View Full Version : I don't think I like Strippers anymore
Mastridonicus
05-13-2006, 07:00 AM
Ninjas. Sometimes it just clears my head up to blame them. They have taken the womens away at the SC.
CaptainQuantum
05-13-2006, 08:28 AM
I was a virgin till at least as old as Tallone. I was an outcast in school cause I was very serious, not social at all, extremely quiet (only spoke when spoken to basically, and that usually consisted of "yes" or "no" whenever possible) and a timid mama's boy. And that pretty much just continued into adulthood. Mind you, Im only comparing myself to Tallone in how old we were and still virgins, I realize his story is nothing like mine.
Had 3 or 4 females in my life who I was in love with (or felt like I was anyway), and it was always the "I love you, please be my girlfriend, please feel the same way about me as I do about you". I was told I was "nice" and "polite" and all that, but as they said in a movie I recently rented, I was in the "friend zone".
And the longer I went without getting any indication that females (read attractive females) found me sexually attractive, the more and more bitter I got toward females. It was THEIR FAULT!!, if you wouldve asked me at the time. I was nice and polite and that should be enough! If they wanted guys who were "exciting" or whatever well then they had something they needed to work on, not me. I liked to stay home, watch tv, play video games, end of list and I wasn't changing for anybody. I would rather be "right" (in my mind anyway) than be happy as the old saying goes.
And slowly with therapy and antidepressants, I started to come out of my shell. But the bitterness has still been with me most of the time. "Most guys my age have banged X number of females. Its not fair. I have so much catching up to do to have the same kind of number of sexual conquests as the average guy my age." I have a tickling fetish, and would honestly rather tickle a woman than have sex with her (if I had to do one or the other) unless I was in love with her. I wanted the sex because it was a macho thing, an ego thing, a status thing.
But finally I got my 1st girlfriend late last year, at age 32. She's not my dream girl, but she's really into me and it feels nice. And yes, I treat her good.
Just wanted to say to those who right away question whether Tallone is for real, I dont know if he's for real but I'm assuming he is because I've been a LOT worse off than him.
xoxoGracexoxo
05-13-2006, 12:38 PM
They're insensitive, stereotype all guys into one category an too materialistic an to make it more clearer.....
You, on the other hand, are remarkable for your nuanced and well considered view of women, to wit:
An I don't like strippers anymore because strippers are the only girls that make me feel the way I want to feel... an most it seems are totally gay.
or this little gem:
girls get all calculative when they look at a man (job, looks, education, blah blah) while pure sexual lust only comes about when it's girl girl cause that's all it is, pure sex then bye bye (or relationship) but the gender roles dont' pollute the purity.
Anyway, I feel like I know a little bit of where you are coming from. My adored and amazing boyfriend was a virgin til he was 21; he told me this with much shame a few weeks after we started dating when he was 28 and I was 23. In the meantime, he had been with several women, had a serious relationship, and become a pretty good lover...though he's gotten better since. ;D To me, the virgin-til-21 thing was no big deal, but he grew up in New Mexico, Teen Pregnancy Capitol of the USA, where everybody he knew lost their virginity by 13. He felt like a complete freak, though in retrospect he made a good decision, in that he didn't knock anybody up and have to get married in high school like half his friends did. Anyway, my point being that he felt bad about this for YEARS and still has some issues about it. There's so much pressure on men to be sexually active, those who aren't end up getting kind of crushed. Once again, I seriously recommend that you look into sexual surrogacy services. They are much better equipped to deal with your issues than an escort, or even a well-meaning female acquaintance.
Not that you're listening to what we're saying. You seem to still be convinced that strippers are lesbian vampires who live to make you suffer, and that women don't really like men. Nothing anybody says seems to make the slightest impression, so I guess you like being miserable. Enjoy!
Vanessa6175
05-15-2006, 05:09 PM
Main reason I went to the SC's was I need desperately to feel sexy, wanted, and admired even if it was just artificial but after seeing all this hot sex an action an no men involved... I just kinda want to stay home an play video games & rot... giving a girl money while she runs off with her co workers for awesome X... that image in my head sticks an turns me off depressingly.. /:O
Strip Clubs are for ENTERTAINMENT, and a lot of guys seem to forget that. This is our JOB, not Elimidate. Nothing will piss me off more than hearing things like "Oh, so it's all about the money, huh?" YES! I'm at work! When is the last time you went to work and didn't want to get paid?! If you want an escort, call an escort service that caters to what it is you're looking for.
burt1213
05-15-2006, 11:52 PM
Dude dont be a cock blocker im shure there is a reason why chics dont go home with you and dont be getting mad when theyres girl on girl action thats the best. try this take a chic with you and your going to get some attention guaranteed
beckysnot
05-16-2006, 03:18 AM
Ninjas. Sometimes it just clears my head up to blame them. They have taken the womens away at the SC.
^^^^i think somebody's got a point here!!! :masked:
there needs to be a real ninja smiley!
Miss_Eliza
05-17-2006, 07:40 AM
Then why are you here ? Nobody cares that you don't like women or strippers or bi women. Go to therapy get some prozac and get over it.
What makes you think your a nice guy? Doing nice things does not make you a nice person.Giving girls money and doing things for them does not make you a nice person. When you do nice things with an alterior motive it makes you a jerk. If you only do something for somebody because you think it will get you something back. THEN YOU ARE NOT A NICE PERSON.
burt1213
05-17-2006, 11:37 PM
Miss eliza makes a point guy just give it up
threlayer
05-18-2006, 07:40 AM
Strip Clubs are for ENTERTAINMENT, and a lot of guys seem to forget that. This is our JOB, not Elimidate. Nothing will piss me off more than hearing things like "Oh, so it's all about the money, huh?" YES! I'm at work! When is the last time you went to work and didn't want to get paid?! If you want an escort, call an escort service that caters to what it is you're looking for.
Straight to the point! I like a bottom line gal.
Only thing to add is that he seems to be looking for a gf, not necessarily sex toy alone (however, a friendly toy is a nice life addition). If 'T' likes bars, he would do much better finding a date in a regular bar where some women go looking for a date too, not an income. You don't find gf's in strip clubs - well, maybe after a few years familiarity and even then, it's not a great place to do so unless you don't mind dealing with a rebel.
Wwanderer
05-18-2006, 08:11 AM
Then why are you here ?
It appears to be because he wants us to listen to him (but does not himself want to listen to what we think about what he is saying).
-Ww
TaLlOnE
05-19-2006, 07:29 AM
Then why are you here ? Nobody cares that you don't like women or strippers or bi women. Go to therapy get some prozac and get over it.
What makes you think your a nice guy? Doing nice things does not make you a nice person.Giving girls money and doing things for them does not make you a nice person. When you do nice things with an alterior motive it makes you a jerk. If you only do something for somebody because you think it will get you something back. THEN YOU ARE NOT A NICE PERSON.
Typical response from a bitch , YAH ALL MEN ARE EVIL an we're only nice to you because we just want to fuck an chuck yah.
Jenny
05-19-2006, 07:33 AM
Oh, honey. I don't think she meant all men. Just you. In any case - evidently the women you are going for don't find you attractive, interesting or nice enough to date. Find your level, dude.
Mastridonicus
05-19-2006, 07:36 AM
Jenny is my level.
Jenny
05-19-2006, 07:39 AM
Indeed. If it wasn't for the geographical inconvenience and my unfortunate laziness, I should find you and make you mine.
lunchbox
05-19-2006, 08:02 AM
Indeed. If it wasn't for the geographical inconvenience and my unfortunate laziness, I should find you and make you mine.
but...
but....
/me goes and sulks in the corner
Phil-W
05-19-2006, 04:31 PM
Indeed. If it wasn't for the geographical inconvenience and my unfortunate laziness, I should find you and make you mine.
If Mastridonicus wants to earn his Sir Galahad badge, he is at this moment booking up his plane ticket and buying a large bunch of roses and a bottle of campagne.
Phil. ;)
Downey_Guy
05-19-2006, 05:52 PM
Strip Clubs are for entertainment. Don't go in one thinking you're going to meet somebody special in there. You're kidding yourself if you do. The girls want your money and that's it.
I suggest try meeting a girl taking a class or going to a club or something. Don't be so negative. You're just looking in the wrong places.
Mastridonicus
05-19-2006, 06:20 PM
If Mastridonicus wants to earn his Sir Galahad badge, he is at this moment booking up his plane ticket and buying a large bunch of roses and a bottle of campagne.
Phil. ;)
Oh I'm not far from Jenny. But I respect her wishes. She remains an individual seperate from SW and would never abuse that.
Jenny:
Lucky for me, I'm fresh out of lazyness.
Mastridonicus
05-19-2006, 06:24 PM
Strip Clubs are for entertainment. Don't go in one thinking you're going to meet somebody special in there. You're kidding yourself if you do. The girls want your money and that's it.
I suggest try meeting a girl taking a class or going to a club or something. Don't be so negative. You're just looking in the wrong places.
Dude. Seriously. All this guy needs is a man hug. He needs a warm fuzzy that can only be given to him by my severly overweight, and unshaven self after a brisk 10 foot run followed by a pipe cleaner from a guy named Susie. ManLove heals all wounds.
burt1213
05-21-2006, 01:01 AM
i dont know but do any of you girls think but do you think it is possibler to fall in love with a stripper i think i did she made me cry.
Lysondra
05-21-2006, 01:18 AM
I've fallen head-over-heels for a fellow dancer once. She was beautiful in her own weird way. She had gotten in a car accident and had huge scarring all up her entire back and upper bottocks... but every. single. person. looked past that. I mean she was just so drop dead amazing on the inside (and still beautiful with the scarring) that I think everyone fell in love with her. She was dating a deadbeat guy who kept asking her to pay for things while he loafed around. I promised her I'd take care of her and give her anything she wanted - but she was faithful to her man... and deep down I knew I could never date a coworker, however enchanting she was.
In other words - yes you can fall in love with a stripper and yes she can make you cry. :)
Mastridonicus
05-21-2006, 11:51 AM
i dont know but do any of you girls think but do you think it is possibler to fall in love with a stripper i think i did she made me cry.
Duh. There is a song about it!
TigersMilk
05-21-2006, 12:28 PM
Yea, its possible to fall in love with anyone. There is also a time and place to let such feelings out and also realize when your feelings are of pure lust for people you are unable to obtain.
This thread gets funnier everytime I read it.
Sirona
05-21-2006, 01:35 PM
Dude. Seriously. All this guy needs is a man hug. He needs a warm fuzzy that can only be given to him by my severly overweight, and unshaven self after a brisk 10 foot run followed by a pipe cleaner from a guy named Susie. ManLove heals all wounds.
BAhahahahahahahahaha *wipes eye*
Luke34
05-23-2006, 06:13 AM
I know how you feel Talione... I rented a convertible over the weekend and they would not let me keep it!!
kyuketsuki_Lilith
05-23-2006, 07:51 AM
I know how you feel Talione... I rented a convertible over the weekend and they would not let me keep it!!
Lmao.
BURN!
maximvsv
05-25-2006, 09:13 AM
TaLIOnE: You aren't paying attention and you are letting your brain chemistry mislead you. I've seen dancers hook up with customers they met that night, and I've seen them blow people off, saying how they'd wished they'd met them outside the club because they won't date someone they met there. I've had a dancer approach me and tell me she loves me. I've spoken with dancers as they've gone through marriage problems, new dating experiences, breakups, cheating on long-time boyfriends, intentionally hooking up with ex-boyfriends WITH their girlfriends at the time, and on and on.
If you're at a club because you like being around the dancers, being there is going to have the endorphins in your head make you feel all happy and such, so you'll want to be there, even if you aren't actually becoming any less frustrated with your social/love life. It's like being an alcoholic or a drug addict in that way. If what you lie isn't actually addressing your interprersonal situation, then don't go there to address it. It simply can't work for you, and all you'll end up doing is being broke and more frustrated at the end of the day.
Now, the rest of this is just my theory, so you'll have to check it against your own reality.
If the women you meet start dating you but then keep disregarding you to go be with other women, you aren't paying attention to the woman or women you're with. However they are acting, you aren't seeing that they are not interested in being limited only being with you. Now, maybe you don't spend time with these women before you start dating, so you don't have much of a history to parse and interpret, but if you spend a substantial amount of time with them, you should be able to tell from the kinds of conversations you have what kind of priorities and interests they have. An interest in other women, specifically, may not come up all that early, but you often find out early on about the woman's interest in seeing more than one person at a time.
How does this relate back? Strippers are people. You can't expect them to act differently just because they've got an unusual profession. The adults act like adults. The kids act like kids. The drug addicts act like drug addicts. The angry ones act like angry people, and the happy ones act like happy people. For what you're arguing about, whether or not they're strippers is irrelevant.
RoseWhite
05-27-2006, 01:20 PM
*Clap clap clap*
Bravo to that whole post, but especially this:
Strippers are people. You can't expect them to act differently just because they've got an unusual profession. The adults act like adults. The kids act like kids. The drug addicts act like drug addicts. The angry ones act like angry people, and the happy ones act like happy people. For what you're arguing about, whether or not they're strippers is irrelevant.
Truer words never posted.