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yoda57us
10-06-2008, 05:42 PM
Interestingly, I have never sucked face with Miss D...not even once. Yet her vajayjay is familiar oral territory for me as is my junk a close personal friend with her mouth. Go figure LOL

FBR

Not that unusual FBR. Despite the exhaustive research conducted over in pink by BC the fact still remains that most sex workers like to save the making out for their SO's. I've eaten a lot more women than I have kissed in my 20 odd years of clubbing and seeing escorts. many women see kissing as crossing a line of intimacy that means much more to them than some guy licking their pussy...

FBR
10-06-2008, 06:20 PM
Not that unusual FBR. Despite the exhaustive research conducted over in pink by BC the fact still remains that most sex workers like to save the making out for their SO's. I've eaten a lot more women than I have kissed in my 20 odd years of clubbing and seeing escorts. many women see kissing as crossing a line of intimacy that means much more to them than some guy licking their pussy...

I know you are right yoda but after all these years it is still difficult for me to disconnect tasting her juices or seeing and feeling my dick buried in her mouth from feelings of intimacy. This is probably one aspect of clubbing/OTC that I will never get. I mean, I will soldier on but how kissing is far more intimate is a mystery to me. Maybe one of the brave ladies here can offer some insight.

FBR

Bob Cox
10-06-2008, 06:33 PM
The dancers were attracted to the guys they made out with in the "Stripper Sin" thread. I didn't say every guy who walks in the door. These dancers don't normally make out with anyone.

This is just my experience in the SC: I'm easily in the top 10% of SC regulars when it comes to looks and physique so I get way more play than the average SC goer. I've made out with several dancers, and looking back on it, I'd say they were doing it for the fun of it.

Example: I'd know a dancer for a few months, and once we became a little familiar with each other, we'd have a make out session. Not a big deal. We both had fun. Sometimes we'd do it again at a later date or it may be a one time deal.

If the guy is unnattractive and the dancer is making out with him, then I'd say she's doing it for the money. Most dancers don't normally make out with anyone, but like the dancers said in the "Stripper Sin" thread, it happens once in a blue moon to a guy they're attracted to.

The dancers are selling physical and sometimes emotional intimacy. Shit happens. You guys act like this is as rare as winning the lotto or being struck by lightning. Well, for some guys it is, but not for every guy.

UtahMike
10-06-2008, 08:20 PM
Hmmm...if a dancer would let her SO cum on her tits, then let a customer lick them (http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=115976), I wonder if she would let someone cum in her mouth, then make out with you later?

Yum, yum!

As my friend once said, "If you can imagine it, someone has done it."

FBR
10-06-2008, 08:45 PM
Thanks for busting my fucking bubble Mike LOL

FBR

yoda57us
10-07-2008, 04:36 AM
This is just my experience in the SC: I'm easily in the top 10% of SC regulars when it comes to looks and physique so I get way more play than the average SC goer. I've made out with several dancers, and looking back on it, I'd say they were doing it for the fun of it.


LMAO, it took you a while but you finally managed to make it about you and your top 10% looks eh? Dude, your killing me! I'm easily in the ugliest and least attractive 10% of customers that walk into a strip club on an average night yet I always manage to have dancers offering me all sorts of things that they "never do with anyone else". Why? because my wallet is in amazing shape and every one knows that Jackson, Grant and Franklin are the best looking guys in a strip club and every dancer wants to fondle them...

So, are the girls having fun or just taking my money. In my case, just as in yours it's both simply because making money is fun!
In general guys who start talking percentages about something that they have no comparative information on crack me up! Your exhaustive research over on the pink threads means nothing because you have forgotten the first rule of strip clubs: Everything that happens revolves around money.

Until they are sucking your face back at their apartment, for free, it means nothing other than what it is. A dancer and a customer interacting in a strip club at $20 per song.

yoda57us
10-07-2008, 04:38 AM
I know you are right yoda but after all these years it is still difficult for me to disconnect tasting her juices or seeing and feeling my dick buried in her mouth from feelings of intimacy. This is probably one aspect of clubbing/OTC that I will never get. I mean, I will soldier on but how kissing is far more intimate is a mystery to me. Maybe one of the brave ladies here can offer some insight.

FBR

Well, it's definitely a chick thing FBR..../:O

Bob Cox
10-07-2008, 02:38 PM
So, are the girls having fun or just taking my money. In my case, just as in yours it's both simply because making money is fun!
Your exhaustive research over on the pink threads means nothing because you have forgotten the first rule of strip clubs: Everything that happens revolves around money.


Yoda, I said they're doing it for the fun of it, sometimes, but not everytime. I didn't say they were doing it for free. Yeah, they're having fun while they're making money. Read my first post on this. You read something else into my post.

I don't scour the pink side for anything. When I hit "new posts," both the pink and blue sides come up together. I read the interesting topics just like everyone else.

mediocrity
10-09-2008, 10:48 PM
This is really not a big deal. It sounds like something that happens all the time in strip clubs.

WTF? Are you serious?

Yeah. No way am I kissing someone's precum stain. I almost gagged when I typed that.

FACT: I RARELY dance for young men I find attractive. Not because I get drunk and make out with them, but because I will sit on the floor with them and make gaga eyes and not money. I have made this mistake once. Never again.

Earl_the_Pearl
10-09-2008, 11:43 PM
I used to kiss dancers until I went to clubs in Paterson NJ. :O

UtahMike
10-10-2008, 11:32 PM
FACT: I RARELY dance for young men I find attractive. Not because I get drunk and make out with them, but because I will sit on the floor with them and make gaga eyes and not money. I have made this mistake once. Never again.
The last girl who made gaga eyes at me got another dance that I had not planned on buying. Not that I think she found me attractive, though, and certainly not young. But those eyes....

Golden_Rule
10-11-2008, 02:30 PM
I used to kiss dancers until I went to clubs in Paterson NJ. :O

What, you aren't absolutely crazy about tasting the semen of the ten dudes she blew before she kissed you?

Strip-clubs in Paterson... ::) :O {shudder}

Earl_the_Pearl
10-11-2008, 02:37 PM
What, you aren't absolutely crazy about tasting the semen of the ten dudes she blew before she kissed you?

Strip-clubs in Paterson... ::) :O {shudder}

I would hope they spit but one never knows. If one thinks about it it isn't very different from the discos of the 70's. :O

mediocrity
10-11-2008, 03:57 PM
The last girl who made gaga eyes at me got another dance that I had not planned on buying. Not that I think she found me attractive, though, and certainly not young. But those eyes....

Duly noted. But I'm talking about guys like the oh-so-cute, young half italian guy who only had $50 to spend but daaamn. I sat there hours like a dummy.;D

Golden_Rule
10-11-2008, 04:03 PM
I would hope they spit but one never knows. If one thinks about it it isn't very different from the discos of the 70's. :O

Bawahahahahahahaha!

I lived through that myself so I truly know what you mean.

Funny. :)

Earl_the_Pearl
10-13-2008, 12:52 AM
q[uote=mediocrity;1737592]WTF? Are you serious?

Yeah. No way am I kissing someone's precum stain. I almost gagged when I typed that.

FACT: I RARELY dance for young men I find attractive. Not because I get drunk and make out with them, but because I will sit on the floor with them and make gaga eyes and not money. I have made this mistake once. Never again.



What if a customer ejaculates while getting a dance? The dancer still has to finish the dance she is getting paid for.

Dancers are in control and can air dance if they want. PLs are not in complete control of their money and dancers know it.

3-Legged Man
10-13-2008, 07:58 AM
no contact = no tip + no repeat business

3-Legged Man
10-13-2008, 04:46 PM
Very little contact in the city clubs, but high contact does exist in some suburban areas. As far as I can tell, there is light to medium contact up north in Heavenly Bodies, All-Stars, and Scores. Also out south at Crazy Rock, Jimmy's, Club 390, and SkyBox. It is rumored that medium to high contact can be found at Industrial Strip (Indiana), Club O, and Blackjack's. Check out TUSCL and SCL. There's a lot of crap on those sites, but you should get an idea where the mileage is.

mediocrity
10-13-2008, 07:23 PM
q[uote=mediocrity;1737592]WTF? Are you serious?

Yeah. No way am I kissing someone's precum stain. I almost gagged when I typed that.

FACT: I RARELY dance for young men I find attractive. Not because I get drunk and make out with them, but because I will sit on the floor with them and make gaga eyes and not money. I have made this mistake once. Never again.



What if a customer ejaculates while getting a dance? The dancer still has to finish the dance she is getting paid for.

No, I don't. And if you try and force me, I am going to get the bouncer to boot your ass. I have no desire to have someone's bodily fluids on me. Knock, knock. Who's there? DISEASE.

mediocrity
10-13-2008, 07:27 PM
no contact = no tip + no repeat business

I still make plenty of money, and have plenty of repeat business. So apparently that's not a popular attitude.

Earl_the_Pearl
10-13-2008, 08:56 PM
I still make plenty of money, and have plenty of repeat business. So apparently that's not a popular attitude.

It is the only attitude; it is a business not the prom. Come to think of it proms are the best place to get extras. :P

mediocrity
10-14-2008, 01:47 PM
Are you saying that you refuse to finish a dance for a guy who ejaculated during the dance?

As a general rule, yes I do, because I dont want a stranger's semen seeping through his pants onto me.

mediocrity
10-14-2008, 04:07 PM
So if a customer ejaculates 30 seconds into the dance (not necessarily the first dance), do you make him pay full price?

Do customers at your club pay for a dance after the dance is finished?

If he ejaculates on me, I don't want his money, but I do want the bouncer to remove him. I understand that some girls are cool with it, it's part of the business, but I think thats something that needs to be discussed. I think everyone deserves to have their boundaries respected and that is a blatant disrespect to what my boundaries are. I do not provide any prostitution services. I will give you a bad ass dance if you respect me, but dont expect extra. To me, grinding a guy til he gets off IS extra.

My club currently, if it is a floor (table) dance, you pay afterwards, for 3 for $100s and half/full hours, the transaction takes place before entering the VIP, and in front of the bouncer.

3-Legged Man
10-14-2008, 04:19 PM
Mediocrity, let's see if we have it right: You will give "a bad ass dance", which may cause a custie to come in his pants. And at that time, you will refuse his money and have the bouncer throw him out?

And why is this? Because you were very good at exciting the customer! This makes no sense. Wouldn't you be happier dancing at an air-dance venue? Or Disneyland?

mediocrity
10-14-2008, 04:36 PM
Mediocrity, let's see if we have it right: You will give "a bad ass dance", which may cause a custie to come in his pants. And at that time, you will refuse his money and have the bouncer throw him out?

And why is this? Because you were very good at exciting the customer! This makes no sense. Wouldn't you be happier dancing at an air-dance venue? Or Disneyland?

I worked in an air dance club for 3 and a half years, and made more money there than any other club I have worked at. And giving someone a great dance doesnt necessarily mean being stationary and grinding on his lap dude. Really. I've been doing this since I was 18. I dont think that heavy grinding has to be a part of the equation.

3-Legged Man
10-14-2008, 05:05 PM
I worked in an air dance club for 3 and a half years, and made more money there than any other club I have worked at. And giving someone a great dance doesnt necessarily mean being stationary and grinding on his lap dude. Really. I've been doing this since I was 18. I dont think that heavy grinding has to be a part of the equation.


I guess I should qualify my remarks. If you give no or little contact IN A CLUB WHERE MEDIUM OR HIGH CONTACT IS THE NORM, then you should expect little tipping or repeat business. If the club is of the low/no contact variety, your response makes perfect sense. Sorry for the confusion.

mediocrity
10-14-2008, 05:39 PM
Have you had a customer ejaculate on you on purpose without your permission? If so, I can't blame you for wanting to have him removed. I was thinking about customers who ejaculate in their pants or on themselves.

Yes, I have. And I think if it's in their pants, at least have the courtesy to let me know WTF is going on.

FBR
10-14-2008, 06:49 PM
When reviewing threads and posts, I try to balance the amusement factor vs the effort it takes to keep an eye on a thread.

FBR

yoda57us
10-14-2008, 06:58 PM
When reviewing threads and posts, I try to balance the amusement factor vs the effort it takes to keep an eye on a thread.

FBR


Where does this one stand?:-\

Smokeless
10-20-2008, 10:01 PM
Stand? More like doubled over in laughter or embarrassment, one of the two.

mr_punk
10-21-2008, 05:51 PM
Yes, I have. And I think if it's in their pants, at least have the courtesy to let me know WTF is going on.<double-take>..LOL

Stand? More like doubled over in laughter or embarrassment, one of the two.obviously, i'll take the former.

VegasM
11-15-2008, 10:16 PM
Thank god I've reached the age where premature ejaculation from just a lap dance is not an issue!!

I don't like having my lap ground during dances anyway.

And to answer the original question, yes I have been kissed in a club, usually after getting to know the dancer, but on a few occasions on first meeting. Not common by any means, but it does happen.

And so has a few free dances. Again, not common, and always with a 'regular'.

I don't hit SC that much anymore, but I have noticed the dancers here in Vegas getting a bit 'looser' with the rules; if the trend keeps up, Vegas will be as 'good' as Denver soon. Or The Body Shop on Sunset in West Hollywood.

clubnewbie
11-25-2009, 10:43 AM
I have been kissed on the lips, and returned the kiss and it did keep me a regular. On later visits she just wanted to french kiss and I didn't like the idea of exchanging fluids, so I stopped the kissing.

lestat1
11-25-2009, 04:13 PM
Yes, but this seems to be rare for me. Only two occasions in 13 years.

Earl_the_Pearl
11-25-2009, 06:32 PM
I have been kissed on the lips, and returned the kiss and it did keep me a regular. On later visits she just wanted to french kiss and I didn't like the idea of exchanging fluids, so I stopped the kissing.
If a dancer kisses you you can be sure she kisses others and probably just did more than just kiss a few PLs that night. :O

Sloan1212
01-02-2012, 05:10 AM
Those dirty mouthed girls! In the seventies in one area I frequented, they sold sloppy kisses and make out sessions for $1 to $10. There was French Kissing everywhere. I got a cold sore once and never had one again. Now they do BJ's in the VIP's. And they keep doing it for years!

For that matter, if you kiss the bride at your daughter's wedding the mouth you kiss may have just swallowed cum from multiple guys 30" ago. Don't take me literally in any way, but if Dancers are such filthy vermin why do you allow them to touch you at all?

I certainly allow them to touch me!

Coastie Joe
01-03-2012, 06:59 AM
I have been kissed on the cheek many many times. I am always squeeky clean when I go to the club. I look and smell good. I do NOT pour on the POLO as so many of the wanabee younger old men do.
I shower with a lite fresh scented soap and then a very lite dab of my favorite man purfume below the colar of my shirt. I have had many lap dancers straddle my lap and smell my neck and kiss my neck telling me I smell great. Now it may be part of the hype and hustle but I think they would rather give a dance to a guy thth smells good and is clean than a guy fresh from the factory that smells of cigs and ass, or refried beans.

Doc Holliday
01-03-2012, 09:45 AM
The only dancers to have kissed me in the club were ones I've seen out. It didn't seem odd. If it was some dancer I just met, that might be weird.

mikef
01-03-2012, 11:55 AM
Yes 8)

Coastie Joe
01-04-2012, 08:35 AM
I had one say to me, " Kiss me where it stinks"
And I said,.
.
"You want me to kiss you in Ney Jersey"

Let_It_Fly
01-05-2012, 01:30 PM
Very very lightly on neck, cheek, & ear. Usually from those who I've seen quite a few times.

KeithDoxen
01-07-2012, 04:23 PM
Don't have time to read all the comments but I did get a kiss on the lips from a stripper once. She kissed me after the dance, and after I tipped her. If the OP is asking whether the stripper kissed him because she "like-likes him," well, I doubt it. 99.9 percent chance it's part of her hustle. In my situation, the girl was around my age, we actually had the same birthday (which I found out during corny "what's your sign" banter before the dance), and I had been complimenting her the whole time. Still, I know that the reality is that she probably kisses everybody, and even if she only kisses guys who she thinks are "sweet guys" or whatever, that doesn't mean that you should get out the little black book and be ready to take down her number. Even if a stripper thinks her customer is cool, that doesn't mean she wants to be your girlfriend. My guess is that a lot of strippers think a good portion of their customers are cool guys, but almost none are going to date a customer, as the multiple threads on this topic here and on the pink side demonstrates.

rickdugan
01-08-2012, 07:33 AM
I have a current fav who, one night a few months back, decided to start a makeout session in a corner table. I have to admit that it was hot as hell.

sadbuttrue
01-08-2012, 09:55 AM
There are plenty of dancers of the make-out type. One on my list kisses absolutely like a GF with DFK. Another kisses you so hard you can barely move your head. And as to posters who have problems with the whole bodily fluids thing, I have to assume you never do GFE escort thing.

Many girls slip you a kiss or two even it isn't really their big thing.

Sad

cherryblossomsinspring
01-08-2012, 10:43 AM
Ohh wow really? So you don't worry about herpes of the mouth? I mean who else is this dancer kissing. Or really what guy are you actually making out with unbeknownst to you. It just seems dangerous.

cherryblossomsinspring
01-08-2012, 10:44 AM
Cheek , neck, ear seems harmless but mouth with tongue?

safado
01-08-2012, 08:04 PM
Ohh wow really? So you don't worry about herpes of the mouth? I mean who else is this dancer kissing. Or really what guy are you actually making out with unbeknownst to you. It just seems dangerous.

That's it, I am never letting another woman kiss me again.............................ever!











Not }:D

yoda57us
01-08-2012, 08:19 PM
Ohh wow really? So you don't worry about herpes of the mouth? I mean who else is this dancer kissing. Or really what guy are you actually making out with unbeknownst to you. It just seems dangerous.

While it is not without some risk there actually isn't much that is without risk these days. Going to any regular night club, picking up a total stranger and making out with her in the car on the way to your place could result in the same sort of issues as kissing a dancer in a strip club.

safado
01-08-2012, 08:35 PM
Actually sometimes it may be safer to make out with a dancer in the club. A few years ago I was at this night club and this hot chick pulled me out on the dance floor and started bumping and grinding on me, then she started making out with me (DFK). I was thinking that it was my lucky night but the next thing I knew her boyfriend saw what was going on, they got into an argument and left, fortunately I did not get dragged into their drama.

lopaw
01-08-2012, 09:01 PM
Totally agree w/ yoda. Life has all kinds of risks. If you're the type to want to play it safe all the time, you should not be regularly visiting stripclubs.

I rarely make-out with dancers while ITC, but I did today......but she is someone I've gotten to know very well and I can tell that we are heading in a direction that will lead to OTC activities (and probable complications). It was the first time that we had ever DFK'd. We were both sober, too.

I have occasionally had drunken new dancers stick their tongues down my throat, but it wasn't fun and it wasn't welcomed.