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Tefnut
10-28-2006, 07:13 AM
i cant belive girls would go on stage smelling or unshaven neway :-s as for the acne on butt thing hey! sometimes thats eczema and is impossible to get rid of :( it covers up with make up

Tony S
11-08-2006, 04:28 PM
Here is what a dancer needs to do to get me to ask for dances: 1. Be attractive (7 1/2 or better.) 2. Ask to sit with me and introduce herself. A little small talk, perhaps a minute, lets me judge her attitude. Be willing to strip fully nude - none of this pulling her bra up just enough to show her tits, or just slipping her thong down just enough to show her kitty. All I want to see is a pretty girl, nude, except for shoes and jewelry. Its OK to have a garter belt to hold tips, and also ok to wrap her thong around a thigh to keep it off the floor. I prefer to watch everyone for maybe an hour to see who I think is hot, and a stage appearance before I choose helps. Very seldom will I go for a girl with tits bigger than B size, the smaller the better. To make me buy several dances, I find that a little contact helps (NOT essential!), and if she will let me lightly touch her breasts that is heaven. I consider contact an extra, and it sure affects the tip but lack of it can be made up by just being nice to be with.
Absolutely no gum chewing!

rusdancer
11-09-2006, 02:57 AM
-too pushy
-too vulgar
-cattiness,drama queens
-always yelling loudly when speaking,even when it's quiet

Svelt
11-09-2006, 07:48 PM
Snapshot, this could be a book

Bad Breath
Negativity
No Smile
driveby "Wanna Dance?"
having to explain why you don't want a dance
repeating why you don't want a dance
DRAMA
full charge partial dance
my life sucks hustle
personal life questions
bait switch
lack of self confidence

mark069
11-09-2006, 10:14 PM
Grabbing my ass.
Squeezing my cock.
Pinching my nipples.

These San Francisco girls are AGGRESSIVE. I feel like a piece of meat after a while..... :bump:

Svelt
11-10-2006, 02:25 PM
These seem like obvious turn-offs. What about the dancer that does everything right, but may not be your type?

How can she go that extra-mile, or if not, I would personally prefer the guy to just tell me he appreciated the company, but I am just not what he is looking for this evening. This saves us both time!

For me, there is something in the eye of a dancer that makes or breaks it.

When a dancer does everything right, but its not working for me, I tell her ASAP. Some accept it and move on, some get bent and in my face.

I have on occasion explained in detail that while they maybe doing everything right, look amazing, smell great, great convo, and smooth moves, the spark in the eye wasn't there, and we just aren't gonna click.

MrTipsWell
11-11-2006, 05:28 PM
Negativity. Even if it's not directed at me. Please don't sit down and tell me how bad your night is, or how much you hate your boyfriend, or what some stupid bitch did to you back in the dressing room. When I'm in a club as a customer, I want to have fun. I'm sorry your life sucks, but could you at least fake it for me?

A sweet, friendly girl can usually get all my money, even if she's not the best-looking in the room. But then again, I'm a chick.


If more dancers really took this to heart, on a regular basis, they'd make more money. I can't tell you how many times I've watched the guy's reaction as a dancer is walking away from an obviously "declined" dance invitaion, especially after they've been sitting together for awhile. I'll commonly see him shake his head in relief, or make a face at his tablemate indicating that she has been a downer. I'm also amazed at how many times I'll see the just-average "cheery" girls hauling yet another guy into VIP over the course of an otherwise slow night.

BlackSheEp3
11-11-2006, 05:59 PM
Grabbing my ass.
Squeezing my cock.
Pinching my nipples.

These San Francisco girls are AGGRESSIVE. I feel like a piece of meat after a while..... :bump:
If that happened to me i wouldnt mind.... :O
1. Body odor
2. cruel/meaness

greentea
11-11-2006, 06:04 PM
Snapshot, this could be a book

Bad Breath
Negativity
No Smile
driveby "Wanna Dance?"
having to explain why you don't want a dance
repeating why you don't want a dance
DRAMA
full charge partial dance
my life sucks hustle
personal life questions
bait switch
lack of self confidence


I agree with everything here,I also cannot stand it when a girl gives a parial dance and wants full price.They wouldnt want partial payment,they shouldnt give partial dances.

Mastridonicus
11-11-2006, 08:33 PM
When I find my car keys in a dancer, I get kinda pissed

cristo58
11-11-2006, 08:41 PM
I hate when they were those spikey dog collars and rub against you, ouch!!!!! hard to xplain the marks the next day ............ Damn spikey dog collars ........

jannisary
11-11-2006, 09:00 PM
Unexplained stupid giggling

Just last night, met a very attractive dancer but she just had this silly giggle. Maybe she was just nervous but after "hehehehehehehehhe" and then some more "hehehheheheheheh" and then some more "hehehheheheh" I excused myself.

sassfire
11-11-2006, 09:21 PM
Unexplained stupid giggling

Just last night, met a very attractive dancer but she just had this silly giggle. Maybe she was just nervous but after "hehehehehehehehhe" and then some more "hehehheheheheheh" and then some more "hehehheheheh" I excused myself.

Maybe she found you attractive. I'll giggle around a guy when I find him sexy enough to do. Just can't help it. The more I ponder about him, the more I giggle. Maybe that is just me, who knows.

Silverback
11-11-2006, 09:38 PM
Maybe she found you attractive. I'll giggle around a guy when I find him sexy enough to do. Just can't help it. The more I ponder about him, the more I giggle. Maybe that is just me, who knows.

We're trying to be critical here, dear. If you have something nice to say, just save it, OK?

sassfire
11-11-2006, 09:41 PM
We're trying to be critical here, dear. If you have something nice to say, just save it, OK?

LOL... Okay lord knows I know how to be critical. But it could be true....I mean your making me giggle now with that statement.;)

Okay I'll stop.:-X

casaubon1
11-11-2006, 10:04 PM
1. Failing to take no for an answer.

2. Failing to take no for an answer and then hanging around to talk so no other dancers come over.

3. Try to argue me into a dance >:( (I'm a lawyer, lady . . .)

4. Drugging

5. Trying to sell extras

6. Starting to perform extras without selling or even a warning :O (ma'am, some of us really do want to keep it clean . . .)

7. Sitting at the bar chatting up girlfriends when there are really important customers such as myself ;) unattended (OK, this one is a stretch)

8. Lying about the number of dances, or being unable to keep count -- see 4, above -- for reasons other than just having a good time (yes, on the good side of this it has happened that we both lost count -- and in those cases I make sure that there is no risk of her being underpaid)

Silverback
11-11-2006, 10:41 PM
LOL... Okay lord knows I know how to be critical. But it could be true....I mean your making me giggle now with that statement.;)

Okay I'll stop.:-X

Oh, really? So, whatcha doin' tuesday night? :)

jannisary
11-12-2006, 01:16 PM
Maybe she found you attractive. I'll giggle around a guy when I find him sexy enough to do. Just can't help it. The more I ponder about him, the more I giggle. Maybe that is just me, who knows.


Sassfire, you make a good point but in this particular case I higly doubt it. It was sort of a coy, ditzy giggle which I took as her trying (unsuccessfully) to be sexy.

sassfire
11-12-2006, 11:06 PM
Just a thought. Just like men (not all but some) don't like it when a dancer repeatedly ask you for a dance. Dancers don't like it when you (not all but some)repeatedly ask for extras. You have that right to ask for them and you must be prepared to get the occasional FY. The dancer has the right to ask you over and over etc. for a dance and she must be prepared to get the FO too. Who knows a man could get lucky and get an extra girl, or a man could change his mind and say yes (it does happen).

blondhottie
11-13-2006, 02:14 AM
-Cattiness and meanness
-"Wanna dance?" without any other conversation
-Being overly pushy
-Not smiling on stage
-Bad breath or BO
-Looking crabby out on the floor
-No makeup
-Crackhead skinny (I'm talking every single rib showing, thighs are almost the same size as calves) or very overweight

glamsniper
11-26-2006, 02:44 AM
Two things, mainly.

1. When a dancer uses nasty ass, drug store old lady perfume.

2. The ugly ones that hit up every guy at the beginning of every song, and then they give you the antichrist look when you say "...umm, no thanks...".

Sectumsempra
11-26-2006, 12:14 PM
1) Old. Somewhere between age 22 and 26, girls' looks start to decline rapidly. I'm a face man, and if you don't have a pretty, youthful face, I'm not going to be interested.

2) Fat. I tend to be a bit of a "rule of 100" guy, although someone who's SLIGHTLY over that may catch my interest (if they have a really nice face). No "BBW"s for me though.

3) Air dances. I expect at the VERY least a decent grind. The norm for my club is "upstairs" contact, so i probably wont get a second dance from a girl who wont allow that level.

4) Trying to start a dance in the middle of a song. I expect a full song for my $20, thank you.

cameronfl
11-26-2006, 01:08 PM
1) Old. Somewhere between age 22 and 26, girls' looks start to decline rapidly. I'm a face man, and if you don't have a pretty, youthful face, I'm not going to be interested.

2) Fat. I tend to be a bit of a "rule of 100" guy, although someone who's SLIGHTLY over that may catch my interest (if they have a really nice face). No "BBW"s for me though.


Hey..everyone has a right to their preferance but I have to take a LOT of offense at the idea that anyone over 26yrs old or 100 pounds is "old and fat". Wow...at 33 and 130 punds I might as well slit my wrists apparently....

cameronfl
11-26-2006, 01:09 PM
1) Old. Somewhere between age 22 and 26, girls' looks start to decline rapidly. I'm a face man, and if you don't have a pretty, youthful face, I'm not going to be interested.

2) Fat. I tend to be a bit of a "rule of 100" guy, although someone who's SLIGHTLY over that may catch my interest (if they have a really nice face). No "BBW"s for me though.


Hey..everyone has a right to their preferance but I have to take a LOT of offense at the idea that anyone over 26yrs old or 100 pounds is "old and fat". Wow...at 33 and 130 pounds I might as well slit my wrists apparently....

Sectumsempra
11-26-2006, 02:03 PM
Hey..everyone has a right to their preferance but I have to take a LOT of offense at the idea that anyone over 26yrs old or 100 pounds is "old and fat". Wow...at 33 and 130 pounds I might as well slit my wrists apparently....

Rule of 100 doesnt refer to pounds but to total of measurements.

cameronfl
11-26-2006, 02:34 PM
Rule of 100 doesnt refer to pounds but to total of measurements.

as in adding up 34-24-36? I've never heard that one....

greentea
11-26-2006, 03:18 PM
I went to a SC the other night and it was pretty dead,the girls there were trying to hustle,one girl comes up to me and says "get a lap dance from me! come on!" and basically trying to bully me into one.To me that kind of stuff is a huge turn off,when a dancer does that,I usually make a point NOT to get a dance from her.

I_luv_dancers!
11-26-2006, 08:16 PM
Repeated, aggressive sales pitches.
Smokers.
Too many tats.
Bitchiness.
Bad hygiene.
Bad teeth and breath.
Too much perfume or glitter makeup - I don't want to go home smelling like perfume or with glitter on my clothes.
Liars-stripper comes up to me once in Baltimore, asks for quarters for the jukebox-so I ante up a couple bucks worth of quarters. She walks straight to the cigarette machine and buys a new pack...last money she ever saw from me.

Basically, the same things that turn a dancer off will turn a customer off.

Star Player
11-26-2006, 08:51 PM
Bad breath turns me off big time (especially nasty cig breath) plus any other unpleasant body odor. I find it especially gross if it lingers on my clothes after I have left the club. I will not go near that gal again. Every dancer should have a bottle of listerine in her locker plus some perfume, etc.

ChristyWild
11-26-2006, 10:22 PM
Okay, here's my pet peeves about us dancers, and yes, I have committed a few of these back when I started 5 years ago:

* Bad breath

* Bad posture

* Bad attitude- the dudes can smell it on ya like perfume!

*Rudeness, bitchiness, complaining- we're here to give them a fantasy world, even if only for 15 minutes...they want a beautiful gorgeous woman- not a damn harpie!

*Don't fucking lie- if they ask if they can touch the boobs, and you aren't allowed to- tell them!!! Customers get more pissed off from being lied to about what they get in a dance than almost anything.

* Glitter ANYTHING- these guys do NOT wanna have to explain that later- and that includes glitter on the dancer outfits too

* "wanna dance" bullshit- especially when ya pull that shit on the same guy more than twice (if I ask a guy twice in the span of 30 minutes and he tells me no- I don't go back, cuz he's prolly not interested!)

*If they say no to wanting to get the dance, understand that chances are you're not the one they wanted...that and America has freedom of choice, so don't get pissed if you tried this guy for 20 minutes and the moment you get up, the next girl got him...don't worry- you'll get the next one- if you're not still bitchy/pissy about the last one

*DO NOT have an attitude on stage; the stage is where you present yourself as an entertainer, and if you've got a bad attitude, or bad posture, it's gonna show BIG TIME, and the guys aren't gonna like that none.

*Temper your language- not everyone wants to feel like they're talking to a seasoned sailor!
* don't be too aggressive- learn to read body language, as was mentioned in a previous post

* Don't cheat them- like a previous boss once told me- you be good to a customer, he'll tell a couple of his friends; piss him off, he'll tell 10

* Give them a FULL dance- if your club allows it, tell the bouncer, or whomever is counting the songs, that you'll start next song- the customers appreciate that you went to the extra effort to provide for them

* Remember that, first and foremost- we are in CUSTOMER SERVICE. Now, this does NOT mean that we "service" the customers as some would like that to be understood. Instead, it is more the adage that we think about how the CUSTOMER preceives us more than how we preceive ourselves that will make it better for both parties in the long run.

:soapbox: :soapbox: :soapbox:
Okay, off my soapbox now...carry on. :)

wonderkitty
11-26-2006, 11:13 PM
1) Old. Somewhere between age 22 and 26, girls' looks start to decline rapidly. I'm a face man, and if you don't have a pretty, youthful face, I'm not going to be interested.

2) Fat. I tend to be a bit of a "rule of 100" guy, although someone who's SLIGHTLY over that may catch my interest (if they have a really nice face). No "BBW"s for me though.

3) Air dances. I expect at the VERY least a decent grind. The norm for my club is "upstairs" contact, so i probably wont get a second dance from a girl who wont allow that level.

4) Trying to start a dance in the middle of a song. I expect a full song for my $20, thank you.

22 and 26? You must have some kind of skewed view of age. I am almost 23 and I still look very young. My sister is almost 29 and she has nothing even close to a wrinkle. People still mistake both of us for high school students. I bet if you saw either one of us you would not think we were "old" or "declining". And if you did you are just too damn picky a person.

CheetahTim
11-27-2006, 01:16 AM
My biggest turn off is a dancer who is giving me a lap dance but is obviously not there mentally. (You can tell she's going over her grocery list or what she's going to do on her days off.) Also girls that want to talk chit chat while lap dancing.