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Smokeless
11-06-2006, 11:29 PM
On a recent visit to one of my local clubs, I encountered one of my favorites. She was as sweet and affectionate as ever. We had some nice dances, and I tipped her well at the stage. We hung out a while before I needed to leave. About that time she started explaining her tax situation. Something about an incompetent accountant who got her amended return to the IRS late, forcing her into some substantial penalties. So, what can I do about that? This, to me is SS! Not the sort of conversations you've apparently had.
Remember where your conversations began. You noticed she was tired. You suggested just hanging out, but insisted on paying for her time. You were sincere and a gentleman. She appreciated it. What's there not to like? So she wants to see you at the club again. Gotta start someplace, and it's safe -- or relatively so -- while you check each other out.
Again, enjoy. And good luck.
xxernestoxx
11-07-2006, 01:13 AM
On a recent visit to one of my local clubs, I encountered one of my favorites. She was as sweet and affectionate as ever. We had some nice dances, and I tipped her well at the stage. We hung out a while before I needed to leave. About that time she started explaining her tax situation. Something about an incompetent accountant who got her amended return to the IRS late, forcing her into some substantial penalties. So, what can I do about that? This, to me is SS! Not the sort of conversations you've apparently had.
Remember where your conversations began. You noticed she was tired. You suggested just hanging out, but insisted on paying for her time. You were sincere and a gentleman. She appreciated it. What's there not to like? So she wants to see you at the club again. Gotta start someplace, and it's safe -- or relatively so -- while you check each other out.
Again, enjoy. And good luck.
what happened with this girl?
that is to say what was your reaction to the tax story
cheers
-Ernesto
Sunshine73
11-07-2006, 10:50 AM
Yeah, when they lay hard luck stories on you, it's SS.
As far as your situation goes...give it time, but guard your heart. She may be asking you to meet her in the club because it is a safe place to size you up. She may want to take her time getting to know you. If there IS any genuine interest on her part, when she is ready, she'll let you know. Follow her lead on this one!
One silly question...does she know that you seriously like her? Does she know that you are not just playing a game? Make sure she knows how you REALLY feel, then leave the ball in her court. If she knows how you really feel about her, then she'll have more to go on. Tell her how you really feel , then leave it at that. If the feeling is mutual, she'll let you know.
You'll have to give it a little time. But if she starts taking advantage of your feelings for her (by extracting $$$ from you) then you'll know for sure it's SS.
Go slow, guard your heart, let her know your true feelings, then leave it in her court. Pay attention to how she treats you. If she really has a genuine interest in you, she'll only want your heart and nothing else.
xxernestoxx
11-07-2006, 04:36 PM
Yeah, when they lay hard luck stories on you, it's SS.
As far as your situation goes...give it time, but guard your heart. She may be asking you to meet her in the club because it is a safe place to size you up. She may want to take her time getting to know you. If there IS any genuine interest on her part, when she is ready, she'll let you know. Follow her lead on this one!
One silly question...does she know that you seriously like her? Does she know that you are not just playing a game? Make sure she knows how you REALLY feel, then leave the ball in her court. If she knows how you really feel about her, then she'll have more to go on. Tell her how you really feel , then leave it at that. If the feeling is mutual, she'll let you know.
You'll have to give it a little time. But if she starts taking advantage of your feelings for her (by extracting $$$ from you) then you'll know for sure it's SS.
Go slow, guard your heart, let her know your true feelings, then leave it in her court. Pay attention to how she treats you. If she really has a genuine interest in you, she'll only want your heart and nothing else.
hmmm...
ill keep your advice in mind next time i see her.
thanks
cheers
-Ernesto
Smokeless
11-10-2006, 11:43 PM
what happened with this girl?
that is to say what was your reaction to the tax storyI listened sympathetically to the tax story. She does have a new accountant, but missed a deadline in the meantime. Told her the best I could do to help out was one dance at a time. Well, maybe a few more than that. I had already had 4 dances before the SS story and was getting ready to leave. She didn't press it further.
Svelt
11-11-2006, 11:09 PM
Rule of thumb, its always SS.
Just relax, go with the flow as long as you enjoy it.
Ignore the BS, reward what makes you happy.
However sometimes its not SS. My ATF gave me her number every time I saw her and started getting really nasty during dances, then stopping and saying "call me". I thought it was just SS, it was fun, but then after awhile it dawned on me, and I called her. ;D
What you thought she was my ATF for no reason? :O
(edit: corrected spelling, AFT > ATF)
xxernestoxx
11-11-2006, 11:40 PM
I listened sympathetically to the tax story. She does have a new accountant, but missed a deadline in the meantime. Told her the best I could do to help out was one dance at a time. Well, maybe a few more than that. I had already had 4 dances before the SS story and was getting ready to leave. She didn't press it further.
ohh well,
you did what you could i guess lol
im sure she made it through alright
Rule of thumb, its always SS.
Just relax, go with the flow as long as you enjoy it.
Ignore the BS, reward what makes you happy.
However sometimes its not SS. My ATF gave me her number every time I saw her and started getting really nasty during dances, then stopping and saying "call me". I thought it was just SS, it was fun, but then after awhile it dawned on me, and I called her. ;D
What you thought she was my AFT for no reason? :O
hahahaha
ATF
i doubt ill ever get to date my ATF but i guess thats what happens when your a born loser haha, not anymore..... that was in high school lol not a loser anymore
what happened when you called?
cheers
-Ernesto