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mark45y
04-17-2006, 12:59 AM
When I used to film my encounters the tell tale sign was the toes curling up. But it is difficult to see this if you are not filming. Now I look for wetness, a red flush in the face and shoulders, involuntary contractions, loss of control of leg or arm movements, breathing rate, contractions and such. With some women a fingertip in the anus pretty much tells the story. Do you have any other things that you notice or look for?

lunchbox
04-17-2006, 11:03 AM
With some women a fingertip in the anus pretty much tells the story. Do you have any other things that you notice or look for?

A woman who will reciprocate a tossed salad?

yoda57us
04-17-2006, 06:46 PM
When I used to film my encounters....



What happened, somebody finaly spotted the camera hidden in the Banzai tree on the dresser?

SportsWriter2
04-17-2006, 07:39 PM
Now I look for wetness, a red flush in the face and shoulders, involuntary contractions, loss of control of leg or arm movements, breathing rate, contractions and such.
I trust frantic searching for the asthma inhaler. :O

Casual Observer
04-17-2006, 07:46 PM
What happened, somebody finaly spotted the camera hidden in the Banzai tree on the dresser?

Hehe...

<S> Yoda

All Good Things
04-17-2006, 09:27 PM
"Turned on" or having an orgasm? Two different leagues.

"Turned on" is high-school stuff. Wetness, involuntary movement, shaking, sure.

The best indicator of orgasmic loss of control is fear. "Oh my fucking God" is an orgasm. She actually pulls away from you as she arches up and tightens her grip on your arms, digging her nails into you. It's rarely about screaming (the refuge of the fakers). Orgasms are gutteral, fearful, frightening. Rapid breathing completely out of control, head back and eyes rolling, body writhing and withdrawing, localized muscular contraction in fast cycles tight and hard in both cavities. If you have fingers in her, the contractions are unmistakable. Lift her with your whole body and hold her there. If you are going down on her and staying alert, your tongue will feel her clit pull away and hide, as it withdraws from the intensity of stimulation, and her legs contract and push you away, almost involuntarily, trying to regain control, and you have to pull her up hard against your full mouth and tongue, lifting her legs and ass full up to hold them in place against your mouth and chase her down for multiples.

Oh, one other thing. Get rid of the camera. It won't tell you what you need to know. Your best friends are your tongue, lips, fingers, cock, the rest of your body and your sense of smell.

Katrine
04-17-2006, 10:37 PM
TOO has this one down. Szodorova!

Deni
04-17-2006, 11:13 PM
Well, I was going to throw in the "arch my back" part, but it seems TOO beat me to it (and about a dozen other observations). :D

mark45y
04-17-2006, 11:37 PM
The camera.

For about three years I did porn.

I actually donít remember having sex without at least one camera going for that period of time.

I gave the money to the ladies. I would always ask them if they wanted it on. It is hard to refuse money if you are going to have sex anyway.

I found most of the time the camera was a turn on for them. It also kept the sex varied because a lot of the time we were doing requests.

It is an interesting gig. You just run an ad in your local paper for models. The interviews are worth the price of the ad.

After the initial trial and error I settled on three women and we stayed pretty much together for two years. They made good money and I had fun.

I stopped doing when I moved here because pornography is illegal in Thailand. There are people who do it here but they are taking a chance. If you get busted you go to a Thai jail and that is no fun at all.

I really kind of miss it. I liked the lights and knowing that people were watching. It was also fun to replay the video and see if the lady was actually turned on or acting. I think I became more dependant on looking at the videos to see what I did right and wrong instead of watching while I was doing it.

Frankly I am used to women having more than a couple of orgasms. I am stuck with a lady now who has two and thatís it. No matter what I seem to do she stops at two.

I asked her if she ever had three and she said yes once but that is all she will tell me about it and I really donít want to pry because she might say something like he was a young hunk with a giant thing or I was in love with him and I donít really feel that way about you or that kind of thing which I really donít want to hear.

So I wanted some information about arousal so that after two I could key into the time when she was getting aroused again and try for three. I appreciate the information.

yoda57us
04-18-2006, 05:48 AM
Thanks TOO for putting the reality-based view into words so well.

Jenny
04-18-2006, 09:44 AM
TOO has this one down. Szodorova!

I was just thinking:

"whoa"

SportsWriter2
04-18-2006, 02:40 PM
I was just thinking:

"whoa"

The "chase her down for multiples" part might seem over the edge, but that's how you get rep in the hood. :-\

All Good Things
04-18-2006, 04:30 PM
^ Great double entendre. 8)

As you know, gentlemen never talk about rep, but I trust your search function still works. ;D

Katrine
04-18-2006, 09:44 PM
Oh, and I always say "I'm cumming when I'm with someone because I WANT them to know its happening!!" If you think I came and I didn't say it, then I didn't come. But the rest of the signs are the same, I also make sort of guttaral noises in my throat. If you've ever seen the Czech porn star Nikita Denise, she is very similar to me in sexual behavior. Of course she is performing too...

http://www.nikitadenise.com/

I am not sure about the flushed skin.

One thing I can GUARANTEE is a sign is rock-hard nipples. When the body climaxes, blood rushes to the extremities and into the nips. They will get small, hard, and darker, as they are full of blood. They are most delicious and sensitive at this time...

yoda57us
04-19-2006, 04:51 AM
I had a woman involuntarily slam her head into the headboard while I was rimming her a few weeks ago. It's not the sort of sign I would encourage on a regular basis (I pulled her away from the head of the bed to the middle and continued) but it sure convinced me I was headed in the right direction.

lunchbox
04-19-2006, 07:54 AM
Oh, and I always say "I'm cumming when I'm with someone because I WANT them to know its happening!!" If you think I came and I didn't say it, then I didn't come.
You say all that? :P

yoda57us
04-19-2006, 08:13 AM
You say all that? :P

I think Kat may have missplaced a quotation mark there....maybe she was cumming when she posted...}:D

Jenny
04-19-2006, 01:16 PM
oh, oh!

I just thought of a good way.

Ask her.

lunchbox
04-19-2006, 01:34 PM
I think Kat may have missplaced a quotation mark there....maybe she was cumming when she posted...}:D
Hey! Don't try to spin my inane commentary.

SportsWriter2
04-19-2006, 03:10 PM
Oh, and I always say "I'm cumming when I'm with someone because I WANT them to know its happening!!"
Kat, you could really get into doing color commentary for sport sex. Sort of like Scott Hamilton does for figure skating. ;)

If "I'm cumming" gets boring, here are my favorite variations. An ellipsis indicates that they continue until orgasm.

I'm cumming. Keep talking dirty...
I wanna be ur dirty little slut... [Repeat 10 times and it happens]
Wanna cum like a big girl, wanna cum like a big girl... [wants to hold off longer]
Oh shit. [fell off the table cuz she couldn't hold off]
I wanna cum. Pull my hair, choke me, hurt me... [too much masturbation]
Oh my GOD, I've never cum that fast again in my life. [yes you have]
I'm cummed out. [needs to pee]

My favorite is when they keep quiet and start deep kissing 20 seconds before they cum.

mr_punk
04-22-2006, 07:21 AM
Do you have any other things that you notice or look for?umm..well..er. ok, i'm outta gas. maybe i should i pay more attention to these things.

If you've ever seen the Czech porn star Nikita Denise, she is very similar to me in sexual behavior.LOL...boy, you sure know how to pick your porn role models. Nikita Denise is one nasty (and hot) bitch, but in a good way.

oh, oh! I just thought of a good way. Ask her.nah, that's way too much work.

SportsWriter2
04-22-2006, 12:53 PM
One thing I can GUARANTEE is a sign is rock-hard nipples.
Good point, Kat, and it's fun watching inverted nipples pop up. :)

Jenny
04-22-2006, 02:41 PM
nah, that's way too much work.
Well I can see how it would be less work to be constantly scanning her for the various signs listed above. Why do guys think that women are in some conspiracy to keep you from knowing this kind of thing anyway? If she is acting turned on - and it is a consensual, free, voluntary sexual encounter - she probably is. If is not (free, I mean. I don't want to hear about the rest) what do any of you even care, as long as she looks turned on?

mr_punk
04-22-2006, 09:08 PM
Well I can see how it would be less work to be constantly scanning her for the various signs listed above. Why do guys think that women are in some conspiracy to keep you from knowing this kind of thing anyway? If she is acting turned on - and it is a consensual, free, voluntary sexual encounter - she probably is. If is not (free, I mean. I don't want to hear about the rest) what do any of you even care, as long as she looks turned on?you're asking the wrong guy, red. constantly scanning for a woman's physical pleasure is too much work for me as well. which is why you don't see me talking about the subject. you see, i'm very lazy. so, whether we're talking about a civilian or a sex worker. i don't stick my face in their asses because i think it will give them "multiples". i stick my face in their asses because i like to stick my face in a woman's ass. if she likes it..fine. if not..well, i always have a good time.

threlayer
04-23-2006, 05:37 AM
I just thought of a good way. Ask her.

Then she says, "Couldn't you tell?"

I notice that some women perspire more when actually cumming. I can tell this even in the VIP room when she's having fun. ;)

It makes my day.

SportsWriter2
04-24-2006, 06:43 PM
I notice that some women perspire more when actually cumming.
It's more like they worked hard to get off. I had a really sweaty one who got close and couldn't finish. I said, "You masturbate too much," and she says, "Oh my God, how did you KNOW? I do it three times a day." I gave her a knowing smile, but truth is I learned it from reading Katrine's stuff. :)

Katrine
04-24-2006, 09:46 PM
It's more like they worked hard to get off. I had a really sweaty one who got close and couldn't finish. I said, "You masturbate too much," and she says, "Oh my God, how did you KNOW? I do it three times a day." I gave her a knowing smile, but truth is I learned it from reading Katrine's stuff. :)


I'm here to educate sir! :P

Daniela
05-23-2006, 11:38 AM
Why do guys think that women are in some conspiracy to keep you from knowing this kind of thing anyway?

:rotfl:

Classic!

Yekhefah
06-07-2006, 04:52 AM
Damn, reading this thread just got me hot. I'm so pathetic.

Off to play with myself and hopefully collapse into a deep sleep for once...

SportsWriter2
06-07-2006, 06:17 PM
Damn, reading this thread just got me hot. I'm so pathetic.


No, that's not pathetic; that's healthy. :)

Yekhefah
06-07-2006, 11:33 PM
LOL! Thanks. And yeah, it really did help me sleep!

azcustomer
06-09-2006, 11:54 PM
When she spasms out of control and kicks me out of bed while crying. She doesn't let me touch her because the aftershock is too great.

Then after five minutes or so, she becomes the world's greatest octopus clinging to me, biting me, all while still crying.

A half hour later, she asks me to call into work for her and let them know she'll be late and starts worrying about how she's going to be able to walk tomorrow.

}:D

Anney Dancer 2
06-14-2006, 10:47 AM
No, that's not pathetic; that's healthy. :)

oh good, that must mean i'm healthy too!

lovin this thread... }:D