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LoveyDovey
08-10-2016, 05:43 PM
^^ A customer once said to my gorgeous coworker, "You're beautiful...for a black girl..." :O
~*SwanPrincess*~
08-16-2016, 05:10 PM
"I would do anything for my daughter not to end up like you".
"What to you do this for? You should be on tv or a model. Oh my bad, you probably have 6 kids and welfare isnt enough $ for you hahahaha...."
"You must be such a horny little tramp to be here stripping!" (Not even close loser. I love the money)
I've also been called an amazon woman more than once. Im 5"6 120 lbs. An "amazon woman?" Really???
RyanXO
08-17-2016, 01:44 PM
I've also been called an amazon woman more than once. Im 5"6 120 lbs. An "amazon woman?" Really???
Oh god I hate comments like those! I have body dysmorphia and past weight issues and those comments are sooo triggering! I hate hearing "muscular" and "sturdy." Makes me feel fat and unattractive. Wasn't a customer but someone called me "big-boned" once and I just about lost it.
crystalize
08-18-2016, 03:51 PM
"I would do anything for my daughter not to end up like you".
"What to you do this for? You should be on tv or a model. Oh my bad, you probably have 6 kids and welfare isnt enough $ for you hahahaha...."
"You must be such a horny little tramp to be here stripping!" (Not even close loser. I love the money)
I've also been called an amazon woman more than once. Im 5"6 120 lbs. An "amazon woman?" Really???
the first 3 would have gotten at least a good slap from me.
Gia2608
08-21-2016, 01:42 PM
A customer once told another dancer I looked like a linebacker. I don't have broad shoulders at all. It was kind of weird.
KlutzyCammer
09-01-2016, 04:57 PM
I wish I'd known about SW when I started 4 years ago :( At least I've discovered it before I go back :)
I was working the gap between Christmas and New Year thinking it was going to be deadsville but hoping for some extra spending money for going away. Turns out it was awesome and I was banking every shift! Halfway through one of the shifts I go up to this table of 4 middle aged, well dressed guys. I'm having a lovely conversation with one guy when his friend interrupts really really loudly to comment on "HOLY SHIT YOU HAVE MASSIVE TITS!" I was like "Aww thanks babe" and tried to return to my conversation. Next he comes out with "Thanks? Ha! I could have massive tits like that too if I ate enough mars bars! Is that how you got yours? Oh sorry, I didn't think, is it a thyroid problem? Like a hormonal thing or something. Sorry, I didn't realise it was health issues, I'll shut up now". All of his friends went absolutely ballistic with him.
I just smiled, stood up and flounced away to the changing rooms where I was fortunately alone and able to have a good cry. I checked my phone and realised I'd been crying for 10 minutes and that I had wasted enough time on the asshole. Like someone had flipped a switch; I stopped crying, checked my makeup and strutted back onto the floor where I made a killing from Tiny Dick's friends who couldn't apologise or shower me with compliments enough. The icing on the cake was when the asshole asked for a dance himself to which I just laughed in his face and had him forcefully removed from the premises.
The first and only time I've ever cried because of something a customer said to me. For a reference point: I'm a UK size 10 (US size 8), 5'3" with a big ass, big boobs and a teenie waist. He was middle aged, balding, sporting an impressive beer belly and looking completely out of place with his 3 attractive friends. I think I would have preferred him to outright say he thought I was fat.
LoveyDovey
09-02-2016, 08:17 AM
^^^ It's always the fat ugly ones who try to make the girls feel like shit. Good for you for turning it around and bouncing that fucker out. So sorry he made you cry...he wasn't worth any of those tears!!
We had a rabbit like you
09-02-2016, 09:34 AM
at my heaviest: "you're kind of fat/chubby , but there's something sexy about you" fuck you dude. And I wonder why I have body issues now haha
And at my skinniest it was "are you even a girl? No tits"
22lligm
09-02-2016, 03:35 PM
Last week a customer told me I look good but my dances suck cause he just saw me give a lapdance. Lol. I'll admit my dances aren't that exciting but that's because I don't like to spread eagle naked on them for $20 like I see other dancers do.
Also recently another customer at a different club asked if I'm tired because I just popped a bunch of Xanax and if I have a bunch of fuck buddies because clearly I'm a drugged up slutty stripper.
Omg and also recently I was already not feeling very cute and was on stage dancing and a group of guys come up to me. One says that I'm 'perfection' and then his friend proceeds to point out everything that ISNT perfection. Really dude? Why don't you get up here naked & let's analyze you next.
Hmm and I wonder why these guys are in strip clubs paying women to pay attention to them.. Lol
CharlottesWebb
09-23-2016, 08:37 AM
I've had quiet a few... The most recent ones I can recall is one of my regular customers that I usually hang out with at the bar and he tips me good on stage but rarely does dances. He's was a good friend of mine for over a year. I mostly hang out with him when there is no one else there. He took me back to VIP because he broke up with his GF. We go back there and he's like let me lick your p*ssy on the first song. I wouldn't even do that one the 100th song, so I tell him straight up no. Before the song was over he pushed me off of him, said I was boring and threw me 100$ bill when the dance was only 30$. Then as I am walking out, almost in tears because my feelings were hurt some fucker came up to the VIP desk where I was paying for the song and asks me "what are you, 12?" Referring to my age. I told him "ACTUALLY I'm 22". Which was a lie, Just wanted to make him feel dumb. And he was like "Oooh" and I replied to him "Yep I just got done doing my mAke up". He says back to me "well you did a good job then". I went to the dressing room and just put my head down and cried for a good five minutes before I fixed myself up again, got myself together and continued working. That was a bad night.
RyanXO
09-23-2016, 10:33 AM
at my heaviest: "you're kind of fat/chubby , but there's something sexy about you" fuck you dude. And I wonder why I have body issues now haha
And at my skinniest it was "are you even a girl? No tits"
Yup. You can't win, that's why the comments don't get to me any more. Because even if you are perfect, skinny, with big boobs, then there will still always be someone who will call you"fake." Insecure people will always find something negative to say no matter what.
crystalize
09-24-2016, 03:54 AM
I've had quiet a few... The most recent ones I can recall is one of my regular customers that I usually hang out with at the bar and he tips me good on stage but rarely does dances. He's was a good friend of mine for over a year. I mostly hang out with him when there is no one else there. He took me back to VIP because he broke up with his GF. We go back there and he's like let me lick your p*ssy on the first song. I wouldn't even do that one the 100th song, so I tell him straight up no. Before the song was over he pushed me off of him, said I was boring and threw me 100$ bill when the dance was only 30$. Then as I am walking out, almost in tears because my feelings were hurt some fucker came up to the VIP desk where I was paying for the song and asks me "what are you, 12?" Referring to my age. I told him "ACTUALLY I'm 22". Which was a lie, Just wanted to make him feel dumb. And he was like "Oooh" and I replied to him "Yep I just got done doing my mAke up". He says back to me "well you did a good job then". I went to the dressing room and just put my head down and cried for a good five minutes before I fixed myself up again, got myself together and continued working. That was a bad night.
believe me it's way worse when they tell you that you look 40 when you're 28... i think guys do that on purpose. like the red pill thread.. they purposely try to break our confidence to make themselves feel better about their broke asses. i just walk away now... but it does sting sometimes if they hit a certain nerve (something you're insecure about)
but hey! being called too young is about the best insult I could think of. enjoy it while you can!
Legz541
09-26-2016, 12:00 AM
A little preface to the story. I'm not as proportionate as I'd like, plenty of booty but rockin a B cup. I'm EXTREMELY self conscious of my boobs because of this.
I had been dancing a few months when one night a couple sets down at my stage. I take off my top and the woman practically yells "Oh don't worry sweetie, they'll grow!" Everyone within like a 15' radius was just staring. It felt SO awkward....and I had to be up there 2 more songs. So she probably didn't mean it as an insult but it was definitely a shot to the gut. Thank god I grew a VERY thick skin VERY quickly. Now days I'd tell her to go fk herself lol.
Balletpolegirl
09-30-2016, 03:22 AM
I don't know if a customers ever outright blatantly insulted me to my face, but I was told I was cute but "a little ghetto" (whatever that's supposed to mean.I guess he was calling me "trashy".)
I've also been told "I have very high standards", which came from 2 customers: 1) The young douche who thinks he's too good but is still sitting alone watching for free. 1) The weird pale overweight bald time waster in PDX who wanted to have a conversation with me for free and stared at me the rest of the night. Weirdo.
rosafromeurope
01-01-2017, 01:35 PM
So many douchebags have the mentality that women need to be "taken down a notch." They enjoy the upset look following their insults - it's a domination tactic and they want their women insecure about themselves, most likely because it's actually the guy who's insecure and seeing a strong woman owning her sexuality makes him uncomfortable. These guys have a seriously twisted "alpha/beta male" mentality and a constant need to be on top of the "sexual ladder." (If you don't believe me, just check some so-called dating tips forums from guys to guys. Many of them explicitly advice insults.)
So, if a guy insults you for seemingly no reason or is just being mean, chances are you're simply and truly too gorgeous for him to handle. Flaunt on!
I was talking to a customer and I asked him if he'd ever been in the club before, he responded "Oh, we all look the same don't we?" He was black and I'm white and I was like "uhhhh what" and then he told me "You're fat for a white girl" (he was about 300 lbs). I'm 5'4" and 125 lbs, I'm a lot of things but fat isn't one of them, so I just walked away, but I was literally flabbergasted. Some people are just assholes! I will never forget that though! Way to be a complete dick to someone who was trying to have a conversation. There have been guys like that before, but the incredibly hate-filled assumption that I am racist because I am white just really got to me, like I could physically feel how much he hated me and he didn't even know me.
LeggingsQueen
01-03-2017, 11:59 AM
I had a white customer once turn me away because "I showed too much attention to black customers". I asked him how he was doing and his response "I know you're into the black guys so don't think I'm going to waste my money on you". I was like EXCUSE ME!! I go on asking him to explain just waiting for a way to get him kicked out. He goes on about how I look the part. How I am very friendly with black customers, I only dance to hip hop and I have a big butt for a white girl so I must go that way. I just walked away and told a few other girls I work with. He got ignored from there on.
hollywood6
01-04-2017, 01:17 AM
So, recently I've gained some weight. I used to be so skinny a lot of people would ask if I was bulemic and tell me I need to eat. Now I am finally at a "healthy looking" weight.
Customer 1:
"Wow you have put on some pounds haven't you? I can see it in your face!"
Customer 2:
"I remember when you used to be a hot little skinny bitch!"
It amazes me what guys think is okay!
MzBlondie
01-04-2017, 04:59 PM
I had a white customer once turn me away because "I showed too much attention to black customers". I asked him how he was doing and his response "I know you're into the black guys so don't think I'm going to waste my money on you". I was like EXCUSE ME!! I go on asking him to explain just waiting for a way to get him kicked out. He goes on about how I look the part. How I am very friendly with black customers, I only dance to hip hop and I have a big butt for a white girl so I must go that way. I just walked away and told a few other girls I work with. He got ignored from there on.
Thats really sad that shit like that happens in 2017! I had something similar happen although not 100% it was the same but a party a couple weeks ago with both white guys and a couple black guys there. I was finishing up with a lap dance and 2 guys were asking for another one. I chose the black guy cause he was closets. I did a couple dances for him nothing crazy. Then I went to the white guy and he no longer wanted me to dance for him. It's either he didn't like having a girl on him after she was on a black guy or just got pissed I put him 2nd in line. I noticed he was a big Trump supporter to so I can only imagine lol. Very sad still deal with stupid stuff like that though. I started dating a black guy and I even notice I get some "funny" looks in public when we are together out.
persianprincess
01-04-2017, 05:23 PM
OK on the escort side .... "that's how you give a blow job?!" ... meanwhile I had amazing reviews etc. I think the little fucktart thought I was going to suddenly go extra hard to please him ... I snarled at him and was like ... I'm doing the best I can with the equipment you have.
Fuck trying to make me feel bad, you're the one paying.
rareaspasia
01-05-2017, 10:31 AM
I think my favorite to date was that my cheekbones make me look old. I posted about this in another thread but it still cracks me up. I own my age because it's made no damn difference other than to make me more money but could the dumb fucker really have been so eager to make me feel bad about myself that he just said whatever? Maybe he thought I had implants? My cheekbones are one of my favorite features but I'm not perfect so there's plenty of other things he could have tried to pick on me for.
lilylilylily
01-07-2017, 01:13 PM
I lost over 15 pounds because I'm eating healthier and I like the weight I'm at now, I look healthy, but a few regs have said they prefered me when I was heavier and that I'm too skinny now. The barmaid asked me this week how Christmas was, I told her 'great, I ate like there was no tomorrow' and she said, 'you eat? You're so skinny' Thanks. I can out eat a man, I'm just lucky I have a high metabolism.
DamnJolene
01-08-2017, 12:38 PM
It wasn't a customer, but the bartender once said to me, "Watch where you are going chubby" in front of the customers. I spilled beer over the table. I was kinda' hurt, but he was old and ugly, and I didn't care.
I won't hurt other peoples' feelings though, not my style lol.
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another customer said, "ewwww" to my face.
And another customer pointed to a dancer...
I don't care, but I won't forget either.
I have great self-esteem, you can't bring me down! I know where I stand with my looks, and my looks aren't what attracts men, it's my personality. I had hot men into me... so you know what, screw you, lol, I can land me a hot man! I don't care about mean insults.
cassie22
01-08-2017, 02:24 PM
One customer was getting dances from me and told me, "Your boobs are small. You need to get breast implants." He still spent $100 on me so it didn't bother me all that much, he must've found me attractive despite my small boobs. Lol.
vanessa_mtl
01-16-2017, 11:36 AM
"How do you have so much confidence with pale skin and an average body?"
RyanXO
01-16-2017, 11:49 AM
"I am glad you are here I like thicker women." I get it's a compliment but I used to be fat and lost 60 pounds, so this is a slap in the face to me. Thick means fat in my mind, even if that is a distortion.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-16-2017, 01:24 PM
Honestly.....when a crippled guy (cerebral palsy) joined in on picking on me when a bunch of the other girls were being bitches to me. Yes, even people who should know better can't resist the urge to join in on bullying or degrading a hot female. Pretty pathetic.
Legz541
01-16-2017, 01:41 PM
"Wow, you're really pretty....not too many flaws." Nice little backhanded compliment. The bartender heard him and cut him off for being such a douche.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-16-2017, 01:51 PM
"Wow, you're really pretty....not too many flaws." Nice little backhanded compliment. The bartender heard him and cut him off for being such a douche.
This reminded me of one of the first scenes in the movie "The Grifters." (A jeweler uses diamond analogies to describe a woman....politely enough.) But yeah, that sounds like a classic "neg"
Ivysplayground
05-06-2017, 08:55 PM
Someone asked if I was sexually abused. In a casual manner. WTF?!?!?!
elliela
05-07-2017, 06:03 PM
"Your tits are crooked."
Leather_Jacket
05-08-2017, 04:27 PM
"Wow, cute! I'll give you an 8.5"
I give him a blank stare and laugh, "Are you negging me right now?"
"Well... Idk maybe more like an 8"
...Jesus dude, don't go handing out numbers when your score is about half of my 8.5 lol.
the red queen
05-08-2017, 05:51 PM
While I was onstage, I overheard a woman say to her date, "No one wants to see that." Unsurprisingly, she was not attractive, but the comment stung nonetheless. I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but ouch.
RyanXO
05-12-2017, 12:56 PM
While I was onstage, I overheard a woman say to her date, "No one wants to see that." Unsurprisingly, she was not attractive, but the comment stung nonetheless. I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but ouch.
Uggg that's why I HATE female customers. I know men say dumb shit too, but the women are the worst with their jealousy.
vanessa_mtl
05-15-2017, 02:43 PM
Are you pregnant?
lilylilylily
05-15-2017, 03:13 PM
I got are you pregnant too, by a customer and another dancer
littlelizard
05-17-2017, 01:34 AM
When I first started dancing again, this guy said "are you an A cup" as he was trying to fondle my tits for free. I'm a fucking D. I got up really fast and no other dancer approached him that night, so he left not too long after.
I was giving this ugly Indian dude a string of lap dances, he kept asking me if I think he's handsome, so of course I'm like "omgggg you're SOOO hot!!!!" At the end of the dances he tells me I have no hips. That really irritated me because I wish I had bigger hips. I'm half Asian and my Asian mother has the curves of a 9 year old boy, so I lucked out and have somewhat hips. I got petty and told him his eyes are ugly and his hair is balding. He chases me around the club apologizing but at that point I'm all ready over it.
tempest666
05-18-2017, 02:51 AM
"I am glad you are here I like thicker women." I get it's a compliment but I used to be fat and lost 60 pounds, so this is a slap in the face to me. Thick means fat in my mind, even if that is a distortion.
Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hate being called "thick" especially when I don't deserve it after how hard I've been working in the gym.
tootsie
05-21-2017, 11:59 PM
" awe she has little tits" really columbo? As if they didn't notice until I took my top off
PuppyBrat22
05-25-2017, 02:04 AM
Not really an insult I suppose, but the only thing that ever gets under my skin is that almost every customer I have an extended conversation with goes the "you're too smart to be here" route. I had one specific custie who legitimately argued with me and INSISTED that I couldn't possibly enjoy my work because I "had such a beautiful mind" and I just??? I had another who promised to tip me when I went up on stage (and I was really excited because he and his friends are the biggest spenders in the club) but after talking with him he said that we had a "connection" that went deeper than business and he couldn't ruin our "vibe" by paying me. I was livid and flat out told him that I can't pay my bills with "vibe" and ignored him for the rest of the night.
I also seem to get a lot of customers that gush over how beautiful I am and how I have the best body in the club (whoch tbh I kind of did until the weekends came around and the top earners showed up) and talk about how many dances they want to buy, but then ask me to date them and when I say no they don't spend a cent on me. How do I handle that? I have no idea how to turn them down while still making them want to spend on me and I've missed out on so much money because they seem more interested in dating me than dances.
RyanXO
05-25-2017, 06:57 AM
Not really an insult I suppose, but the only thing that ever gets under my skin is that almost every customer I have an extended conversation with goes the "you're too smart to be here" route. I had one specific custie who legitimately argued with me and INSISTED that I couldn't possibly enjoy my work because I "had such a beautiful mind" and I just??? I had another who promised to tip me when I went up on stage (and I was really excited because he and his friends are the biggest spenders in the club) but after talking with him he said that we had a "connection" that went deeper than business and he couldn't ruin our "vibe" by paying me. I was livid and flat out told him that I can't pay my bills with "vibe" and ignored him for the rest of the night.
I also seem to get a lot of customers that gush over how beautiful I am and how I have the best body in the club (whoch tbh I kind of did until the weekends came around and the top earners showed up) and talk about how many dances they want to buy, but then ask me to date them and when I say no they don't spend a cent on me. How do I handle that? I have no idea how to turn them down while still making them want to spend on me and I've missed out on so much money because they seem more interested in dating me than dances.
Try upscale club.
PuppyBrat22
05-25-2017, 08:16 AM
Try upscale club.
I wish I could but upscale places tend to be racist in their hiring, so as a black girl (especially as a curvy black girl) I'd be hard pressed to get into one. Even at 40 pounds lighter I have notable hips and thighs, so I don't think those clubs will ever be an option for me. :(
Ivysplayground
05-30-2017, 03:43 PM
It's always "You're just doing this for money!" I mean....yeah...don't you do your job for money??
Grace108
06-01-2017, 11:34 PM
I was dancing, went on the floor showing my bomb and the 70 y old guy with tick glasses seated,... start to shout 'do you have hair on your ass?' I felt so embarrassed. Well no only that he went out back on the group of friends and coworkers saying laughter the dancer has hair in the ass.
He was literally obsessed with this. I showed even my bomb to one of those coworkers, in the changing room, as I was totally puzzled by that reaction...
I waxed two weeks before!
SoCalGinger
06-02-2017, 12:17 PM
I get told all the time that I'm too hot, too nice, too humble, too something. I range in size from 0-4 and I always get told I have thick thighs. Sometimes it comes across as compliments, but more back handed insults. They always speculate if I workout, run, etc. Somehow when a customer starts commenting on your body, if you don't agree and laugh it off you tend to get friend zoned.
Ivysplayground
06-03-2017, 11:41 AM
Not really an insult I suppose, but the only thing that ever gets under my skin is that almost every customer I have an extended conversation with goes the "you're too smart to be here" route. I had one specific custie who legitimately argued with me and INSISTED that I couldn't possibly enjoy my work because I "had such a beautiful mind" and I just??? I had another who promised to tip me when I went up on stage (and I was really excited because he and his friends are the biggest spenders in the club) but after talking with him he said that we had a "connection" that went deeper than business and he couldn't ruin our "vibe" by paying me. I was livid and flat out told him that I can't pay my bills with "vibe" and ignored him for the rest of the night.
I also seem to get a lot of customers that gush over how beautiful I am and how I have the best body in the club (whoch tbh I kind of did until the weekends came around and the top earners showed up) and talk about how many dances they want to buy, but then ask me to date them and when I say no they don't spend a cent on me. How do I handle that? I have no idea how to turn them down while still making them want to spend on me and I've missed out on so much money because they seem more interested in dating me than dances.
Whenever a customer pulls the "You're too pretty/smart to be here" I'm all like "Yeah! Exactly why I'm here! Pretty enough to make money off my looks and smart enough to know my worth. Want a dance?...No? Okay, bye." and when guys try and date me I'm just like "I like my independence. I'm a wild one!" Whatever, it's a fantasy. They should know better than to come in the club and try and use it as a dating service. I just cut those convos REAL short. haha.
tempest666
06-04-2017, 10:49 PM
Got called "thick" despite a 20 llb weight loss at 114. What do I need to do to escape this damned word?
Selina M
06-04-2017, 11:09 PM
Another vote here for the backhanded compliments. I especially hate stuff like "You're a good girl, I can tell". I got "You're too wholesome for this" the other day. It's like they're trying to neg in some weird way but it's just irritating cause they always drop that shit about 30 seconds before I would ask for a dance. Like fuck, I just wasted 1.5 songs talking to you.
It baffles me because other customers are intimidated due to my severe resting bitch face & black outfits & tattoos. Pick one guys, I can't be a 'good wholesome girl' and an 'intimidating bitch' at the same time.
Gia2608
06-06-2017, 04:23 PM
Got called "thick" despite a 20 llb weight loss at 114. What do I need to do to escape this damned word?
It's because you are short with curves.
Leather_Jacket
06-09-2017, 09:18 AM
Last night I had a customer buy a three song set for $50. I started to dance for him when I realized his shorts were ridiculously thin and he was *ahem* obviously having a good time (air dance time). I took off my top and he says "oh you poor thing"... woooowwww, what an asshole, fucking saying that to me while I have to deal with avoiding his boner. I don't typically let anything get to me, but I'm kind of self conscious about my chest and the size of my boobs... so it struck a nerve. I have to keep in mind that stripping has helped me to feel far less self conscious about my boobs than before I started dancing. And that the majority of people think they look great and aren't assholes who are obviously lying through their pants.