View Full Version : Why Do People Do This???
kandie_kitten
06-26-2006, 05:14 AM
*read the above post. Read it again. Say it out loud. She'd dead on.
As she said...you've matured physically means "You're hot, I want to fuck you"
"You havent grown up" means "Jesus Chrit you act like you're 5 and its freakin annoying
If a guy wants to be with you...they make time. It doesn't matter if they are the president of the world...they will make time.
He's just not that into you.
Get over it.
Mastridonicus
06-26-2006, 06:37 AM
Nothing we say on here is going to give you the answer you want, no matter how you make it seem in your head.
Dead. On.
You can augment the situation mentally but there is a hard truth:
1. You initiate all contact.
2. He doesn't reciprocate.
VenusGoddess
06-26-2006, 06:47 AM
yes, of course you know that it isnt a guarantee, but doesnt it hurt the person who wants a relationship? is 7 weeks long enough to get to know them before making a decision? that seems short..
Well, I think 1 day is enough...1 date. I've gone out with people who annoyed the fuck-all out of me in just meeting them for the date.
Sometimes people take longer to dump the person they're with because they don't know how to do it. Or the sex is good and they want to get it a few more times before high-tailing out of there.
VenusGoddess
06-26-2006, 06:50 AM
Goodness...I should have read the whole thread before I responded.
Girl, you've got some serious mental issues. What you are doing is called STALKING. People don't like that. If he didn't want to be with you before, you can guarantee that he REALLY doesn't want to be with you now.
Do what everyone else suggested and go find a good psych. You need one...BAD.
kittenkat
06-26-2006, 01:43 PM
Chastity,
You sound like an immature, confused clusterfuck. First off, you're after an image, not a person. A person's job doesn't say jack shit about how they treat others. You're stalking this guy that doesn't want you. Please get your head straight before you inflict yourself on others. Get some help, get some meds, and chill the fuck out.
chastity
06-26-2006, 09:34 PM
i must say this, i no longer call him every day. i havent called him in over a month. it was when he was seeing me that i would call him every day. is that too much? you seem to be saying that when you are seeing someone casually that calling them every day is too much?? is that not normal? are women supposed to mainly let the guy do the calling? i know that in high school you want to be with your SO all the time...is that not the case when you are an adult?? if you were seeing someone and they called you everyday....would you be turned off and not want to be with them because they are too clingy?
Paintbaby
06-27-2006, 09:46 AM
This man has made his disinterest incredibly obvious. So, whether or not you appear clingy is no longer relevent. Let go and move on. Quite obviously, he has. If you don't actually have a sense of dignity, pretend that you do. Also, seek professional help before you attempt to embark upon another relationship.
The questions you have thrown at this thread indicate that you really do need want to hear the truth, and that is a bit troubling. You quite obviously have a few things about yourself to figure out. Good luck.
chastity
06-27-2006, 01:16 PM
are you basically agreeing with him that i havent grown up?
VenusGoddess
06-27-2006, 01:44 PM
^ Yes!!
Adults don't CLING to their bf's/gf's/etc. They don't STALK the person 24/7. They don't expect their SO to be there every second of every day.
Shiiiit...I've been with scorpio for 5 years now, and some days he's working all day and I won't call him once nor will he call me once during the day. It's not that he doesn't care or I don't care...but we realize that life happens and you'll meet up later.
So, before you attempt to get into another relationship, just grow up. Get some counseling and THEN see what's out there.
sssssheeeeesh.
kandie_kitten
06-27-2006, 01:49 PM
YES. Grow up. Calling all the time IS creepy.
You are clingy and insecure. Get yourself together before pursuing anyone else.
chastity
06-27-2006, 01:58 PM
that is what i thought. you think im not ready for a relationship right now? i see...i dont know much about the birds and the bees, it wasnt until 2 years ago that i learned what boxer shorts were!! i learned in a strip club.