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juan
08-21-2006, 08:37 AM
Yes this is my fantasy too dating a stripper but in real life the character
I can most closely relate to is the one Robert Deniro played in Taxi but I don't
have movie star looks.

madmaxine
08-21-2006, 01:22 PM
^ LOL juan that is so funny. I feel like Travis Bickle all the time too.

xoxoGracexoxo
08-21-2006, 02:42 PM
Guys who ask "what does it take to date a stripper" probably don't have what it takes to date a stripper. We're used to being seen as stereotypes, idiots, and blank slates for the projection of male fantasy; we're used to being condescended to, lied to, distrusted, and misunderstood. The customer who talks to me like I'm a real person, not a "stripper" has my attention. Unfortunately, I have the awesomest boyfried in the world, so attention is not going to lead to sex.

I liked my boyfriend as soon as I met him -- in the camera store where he worked -- for his honesty, bluntness, integrity, and sense of humor. I don't know how I could tell all this just by looking at him, but three years later I know I was right. If I'd met him in the club, it would've been a little wierder, but I think I would have felt the same way.

daredevil
08-24-2006, 03:45 PM
Guys who ask "what does it take to date a stripper" probably don't have what it takes to date a stripper. We're used to being seen as stereotypes, idiots, and blank slates for the projection of male fantasy; we're used to being condescended to, lied to, distrusted, and misunderstood.

I'm sorry to hear that, but I'm not surprised. All I meant was that most of the time, strippers are going to be much more harder to get a date with than non-strippers because of a lot of the reasons you listed. They have to have state-of-the-art bullshit detectors, and be VERY careful about who they meet outside the club not only her personal safety, but also because she would probably lose her job if management found out, I'm guessing. But other than that no, strippers are no different from non-strippers, and I don't treat them any differently and to my knowledge no dancer has ever had a bad experience dealing with me.

Sunshine73
08-24-2006, 10:42 PM
To answer your question...
I have dated one customer and one customer only. We're still together, and I am deeply in love with him. He's been my boyfriend for a year now.
For starters, when I first met him I felt there was just something about him that was very special. From the moment I saw him I felt like I 'recognized" him, even though I've never met him before. I did a few dances for him that day, and it totally turned me on. I have, to this day, never been turned on while giving dances, EXCEPT when I dance for him. When I dance for him, it's hot. When I dance for anyone else, well...whatever...
There was (and still is) a lot of chemistry between us. We just have a connection. The more I got to know him the more I liked him. He's fun, funny, smart, handsome, caring, sexy, great kisser, great in bed, good father, and HE LOVES ME FOR WHO I AM ON THE INSIDE AND RESPECTS ME. He's very sensitive to my feelings and has a good heart. He has a very nice sort of quiet confidence about him. We can be ourselves around each other. I wish he was here. I'd be snuggling up to him right now. :couple:

azcustomer
08-24-2006, 11:21 PM
It was this guy sitting at the table next to me and I saw him watching me get my usual lapdance. My initial reaction was 'WTF'? Another guy peeving off of MY dance?

Then I saw him look like he was aroused with a big sexy smile, just looking forward, but watching us out of the corner of his eye. My concentration on the dancer was broken and I started to lose my arousal. So I looked over at the guy and damn, if he didn't look just like Jack Sparrow!

I couldn't take my eyes off the guy - his looks were mesmerizing... Then I realized that while I was staring directly at him, he just continued sitting there staring forward with an aroused look on his face while watching us out of the corner of his eye.

Then, it happened... I had my first arousal experience from a guy! I couldn't help it, he was just so damn handsome and cool looking that I started to WANT HIM.

The dancer was getting all confused as she couldn't figure out what she had done to return me to full stiffness. She got more confused as although I was getting rock hard, I thanked her and told her I didn't want anymore dances.

So as I'm pulling out my wallet to pay the dancer, the Jack Sparrow looking dude gets up and sits at my table. The dancer asks if he wants a dance, and he declined.

Oh man, now I'm really confused - horny, stiff as a rock, and scared to death. He leans over and introduces himself, apologizing for watching the dance, then explains that he was getting turned on more by ME than the dancer!

It's been six months and my butt hasn't been happier.:P

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Seriously, I can't believe this thread had stayed active so long with a newbie custy asking an obvious question.