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Casual Observer
08-01-2006, 09:44 PM
I think you all know by now that I'm saving myself for marriage, so don't ridicule me too much.

Mastridonicus
08-02-2006, 12:55 AM
Dude, aren't you married to the Lord?

pixie183
08-08-2006, 10:12 AM
I was 15, just, and it was with the same guy my friend lost hers too, but it never was a problem for us, we just thought it was kinda cool - my god 15 year old girls are strange!

I remember another friend of mine being mad at me for it because she, being a year older than me, should have done it first!

That relationship lasted about 5 months and I then went into a 3 year relationship with a guy who was a virgin and at the time I wished I had saved myself for him.
I bloody glad I didn't now because that ended in a bitter twisted way.

I found this topic by doing a search on 'school' because I was going to start a thread on what you were like in School! But PhillyDancer beat me too it - what can I say, great minds think alike! Off to read that post now!

TeethOfTheHydra
08-08-2006, 11:13 AM
I was 13, and even though I don't generally think it's an awesome idea for 13 year olds to have sex, I am very glad that it happened to me when it did. He was also 13 and a virgin, and I was so in love with him. Everyone said that I'd look back on my relationship with him and realize that it was "puppy love" or "preteen love" or whatever you want to call it... but 10 years later I know in my heart that I was just completely in love with the guy, and so I'm happy to have given him my virginity, because he's the only person in the world I'd want to have it (sappy, I know).

Now, the twist to the situation is that being that much in love when you're 13 AND having sex leads to all sorts of complicated emotions that were too huge for our teenaged selves to handle. So we had a sad and messy breakup and were mortal enemies for several years, and badmouthed one another incessantly throughout high school. Sometime around the age of 17, something happened and we suddenly became friends again. And we stayed friends. And I STILL love him (though I'm not "in love" with him in the romantic sense any longer). I only see him once a year or so since he lives in Europe, but we sent each other "Happy 10-year Virginity Anniversary" emails on June 21st, 2006. Yeah, it's so cute I could almost die.

mollyzmoon
08-09-2006, 07:11 AM
I was 17, drunk in my basement with my best friend and some guy she brought along. The night before New Years Eve. So hung over and disturbed that I didn't even go out the next night.

Actually, it hardly even counted. It was horribly awkward and he was the freakiest, hugest guy either of us had ever seen (and she was the...most sexually experienced girl at our school). So it barely fit, hurt too much, and yeah.

Mary-Felicia
08-09-2006, 08:05 AM
I was 14...And I'm still with him today!!...My first and only!

beauty21queen
08-09-2006, 01:41 PM
i was 14 not good with a girl 14 guy included also great

maximvsv
08-09-2006, 05:49 PM
Didn't

It's all about fruit
08-09-2006, 07:25 PM
I was 17...I was drunk and don't remember anything from that night(I lost my shirt my lipstick and my glasses)...i was afraid that it would hurt so drank too much=///

TROU8LE~
08-09-2006, 07:35 PM
i was 14. And hes the father of my 3 yr old daughter. Uh.. I still have to associate with him. yuck.. lol

PrettyCurlieQ
04-05-2007, 09:55 PM
16, highschool boyfriend. i cried the whole time. :(

thank god it's fun for me now!

funlatina82
04-05-2007, 09:58 PM
I was 14. It was to the song "hypnotize" by Biggie Small. We had it on repeat so that nobody in my parents house could hear us. Now, whenever I hear that song, it soooo reminds me of that night.

Jay Zeno
04-05-2007, 10:01 PM
I never lost it. I gave it away, gladly, and didn't even wave good-bye. It had stuck around way too long.

Laylas
04-05-2007, 10:27 PM
16, after the prom.....

The funny thing is, I realize how cliched it was at the time... ::)

Chrissy68
04-06-2007, 03:01 AM
had jsut turned 15, at sleep away camp, with a russian guy named Serge who didnt speak enough english, cheating on my byfriend at home in doing so. i shoulda just done it with him. haha. (woulda saved me problems now lol, as we got back together this past aug, 10 yrs later)

I_luv_dancers!
04-06-2007, 05:49 AM
19

It was good. 20 y/o girl across the street was visiting her parents during summer break. We fucked every day after that until she left for school.

BmiWMT14
04-06-2007, 07:44 AM
I was 16, and Lost it to a girl I had been dating for almost a year. It was out side under the stars in the woods. I wasnt particuarly good either. But it is a memory I look back at and smile

icey
04-06-2007, 08:03 AM
I was 5. Virginity was not taken by my choice. Consentual sex when I was 13 with a girl. First consentual sex with a guy I was 21.

BrunetteGoddess
04-06-2007, 08:43 AM
I was 18, and luckily it was with my first real boyfriend (I consider) that I loved.

KaliThorne
04-06-2007, 09:59 AM
I was 5. Virginity was not taken by my choice. Consentual sex when I was 13 with a girl. First consentual sex with a guy I was 21.

Woah, very sorry to hear that.

I was 14 with a guy. Not the best experience, not the worst.

Snowles
04-06-2007, 11:28 AM
I was 18...very not rock star of me, I know. But she was the first girl I ever loved. The date (if I remember correctly) was May 13, 2004. She was a virgin too. She's a year younger than me. And it was her idea...I let her set the pace for the relationship. We broke up a few months later, went through a rough patch of not speaking to each other, and now we're friends again. Huzzah.

danni0316
04-06-2007, 12:05 PM
I was 17 (drunk and high) at a New Year's Eve Party. I met this cute 22 year old college boy and he gave me a crash course in sex that night and the next couple of weeks after. ;-P Looking back, I wish I would have waited for someone I cared about.

BalletBaby
04-06-2007, 03:13 PM
I was 18. It was the early morning on December 31st, 2005. I lost my lesbian virginity a few weeks before, but dont remember the exact date.

PrettyCurlieQ
04-06-2007, 07:15 PM
Not the best experience, not the worst.
Oh, mine was the WORST. I was laying there thinking, I'm such a sinner, I'm totally going to hell, this fucking hurts! Why does he like it so much!! Then, afterwards we fall asleep. I wake up a few hours later and he's going at it again, and I'm so sore from the first time! (But I didn't bleed when my cherry was popped .. or maybe it was already popped?)

Rockette
04-06-2007, 08:41 PM
I was 17 at the time, dating my high school sweetheart (of 7 months). I went to his senior prom, and we ended up having sex at his parent's condo in Ortley Beach, NJ. Was actually one of my best boyfriends that I've been with, but unfortunately he's getting married this summer. Can't keep them all I guess.

BalletBaby
04-06-2007, 09:13 PM
But I didn't bleed when my cherry was popped .. or maybe it was already popped?

Lucky you. I bled for almost a week, but it wasn't heavy bleeding just kinda spotting.

toomuchhomeworklately
04-08-2007, 09:13 AM
First time: 15th birthday, but not by choice. I was afraid to tell my parents because I snuck out that night. Then I heard from his friends that he had moved to Mexico a few days after that.

The first time that counts was a week later with this guy from high school. We were already good friends. I was so high. He didn't have a condom & actually wrapped his dick in saran wrap (I couldn't make this stuff up) to do me. He was quite well-endowed so I wouldn't let him finish. We ended up being fuck buddies for 3 years. We learned a lot from each other & it was really good times. He has manic depression & post-traumatic stress disorder (due to his violent father when he was young). Last time I saw him in 2000 he was crazy fucked up on meth & broke into my friend's house after a new year's eve party. I think he's in jail now.

Someone mentioned their boyfriend's parents' approval somewhere in here. I was living at my bf's parents home when I was 18 & we made a dirty video. His mom accidently watched it, thinking it was some other movie. The next time she saw me she complimented me on the outfit I had been wearing in the movie. I wanted to die on the spot. So embarassing.

bellasera
04-08-2007, 01:59 PM
17- with my best friend. I was trying to 'get rid' of it. 18- with a girl after prom

TheSexKitten
04-08-2007, 02:16 PM
14 with my current boyfriend. :D

We were both virgins and it lasted about a minute! He was sooo embarrassed but I knew what to expect.

lwtex52
04-08-2007, 07:44 PM
I don't remember exactly, but I either lost it in a dice game in New Orleans at 14, or in a flooded rice field on the Texas coast at 16. Amazing, the things one can do with a snorkel.

lezmaka
04-08-2007, 08:31 PM
I'm 25 and haven't yet... god I feel pathetic

Roulette
04-08-2007, 08:56 PM
March 13 2001 in my aunts bed, it lasted about 45 min. We finished about 5 min before we went out to eat with his whole family and see a horrible sad movie about Viet Nam (his dad had fought in it) I was so excited about having just had sex for the first time I couldnt stop smiling - it was terrible.

I was 16 and he was 15 and I was his first everything like first girl who'd ever held his hand. haha in fact the first time we held hands he came. Anyway it was GREAT!!! I mean I've learned a lot since then, but as far as firsts go it was pretty great!

icey
04-10-2007, 10:35 AM
Woah, very sorry to hear that.

It's okay it was a long time ago.

SexyChase
04-11-2007, 06:35 PM
14 when I lost it with a guy who was 17. He dumped me shortly after and I slept with about 15 other guys that year out of spite. Had first Girl/Girl sex when I was 16

MishaBliss
04-12-2007, 05:01 AM
I used to fool around with my best friend (girl) from primary scool at a very young age 8-10 maybe?
First time with a guy was when I was 14. He was 17, my friends older brother. It was also the first time I smoked weed. It was pretty good, and was to the Blood Sugar Sex Magik album.

Nickirose20
12-11-2013, 02:21 PM
I still have yet to lose it I'm 20. I don't want to lose it until 22 or 23.

jeffb
12-12-2013, 01:03 PM
Age 20

livefast
12-13-2013, 11:14 AM
Thirteen years old.

miss.a.p1600
12-13-2013, 11:32 AM
13.

I had a lot of time alone after school because my parents worked. He'd come over every day after school and begged me to have sex with him. I eventually broke down and agreed just out of curiosity.

I wished I could have a do over. So I denied having sex with him and made him look like a liar when he told people. And anyone that asked me I told them I was still a virgin.

I waited a long time for my do over because I knew I could be more selective.

I lost my fake virginity at 19. I later regret sleeping with this guy too and pretty much wish I could erase the guys I slept with except for my child's father. And maybe even him too.

lynn2009
12-13-2013, 12:02 PM
I was 21

Kellydancer
12-13-2013, 10:53 PM
I was 16 and the day was March 21, 1987 (yes I am old). We had been friends for a couple of years and he then left school to attend school downstate. Months later I realized I missed him and we got back in contact. Things developed and he asked me out. I knew he wanted sex but figured it was more than that as well. Him and his dad picked me up from my house because he didn't have a license (I later found out he was going blind). We went to the show, out to lunch then back to his house. His dad knew what we were going to do (creepy, I know)and left the house. We kissed for awhile then had sex after he put on a condom. It was very painful and when he was done he started getting dressed and said "next time you will enjoy it more". His dad then drove me home, stopping at McDonald's to get me and him dinner. A few weeks later I called him to ask if he was taking me to a dance at school and he said "I thought you knew this was just a casual thing", I said no, I didn't and then he said there was a girlfriend at school he was going to have sex with.

I was so heartbroken I didn't date anyone for a year. Then I met my cousin's step brother who looked like one of the guys in Duran Duran and I fooled around with him, including him teaching me how to give and receive oral sex. After I wouldn't have intercourse with him he dumped me. He later got a girl pregnant and I think how that could have been me. I had sex next a year later with a guy I met and dated a few months but broke up because he lived 6 hours away and we only saw each other once a month. After him I went through of sex, including friends with benefits (mostly oral), and making a video and then stopped. I also had serious boyfriends I slept with as well. I haven't had sex since then, though have had oral sex.

Now because of being used for sex by one too many men I have vowed never again until marriage. If this means I never have sex again I am okay with that. I just wish I hadn't allowed myself to be used by men who only wanted my body.

simone87
12-14-2013, 12:11 AM
the first time i tried having sex, i was 17..it didn't go in all the way, does that still count? i was SO tensed up, and tight to the point where even a tampon had never gone in there. everyone nicknamed me "berlin wall" lol. i can laugh now, but at the time i was so embarassed and angry. the first time i had "full on" sex, i was 18 or 19.

ToeOfTheCamel
12-14-2013, 02:09 AM
I was 12 and peer pressured into it by my older friends. They made fun of me for being a virgin all the time. I slept with this totally random guy who's house I was staying at because I had run away from home. It was awful and not fun at all. I wish I could change it, but oh well :/

22lligm
12-16-2013, 11:28 PM
16 with a football player at another school who's name i don't even remember.. very romantic story i know..

AureliaC
12-17-2013, 03:07 AM
I was a month away from 17, wouldn't change the age, just the abusive asshat I did it with. Worst 3.5 years of my life.

SweetJulia
01-06-2014, 03:45 PM
14. It was nothing to write home about, so I didn't do it again until I was 18 lol.

Morrigan
01-06-2014, 03:59 PM
17, no real story to it, it was one of the more classic " in the moment" sort of things.

Almost Jaded
01-08-2014, 02:48 AM
17, random girl that had a horrible reputation as a slut and liked that I didn't care; I wasn't expecting it & she was surprised that I wasn't. It was TERRIBLE, lol.

audrey_k
01-08-2014, 02:56 AM
16! My first serious boyfriend. It was totally unromantic (he was dating someone else and broke up with her the next day for me) but I was madly in love with that waste of space at the time.

PleasureVictim
01-08-2014, 01:15 PM
17, but I was 'ready' at 15. Thankfully the boy I was in love with at the time was weary about having sex with a virgin. He was 3 years older than me, but was a good guy. I was also terrified about my parents finding out, because they'd beat the crap out of me if they knew. No exaggeration.

My first time was outdoors, so it didn't last long. No blood and if there was any pain, I didn't notice because I loved it. I was sold from the first pump. LMAO!