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exotic0690
08-31-2006, 11:19 AM
I was called a slut all throughout high school.. I never talked to anyone in my high school except about 3 girls..and never dated or even kissed anyone in my high school.. but I was bleach blonde and wore lots of makeup so everyone called me a slut... LOL.

terra
08-31-2006, 07:18 PM
I was called a 'slut' when I was at high school... once I left school, I have never been called 'slut' again O_o I was mainly a 'slut' because I was 'hawt' (I had very long platinum blonde hair and wore 'barbie' makeup) but was too busy with study to deal with idiots and I wouldn't sleep with any guys so they got 'angsty'... although I did have one boyfriend who I only held hands with... I think a guy calls a girl a 'slut' when she doesn't want to sleep with him. XD

I mainly talked to guys at school but the friendships were platonic (at least that's how I viewed them). Guys were more interesting since most of what I talked about were video games and most girls were a bunch of 'n00bs'.

scarlett_vancouver
08-31-2006, 07:22 PM
I was called a slut in high school, and I wasn't even hot! Or a slut!

PhillyDancer1982
09-01-2006, 04:58 AM
This one girl, typical jealous chick (overweight, trying to wear clothes *I* couldn't fit in) called me one to my face and I replied with the first thing that popped in my head.
"I may be a whore, but at least I have class."
Shocked the hell out of her. XDD

Yeah this reminds me of a bitch who called me "slut" in public a few years ago...Until recently, I had this long-time boyfriend K.J.G. A few years ago, I went to visit my ex-bf K.J.G. at the apartment that he shared with his best friend and his best friend's girlfriend, K.H. K.H. was a kinda snobby, upper-middle class girly-girl who was on the heavy side, but had a pretty face and really big knockers. She got mad that we were having sex in the apartment, even though it was my ex's apartment, too! I kinda laughed off the incident and forgot about it entirely.

Then a few weeks later, it is Black Friday and I am stuck working at my lousy retail job at the mall. On my break, I went to the food court to meet up with some friends. As we roam the food court looking for some of our other friends, some snobby bitch wearing a prissy pink coat walks by and goes really loudly, "Hmmmph, SLUT!" Then the girl deliberately looks back and makes a snobby, dirty look. At first my ears were ringing, but then I tried to tell myself, "Now, now. Don't be paranoid and think that girl was talking to you. I don't even recognize who this girl is! And there's like 1000 other people in the food court that she was probably directing that comment towards." Well, I shoulda trusted my instincts...because a few minutes later, I ran into my ex K.J.G. at the food court, and then I saw him eating with his best friend and the same pink-wearing bitch. That's when I realize that the bitch was K.H. Funny she'd pick me out like that, because I didn't even remember what she looked like! It still annoyed me for a while, though.

I'd like to say that K.H. was jealous of me, but to be honest that was not the case. At the time, she had a better job than me...she was just out of high school and making $15/hr at a doctor's office, whereas I was a few years older than her but making literally half that wage at a shitty retail job(which coincidentally ended up FIRING me the very next day after that Black Friday). She also lived outside her parents' house, had nicer boobs, her parents loved her more than mine loved me, etc. What reason did she have to call me a "slut," what, simply because I had sex with a guy I'd been dating for years?? God forbid! She started having sex at 16, a year younger than I started.

Well, this part sounds really mean/bitchy on my end, but I'm gonna say it anyway... OK a month or so later I found out K.H. had a Myspace site, where ironically she had tons of suggestive pictures showing off puckered lips and her ample cleavage. Then someone on a message board called me a "slut" for something random I wrote, so I wrote back, "If you wanna check out a real slut, check out K.H.'s myspace site at ... " Not long after that, she started a whole new Myspace site and marked it "private"! Haha.

Paisley
09-01-2006, 08:01 AM
I've been dealing with that and worse since Junior High. It really doesn't get to me. I know that my sex life and satisaction is probably better than the person who called me a slut so I don't care. It really is a meaningless word.

MishaBliss
09-01-2006, 08:05 AM
I was called a slut in high school, and I wasn't even hot! Or a slut!

Hah Ha...me too :D

goldgarnets
09-15-2006, 08:25 PM
:'( It upset me as a child and teenager to hear it, but now at least I get paid to be it! :D

teeth_of_the_hydra
09-15-2006, 11:59 PM
I'm sure I've been called a slut at some point, but I don't exactly remember. I was probably too busy administering blowjobs.

stripperMBA
09-16-2006, 01:59 AM
she throws it all back at me...talks crudely...says things that a daughter should never be called. And it's not like I tell her all about my sexual life...so I never come off as slutty...

It really hurts when she says nasty stuff like that when she gets angry. It's not right. And for a parent to be saying that, that's not right....ThankfullyI can get over it fairly quickly, but still...that's sorta her being abusive, you know? I feel that when she gets nasty about things, it's not justified... It's times like this that makes me wonder, "why the hell am I living at hell right now? I should've stuck with my original plan of moving right after school ended.".

This is not just slightly abusive it is abusive. My mother used to do the same thing to me. But my mother is mentally ill. Your situation may be different? You have a right to have a safe enviroment at home. Your spiritual health is important physically and emotionally. When I stayed in a simular enviroment too long and it wound up making me physically ill and affecting my gradepoint average. So sorry to hear this is happening to you. Here's a hug :hug: Also when you say you get over it quickly make sure you are not just repressing feelings as this sooo bad for you and you would only have to deal with them later. The term slut is mysogynist and used to bring women down. It is even sadder when another woman uses it.

Darcy Foxx
09-16-2006, 05:03 AM
Ha! I was called a slut in 6th grade. Go figure!
so i was i. i got nicknamed "the slut" from a very early age, because i attended school in a very small, redneck country town, and i was the first girl in my grade to grow boobs (i shot up from being completely flat chested to a C cup in just a few months) and the only one with blonde hair. i used to get picked on and called "slut" and "bimbo" all the time because of it, even though i didn't even kiss a boy til about 3 years later.

meimei
09-16-2006, 02:34 PM
Amongst all my Asian girlfriends, it's like a big thing to sleep with more than maybe a couple guys over the course of your life. We're a rather purient group. The funny thing is, if any of them knew I was a dancer, they would undoubtedly call me a slut, but the number of guys I've slept with is about a fraction of the number of guys even the most chaste of them have done :P

Oh, irony.

Fahren
09-23-2006, 02:06 PM
I think the definition of the word "slut" is all relative to who is using it.

kitana
09-23-2006, 02:49 PM
Have you guys ever heard the difference between a slut and a whore?

A whore will fuck anyone...

A slut will fuck anyone but you!

Bad joke I know, but usually very true in a guys mind anyway!

Xx-JeSs-xX
10-01-2006, 07:24 AM
i've been called a slut more times than i can count...but it doesnt bother me in the slightest! i dont really take it as an insult...i like looking like a slut =)

exotic0690
10-06-2006, 11:21 AM
I was labelled as a slut all throughout high school due to my bleach blonde hair and dramatic makeup. Funny, I never dated or fucked one guy in my high school!

leilanicandy
10-08-2006, 07:21 PM
I have not been tauted as a slut. A bitch I could say! I get that all the time.

$$$magnet
10-08-2006, 09:03 PM
Book: "Slut! Growing Up Female with a Bad Reputation" by Leora Tanenbaum
I found this book very interesting and recommend it to anyone who has evere been labeled (or labeled someone else) a slut

Beauty's Release
10-09-2006, 01:53 AM
Being goth-ish in high school earned me the slut reputation for some reason.
I was also outspoken about slut pride/polygamy/sex worker rights, that may have been a factor as well hehehe. But I embrace the title. It's really not an insult to me.

Gypsy14
10-13-2006, 03:32 AM
ahahahaha. Great attitude. I've been called a slut, especially in HS, but I never took it to heart because, really, who cares? Unless it's a close friend who was saying it in regards to something he/she KNOWS I've done, then I think it's quite silly. Sometimes, it's even flattering. The only time I've really been offended was when my former stepmom called me a slut (my dad divorced her, go figure...). Her views are really conservative and looking back, I think she was jealous of my relationship with my father and jealous of me in general, but when it's family or even step-family, it hurts. I feel for the ladies who have gone through that with a parent. It's completely out of line.

Marianne
10-15-2006, 03:41 AM
I remember in HS, i was teased for beeing a slut (I also had blonde hair, and wore makeup) I liked clothes that complimented my bod, but I would not say I looked "slutty".. Anyways the teasing was done by girls that were older than me, and some of the guys. They would yell at me inbetween classes, and on my way down to catch the bus after school they were talking about me loudly so I could hear them
"shes a fucking whore, shes soo ugly, she slept with xxx and xxx" (I never had sex withe anybody there, and was a virgin :( )..

But the most hurtful is the day my father picked me up after school with his brand new cabriolet car, and was standing and waiting for me at the bus-stop, the older kids went on yelling loudly even when they saw my father.. It felt so bad. They were screaming "Whore" and "Bimbo" over and over, and my father didnt even lift an eyebrow. When I asked him later. - Dad, did you hear what they yelled at me? I told him they yelled bimbo, and his excuse was he didnt know the meaning of the word (what grown man doesnt know what that means??)

These episodes has affected me in my life, but try not to think about it and think that kids can be cruel to eachother but what you do to others in time will hit back at you times three..

Hugs and kisses ;)

britney
11-14-2006, 11:44 PM
my friends joke with me and stuff but i dont get bothered by it. Besides, being a little slutty is fun

jasmine
11-15-2006, 06:44 AM
Yeah, I got called a slut by my ex-roommate, when I refused to do her and her daughters sink full of dishes. Our other roommate was there at the time & told her "Well Jasmine has had 1 BF since I've lived here & hasn't been w/another guy, however you have had like 9 guys here including 2 you didn't know and your 16 YO cousin (she was 23), I don't think she is the one I would call a slut." So no, it didn't really offend me. Also been called that by plenty of guys I wouldn't sleep with as well. I guess they meant to say they were the sluts huh? ;D ;D ;D ;D

pink_staR
11-15-2006, 11:36 PM
I remember in HS, i was teased for beeing a slut (I also had blonde hair, and wore makeup) I liked clothes that complimented my bod, but I would not say I looked "slutty".. Anyways the teasing was done by girls that were older than me, and some of the guys. They would yell at me inbetween classes, and on my way down to catch the bus after school they were talking about me loudly so I could hear them
"shes a fucking whore, shes soo ugly, she slept with xxx and xxx" (I never had sex withe anybody there, and was a virgin :( )..

But the most hurtful is the day my father picked me up after school with his brand new cabriolet car, and was standing and waiting for me at the bus-stop, the older kids went on yelling loudly even when they saw my father.. It felt so bad. They were screaming "Whore" and "Bimbo" over and over, and my father didnt even lift an eyebrow. When I asked him later. - Dad, did you hear what they yelled at me? I told him they yelled bimbo, and his excuse was he didnt know the meaning of the word (what grown man doesnt know what that means??)

These episodes has affected me in my life, but try not to think about it and think that kids can be cruel to eachother but what you do to others in time will hit back at you times three..

Hugs and kisses ;)

Aww. People are dumb.

flickad
11-16-2006, 10:50 AM
Yeah. I just kind of laugh and say 'I'm not a slut, I'm a WHORE'. I don't take it at all seriously. Anyone who knows me knows that I am anything but a slut.

Damia
11-18-2006, 11:15 PM
I'm proud of beig a slut. But its really hard to get me in the sack these days.

Damia
11-29-2006, 11:01 AM
Woah! I forgot I had even posted in this thread