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xdamage
08-09-2006, 12:52 PM
Hi Merely_lurking,

That is an excellent point. It seems like my female friends are completely dismissive about my feelings when it comes to sex like it is a joke and my male friends in a different way (a hole is a hole is a hole) do the same thing, but are more understanding. Probably it is just the nature of the beast. If you can't really imagine what the other person is feeling, then it is easy to brush it aside as nothing.



There is nothing wrong with needing human contact, yea even sexual contact. Perfectly normal, and it's really not a joke that people have a lot of their sense of self worth tied up in how others treat them sexually. However when it comes to strippers, while they are great way to fill the need for some hassle-free supplimental contact and variety, in my limited experience it's really bad news if strippers end up being a guys primary or only source of contact.

Guys that get sucked into that too deeply invariably walk away a lot poorer, and are (at least sometimes) worse off for having invested a lot of wasted emotions on women that never will reciprocate those feelings. I'll go out on a limb and say that instead of building up self-confidence and achievements, they just end up learning how to suck up to women that want money, women that really don't give a shit if they are draining a guys pocket book and emotional self-respect in the process.

And yea, strip clubs like other easy pleasures can be addicting. And like other addictions, they can leave you both poorer and weaker.

But if you're happy with your relationship with your stripper, by all means, it's your money and life to do with what you will. All I can is that if if you were a friend of mine, I'd advise you to get the hell out of the strip clubs for a while and try to find what you need outside of the club. Then come back when you've found what you need and enjoy the clubs, but on your terms, not the strippers terms.

Kyle1111
08-09-2006, 01:37 PM
QUOTE=xdamage]

And yea, strip clubs like other easy pleasures can be addicting. And like other addictions, they can leave you both poorer and weaker.

But if you're happy with your relationship with your stripper, by all means, it's your money and life to do with what you will. All I can is that if if you were a friend of mine, I'd advise you to get the hell out of the strip clubs for a while and try to find what you need outside of the club. Then come back when you've found what you need and enjoy the clubs, but on your terms, not the strippers terms.[/QUOTE]

After my 10 year plus relationship with my former girlfriend ended I knew it was over as far as my having another real relationship. When it ended nothing was worth that type of pain. I wish I'd never met her. All the good times we shared all the time we spent together. It was all worthless. Completely worthless. I learned my lesson. So it is dancers to the rescue.


BTW, I’m in the process of finding a new favorite—very expensive. The other lady I posted about went to work in a beauty salon.

xdamage
08-09-2006, 03:17 PM
I can sympathize that a break up of a long term relationship can really fuck with your head. Obviously while I don't think strippers are the way to cope with it in the long run, you got to do whatever you got to do to cope with it in the near term. Hopefully you won't lose too much money or too much self respect during your real life relationship hiatus.

Kyle1111
08-09-2006, 03:41 PM
I can sympathize that a break up of a long term relationship can really fuck with your head. Obviously while I don't think strippers are the way to cope with it in the long run, you got to do whatever you got to do to cope with it in the near term. Hopefully you won't lose too much money or too much self respect during your real life relationship hiatus.


The type of self respect I think you're writing about is probably fairly alien to me. Probably the closest I come to losing self respect is when I refuse to help people because of law or greed, but hey I regain the self-respect when I remember that when in Rome do as the Romans. :)

not_a_custy
08-09-2006, 07:02 PM
Kyle, probably all you need to ask yourself is whether what you're doing is self destructive. Are you in so deep that you're losing control of the situation? Maybe this will just be an interim thing until
you feel like real emotional contact with a woman willing to reciprocate.

Kyle1111
08-09-2006, 07:10 PM
I don't know how many of you have read it but one of my favorite books was "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. I didn't care for the title, but it came so highly recommended that I gave it a read. Over the years I even bought a copy here and there for people I really cared about and this was when I was on a tight budget. It was a very enjoyable read with true stories that teach. It is one thing to read a book and a far different skill to apply its teachings. My reading skills are very good, but my application skills could use mucho improvement. This is a book that I think is worth reading both by strip club customers and dancers.

If you read the book and didn't like it, then it would be interesting to hear why.

It has been years since I read the book, and perhaps I would view it less idealistically now.


Could I have used what I learned in this book in dealing with my dancer buddy on that strange night? I think I did to some extent although I'm sure there was room for improvement. Dale Carnegie didn't have to deal with blaring strip club music when making a sale, but I'm sure he would have found a way for it to help him make some $$$ or better yet some buddies.

Katrine
08-09-2006, 07:29 PM
Ok, not to state the obvious...but if Dancer C gives such prodigious head, why do you keep going back to Dancer A and Dancer B? Who cares what order C gets, does it make her more special to be the first ho to place her toothless mouthole over your wang?''

Now, if Dancer A and B had something different to offer, like anal, that would be a different story....

Kyle1111
08-09-2006, 07:41 PM
Kyle, probably all you need to ask yourself is whether what you're doing is self destructive. Are you in so deep that you're losing control of the situation? Maybe this will just be an interim thing until
you feel like real emotional contact with a woman willing to reciprocate.

Hi Not_a_custy,

I don't know how familiar you are with the symptoms versus problems way of looking at something. Hopefully, you know it like that back of your hand so my weak explanation won't leave you bewildered. Let's say you see a person abusing alcohol and his consumption of it is destroying his health family, finances, etc. etc. etc. It would be very normal for many people to think that alcohol abuse is his problem when in fact it is merely a symptom. This can be extremely important when attempting to help the man. Usually it is far better to treat the problem than just the symptoms and that is a fairly deep subject that I will try and avoid. :)


The short answer to your question is NO. Some people would claim that is denial which can also be a fairly deep subject that I will try and avoid. :)


I see it as a permanent wheelchair. It assists me in living a better life. Would a non-paid relationship be better? I just can't see it--I would have to forget everything and become a total different person. It is not just the pain of losing a long term relationship (she was a highly intelligent wonderful stunningly beautiful person, but that isn't enough). It is also the fact that I really do not belong in this society. I have wanted to leave since I was a youngster, but where to go and more importantly now, I do have responsibilities. Anyway, I don't see the harm--doesn't mean there isn't harm. Fear of being hardened is one harm. Fear of not trusting is another. Some of my friends don't like it because I could buy a new this or a new that. Well, even before strip clubbing a new this or a new that wasn't necessarily important. I'm really focused on value and not fashion. :)

Kyle1111
08-09-2006, 07:54 PM
Ok, not to state the obvious...but if Dancer C gives such prodigious head, why do you keep going back to Dancer A and Dancer B? Who cares what order C gets, does it make her more special to be the first ho to place her toothless mouthole over your wang?''

Now, if Dancer A and B had something different to offer, like anal, that would be a different story....

Hi Katrine,

At one time I did it because I liked happy dancers (Dancer C would get more business, but I tried to get dances from different dancers even if they didn't really attract me-- it was during a period I was forgeting a dancer who really changed the way I think and see things. The strong little girl who said I didn't understand my paying her was hurting her. :(

In real life it would be Dancer C all the way. The problem is finding Dancer C who is usually available--that makes her extremely valuable to me. Buying some worthless air dances is cheap if she gets back to normal.

Besides the real point is that for me dancers aren't that interchangeable. It seems like many customers are fairly easily satisfied and that is good for them and they can more aggressively set the terms . . .

not_a_custy
08-09-2006, 08:43 PM
Kyle, I do understand or at least think I do:) I know so many people that do any number of things to excess because of underlying unhappiness for lack of a better word. The main thing is that this works for you at this time in life and if you're alone, without anyone else to take care of, then your fate is very much your own. No one to answer to but yourself and best of luck with those replies:)

xdamage
08-10-2006, 05:33 AM
Besides the real point is that for me dancers aren't that interchangeable. It seems like many customers are fairly easily satisfied and that is good for them and they can more aggressively set the terms . . .

Most customers are initially overwhelmed in the strip club, like kids in a candy store, it all looks good and they want to sample it all.

Then there are customers like you that visit the candy store more often then is good for them, and get physically and emotionally hooked on one kind of candy and obsesses over it.

Then there are the experienced clubbers who know it's just candy. It's not that we are necessarily easily satisfied, it's that we know better then to get emotionally hooked any one kind of candy. And we definitely don't let the candy dicatate the terms of our visits to the candy store ;)

Kyle1111
08-10-2006, 06:42 AM
Most customers are initially overwhelmed in the strip club, like kids in a candy store, it all looks good and they want to sample it all.

Then there are customers like you that visit the candy store more often then is good for them, and get physically and emotionally hooked on one kind of candy and obsesses over it.

Then there are the experienced clubbers who know it's just candy. It's not that we are necessarily easily satisfied, it's that we know better then to get emotionally hooked any one kind of candy. And we definitely don't let the candy dicatate the terms of our visits to the candy store

Even before strip clubs I was fussy about female attractiveness-- if I didn't get the look that I needed my pleasure was many levels less. Basically, I would feel NO super high. Once I got a taste of super high anything else was sort of depressing. It seemed like my buddies wouldn't mind digging bodies out of the local grave as long as they were female. Even the buddies who claimed looks were very important to them would be highly interested in almost any available female. And, as far as sexual satisfaction (for them) it did seem like looks where completely irrelevant.

I was at the strip club last night actually I think it was the early morning and the club was packed with dancers. Out of all the dancers I saw one (and she was working non-stop) who had potential. I also got an aggressive brush off from a lesbian customer who for me was total drool city. I felt like telling the drool city lesbian please take all the money in my wallet and show me the city! :) But, she really didn't like guys at all and I would have needed a dancer buddy to approach her (NO dancer buddies in sight--I'm mainly an afternoon customer).

Bottom line, the dancers I seek can be difficult to find so yes I will work with them to find a mutually agreeable business arrangement. Because I had such a negative time last night it will be difficult not to go this afternoon. It is like going to the grocery store for milk and all the milk is spoiled on your visit, then you feel a strong need to search for milk elsewhere or the next day.

Kyle1111
08-10-2006, 07:05 AM
One more thing! My dancer buddies (the guardians of all that is good and wholesome) don't think I come to the club enough. I think they're pretty smart! :)

I remember one dancer buddy saying to me both the afternoon and the nightshift now?! I said well you get to be here both day and night. Her feeble excuse was that she was there to work--day and night almost 7 days a week?!--yeah right.

xdamage
08-10-2006, 07:48 AM
if I didn't get the look that I needed my pleasure was many levels less.

Bottom line, the dancers I seek can be difficult to find so yes I will work with them to find a mutually agreeable business arrangement.

Everyone has fetishes, and preferred looks, but as I said it's sounds like you obsess over a particular type of candy and no other candy will do.

At least you are aware that you do, but it's a self-imposed limitation that has left you were you are now. Paying endless amounts of money to try and find something that matches your obsession.

I've had some of my best times with strippers who didn't match my visual fetish preferences. We still had good chemistry, or otherwise had fun together.


One more thing! My dancer buddies (the guardians of all that is good and wholesome) don't think I come to the club enough. I think they're pretty smart! :)



Please tell me that you are not reading anymore into that then plain old stripper shit. Of course they think you should come to the club more often. The longer you are there, the more likely you are to spend money.

Kyle1111
08-10-2006, 08:37 AM
Everyone has fetishes, and preferred looks, but as I said it's sounds like you obsess over a particular type of candy and no other candy will do.

At least you are aware that you do, but it's a self-imposed limitation that has left you were you are now. Paying endless amounts of money to try and find something that matches your obsession.

I've had some of my best times with strippers who didn't match my visual fetish preferences. We still had good chemistry, or otherwise had fun together.




Please tell me that you are not reading anymore into that then plain old stripper shit. Of course they think you should come to the club more often. The longer you are there, the more likely you are to spend money.

It is good stripper shit. :)


I know what I need by my body's reaction. I remember this one dancer she was really sharp and funny and a freak in the very best sense of the word. She could tell that I was an impossible sale because she was just attractive and not stunning. She was like just 1 free dance so I can show you I not only have brains, but a lot of skill. And, I said you know I will feel obligated to pay. And, she laughs and says yes, but I really believe you will want to buy more. And, I'm just shaking my head. No matter how much I liked her and NO matter how expert she was without the right looks it would just leave me feeling depleted and depressed. I think I could of spent all night with her and I told her your money is anywhere, but this table. She says life isn't all about money. It is about having fun and unless I want her to leave she wanted to just hangout. Anyway, about a half hour later the old man with all the 100s who took my stunning dancer (her very mentally challenged sister) wanted to take the stunning dancer out of the club. The dancer I was having a wonderful time with said sorry, but if the man with the money wants to take my sister then I have to go to. She wrote a phone number on a napkin and said if I wanted a really fantastic time please call.

The reason I still think of this just attractive dancer is because she was able to make me really laugh. I wished that my body would react differently, but I do have experience in that area and personality and brains are NO competition for looks—unfortunately.

mr_punk
08-10-2006, 08:51 AM
And, why is that a negative if they continue to provide good service to the PL?LOL...IF,IF,IF. well, you're the only one wondering why this stripper wasn't being nice and more appreciative of you. you see, when things go bad for the whipped PL. they don't do anything about it, except come on SCJ and cry about how they are being treated like a biatch. but hey, i'll give you credit for one thing. you guys are always entertaining.

It doesn't surprise me that you wouldn't see the cost.LOL...of course, i can't see it. you see, i have something called a spine. furthermore, i'm not so desperately needy for authentic, emotional support that i would go to a sex worker (or even this MB) looking for said support. call me crazy, but they don't really sell that product.

Ok, not to state the obviousoh, but it's a must with this guy...not that it'll help or anything.

Who cares what order C gets, does it make her more special to be the first ho to place her toothless mouthole over your wang?ROTFLMAO...they should be so lucky. whipped PLs couldn't get their fingers wet even in the biggest of whorehouses or with the nastiest of strippers. strippers take their lunch money like a school yard bully. whipped PLs are just plain whipped, but without the pussy.

Kyle1111
08-10-2006, 08:58 AM
And, IF they don't provide they get the proverbial AXE (loss of income). Sure they might get 555+ chances from me to correct their behavior, but after that no more $$$. See I can be a HE MAN!!!. (I hope any strippers reading the above don't find it too aggressive--may 777+ chances to be fair to the dancer?)




LOL...IF,IF,IF. well, you're the only one wondering why this stripper wasn't being nice and more appreciative of you. you see, when things go bad for the whipped PL. they don't do anything about it, except come on SCJ and cry about how they are being treated like a biatch. but hey, i'll give you credit for one thing. you guys are always entertaining.

LOL...of course, i can't see it. you see, i have something called a spine. furthermore, i'm not so desperately needy for authentic, emotional support that i would go to a sex worker (or even this MB) looking for said support. call me crazy, but they don't really sell that product.

oh, but it's a must with this guy...not that it'll help or anything.

ROTFLMAO...they should be so lucky. whipped PLs couldn't get their fingers wet even in the biggest of whorehouses or with the nastiest of strippers. strippers take their lunch money like a school yard bully. whipped PLs are just plain whipped, but without the pussy.

Chili Palmer
08-11-2006, 09:21 PM
Go ahead and nuke the pussy.

mr_punk
08-11-2006, 09:40 PM
what!...kyle is leaving? noooooooo! in any case, i object for the following reasons: (1) frankly, i see no compelling reason to set a precedent simply because the user has second thoughts. it's an anonymous MB. it's kills me how posters leave in a snit when no one tells them how great and wonderful they are. (2) kyle is entertaining in a clueless, unintentional fashion. (3) i think the thread can serve as a warning. sort of like a metaphorical, "head on a pike" for all future kyle-like posters.

jannisary
08-11-2006, 10:00 PM
I agree with mr_punk, the posts should stay. Eventually it will get pushed farther and farther back; and then forgotten anyway. Well unless people keep posting and brining it back to the front as a sort of metaphorcal "head on a pike"!

Kyle1111
08-12-2006, 05:00 AM
Well, I would hardly say that I'm a wonderful poster or even that I'm right. I could be 100% wrong.

If my posts are going to be deleted because they caused a "ruckus," then I made a mistake when joining. I did read the cited rule concerning causing a "ruckus" differently than the moderators, but that isn't the point. The site should have the absolute say concerning what types of viewpoints or posts are in its best interest, but it is not a community where I would want to participate or where I could be a positive influence. This is more of a cheerleading site and there is nothing wrong with that--like a support group.

I think it is very nice that the site is even considering my request and I hope they will be able to honor it. I think my posts have absolutely NO value to the community and I don't think there would be any harm in removing them. I am a little amused that anyone would wish to keep my posts--they give a false picture of the community. Anyway, I hope my request can be honored and I appreciate that it is being considered.

mr_punk
08-12-2006, 07:22 AM
If my posts are going to be deleted because they caused a "ruckus," then I made a mistake when joining.well, i'm sure your posts didn't cause a "ruckus" down here. hell, a poster would have to commit the equivalent of a MB drive-by shooting to be considered a ruckus on SCJ. so, i see no need reason to delete your posts down here. now, if you think those biatches upstairs aren't being nice to you by deleting your posts. if you think those biatches can't appreciate that you admire and respect them. well, that's your problem with them....not us.

This is more of a cheerleading site and there is nothing wrong with that--like a support group.sure, but here's the funny thing. some guys go to SW with the intention to cheerlead, brown nose, apple-polish, etc. of course, all of them say they like, admire and respect strippers. furthermore, they think it'll get them somewhere, like cheap attenion or nude pics. however, ironically, their intent often backfires on them because they're so inept. so, if you want to get along with the ladies of SW. you should practice writing the following phrase: you go girl!

I am a little amused that anyone would wish to keep my posts--they give a false picture of the community.like i said, kyle. that's your problem with them. hey, i like your posts. they're the perfect straight man for a smart-ass.

Well unless people keep posting and brining it back to the front as a sort of metaphorcal "head on a pike"!nah..i'll just provide a link.

Daniela
08-12-2006, 07:44 AM
sure, but here's the funny thing. some guys go to SW with the intention to cheerlead, brown nose, apple-polish, etc. of course, all of them say they like, admire and respect strippers. furthermore, they think it'll get them somewhere, like cheap attenion or nude pics. however, ironically, their intent often backfires on them because they're so inept. so, if you want to get along with the ladies of SW. you should practice writing the following phrase: you go girl!


:yes: Can we call it OSW?

Casual Observer
08-12-2006, 11:15 AM
I think my posts have absolutely NO value to the community and I don't think there would be any harm in removing them. I am a little amused that anyone would wish to keep my posts--they give a false picture of the community.

Oh, they have value indeed--demonstrating a fairly large segment of SC customers who need to be disabused of certain assumptions and misconceptions about SCing, dancers and the sex industry in general, followed by the subsequent corrective suggestions of the SCJ community through their collective experience, both dancers and customers alike.

CarGuy
08-12-2006, 12:39 PM
If you think you are irrelavant....simply leave...disappear and don't come back. My thought is you can't do this...you will be drawn like PL's to SS....you keep coming back to see whats been said....to reread your drivel to see if anybody agrees with you.

Keep the thread...in fact you all should have a special section named "PL whipping post."

xdamage
08-12-2006, 01:16 PM
...but it is not a community where I would want to participate or where I could be a positive influence. This is more of a cheerleading site and there is nothing wrong with that--like a support group.


Out of curiosity, what is really behind you wanting the thread deleted?

You spoke your mind honestly. My guess is every guy here has gone through a period in their lives where stripper shit got the best of them. The best strippers play on basic evolutionary male emotions and really don't give a shit about you or your feeling so long as the $$s are rolling in. These guys here that are telling you things you might not want to hear, well in many ways they are your best buddies right now. They are telling you what you need to hear. All laughter aside, you're probably not going to get a more honest dose of truth then on this sight from the guys.

Katrine
08-12-2006, 02:16 PM
You would give a stripper 555+ chances to deliver before 86ing her? Damn, that's over $11 grand. If that isn't PL3 (cubed), then I don't know what is.

Please stay! And if you're ever in Texas, I have excellent dancer referrals for you...my girls would take eeeeecxellent care of a gentleman like yourself...

xdamage
08-12-2006, 02:23 PM
You would give a stripper 555+ chances to deliver before 86ing her? Damn, that's over $11 grand. If that isn't PL3 (cubed), then I don't know what is.

Please stay! And if you're ever in Texas, I have excellent dancer referrals for you...my girls would take eeeeecxellent care of a gentleman like yourself...

As soon as he showed just the tiniest amount of backbone (and stopped paying for airdances) the quality of service returned. Putting 1 and 1 together, you'd think he'd learn that after 1+ or 2+ chances it's not a good investment. Then again I find the whole notion of giving a dancer my number so she can call me at 2am to come stuff her pockets absurd. Maybe at 2am he had night/morning breathe and she was just keeping her distance.

Chili Palmer
08-12-2006, 07:00 PM
No worries on my part, JZ. It wasn't the lame content I wanted to deep six, just the lame-o behind it. An anonymous poster posting anonymously. All he has to do is go away and so would the topic. It really is that simple, but some people have to be drama queens (and emphasis on the queen in this case) 24/7. So be it.

CP

Looker
08-13-2006, 10:13 AM
Kyle have you thought about just coming out and asking her why you received the air dances?
I haven’t read all of the replies to this thread so I apologize if this has already been answered.

cherryripeboy
08-13-2006, 01:46 PM
No reason to delete this thread. Yeah it could have ended on about the second page or so. I don’t know weather to be exasperated, or what. It was an odd sort of experience reading through it all.

I don’t really get the point of it all. There is much more to life than one particular fetish or desire. This is said by the man that chooses to explore his own. Of course I must note that I have often found the journey more fun than the destination. In the situation, are you helping her out or yourself? Both are having a need fulfilled, one for money, and another for contact.

I’m not sure I’d answer a call at 2am, let alone make a trip. Yes I can be very generous, I don’t know if I’d be that generous with my time and money. I regard both as having a high value, and usually try and spend them in ways I will enjoy. I don’t mind having fun, and using my money to achieve a goal, even a ridiculous goal, as long as I learn something or have fun along the way. My own jury is still out on certain aspects of strippers, and it will be for some time yet. I’m sure the answer will depend upon those that I experience.

In life I have learnt that even if you have a desire beyond all others, happiness can be found without achieving that desire. I may at this point be seeking that desire, but I do so for exploration, a curiosity, and an adventure.

Then again Cherry’s rules for trips to the SC include, not going if the budget does not exist at the level I like to enjoy. They also include cutting off service when it is not good. Does not matter if she is the woman of your dreams, if your not getting something you enjoy, why the hell are you paying for it? If the dance is not bringing a smile to your face, then why get more? Hell, if the conversation is not putting a smile on your face why waste your time?

Deogol
08-14-2006, 12:55 AM
There are two bad things about this thread:

1) While Mr_Punk and I sit here laughing our asses off, he keeps eating all the popcorn.

2) The slight sadness I feel for Kyle. He needs to get his head on straight because it cannot be a happy life doing what he is doing.

Otherwise - this is an excellent thread for PL's to recognize themselves on.

Kyle1111
08-14-2006, 09:54 AM
Kyle have you thought about just coming out and asking her why you received the air dances?

I haven’t read all of the replies to this thread so I apologize if this has already been answered.


Hi Looker,

I was at a strange club and the music was very loud--lip reading or writing were about it for communicating. Also, there must have been some serious reason she called at 2 AM after years of good service something important appeared to be happening with her.

On the visit to my regular club I had put it out of my mind because she seemed like her old self--that air dance really caught me by surprise. I didn't wish to talk at this time because I was in the wrong frame of mind. Once she did get back to normal that same visit, I didn't want to go backward and besides she was doing a better than very good job.

Kyle1111
08-14-2006, 11:07 AM
Out of curiosity, what is really behind you wanting the thread deleted?



You spoke your mind honestly. My guess is every guy here has gone through a period in their lives where stripper shit got the best of them. The best strippers play on basic evolutionary male emotions and really don't give a shit about you or your feeling so long as the $$s are rolling in. These guys here that are telling you things you might not want to hear, well in many ways they are your best buddies right now. They are telling you what you need to hear. All laughter aside, you're probably not going to get a more honest dose of truth then on this sight from the guys.

Hi Xdamage,

I didn't just want the thread deleted, but rather ALL of my posts.

I had MULTIPLE posts deleted for content that expressed unpopular viewpoints. The LADIES ONLY post that was deleted was more of a red herring and was days old and was offering support to the OP. Also, why did I post there? Because I felt a strong sense of sympathy for the lady and forgot that it was LADIES ONLY. The real issue was my viewpoints in the other posts so about 15 minutes after the deletions for causing a "raucous" (sp?) I got the bs news about the LADIES ONLY. Once, I realized that I had posted in LADIES ONLY, I could have delete it, but decided a supportive post would be appreciated and I think it was assuming the OP read it.

To answer your question, if my post are going to be deleted for expressing an unpopular views, then it would be nice if ALL my posts were deleted.

Jenny
08-14-2006, 11:25 AM
Kyle - has it occurred to you (and don't feel obliged to answer) that you are requesting to create quite a lot of work for the mods to delete 101 posts? And that everytime you post again you are a) undermining your position and b) creating yet more work? And that you could simply leave stripperweb and stripclubjunkie, never return and entirely forgot that this particular internet handle ever existed? That because it is anonymous it has no effect on your life or reputation? That perhaps the best way to deal with your huff is just to go home, and forget about us entirely?

Seriously - do not feel obliged to compound your lack of consideration by posting yet more drivel that you may want deleted later. Just hit the home button, and go elsewhere and then forget that you were ever here. I recommend here: www.catandgirl.com. You need some humour and lightheartedness in your life.

Kyle1111
08-14-2006, 11:26 AM
You would give a stripper 555+ chances to deliver before 86ing her? Damn, that's over $11 grand. If that isn't PL3 (cubed), then I don't know what is.



Please stay! And if you're ever in Texas, I have excellent dancer referrals for you...my girls would take eeeeecxellent care of a gentleman like yourself...



Hi Katrine,

I think providing the GFE requires a different mindset. Just getting eye contact out of the dancers I know is difficult and then BINGO you think you are all set and yet you really have nothing. Just a few days ago I found a dancer who had my heart pounding and everything she did was perfect. After buying 4 dances (she got a little too good) I said that I would like to know her hours if that was ok so that I could come and buy more dances. She said that would be wonderful and told me her hours and said she looked forward to seeing me. I was thrilled big time because of her looks, personality, skill, etc. were exactly what I need. I wanted to visit her immediately, but figured that would be rushing her so I went on Sunday. I saw her and she was friendly, but I knew there was a problem. I told her that I would love to buy some dances and she said NO I don't want to do any dances. I said you're NOT working now? She says NO I'm working it is just that I don't want to do any dances and then she said she had to go. I said ok and she took off! I had thought that we had really hit it off well and thought I'd be spending most of my dance money on her and unfortunately that is not going to happen.

Kyle1111
08-14-2006, 11:36 AM
Kyle - has it occurred to you (and don't feel obliged to answer) that you are requesting to create quite a lot of work for the mods to delete 101 posts? And that everytime you post again you are a) undermining your position and b) creating yet more work? And that you could simply leave stripperweb and stripclubjunkie, never return and entirely forgot that this particular internet handle ever existed? That because it is anonymous it has no effect on your life or reputation? That perhaps the best way to deal with your huff is just to go home, and forget about us entirely?



Seriously - do not feel obliged to compound your lack of consideration by posting yet more drivel that you may want deleted later. Just hit the home button, and go elsewhere and then forget that you were ever here. I recommend here: www.catandgirl.com. You need some humour and lightheartedness in your life.

Hi Jenny,

If it is a lot of work, then I wouldn't want them to bother. I was thinking it might be a 30 second job, but anything over a minute is way too much work.

Well, they read this drivel all the time so I don't think it inconsiderate and reading drivel can be a good waste of time just like it seems like you think responding to drivel is a good waste of your time.



This is just something nice they could do, but they are certainly under NO obligation to do so.

Kyle1111
08-14-2006, 11:50 AM
well, i'm sure your posts didn't cause a "ruckus" down here. hell, a poster would have to commit the equivalent of a MB drive-by shooting to be considered a ruckus on SCJ. so, i see no need reason to delete your posts down here. now, if you think those biatches upstairs aren't being nice to you by deleting your posts. if you think those biatches can't appreciate that you admire and respect them. well, that's your problem with them....not us.

sure, but here's the funny thing. some guys go to SW with the intention to cheerlead, brown nose, apple-polish, etc. of course, all of them say they like, admire and respect strippers. furthermore, they think it'll get them somewhere, like cheap attenion or nude pics. however, ironically, their intent often backfires on them because they're so inept. so, if you want to get along with the ladies of SW. you should practice writing the following phrase: you go girl!

like i said, kyle. that's your problem with them. hey, i like your posts. they're the perfect straight man for a smart-ass.

nah..i'll just provide a link.

Hi Mr. Punk,

I don't think dancers being nice is really the issue. They have the power to silence me and that is fine, but it would be nice if it was total rather than partial. In any event I will be leaving and I would think it would be sooner rather than later.

If it requires work, more than 1 minute, to delete ALL of my posts, then I wouldn't want them to waste their time.

Katrine
08-14-2006, 09:25 PM
Hi Katrine,
I saw her and she was friendly, but I knew there was a problem. I told her that I would love to buy some dances and she said NO I don't want to do any dances. I said you're NOT working now? She says NO I'm working it is just that I don't want to do any dances and then she said she had to go. I said ok and she took off! I had thought that we had really hit it off well and thought I'd be spending most of my dance money on her and unfortunately that is not going to happen.

Wow, dude, sorry to say, but you must be really uber creepy. I can't think of anything else....:-\

mr_punk
08-14-2006, 10:33 PM
Wow, dude, sorry to say, but you must be really uber creepy. ROTFLMAO. gee, ya think? ok everyone...looks like it's a tie between kat and xdamage for the understatement of the year contest.

Docido
08-15-2006, 08:48 AM
Why won't it stop? Oh the humanity!! :'(



Wow, dude, sorry to say, but you must be really uber creepy. I can't think of anything else....:-\

As usual Kat nails it. Lock thread.

Deogol
08-15-2006, 04:51 PM
As usual Kat nails it. Lock thread.


Oh heck no - ya can't lock the thread!

This is going to be one of those year to year ones with 300 pages of posts! And I look forward to each and every one of them.

Hell, I just bought some more popcorn in anticipation for tonight's reading!

jannisary
08-15-2006, 08:46 PM
I saw her and she was friendly, but I knew there was a problem. I told her that I would love to buy some dances and she said NO I don't want to do any dances. I said you're NOT working now? She says NO I'm working it is just that I don't want to do any dances and then she said she had to go. I said ok and she took off! I had thought that we had really hit it off well and thought I'd be spending most of my dance money on her and unfortunately that is not going to happen.


What is they say on the pink side, if the girl really likes you she won't want to lap dance for you?

Hmm....not sure if I should post that here or not. Oh well, lets see what happens.

PrettyPenny
08-18-2006, 01:14 AM
I think the air dance was because her boyfriend or husband was there...

lunchbox
08-18-2006, 06:36 AM
What is they say on the pink side, if the girl really likes you she won't want to lap dance for you?
Remove the money and see if she sticks around.

jannisary
08-18-2006, 11:43 AM
Maybe Kyle finally gave up, thought my post would surely prompt a response of some kind from him. Of course he could have read it and went running back to the club; only to get his ass kicked because Katrine was right about his uber creepiness.

"Remove the money and see if she sticks around" But what do you do if she does? lol

Kyle1111
08-18-2006, 12:19 PM
Maybe Kyle finally gave up, thought my post would surely prompt a response of some kind from him. Of course he could have read it and went running back to the club; only to get his ass kicked because Katrine was right about his uber creepiness.

"Remove the money and see if she sticks around" But what do you do if she does? lol

Hi Jannisary,

She could have acted that way for any reason. (My mother would often act like she really liked or loved someone when in reality she would spew hate about them for days and days and days. Very depressing that she felt the need to decieve them and that she had so much hate.) Whatever the reason it spells bad news for me because I *was* interested in buying lap dances from her on a regular basis. Most of that interest is pretty much gone. If I had known her a long time, then my interest would still be fairly strong. I have avoided the club just to avoid any awkwardness (sp?), but may go back this weekend hoping to find another hottie or I might head back to my favorite club.

Kyle1111
08-18-2006, 12:32 PM
I think the air dance was because her boyfriend or husband was there...

Hi PrettyPenny,

Looking back I think it was probably boyfriend related (or herpes, etc. is a reasonable guess). She offered to keep in touch with me when she went to work at the beauty salon and I asked how her boyfriend (father of her child) would feel about it. She said that he wouldn't like it at all, but that he had lost the right to object by abandoning her shortly after the baby was born. I asked how he was treating her since his return and she said that he was acting like a man, but that he was very upset with her dancing. I told her to please focus on how he is treating her now and not to go into his past misdeeds. If my hanging around was going to upset him, then she really should consider his feelings as long as he treating her right. Anyway, that was goodbye and I hope she is doing very well.