raakashock
06-19-2016, 05:12 AM
This is a great thread! i started off as a customer at strip clubs. i am bisexual and love to watch women dance. i love the whole atmosphere of a strip club. i love the way the women look at me and treat me. it is really the ultimate fantasy. now, as a dancer, i try really hard to act the same way the awesome women have treated me. its in the eyes and the smile. however, i have only done that treatment towards men and have been pretty awkward around the women. some women do look pissed and i can tell they dont want to be there. but, as a whole, i have been too nervous or assuming the worst, and have ignored the women. this thread gave some good tips on what to do and to remember to include the lady customers ;-) and, in general, get my ass up and introduce myself to everyone who comes through the door. i have seen this girl at my club get really far with a genuine handshake and name exchange. now that i have started that, i can see a really big difference. before i was just sitting down and trying to say something typically sweet and sexy. the guys seem to really enjoy the more formal intros, and its also a small moment between you two. you are touching and looking each other in the eyes. when i first saw this girl do it, i thought it looked strange. but it works! the ice breaks. on a bad night, after a few rejections, it gets hard to keep trying to sell drinks/dances etc...but it doesnt pay to sit in the corner and pout. ive noticed a good caffeine buzz helps a lot. i am too pumped to just sit down and i want to keep busy so bouncing around and starting convo is fun. (no drugs just caffeine)