View Full Version : my car stolen yesterday....
Melonie
05-19-2006, 09:01 PM
it's 5 days later ... and we haven't heard from Xiomara yet ... hmmmm
Djoser
05-19-2006, 09:09 PM
Yeah, doesn't seem good. I hope she at least got her car back, and didn't go to jail and lose her car!
FrustratedBunny
05-19-2006, 11:54 PM
now that would really suck. hopefully she got her car back and is just out celebrating!
242_fair
05-20-2006, 03:21 AM
My spidy senses say she in locked up. :(
Torry
05-20-2006, 03:48 AM
This same instance happened to me once back when I first started dancing, except my car wasn't stolen. It could have been though. I trusted this guy who told me bullshit day after day, and he even got the confidence of my roommates, but it's supposed to be somebody that says they like you, right? So in no way did you do anything wrong... but I mean, if you actually know his ex family members it's different from my story, because I didn't know the guy that this happened to with me at all. He took all my money every night and said he was putting it in a bank account for me so I wouldn't spend it (yeah right he was spending it on other girls) and having a good time while I danced every night. Then he stole all our rent money but other times he would cook dinner, take us grocery shopping, only to leave later to go do something else... then some girl at my club started hanging out with him, sitting in the champagne lounge when she wasn't even working and going places with him. Well anyway about my jeep, he ran into some pole on a toll road and knocked the front bumper in and it had a big yellow mark and didn't even say anything about it. Then he just dissappeared never to be seen... a few months later I heard from another dancer that he was in jail somewhere in north carolina or something so that is good. I hope that is true.
Hope everything works out for you, I just wouldn't talk to that guy ever again. My ex who I had my son with would go away for several days and shut his phone off, when I knew he was doing a bunch of stuff he didn't want me to know about obviously, but I didn't have a car then so...... What will you do for transportation now?
VenusGoddess
05-20-2006, 05:14 AM
Actually, it's only been 3 days...but, yeah...I think she's doing some lock-up time, as well.
Djoser
05-20-2006, 10:00 AM
Considering her posting rate before and during the crisis, it looks like it...
Poor thing, I hope she's not suffering in there. It gets boring as hell very rapidly, from my limited experience of being in trouble with the law.
242_fair
05-21-2006, 10:48 AM
Well I really hope she doesn't have any pets at home. I always worry about that with my dog, if anything happened to me.
tampafldancer
05-21-2006, 03:24 PM
ahh.. this is killing me.
Still no word.... :(
blondhottie
05-21-2006, 04:21 PM
She hasn't logged in for 4 days. Hopefully she has just been busy and hasn't had time to log on, and she is not in jail.
Xiomara, I'm really sorry this happened to you and your boyfriend was an asshole for doing this to you. I won't say "You should've known better" because shit like this has happened to me before too, and it sucks. I hope your situation improves soon. :hug:
Mr Hyde
05-21-2006, 04:27 PM
my advice....get an attorney.
Optimist
05-21-2006, 04:42 PM
Hopefully, they'll just set another court date for her and LET HER GO! Jeez, she obviously has roots in the community and isn't a flight risk. I hope it's not a felony charge. They may set the bail too high or hold her for trial and that could be months.
If anyone knows her please encourge her to go with legal aid in her city. Don't let her go before a judge without adequate representation. Many Public Defender's suck.
Lysondra
05-21-2006, 09:54 PM
The truth is I'm not worried about her being arrested - I'm worried she went to look for her boyfriend at that hotel and something happened.
Does anyone know her real name and can call authorities?
Problem with being a stripper - you never know what happens to friends.
Vyanka
05-23-2006, 07:49 PM
Nothing so far? :-[
I hope she's ok.
seraya
05-23-2006, 07:51 PM
^^^ I know me too. I'm worried
Seraya.
Hello_Kitty27
05-23-2006, 08:28 PM
Well, at this point, we could all just hope for the best. I'm on pins and needles, wondering what happened.
hardkandee
05-23-2006, 09:17 PM
Sometimes this place is better than going to the movies.
242_fair
05-29-2006, 03:35 PM
Still nothing?
Rhiannon
05-29-2006, 03:41 PM
Nope, nothing. She hasn't been signed on since the 17th either. Doesn't look too good.
Bridgette
05-29-2006, 05:54 PM
Yeesh. That really sucks. I hope she's ok :(
Cally
05-29-2006, 05:55 PM
I really hope shes okay :(
big_daddyII
05-29-2006, 07:26 PM
I hope she's ok but I kinda think maybe it's a spoof!
Lysondra
05-29-2006, 09:05 PM
.....doesn't anbody have her contact details?
Mesmorized113
05-30-2006, 07:40 AM
Oh lord....like someone said earlier, it's not the being locked up that's worrying me. I'm scared her crazy ass boyfriend tried to do something to her.
Maybe since she couldn't get her bills paid her internet got shut off....hmm...just trying to think positively, but it's not working.
jessica_rabbit
05-30-2006, 08:15 PM
Geez, I've been wondering about her too. I hope we get an update soon.
madmaxine
05-30-2006, 09:34 PM
Here are some ideas- she might be too embarrassed to give us an update but is OK aside from some BS with the law & hurt feelings...I've read her posts since she started posting, and way back she had problems with her baby's daddy & was going to move back with her parents...I'm not sure how she ended up with a loser boyfriend who would steal her car, but hey, that's the case. Plenty of us have taken breaks from SW for less dramatic reasons.
Bridgette
05-30-2006, 09:43 PM
^^ If that is the case it would be fabulous if she would just come on to say "hey yall stop worrying I'm ok". Ya know?
I can't help being worried about her :(
madmaxine
05-30-2006, 09:49 PM
Well, if her warrant was for a misdemeanor she could have been bailed out quite cheaply & if it got to that point, I'd bet money she called her parents & begged them to come pick her up.
She mentioned living on a military base before & even if she was estranged from her husband, it would have been the wisest thing for him to help her out of a dumb fix like this (the military's version of the law makes a man more liable for his dependents' lawbreaking). He might have told her she would have never gotten into this crap if she hadn't run off wanting to be a stripper, & hence she can't/won't log back on to Stripperweb.
seraya
05-31-2006, 10:39 AM
I still think that something is wrong.. dunno just a feeling. I just wish that there was a way of somebody here contacting her. Does anybody know her real name?
Seraya.
seraya
05-31-2006, 10:45 AM
OK guys i belive i found her my space it is the same name (Xiomara) and her location is the same as on here. I googled her name and location http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=24315543 and this is what i found. If it is her then she logged on to her myspace yesterday.
Seraya.
cinammonkisses
05-31-2006, 10:47 AM
^^^^^^^^^^ I dunno, that lady is married to a white guy for like 10yrs..and she has a child. I dont think SW Xiomara has kids nor was married.
JustJayda
05-31-2006, 10:51 AM
Looks like her....
cinammonkisses
05-31-2006, 10:54 AM
Ok i jumped the gun the lady on myspace name is mia and her friend on myspace is Xiomara. CK from what i know she did have a son.
Seraya.
Ahh i gotcha..Well dam, and this whole time I thought Xiomara was young (20's) but myspace says she's like 43?!
JustJayda
05-31-2006, 10:56 AM
She has a son, and is/or was married. She was talking about getting back with her ex, and joining the Navy. I know sometimes people call people an "ex", but legally they are still married. Dunno, I hope she's okay though. We were supossed to go shopping in Sand Destin.....
seraya
05-31-2006, 10:57 AM
^^^ yea i don't think that its the 43 yr old cos she wasn't that old but maybe she liked the name xiomara and used it for the SW name ....LOL i dunno i'm playiong detective.
Looks like her....
thats what i thought.
Seraya.
space_Cadet_28
05-31-2006, 11:15 AM
I do not think the pictures look alike.
first 2: xiomara (from picture post)
third: (myspace)
Vyanka
05-31-2006, 11:18 AM
I thought she said she had a little girl, not a boy.
And those last pictures, all three look different. None look like the same person. Either way, I hope this girl is ok.
Vyanka
05-31-2006, 11:19 AM
OK guys i belive i found her my space it is the same name (Xiomara) and her location is the same as on here. I googled her name and location http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=24315543 and this is what i found. If it is her then she logged on to her myspace yesterday.
Seraya.
That's def. not her. I remember her saying she had a girl & she's not Cuban either.
JustJayda
05-31-2006, 11:23 AM
^^^ur right, just checked my pm's, she has a daughter. But I think she's Latina though, maybe not Cubana, but something else?...?...?
Vyanka
05-31-2006, 11:25 AM
Hmmm. I wonder if she posted her myspace link in the thread here.
Vyanka
05-31-2006, 11:26 AM
^^^ur right, just checked my pm's, she has a daughter. But I think she's Latina though, maybe not Cubana, but something else?...?...?
I remember her saying she was Colombian.
veteranprincess
05-31-2006, 12:02 PM
she has a myspace but it sounds like she doesn't use it
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=65833&highlight=myspace
Djoser
05-31-2006, 01:31 PM
That third woman in the three pictures is definitely different from the first two, who do bear a resemblance to each other, and are no doubt the real Xiomara.
Cally
06-17-2006, 12:47 AM
Has anyone heard from Xiomara? Im gettin kinda worried :(
Rhiannon
06-17-2006, 05:34 AM
Not a word. Still hasn't signed on here since May 17th. I hope she's alright.
Xiomara
07-24-2006, 02:09 PM
Im ok!!!! I posted a couple weeks ago. Dunno if it went through. I did go to jail. I reported my car stolen on the 17th, the police came, found my warrant and took me to jail. Sat there for 6 days, my bail was 5,000. Dad wouldnt send money" u got urself in, u get urself out" Mom is in colombia, couldnt get money from her broke butt. So FINALLY got bondsman to get me for 500. Ex husband helped me, my grandma sent some, and i had 100 at my house. Got out on the 23rd....later thst night shawn called from biloxi. My car had been towed cause he was pulled over and had no license. Freakin police didnt let anybody know they found a STOLEN car. Went down there, got it, left shawns ass there.Still have not seen him since mothers day. He found a ride back to pcola last month.Went to jail AGAIN that night,did 60 days. Got out a few days ago and is asking me for money! Hes been asking me for favors since i found his ass! Fucker. think hes gettin shit from me? NOPE! and he came to my job and i let him see the millions i had wrapped around my leg...lol and he couldnt have none and all i said was" if u were still my man this could be yours too" and walked off to do a private dance. haha
ANyways.....im on my own now. And to clear the confusion I am 21, have a little girl who is 2 who lives with her daddy. I am colombian not cuban,and i dont knopw how to use myspace. My internet did get cut off, but when i buy a new computer i will turn it on. I paid my rent this morning in advance for August AND september...and im always the late one getting Final Demand for Payment letters on my door. LOL Im about to go pay all my bills and credit cards and finally BREATH AGAIN! I save so much money with Shawn out of my life. Im NEVER going to jail again, and im taking care of myself. Im happy. Without the man i once loved. Im SO over him. Even though the sex was amazing. LOL
About the car....about 2 weeks after i got it back it was repod because i just couldnt afford it after paying family back, my rent,and bills, and replacing food after my power was turned off while i was in jail. I lost EVERYTHING last month, but things are looking good. I finally realized whats most important and i grew up a little bit after losing so much while i was in jail. SO im saving for a down payment on another car. Cant be brand new, gotta go to one of those shitty no credit check places but hey,gotta get around that repo and i NEED transportation. U might say y dont i just look in the paper and buy a car for cash? I wanna rebuild my credit. Anyways, Ima go feed my snake. Poor mouse.
Love ya'll and thanx for worrying about me. Its funny how the people who care are the ones you dont even have to see. I really found out who my friends are and are not around here.
Thanks guys. :)
Emily
07-24-2006, 03:23 PM
wow, thanks for the update.
I guess it's good that something positive came out of all this. You learned more about loving and taking care of yourself.
good luck!
Lysondra
07-24-2006, 07:57 PM
Oh goodness, we were so worried about you!! Thanks for coming back!!
Mesmorized113
07-29-2006, 10:14 AM
Hey sweetie! So glad to know you're okay! I'm glad things are looking up for you now. Congrats on leavin that jerk...now just don't take him back!!