was in the bk when he said it) & I just said no.
The next time they came in, I told her before they ordered, & she told them to act nice or leave. I think they left after 1 drink.
MissLouboutin
08-08-2016, 01:36 PM
"you're one of the sexiest dancers here, but there has to be someone hotter than you working here"
"You have a nose on you"
"You could lose 10 lbs"
"I don't like this wave in your hair. You should straighten it"
"You're hot, but not that hot"
I got an older, cheap customer to spend money for a 3 song lap dance and I kept moving his hands away from my tits, he was livid about it. Before the dance he said he'd tip me $20 lol so I asked for the tip afterwards and he's like "That was the worst dance in my entire life"
I don't remember most of the insults but this is what I can think of at the moment.
SylvySinclair
08-08-2016, 03:30 PM
when the guy says nothing but u know......this guy just books a show on aw, then he decides to enter my videochat of 1 sec only, leaves, immediately cancels the booked show.
fuck, i must look ugly in his eyes! he wont even respond to my email which i sent to ask why he cancelled and even deletes it. fuck me hard! lmao
Aammeelliiaa
08-08-2016, 07:29 PM
I had two customers put their hands on my stomach and ask when i was due.
"you're cute not hot"
Wasn't customer but when I bleached my hair the DJ told me I'd look better with my head shaved.
LoveyDovey
08-09-2016, 06:53 AM
After 4 months of dancing, a customer said to me, "Wow, you're getting really good up there. I remember your first time up there. We didn't think you'd last a week!"
Um, thanks?
gummygirl
08-09-2016, 08:19 PM
It's not but " your boobs are uneven" wtf?
Just other day a customer said to anther dancer "your pretty but your black" he must be a ladies men jeez