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Xiomara
09-09-2006, 08:17 AM
Nobody who's responded thinks they're perfect. They (myself included) just think it's fucked up that you would try to cause harm to your unborn child, on more than one occasion, and in more ways than one.

I STRONGLY advise you again to get help. Don't wait until after the baby's born. The time to do it is NOW, because you'll be juggling two children and all the responsibilities that go along with them. It's not easy, and you need to make sure that you're going to be able to handle it. You can say that you are until you're blue-in-the-face, but you won't know until that baby gets here.

Also, Ultrasounds only show so much. Not saying it to scare you, but it's true. There's a lot that they don't show.

I do wish you luck. I do wish you a healthy baby. Just make sure that you are prepared to handle it.

Yes, I understnad that its fucked up what I did and I cry and hurt every day because of it. But I cant change it. I cant change the feeeling I USED TO HAVE toward the baby. I still cant see how I could have tried the stuff I tried. But nobody seems to realizer that I cant go back and change it.
I said in numerous posts that I have gotten help, that I have talked with my doctor for hours about this. I got help, I got help I got help!

Thank you, and I hope you and your new baby and children are doing ok! :)

MishaBliss
09-09-2006, 08:24 AM
^^^ Well we shall disagree on that wont we? Im all for saying what needs to be said, but this thread has become ridiculous and gone too far.

BTW hating someones children is hardly constructive or building a better planet.

I do agree that this thread has gone too far. I don't believe it to be the fault of those trying to give advice.
I can't honestly believe that you could take that comment about hating her children at face value. I thought anyone would be smarter than that.

Xiomara
09-09-2006, 08:26 AM
From what i can see...she asked for advice. We gave her advice and she became abusive. She doesn't seem to want to listen. To imply that people are being nasty for the sake of being nasty is ignorant.
Not one person here professed to be perfect.
The saying 'if you haven't anything nice to say' is the most blinded ignorant saying there is. That's the school of thought that has left the world in the mess it is today. IMO.


QUOTE: I FEEL SO SORRY FOR YOUR CHILDREN" is advice?
QUOTE: "She doesn't seem to want to listen. " DIDN'T I SAY IVE GOT HELP, AND SPOKEN WITH MY DOCTOR?
QUOTE: "We gave her advice and she became abusive." Me,abusive?? QUOTE AGAIN: " I FEEL SO SORRY FOR YOUR CHILDREN" is not advice.

QUOTE: The taking time to try and advise your sorry ass or reading your retarded responses?" WHEN DID YOU GIVE ME ADVICE? IF MY ASS IS SORRY AND RETARDED,WHY KEEP TAKING THE TIME?

Xiomara
09-09-2006, 08:30 AM
I do too, I hope you don't pass your scars onto them. Just think, they could turn out just like their mom. Ok, that was kind of harsh, but you need to smarten up seriously. And hopefully you will, so good luck.

Yes, that was hurtful. My daughter has never been through the things I have been or the things this baby has been through, and she never will. Shes always been happy. Same will go for my baby.

Rhiannon
09-09-2006, 08:31 AM
I think someone should close this thread.

Done. I think everything that needed to be said, or should have been said, has been.

Thread closed.