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kittenkat
08-03-2006, 02:23 AM
Also, it's not bad to ask the lawyer if he/she'll take the case as a pro bono. Lawyers in the United States are recommended under the American Bar Association ethical rules to contribute at least fifty hours of pro bono service per year. There are also ways for the lawyer to receive a percentage of the judgement rather than a fee upfront, if you cannot pay upfront. Another thing to do is to gather all your medical records and consult several doctors and ask about their professional opinion as to what has happened. If they think certain reasons aside from the hospital was cause for the miscarriage, then it's good to know earlier (and possibly add them to the lawsuit), rather than when the hospital presents their defense during court.

mollyzmoon
08-03-2006, 05:47 AM
I am so sorry for you loss, Seraya. That is one of the most tragic things I've ever read. It gave me goosebumps...it's just disgusting that people could treat you and your family that way. The same thing happened to a friend of mine's family. Her mother lost her baby due to hospital mistreatment and incompetence (and this was a Canadian hospital, which is supposed to treat everyone equally), and they did eventually sue. They won their case, and I'm sure you will too, but it is such a horrific process. Please take care of yourselves emotionally as best you can, and reach out to all the support you can find. I wish the best for you. I am so, so, sorry this happened.

Rhiannon
08-03-2006, 05:55 AM
Also, it's not bad to ask the lawyer if he/she'll take the case as a pro bono. Lawyers in the United States are recommended under the American Bar Association ethical rules to contribute at least fifty hours of pro bono service per year. There are also ways for the lawyer to receive a percentage of the judgement rather than a fee upfront, if you cannot pay upfront. Another thing to do is to gather all your medical records and consult several doctors and ask about their professional opinion as to what has happened. If they think certain reasons aside from the hospital was cause for the miscarriage, then it's good to know earlier (and possibly add them to the lawsuit), rather than when the hospital presents their defense during court.

This is exactly what I was thinking last night. Definitely check into it when you're ready to, Seraya. Please let us know how you're doing, too.

Classic'sMontana
08-03-2006, 05:56 AM
I am so sorry. My heart feels like its breaking after reading your post. I am not going to advise you or try to make you feel better, you are hurting and I am sorry. I wish I had words to say how sorry I am for your loss.

cherry_sin
08-03-2006, 06:02 AM
I'm so, so sorry sweetie. I can't offer much more than anyone else has already, but please know I am praying for you. You'll make it through.... I'm so sorry, honey.

VenusGoddess
08-03-2006, 06:05 AM
SmartCookie, this happened in New York. She lives in New York, now.

As for hiring a lawyer. Most Medical Malpractice lawyers will work based upon total judgement amounts (so if you don't get any money, neither do they). But, be sure to ask about that.

Someone said that you need to make sure that you do not hire a lawyer that represents the hospital. This would be impossible. A lawyer who represents the hospital would be REQUIRED BY LAW to disclose that they represent the hospital in which you are looking to sue and that they cannot take your case based upon this. If the lawyer works for the law firm that represents the hospital, it would be the same thing. They will not be able to take your case due to conflict of interest...and if they do so, they would be in deep legal shit.

Now, the first thing you should do this morning is take a deep breath and with your husband and family, sit down (either with a pen and paper or a video camera) and describe in full detail exactly what happened. Do this before you do anything else. You NEED to. A video camera would work very well as it will record your present state of mind and condition while also have a date/time stamp on it.

Next, you need to call the hospital and tell them that you need a complete file (tell them that you need to go for a follow-up check up with your doctor and need to have the file for them). Or make sure that your doctor gets this information immediately on their own. Get that file to your doctor and have them read everything that is in that file to you immediately (a lot of stuff is in "medical jargon" and most people who are not in the medical field will know what they are talking about). If there is any discrepancies in the file, it needs to be noted immediately! Especially if it comes to administration of drugs and which types of drugs were administered (you may also want to have blood pulled for lab work so that they can see if there are any traces of certain drugs still present--but you will only need to do this if you suspect that the attending hospital is not going to state that they gave you morphine/other non-pregnancy friendly drugs). I am not sure how long these drugs stay present in the blood, so maybe have it drawn as soon as possible and tested.

Next, call a lawyer. Call several. Meet with them all in person. Bring your video taped description and your complete medical file. Both the one that you got from your check-ups of your pre-natal care and the one that you will have from the emergency room. The more information you go to interview with, the more help it will be for the lawyer to base his opinion and make his choice to take the case. Ask the lawyer about his willingness to do either pro bono or do a contingency based case. This is very important because you will not be dealing with the hospital and doctors and nurses. You will be dealing with the hospital's, doctor's and nurse's INSURANCE LAWYERS. You are not going to sue the hospital. You are going to sue the hospital and every single attending that was negligent in their care to you. But, they all are covered by malpractice insurance and so as soon as the lawsuit comes down, you are going to have to deal with the insurance lawyers.

Find a lawyer who is willing to take this information to the press. This is a very tricky area and while they need to tip the press off, they really cannot disclose too much information due to legal/lawsuit reasons. Usually just a tip-off that the hospital is being sued in the death of an unborn child due to negligence is enough to get the press swarming. And, as much as you will want to discuss your story, do not do that. Not until everything is over. Let the press speak with your attorney and do not speak with anyone about anything in your case without your attorney present (a lot of cases are lost or thrown out due to the plaintiff disclosing "indisclosable" information unknowingly).

After all of this is in motion, you need to find a Grievance counselor. You and your husband should probably go to marriage counseling (this can be extremely hard on the marriage and you'll need not only personal coping skills, but marriage coping skills as well).

Please know that I am thinking about you. I didn't sleep at all last night, because this just kept replaying in my head over and over and I wish to Universe that I could do more to help you. If you ever, ever need anything, please do not hesitate to call me. Even if you just need a shoulder to cry on. Know that it will get better, but allow yourself some time to grieve and be angry.

Take care of yourself. Call me if you need me.

Lots and lots of hugs and love,
Angel

Miss. Kristina Lee
08-03-2006, 07:43 AM
i know that no amount of money could ever replace your child,but i have a feeling after this goes to court you will be a very wealthy lady. i feel confident that you will get a winning court case, and can at least find some peace in that.

everything hapens for a reason darling and though you may not know it now it will all fall into place.

CuriousJ
08-03-2006, 07:46 AM
I am so sorry it must be tough but keep your chin up however possible , you have lots of support here whenever you need it .

VenusGoddess
08-03-2006, 08:14 AM
Also, it's not bad to ask the lawyer if he/she'll take the case as a pro bono. Lawyers in the United States are recommended under the American Bar Association ethical rules to contribute at least fifty hours of pro bono service per year. There are also ways for the lawyer to receive a percentage of the judgement rather than a fee upfront, if you cannot pay upfront. Another thing to do is to gather all your medical records and consult several doctors and ask about their professional opinion as to what has happened. If they think certain reasons aside from the hospital was cause for the miscarriage, then it's good to know earlier (and possibly add them to the lawsuit), rather than when the hospital presents their defense during court.

Also, you won't need to worry about doing this. Your lawyer will most assuredly have experts on the side to evalute these issues. Most doctors will not get involved in this stuff...which is why a lot of lawyers use respected, but retired doctors to evaluate cases (professional witnesses).

Don't worry about this. It is an evaluation of all written and recorded material so whether a doctor looks at this now or later doesn't matter.

Yekhefah
08-03-2006, 09:54 AM
Oh my G-d, Seraya, I can't even imagine how you must feel. That's so horrible. Turn to your husband and make sure you mourn TOGETHER, and definitely pursue justice as soon as you can. They should never be allowed to treat anyone else this way!

krchab99
08-03-2006, 10:12 AM
I am so very sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the hell you went threw I was in tears reading your post. I belive you should do everything legaly possiable to seek justice for your son. Get the word out. Cling to your husband for while until you to are feeling better. Agine I am so very sorry my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Katrine
08-03-2006, 10:19 AM
Seraya,
Oh sweetie, I just saw this thread, I am so terribly sorry. My condolenses to you and your family for such a tragic loss. Have a safe recovery, and please don't hesitate to write, and use me and this board as a resource. Kind regards, Kat

Paris
08-03-2006, 10:29 AM
My deepest sympathy and condolences on your loss. Words cannot express the deep sadness I felt while reading your post.

I haven't any legal advice for you beyond what others have said. Just make sure you DO SOMETHING. You may be saving another person by suing that hospital.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.:'(

southstbabe
08-03-2006, 12:37 PM
OMG! I have no words, just tears, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband. I will light a candle in my church, and write your sons name in their book of intentions. Love, hugs, and comfort....

fancygirl
08-03-2006, 12:49 PM
I'm so sorry. This is beyond wrong and all of those people should be fired. I hope that your legal battle kicks that hospital's ass so that whoever is running it figures out how to make it a good regular hospital. I'm so sorry. I'm worried about you and your husband. While I say you need to do the documentation right now, I also realize that no amount of money is going to make your pain go away. I also realize that making sure this never happens to another child is also going to be empty consolation.

Please start going to a grief counselor and maybe later to grief meetings. Kicking the hospital's ass into the ground is important, but if there is anything that I can see as even a tiny bit more important is to see that the two people most hurt in this situation, you and your husband, aren't divided because of your separate grief.

smartcookie
08-03-2006, 01:03 PM
I didn't realize Seraya was in New York; I apologize.

If Seraya or anyone close to her is reading this: my boyfriend is a corporate lawyer here in NYC - he is not a medical malpractice or personal injury attorney - but may have some recommendation for reputable firms to represent you. He is away on a business trip and I'm waiting to hear back from him. I will post as soon as he calls.

Jillian
08-03-2006, 01:40 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I am in shock from reading this, I cant even begin to imagine how you must feel.

VenusGoddess
08-03-2006, 02:37 PM
I didn't realize Seraya was in New York; I apologize.

If Seraya or anyone close to her is reading this: my boyfriend is a corporate lawyer here in NYC - he is not a medical malpractice or personal injury attorney - but may have some recommendation for reputable firms to represent you. He is away on a business trip and I'm waiting to hear back from him. I will post as soon as he calls.

SC, That would be good, I'm sure. Have you sent Seraya a PM with this info? That way she'll see it right as she logs on...

ChloeTheRed
08-03-2006, 02:44 PM
I've been trying to think of the words to say, and I can't.
I'm so very sorry. And I'm sorry there's so little that I can do.

Like people have been saying, please please please seek counseling, both for your grief and for your marriage. It's probably a very good thing that your husband isn't the "strong silent type" that never cries, as that could make it harder for both of you to grieve. Please please take care of yourself, and take the time to hold each other, if you can, and tell each other how much you love each other. You can get through this, and I hope that everything goes as well as it can from here on out.

"May you join the angels in the glorious chorus of heaven. Your soul shall shine as the brightest star."

scarlett_vancouver
08-03-2006, 03:18 PM
:hug: Seraya

I can't stop thinking about this.

I'm so glad that you're doing everything you can to nail these motherfuckers.

Rhiannon
08-03-2006, 03:38 PM
Same as Scarlett, I can't stop thinking about your ordeal, Seraya. Everytime I get to doing something, my thoughts always return to you. I am glad that you are willing to confide in all of us. The Internet is very funny indeed. You think that people on a message board that you've seen around for a while don't have much of an impact in your lives. But with certain people, you feel their pain, as if you're living it with them. Use us anytime you need to. Get it all out of you, no matter how you have to.

You are a very strong, brave woman. This can only make you stronger.

I am so glad that you have a great Husband too, one that is there to support you, and not ashamed to show his own feelings as well. You will get eachother through this, and we'll all do anything at all that we can to help.

:hug:

seraya
08-03-2006, 03:45 PM
^^^ Thanks guys i know that I owe it to my son to fight as hard as itis going to be.


I didn't realize Seraya was in New York; I apologize.

If Seraya or anyone close to her is reading this: my boyfriend is a corporate lawyer here in NYC - he is not a medical malpractice or personal injury attorney - but may have some recommendation for reputable firms to represent you. He is away on a business trip and I'm waiting to hear back from him. I will post as soon as he calls.
Wow Thank you! Any advice he can give will be amazing and if he is able recommend a legal firm who can help me even better. Thank you so much SM.

Also I wanted to add that in the ultrasound report they lied about the baby's gestational age they state that the fetus was only 19 weeks old. I know that the reason as to why they wrote that is because at 5 months gestation a baby can be saved... Fetal death at 20 weeks (which is what I was) is no longer considered a miscarriage but a still birth. I will get proof from my OB tomorrow which will show that the baby was just over 20 weeks.

Also the time on the ultrasound report shows 3.47am... I arrived at the hospital at around 12.00am meaning that they left me alone for nearly 4 hrs before giving me the ultrasound so I now have proof of this also. As for my poor baby on the report it does state that the baby was alive with a slow BPM of 73-110... He was alive all that time just dying slowly :'(

I am sure that it is illegal to leave a woman unattended while she is delivering a baby? They left me with husband to push him out right there in the ER for over an hour even when he was trapped inside of me. It was only when my heart raced to 160 and start I started shaking that they rushed me to L&D. I wanted to fall asleep after pushing for so long that my husband had to keep shaking me he was scared that I wouldn't wake up.

Classic'sMontana
08-03-2006, 04:00 PM
God... I feel sick thinking of what you all went through. I am so sorry Seraya... all I do when I open this thread is start crying all over again for you. My heart is with you, stay strong and stay safe.

Melonie
08-03-2006, 04:32 PM
^^^ Thanks guys i know that I owe it to my son to fight as hard as itis going to be.


As tragic as this experience has been, and even though nothing can be done to change events that have already happened, that sort of attitude will definitely help you, help your husband, and hopefully help the next 'victim' of this hospital. Hang in there !

I agree that everybody has given you great advice so far in regard to laying your hands on every medical record, every test result etc. that you possibly can without letting on that you intend to crucify this hospital for their negligence. Prior to dancing I spent a few years working in NY/NJ area hospitals, and as much as we all would like to believe that this was an isolated incident the fact of the matter is that tragic results happen quite often.

Venus is absolutely correct that once any hint of a malpractice lawsuit comes out the hospital, the doctors and staff, and the insurance companies will 'circle the wagons' for mutual defense. That's why it's imperative that you get your hands on every possible scrap of documentation that you possibly can as quickly as you can. The ruse that you are returning to London was a masterstroke ... because it will foster the impression that you want to be out of the US as quickly as possible thus posing no threat to the hospital or doctors or staff.

I'm certainly no attorney, but one huge legal point is the responsibility of health care givers to a fetus at 20 weeks versus 19 weeks. It's unfortunate that hospital records included a 19 week assessment, because this opens the door to an 'upon knowledge and belief' defense i.e. the hospital staff was 'informed' that your fetus was 19 weeks, and they followed procedures based on that information (with the fact that the fetus was actually 20 weeks being legally irrelevant). Of course, by the sounds of it, many of the things that happened in that hospital weren't part of anybody's procedures !

This is probably going to turn out to be a 'high stakes' case, with millions of dollars in settlement at stake. Because of the 'high stakes', you can expect that the insurance company attorneys will try to rake you over the coals personally. If possible, try to shield the fact that you have been an exotic dancer - because this could open the door to a ridiculously bogus counterargument that your own Stripper Stereotype actions i.e. sexual promiscuity, drug abuse etc. contributed far more to your baby's death than the actions of hospital staff. If the insurance companies can 'sell' this scenario to a jury, and if you can't prove that it isn't true, it could definitely weaken your chances of success in court. I hope to God that the morphine injection actually appears on the hospital chart, because without the chart entry the insurance companies might try to 'sell' the scenario that the strong drugs in your system were self-administered. When you go for that independent blood test make sure that they run a full screen to nail down the fact that the drug was prescription pharmaceutical grade morphine, otherwise the insurance companies may try to 'sell' the idea that the drugs came from 'the street' and were in your system before you ever arrived at the hospital.

I feel terrible spewing these sort of possibilities right now with this tragedy so fresh, but with millions of dollars at stake you need to be aware that when this case finally makes it to court 2-3 years down the road all of the human tragedy element will be gone from the hospital's side, and they'll be playing hardball over a big money settlement. You also need to be aware that they will try to twist, insinuate, attack you personally, and even outright lie if they feel that there isn't any hard evidence to disprove their ridiculous speculations. In a way, this is an unfortunate outgrowth from the large number of 'frivolous' lawsuits which have been brought in the past (i.e. the cut-off fingertip in the fried chicken), such that insurance company attorneys know that juries are now at least willing to explore the concept that supposedly innocent victim sometimes isn't all that innocent.

Pragmatically speaking, you need to select a medical malpractice specialist attorney who has credibility with area judges and who can stand toe to toe with the insurance company's top attorneys without flinching. You need to find out which local jurisdiction this case is likely to fall under, and then shop for a top shelf malpractice attorney who is based in that same jurisdiction.

My heart goes out to you ... and you're welcome to borrow my Valkyrie Sword of Righteous Vengeance too.

scarlett_vancouver
08-03-2006, 04:56 PM
. I hope to God that the morphine injection actually appears on the hospital chart, because without the chart entry the insurance companies might try to 'sell' the scenario that the strong drugs in your system were self-administered. When you go for that independent blood test make sure that they run a full screen to nail down the fact that the drug was prescription pharmaceutical grade morphine, otherwise the insurance companies may try to 'sell' the idea that the drugs came from 'the street' and were in your system before you ever arrived at the hospital.



It might be worth getting a hair test done- they can trace your (lack of) drug use back for months (maybe years if you don't dye it), and provide a record of clean living.

They'll have a hard time convincing anyone you injected yourself with street drugs with medical evidence that you've hadn't done so for months/years (and thus probably never).

Krazyjane
08-03-2006, 05:04 PM
You go girl!

DancerWealth
08-03-2006, 05:07 PM
While there is no way I can relate to what you have gone through, all I can do is offer my sincere sympathies for what happened and I'm so sorry to hear that it did.

holiday
08-03-2006, 06:43 PM
Thanks for posting again Seraya - i think of you so often. I cry everytime I think of what was done to you. I'm so glad you got it together to go back to the hospital and do everything you've gotten done. I know it must just feel horrible. I would just want to lay in bed. You're stronger than I am.

Take care sweetie

lotti
08-03-2006, 07:57 PM
I am sorry to read about the loss of your son. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Bridgette
08-03-2006, 09:36 PM
Melonie and Scarlett bring up good points in addition to what was previously said.

(Mel, I don't think she ever was a stripper though)

I would also suggest that if you decide to see the grief counselor who dealt with you at the hosptial, DO NOT mention any intention to sue to that person either. I'd say don't mention it to anybody until you have all the hospital records you can get. You never know what walls have ears...and I agree the going home to London story is about as perfect as it can get!

You have my sincerest sympathy and I would not hesitate to help if there is anything I can do.

leilanicandy
08-03-2006, 10:02 PM
I am so sorry about your Child! May God bless you! I hope God give you everything that you deserve! You and your family will be in my prayers.



I edited what I posted because I am still in school for nursing!

But I still believe you and your family was not given the proper treatment.

Lola Rose
08-04-2006, 12:08 AM
oh sweetheart, I am praying for you and your baby. You deserved so much better. Media should be told. No one else should have to go through that. I am sobbing and wish I could hold you. You are so precious and loved. So many people here care about you and want to see justice served. I will say a mourners kaddish (jewish prayers of mourning) for your little one, and healing prayers for you. You will be in my davening prayers. Make sure you make all those nurses and doctors pay. That "hospital" should be shut down. G-d always takes care of those who deserve it, and you do.

Guenevere
08-04-2006, 01:01 AM
I don't have words for how deeply I feel for you. I just want you to know that you will be in my prayers as well as many others here.

Krazyjane
08-04-2006, 01:19 AM
Make sure you make all those nurses and doctors pay.

Make sure you make the hospital pay. The responsible people will be sucked up in the whirlwind regardless, as the hospital will want to shunt responsibility, but don't let the hospital get away with it. It's the administrator's fault for slacking on regulations and keeping inadequate staff.

blondi553
08-04-2006, 01:22 AM
i just read your thread seraya....im so sorry to hear about your loss.....i cant think of any words right now but i hope those bastards pay for what they have done.....every last one of them should be penalyzed for this...it just is not right! my prayers are with you <3

Vyanka
08-04-2006, 07:03 AM
Seraya, I have you on my mind too.
I'm crossing my fingers that the legal settlement turns out well.

I hope you get the strength to fight this. Stay strong baby. And take very good care of yourself.

xoxo Vy~

whirlerz
08-04-2006, 07:35 AM
It's hard to add to what's already been said, but my deepest condolences to you & your family. God bless.

AlexxaHex
08-04-2006, 08:03 AM
This totally brought tears to my eyes...I'm extremely sorry to hear about this. I hope there is a way for you and your husband to make it through this. Please take care of yourself.

Isolabella
08-04-2006, 08:21 AM
This was absolutely heart wrenching to read. I am so sorry you are going through this. My thoughts are with you and your family Seraya.

PhaedrusZ
08-04-2006, 08:45 AM
My sincere condolences to you and your family. You are all in my prayers, both for getting through what has happened to you and for justice.

desavirsire
08-04-2006, 09:36 AM
It has been said many times already but i would just like to give my deepest condolences to you and your family. I hope you find the peace and justice you deserve.

Siber
08-04-2006, 10:58 AM
Again, Seraya, I wish I had seen this post. I usually don't read the Lounge.

My deepest sympathies. This makes me very, very sad, and breaks my heart. :'( I cannot imagine what you are going through, but add my voice to the chorus here at SW that supports you and loves you and will get you through this horribly tough time as best we can.

Also, though this comes a bit late, I am, or at least was, a personal injury lawyer myself. Though I practiced in Massachusetts and therefore cannot handle your case, I am happy to answer any questions you may have about the legal aspects of what is going on or should be going on.

One suggestion. I have seen many, many people in your situation. I must warn you: A lawsuit may well be revenge, but it is not easy. It is the second most difficult thing you will do. Steel yourself. You have time. Do what you must do first before you consider it.

Here in Massachusetts you have three years to file a suit. Take some time to mourn. You probably have a similar amount of time in NY. Make sure, but take some time to mourn.

Empty your eyes of tears.
Clear your head of sadness.
Load your guns with bullets.
Nail the motherfuckers.

Siber, Esq.

hot4ablackchick
08-04-2006, 12:13 PM
I'm very saddened to read that this happened to you. You and your baby definetley did not deserve the treatment, if you can even call it that, at the hospital. My heart is breaking for you right now. Both my father and younger brother are named Marlon. Beautiful name. Sorry this happened to you. Good luck with everything.

wasfatboy
08-04-2006, 12:19 PM
:'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

seyara, remember god has a reason for everything, right now you and your husband need to be there for each other. dont worry about lawsuits yet. worry about each other and your relationship. the loss of a child is the hardest thing on a relationship.

Do me these favors:
1) Dont blame yourself!
2) Dont blame your husband!
3) Cry and mourn TOGETHER! its something you must do together!
4) Dont think either one of you needs to be stronger for the other! You need to be strong together and understanding together. This is not a single sided issue it is both of yours equally and needs to be handled as one!

I deeply and honestly feel for your loss, i remember the simular fears i had when my wife was pregnant. i dont know what i would of done in your husbands situation but i would hope that we would be able to work this out equally with the understanding that things will be felt and said and done that may not be understood correctly or taken wrong. but it will be a result of the expected mourning process from a situation like this.

Please accept my love for both you and your husband and i pray you both come thru this without any more unnecessary pain. hopefully you can find some sort of positve from this no matter how small. try and find it and keep that with your memory of your child.

i hope that didnt come off as insensitive, thats not what i wanted, i just wanted you to make sure you are both there for each other during this and are there for EACH OTHER.

gods (or what ever diety you beilive in) blessing on you and the hope that the pain will subside and this helps your relationship grow even stronger.


and then get a lawyer and sue the m/f's for everything they have!~

blondhottie
08-04-2006, 02:20 PM
Seraya, I'm so sorry about your loss and for what happened to you. :'( :hug:

Pole Lady
08-04-2006, 03:00 PM
I know this will not take away your pain but...... I just wanted to say that I am so sorry for you and your husbands loss.....


I can't think of anything else that would even come close to being a proper statement to say at a time like this....I'm so so sorry sweetie....


I will be thinking of you and your family......lean on each other, love each other, and when you heal......fight, fight, fight....... :'(

Much, much, love to you!!!
:hug: :grouphug:

threlayer
08-04-2006, 03:24 PM
I know this is a terrible loss. Nothing can bring your baby back. I know it doesn't seem like even time will heal your wounds either. But you will recover in time; we are designed to recover from such tragedies.

Maybe you can get satisfaction or at least more personal understanding by reporting this to your state's Department of Health - Professional Medical Conduct and Hospital Oversight branches. In this state they take it seriously and send out a nurse investigator to gather facts (interviews, medical records, past performances, etc.) then onto a staff or consulting MD to determine if a full-fledged medical review should be done. You at least will get an unbiases opinion of what happened. If you chose to sue in civil court, this investigation may be very important

Melonie
08-04-2006, 03:55 PM
^^^ actually if you want to 'pull the pin' on this sort of a 'hand grenade', refer it to the state's Professional Licensing Board. They'll steamroll over RN's, MD's, JD's and then refer anything that is beyond their jurisdiction (like hospital administrator conduct) to the DOH. But if you choose to do this you MUST have in hand enough official hospital / medical documentation to make your claims credible.

Also, the minute that somebody from the Professional Licensing Board starts poking around the hospital, instead of 'circling the wagons' the hospital and staff will start 'locking themselves in a bunker' ! Thus this move is not something to consider unless you are committed to suing the hospital and staff. However, a primary determination by the Professional Licensing Board that there ARE grounds for further investigation will give a big boost to your lawsuit.

Fancey
08-04-2006, 07:32 PM
I am sooooo sorry .. i cant believe they put you threw that! LAWYER! sew the shit out of them.. that isnt rite! they are going to hell

Paintbaby
08-04-2006, 08:20 PM
Seraya~

What happened to you, your husband, and your son sickens me. :'( I'm wishing you love, healing, and strength during this time of heartsickness and greif. Heal, formulate your plan, then go and avenge your angel.

I hope you eat those fuckers alive. >:(