View Full Version : has a stripper ever kissed you during a lap dance?
yoda57us
05-12-2006, 08:23 PM
If a tree falls in the forrest and there is no one there to hear it does it make any noise? (I think that's how it goes)
The point is we are all basically anonymous here to each other. It really doesn't matter if I read some dancer's meanderings about her boyfriends problems with her being a dancer. I dont know her, she doesn't know me. What is important is that I dont shove my opinion down her throat by posting my two cents where it doesn't belong or by cutting and pasting her thoughts and dropping them into a thread where they where never intended to be posted.
Geez, it's called the honor system. You just shouldn't do it because a decent human being wouldn't.
Wwanderer
05-12-2006, 08:38 PM
Lol, 35 years! That would have been just slightly post-Burlesque era! Yeah! What was the most common extra back then?;)
35+ I said! I am not sure, but I think it might have been the summer of 1969, and yes, there were still a few Burlesque style places around, and certainly some dancers from that era. I think the most common extra was that they would let you buy them a drink and sit with you while you stared at their bodies and scanty costumes from up close, rather than just while they were up on stage. Not all dancers would do such "slutty" things though.
That said, "real" extras were not entirely unknown. I will never forget the first time a dancer told me that I could put my fingers inside her during the next song for $10 (or maybe it was even less, not sure) while we sat in a dark corner booth. Maybe it was 1970 or so. I was totally shocked and not a little disgusted...as well as glad that the corner was so dark that she probably could not see me blushing.
OK, for what it's worth, my dad and uncle owned a club when I was about six (42 years ago) ...
No wonder I pre-date you in SC experiences; I've got almost a decade of age on you, kid. ;)
-Ww
Wwanderer
05-12-2006, 08:48 PM
If a tree falls in the forrest and there is no one there to hear it does it make any noise? (I think that's how it goes)
I always thought it was "If a man says something in the forrest, is he still wrong even if his wife isn't there to tell him so."
The point is we are all basically anonymous here to each other.
My point is that we are a lot less anonymous than we think. Many SWers know each other; many more will know each other in the future. And, most importantly, it is far easier than most suspect to string a few facts together about a person from unrelated posts and then ID them in real life, either by matching this with someone you also know irl or by "net stalking". I have twice pointed out to dancers by PM that they had almost certainly identified themselves in this manner, and in both cases it was entirely unintentional and unsuspected by the ladies in question. Moreover, I think one dancer here may have ID'd me with only a tiny hint via PM past what I have posted for all to see.
Geez, it's called the honor system. You just shouldn't do it because a decent human being wouldn't.
I am not arguing about the proper way to behave; I am arguing about how sensible/wise it is to effectiely assume that everyone is going to reliably behave like "a decent human being".
-Ww
Wwanderer
05-12-2006, 08:56 PM
Btw, in case anyone doubts it, see these two current Lounge threads
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=66653
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=65999
for illustrations of how personal info posted on the web can come back to cause problems for people in unexpected ways.
-Ww
Cally
05-12-2006, 09:07 PM
Okay first he says the girl sat with him all day and he didnt pay her anything, now hes saying he paid her... and also he said at first it was his first time ever to the club and now hes saying it was his second visit.
Anyone having as hard a time swallowing this story as I am?
SportsWriter2
05-12-2006, 10:45 PM
he said at first it was his first time ever to the club and now hes saying it was his second visit.
Anyone having as hard a time swallowing this story as I am?
In post #1 he said it was his second visit. The incidents are plausible. I've had dancers do flakier things. Even pretty "girl next door" types in mid-range clubs. I am constantly amazed by their disregard for personal safety. :-\
aswj2g1
05-13-2006, 03:46 AM
thank you sportswriter.....i don't know why they dont believe me ..all i wanted to do was see how common this type of thing was ...why would iwaste my time trying to make up a story ..so much happened during that 8 hour period its hard to put everything in detail and write it the same way every single time
mr_punk
05-13-2006, 06:08 AM
In post #1 he said it was his second visit. The incidents are plausible. I've had dancers do flakier things. Even pretty "girl next door" types in mid-range clubs.true..the incidents (kissing or face in the crotch) by themselves are plausible.
all i wanted to do was see how common this type of thing waswell, a stripper kissing, giving out her phone number, telling you her "real name", telling you that you're "special", etc pretty much falls into the same category. the creation of a false sense of intimacy. it's all SS and there's no getting away from it. it comes with the territory. however, it can rot the brain of a sc rookie, if you take it seriously. the next time you go to the club. it would be a good idea to wear ear plugs and to keep a hammer and chisel handy to chip the SS away.
so much happened during that 8 hour period its hard to put everything in detail and write it the same way every single timeso, that's why reading your posts feels like i'm watching the movie "Memento".
aswj2g1
05-13-2006, 07:03 AM
thanks mr. punk for finally answering my question that i posed over 50
posts ago.....anyone else care to add to what mr punk said
aswj2g1
05-13-2006, 07:05 AM
by the way what is SS
mr_punk
05-13-2006, 07:58 AM
by the way what is SSLOL...perhaps, you are that green. anyway, SS refers to any method the stripper uses to get customers to splooge cash or splooge even more cash. it can be as simple as laughing at your corny jokes or it can be a little more complex (for you, not the stripper) like kissing. the danger of SS is that it can cause customers to commit some of the most retarded acts in sc history. take a look around here or in CC. you'll find plenty of examples. in any case, while it may seem that strippers run more plays than the NY-freaking-Jets. ultimately, it's all the same play. so, learn not to get caught up in her shtick.
aswj2g1
05-13-2006, 09:45 AM
the thing that leads me to believe that what they're saying and doing isn't to try to get money is because the one girl stayed with us the whole day was giving me free dances and dancing on the island stage for me knowing i wasn't going to tip her......some people were sitting by watching and asking if i was payin for that a tripped out when i told them no.....she danced for me for free on the island stage the first time too knowing that i had ran out of money
Richard_Head
05-13-2006, 10:18 AM
the thing that leads me to believe that what they're saying and doing isn't to try to get money is because the one girl stayed with us the whole day was giving me free dances and dancing on the island stage for me knowing i wasn't going to tip her......some people were sitting by watching and asking if i was payin for that a tripped out when i told them no.....she danced for me for free on the island stage the first time too knowing that i had ran out of moneyShe's good, she's got you hooked, I'll bet anything that you're back in that club any day now (if you haven't been already) spending money on her. Believe me it's not an unheard of ploy to develop a regular this way, especially if you are in there spending money (in an earlier post you stated that you and your friend spent a thousand dollars between you). I know you want to believe you're different, but probability points elsewhere. My advise to you young Jedi is to spend some time reading the blue side and Hustle Hut on the pink side, things will become clear in no time.
Wwanderer
05-13-2006, 10:26 AM
the thing that leads me to believe ...
SS, which stands for "stripper shit" btw, is precisely those things dancers do to lead you to believe whatever it is that they want you to believe. In many cases it is just simple fake flirting (fake in the sense of their motives) to make you want to spend time with them or deceptive/vague "advertising" of what will happen in the VIP room, etc. However, it can also be a much more elaborate con game designed to make you into a regular customer who thinks he is a real and special person to the lady in question so that she can count on some income from you on a steady basis (if not that very night) or so that she can hit you up later for real life favors - like giving her and her friends free rides home in the wee hours of the night or asking for major "loans" to pay the overdue rent or bail her "brother" (who may actually be her bf) out of jail etc.
The basic point is that dancers charge men to experience, in one way or the other, their sexiness and, in the process, may become very skillful in using it to manipulate men for their own purposes. Most dancers do this scrupulously within the context of the basic club business model (selling private drinks and dances or whatver), but others more unscrupulously extend it to infinitely more elaborate scams.
Obviously, you'd like to believe that the way that dancer behaved toward you in the club and the things she told you were perfectly genuine. Imo, that is possible but unlikely; we weren't there, and you were, but on the other hand most of us know of many many cases of guys who mistakenly believed some form of SS to be real and ended up paying for it, paying dearly in many cases. So, decide for yourself but don't say you weren't warned if things don't go well in the end.
As for the actual acts you asked about, I guess you have your answer. They aren't typical in most clubs but are in some and happen at least occasionally in most places.
Finally, you seem puzzled that people are so reluctant to believe you. It is because the story and the way you have told it are not very convincing, and even though I am writing this message in the context of giving you the benefit of the doubt and taking you to be telling the literal truth, I don't actually think that you are...but again, there is no way I (or any of us) can know for sure. At worst you have provided some entertainment. You may also be surprised that SWers are so skeptical; the reason is that lots of lying goes on all the time in SCs and on SW, so we are all atuned to it.
-Ww
smartcookie
05-13-2006, 02:51 PM
Personally if I see a guy with a stain on his pants, I drop to my knees immediately and start lapping away. The mailman, the guy behind the counter at the corner bodega, or that guy muttering to himself on the subway. Sometimes it's just the leftovers from a sloppy meal at Wendy's, but occasionally I hit paydirt. All strippers are the same way.
aswj2g1
05-13-2006, 09:13 PM
i can assure you that everything that i wrote is 100% fact and not some fantasy as cally would like to believe....why would i have to come online and lie about something like that...i just wanted to know if you guys had done or heard of anything similar to what happened to me...and yes we spent a $1000 between us $500 each to be exact, but i know bullshit when i see it because there were a couple of girls there who were being real fake but.....they know we there to have fun and not to try to fall in love or even have sex with anybody in there...im just there to see som naked ass plain and simple but the girl that stayed with us all day and the chick who was biting were definitely my favorites and gave the best dances.....by the way the girll who stayed with us all day didn't dance for anyone else the entire time
azcustomer
05-13-2006, 11:13 PM
Personally if I see a guy with a stain on his pants, I drop to my knees immediately and start lapping away. The mailman, the guy behind the counter at the corner bodega, or that guy muttering to himself on the subway. Sometimes it's just the leftovers from a sloppy meal at Wendy's, but occasionally I hit paydirt. All strippers are the same way.
Oh my fucking god!
Thank you so much.
This happens to me too! Just the other I saw a blemish on the pants of my mailman while he was 'stufffin my box'. I was so turned on that I couldn't resist the urge to tackle the little asian dude and slop up all I could from his crotch.
The best laugh I've had in a month.
Phil-W
05-14-2006, 01:42 AM
i can assure you that everything that i wrote is 100% fact and not some fantasy as cally would like to believe....why would i have to come online and lie about something like that...
On a forum like this, 99.99% of us will never meet, so all you can do is come to conclusions based on the information in the posts and your own personal experiences.
My own personal experience includes giving quite a number of dancers lifts home over the past 5 years. When you have two or more dancers in your car, they'll spend a certain amount of time gossiping about work. On that basis, I'd have to say the attitude of dancers on both the pink and blue sides rings very true indeed - on this forum you're getting their true opinions, (with an absolute minimum of dancer BS).
Now, it is possible that you've experienced what you've said and it is indeed "100% fact". However, I've got to say, on the balance of probabilities I don't believe you. Dancers have three priorities at work; earn money, earn money and earn money.
I have no trouble believing the dancers and waitresses lavished attention on you when you were spending money - it's their reason for being in the place in the first time. All my past experiences suggests that as soon as your money dries up, dancers and waitress would head for greener pastures. There's always fresh guys walking in with yet to be emptied wallets.
Why would you come on this forum and lie? For the same reason the fisherman claims his trout was 10 lb, not 8lb: to try and go up in the estimation of his friends - (or in this case on-line posters).
Phil.
Richard_Head
05-14-2006, 01:49 AM
i can assure you that everything that i wrote is 100% fact and not some fantasy as cally would like to believe....why would i have to come online and lie about something like that...i just wanted to know if you guys had done or heard of anything similar to what happened to me...and yes we spent a $1000 between us $500 each to be exact, but i know bullshit when i see it because there were a couple of girls there who were being real fake but.....they know we there to have fun and not to try to fall in love or even have sex with anybody in there...im just there to see som naked ass plain and simple but the girl that stayed with us all day and the chick who was biting were definitely my favorites and gave the best dances.....by the way the girll who stayed with us all day didn't dance for anyone else the entire timeI get the feeling that you were just looking for validation in your post that this girl really likes you, that your situation was different than every other PL that posts similar stories here. Why do you refuse to believe EVERYONE who is telling you the opposite? If you're so convinced she has an interest in you why don't you just go back and see for yourself?
aswj2g1
05-14-2006, 03:55 AM
i know what happened
aswj2g1
05-14-2006, 03:56 AM
i was there...remember and i dont drink so i know every little detail...i think y'all just hatin'..lololololol
i can't even think of a good reason to lie about some stuff like this "so i can get more poster"
i told people i know about it and they believe it because they know me..they tryin to go with me next time
they've gone to the same club and haven't had any similar experience
Phil-W
05-14-2006, 04:32 AM
i told people i know about it and they believe it because they know me..they tryin to go with me next time
they've gone to the same club and haven't had any similar experience
I get the feeling that you were just looking for validation in your post that this girl really likes you, that your situation was different than every other PL that posts similar stories here.
QED - you're trying to convince everyone that you're the one in a million guy that the girl danced for cos she had the "hots" for you, rather than just saw you as a source of income.
From my humble experience, that's about as common as rocking horse shit. Dancers show you their bodies in order to earn a living.
Did she offer her phone number and say "Gosh, this is great fun. I'm enjoying myself so much I'd love to come back to your place and keep on dancing for free?"
Phil.
aswj2g1
05-14-2006, 04:35 AM
she ain't dancing because i'm hot ...it's because not only am i having fun when she's dancing..she's having fun too...they be laughing so hard when they dancing i had one tell me to shut up so she could concentrate.....and no they ain't faking or playing me cause they tellin me the same thing every other female i meet tells me
aswj2g1
05-14-2006, 04:36 AM
like i said im there to have fun .. and to give them a break from their regular "to cool to tip, want to be pimp" customers
yoda57us
05-14-2006, 05:29 AM
she ain't dancing because i'm hot ...it's because not only am i having fun when she's dancing..she's having fun too...they be laughing so hard when they dancing i had one tell me to shut up so she could concentrate.....and no they ain't faking or playing me cause they tellin me the same thing every other female i meet tells me
Why didn't you just say this 76 posts ago. It would have saved us all a lot of time.
aswj2g1
05-14-2006, 06:16 AM
yoda are you being serious or sarcastic? just got to ask to be sure ...i've noticed there's a lot of sarcasm around these boards
aswj2g1
05-14-2006, 07:35 AM
what am i supposed to say if someone keeps saying otherwise..but as i said to begin with i just wanted to hear from people who have been doin it longer than me about the situation..but apparently since it doesn't happen to them much and it happened on my second trip they dont seem to believe me
aswj2g1
05-14-2006, 10:01 AM
let me stop then i'm done with it
yoda57us
05-14-2006, 10:35 AM
yoda are you being serious or sarcastic? just got to ask to be sure ...i've noticed there's a lot of sarcasm around these boards
I'm being serious. If you had just told us at the start that every woman you have ever come in contact with has found you completely irresistible then of course there would have been no doubt in our minds that you where telling the truth.....
smartcookie
05-15-2006, 05:30 PM
This happens to me too! Just the other I saw a blemish on the pants of my mailman while he was 'stufffin my box'. I was so turned on that I couldn't resist the urge to tackle the little asian dude and slop up all I could from his crotch.
That's the best! Depending on their ethnicity, you can get a hint of hoisin, nam pla, or wasabi in addition to the taste of dried jizz.
azcustomer
05-17-2006, 03:03 AM
That's the best! Depending on their ethnicity, you can get a hint of hoisin, nam pla, or wasabi in addition to the taste of dried jizz.
Me thinks it was closer to dried snowpeas with wasabi. Oooooh, it was soooo sexy!
smartcookie, your Avtar reminds me too much of My favorite Martian.
sportsfanonsw
05-19-2006, 12:30 AM
aswj2g1 =
a stripper web junkie to get one.
or....
a slow witted jujube to go one.
Seriously, I saw better acting from Manu Ginobli the other night, than from this as*.
Kiss and tell? Never.
dwill325
09-28-2008, 12:45 PM
Ive been kissed in the mouth plenty of times by dancers but as far as actually making out, well that has happened lots of times too. Mostly with a dancer who is now "retired" from the pole, we used to make out all the time and there wasnt a VIP either.. Im surprise we never got caught. Now I dont know if I was the only one she made out with..I never had the nerve to ask.. she wasnt "skanky" either. Another time was with the girl who I didnt know at all.. It was during the day when there wasnt much going on. It was on my third dance and she just stuck her pierced tongue in my mouth and away we went...
Jabba_WTF?
09-30-2008, 07:38 PM
A few times. Only one was hot though.
I play my redneck card too many times for their comfort.:-[
keira0304
09-30-2008, 08:19 PM
Ive been kissed in the mouth plenty of times by dancers but as far as actually making out, well that has happened lots of times too. Mostly with a dancer who is now "retired" from the pole, we used to make out all the time and there wasnt a VIP either.. Im surprise we never got caught. Now I dont know if I was the only one she made out with..I never had the nerve to ask.. she wasnt "skanky" either. Another time was with the girl who I didnt know at all.. It was during the day when there wasnt much going on. It was on my third dance and she just stuck her pierced tongue in my mouth and away we went...
that's fucking disgusting and skanky.
Bob_Loblaw
09-30-2008, 11:11 PM
The best thing about this thread is drunk Jenny on page one!
OK, back on topic. No.
GSWRD
10-01-2008, 06:28 AM
Yep, multiple times.
I've been told I have a very kissable face:O
UtahMike
10-01-2008, 08:50 PM
Once or twice a very light brushing of lips on my cheek.
yoda57us
10-02-2008, 08:30 AM
The problem with this thread is that the OP thought it made him special. it doesn't. Some dancers kiss you just like some grind on you, stick shift you, blow you etc..
It's just another technique that some dancers use to make money. Nothing more, nothing less.
Bob Cox
10-02-2008, 04:58 PM
The problem with this thread is that the OP thought it made him special. it doesn't. Some dancers kiss you just like some grind on you, stick shift you, blow you etc..
It's just another technique that some dancers use to make money. Nothing more, nothing less.
Sometimes, dancers just want to have fun. Nothing more, nothing less.
yoda57us
10-02-2008, 05:14 PM
Sometimes, dancers just want to have fun. Nothing more, nothing less.
Let me know when they start doing LD's for free...
UtahMike
10-02-2008, 09:29 PM
^^ I had a free lap dance once.
yoda57us
10-03-2008, 04:35 AM
^^ I had a free lap dance once.
Well, so have I, many in fact. All from regulars that I spend money on all the time...
Smokeless
10-05-2008, 09:27 PM
(Interesting how old threads never die...)
A couple dances after particularly fun sessions during with significant funds were expended. And during only one outstanding session. On reflection, I realized that the degree of lip action was directly proportional to the rate at which I was spending money.
Golden_Rule
10-05-2008, 11:44 PM
The problem with this thread is that the OP thought it made him special. it doesn't. Some dancers kiss you just like some grind on you, stick shift you, blow you etc..
It's just another technique that some dancers use to make money. Nothing more, nothing less.
That is two posts where we agree in total in one morning...
Heading for a record here. :)
I've had dancers I've told, only a few moments before, that I totally enjoy hell out of kissing [because it is true, I think it is one of the sexiest things in the world, and one of the most intimate as well] start kissing me in the LD room. I presume it is because they believe, and sometimes they presume correctly, that it will cause me to spend more money. Sometimes much more money.
While it is rare I have also had this surprise them because it is very hard for a normal person to get intimately involved in kissing and if it is going well be able to drop every wall on the feelings it invokes. So sometimes its resulted in a bit warmer behavior than they may have intended when they started it.
3-Legged Man
10-06-2008, 05:37 AM
My two most recent faves have blessed me with some DFK action. The most recent one giving me a bit of a surprise. We're kissing for most of one song in a pretty secluded LD booth and she pulls back and gives me a wicked little smile, then sticks her whole tongue out, a freakish 3-4 inches worth. Well, my boner went super hard when she stuck that baby into my mouth for another song or two of fun play.
Bob Cox
10-06-2008, 06:30 AM
Since I've been reading SW, I've read where at least 8 to 10 dancers have admitted that they thought a customer was cute and made out with the customer for the fun of it. In the thread called "Stripper Sins," 6 to 8 dancers admitted that they made out with a customer because they thought he was hot and they did it as a one time deal.
I'd say the reasons a dancer would make out with a customer would be for the fun of it (50%) and 50% for the money. To say that it's 100%, everytime, for the money, would make the dancers who said they did it for fun, liars.
Some guys on SW are so cynical about every dancer/customer interaction. I've read on SW that about 8 dancers married their customers. These guys would say that the dancers married them for the money. You can't win with these guys. I'm not sure if these guys are totally cynical or are just customer bashing, or both. /:O
yoda57us
10-06-2008, 04:29 PM
Some guys on SW are so cynical about every dancer/customer interaction. I've read on SW that about 8 dancers married their customers. These guys would say that the dancers married them for the money. You can't win with these guys. I'm not sure if these guys are totally cynical or are just customer bashing, or both. /:O
I'm not cynical at all, I'm realistic. All of those girls made out with CUSTOMERS for fun dude. The guy was BUYING DANCES. They didn't walk up to him at the bar and start sucking face with him, they got him to buy dances and then made out with him. If everybody had fun that's great but it wouldn't have happened if the guy wasn't spending money.
doc-catfish
10-06-2008, 04:48 PM
Since I've been reading SW, I've read where at least 8 to 10 dancers have admitted that they thought a customer was cute and made out with the customer for the fun of it. In the thread called "Stripper Sins," 6 to 8 dancers admitted that they made out with a customer because they thought he was hot and they did it as a one time deal.
Lets do a little math lesson here folks. What do you think the odds are that in time a stripper will get to dance for a few clients that they might actually be attracted to. Umm...
:teacher:
I'd say the reasons a dancer would make out with a customer would be for the fun of it (50%) and 50% for the money. To say that it's 100%, everytime, for the money, would make the dancers who said they did it for fun, liars.
Well Bob, for it to truly be "for fun", I'd say the money has to be completely taken out of the equation. Just my cynical opinion.
And I'm sure its happened sans moolah a few times, but nowhere near half.
Some guys on SW are so cynical about every dancer/customer interaction. I've read on SW that about 8 dancers married their customers. These guys would say that the dancers married them for the money.
No, we'd say the guy married her for her money, or she married him because he plays a musical instrument.
:drum:
I had one stripper semi fav at my previous club that loved to make out when she was hammered. She was very hot and had nice teeth and nice breath so I didn't mind at all }:D Interestingly, I have never sucked face with Miss D...not even once. Yet her vajayjay is familiar oral territory for me as is my junk a close personal friend with her mouth. Go figure LOL
FBR