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fancygirl
10-23-2006, 03:58 PM
Oh yeah? Explain China!

ROFL!!!! :rotfl:

BlackSheEp3
10-23-2006, 04:52 PM
^^ I know this is offffffffff topic but I could really go for some Vietnamese spring rolls and rice paper rolls right now.
hahaha yeah you made me want some now too. :P

yoda57us
10-23-2006, 07:51 PM
Spring Rolls?! You guys need to turn in your manhood ID cards. All this talk makes we wanna do is go find my Asian favs and buy a lap dance or twenty then call my favorite Filipino escort and book two hours....}:D

BlackSheEp3
10-23-2006, 08:07 PM
Spring Rolls?! You guys need to turn in your manhood ID cards. All this talk makes we wanna do is go find my Asian favs and buy a lap dance or twenty then call my favorite Filipino escort and book two hours....}:D
haha i would too but as of now im on a "withdrawl" period from SCs/porn/etc.

cherryripeboy
10-23-2006, 08:17 PM
Spring Rolls?! You guys need to turn in your manhood ID cards. All this talk makes we wanna do is go find my Asian favs and buy a lap dance or twenty then call my favorite Filipino escort and book two hours....}:D

You see when I think of this certain Asian Goddess, she is associated with all the good things that are Vietmanese/Chinese especially when they are located in Melbourne. Spring rolls, Rice Paper Rolls, amazing soups, oh and that dish that used to be number 62 at Kim T.V. in Box Hill. The fried pork chops, with shreadded pork, eggs, more pork (kind of like a pork sausage), broken rice, and that special vietmanese sauce. Damm I love that dish.

You see Yoda, I can't have either right now, and while I could possibly find one, the other.... Such is life right now.

BlackSheEp3
10-23-2006, 09:08 PM
Lucily my current g/f (new relationship) is Vietnamese. I get to eat that kind of stuff all the time when im at her house. :P well except the pho....thats too much work to cook, we go out for that,lol ;)

sassfire
10-27-2006, 11:31 PM
I always loved it when a guy is dead set on getting a certain type of dancer based on his stereotypical perceived fantasy on what a dancer is going to be like. You know, the guy who only wants to dance with the asian, the one with the thick accent, or other fantasy type stereotype men put on dancers. Sometimes there fantasy is shot down. I have overheard several times of men bitching that the girl they assumed would be the greatest dancer turned out to be a dud. Some men will pay these dancer loads of money before seeing if they are good dancers.

Test the merchandise first with a lap dance. Then take the best one to the VIP room. Don't just pick up the first asian dancers you see (example) and take her automatically to the VIP. Some guys will complain to the mgt that his vip time was bad. Oh well, there is no money back guarantee in clubs. You got your asian, be happy.

greentea
10-28-2006, 01:08 PM
I always loved it when a guy is dead set on getting a certain type of dancer based on his stereotypical perceived fantasy on what a dancer is going to be like. You know, the guy who only wants to dance with the asian, the one with the thick accent, or other fantasy type stereotype men put on dancers. Sometimes there fantasy is shot down. I have overheard several times of men bitching that the girl they assumed would be the greatest dancer turned out to be a dud. Some men will pay these dancer loads of money before seeing if they are good dancers.

Test the merchandise first with a lap dance. Then take the best one to the VIP room. Don't just pick up the first asian dancers you see (example) and take her automatically to the VIP. Some guys will complain to the mgt that his vip time was bad. Oh well, there is no money back guarantee in clubs. You got your asian, be happy.

I dont want to get a dance from an Asian dancer becasue I think she will be any better than a Caucasian dancer.Im sure every girl has thier differnet skill level when it comes to the dancing regardless if they are black white yellow or purple.I just want to get dances from Asian girls because they are physically my type.

sassfire
10-28-2006, 02:31 PM
Sure they are physically your type. I am not trying to criticize your yearning for an asian girl, but all in all your wanting of only an asian is based on fantasy. When you say physically your type, what exactly do you mean? If you mean by being small and petite, then you are not going solely by thier physic. There are plenty of white and hispanic dancers who are small and petite. In fact hispanic dancers can sometimes be very similiar to an asian's physical stature and type. Hopefully you are not talking about that asian women have something on them that other women do not have. If so they need to be in the Guiness Book of World Records.

I personnally think that most men think that asian women have this certain type of attitude or demure personality. Just the same that men think that hispanic women have this certain attitude and fiery personality. I have worked with asian women, who acted like black women's sterotype, loud and crude. I have worked with bland hispanics. To say that you only get dances from asian solely because they are physically different is far fetch. I personally think that it is based on fantasy. Hey, it is your money and you are allowed to spend it anyway you desire. I'm just not going to buy that physically different spill.

greentea
10-28-2006, 04:22 PM
Sure they are physically your type. I am not trying to criticize your yearning for an asian girl, but all in all your wanting of only an asian is based on fantasy. When you say physically your type, what exactly do you mean? If you mean by being small and petite, then you are not going solely by thier physic. There are plenty of white and hispanic dancers who are small and petite. In fact hispanic dancers can sometimes be very similiar to an asian's physical stature and type. Hopefully you are not talking about that asian women have something on them that other women do not have. If so they need to be in the Guiness Book of World Records.

I personnally think that most men think that asian women have this certain type of attitude or demure personality. Just the same that men think that hispanic women have this certain attitude and fiery personality. I have worked with asian women, who acted like black women's sterotype, loud and crude. I have worked with bland hispanics. To say that you only get dances from asian solely because they are physically different is far fetch. I personally think that it is based on fantasy. Hey, it is your money and you are allowed to spend it anyway you desire. I'm just not going to buy that physically different spill.


Well you can beleive it or not beleive it,but I only get dances from Asian girls because they are physically my type,not because I feel they will give me some sort of unique lap dance I cant get from a White girl.

I just like how Asians are petite,I like thier skin,eyes,and just the general look they have.Everyone has preferences,some prefer blondes,some brunettes,some like black women,etc...I just happen to dig on Asians.

I dont get dances from Asians with the mindset that they give a different kind of lap dance comapred to other races,thats ridiculous.There are only so many ways a girl can give a lap dance anyways,so really its kind of pointless to try to find one that gives "the best lap dance",in the end most lap dances are the same.Its the girls LOOKS that differ the most.A girl could give the best lap dance in the world but if you dont think shes attractive it doent do much good :)

yoda57us
10-28-2006, 05:49 PM
I buy 95% of my dances from Brazilian and Asian dancers. This is simply because, over the years, I have decided that these are my preferences. All men have preconceived notions about what type of woman they prefer and what they expect the dance to be like. I've simply found that most, not all, of the time I get exactly what I expected when I follow my preferred course-a good time.

I don't have a stereotypical expectation based on my dancer's heritage, all women are different no matter where they come from. Obviously my preferences have something to do with body type but that's really no different than guys who like blonds with big boobs or Goth chicks with jet black hair and piercings.

We all like what we like, though I agree you need to go into it with your eyes open.

greentea
10-28-2006, 05:55 PM
I buy 95% of my dances from Brazilian and Asian dancers. This is simply because, over the years, I have decided that these are my preferences. All men have preconceived notions about what type of woman they prefer and what they expect the dance to be like. I've simply found that most, not all, of the time I get exactly what I expected when I follow my preferred course-a good time.

I don't have a stereotypical expectation based on my dancer's heritage, all women are different no matter where they come from. Obviously my preferences have something to do with body type but that's really no different than guys who like blonds with big boobs or Goth chicks with jet black hair and piercings.

We all like what we like, though I agree you need to go into it with your eyes open.

Couldnt have said it better myself.

sassfire
10-28-2006, 06:21 PM
Sure thing

mia_bella
10-28-2006, 08:19 PM
I haven't read all the replies yet, but being Asian myself, I think it really depends on the way the family is. If my family had been very traditional, I would be (and I'm not being rude, but having friends that are mid 20s and live at home with curfews, or are scared to tell their parents that they have a boyfriend/girlfriend, or had their parents make them break up with their bf/gf simply because they weren't asian!) whipped by my parents.
I was lucky that my mum was pretty easy going so I don't see her so much as an authority figure, but as a friend, so I can be open and do what I want, and having moved out of home at a youngish age, I know that I'm dependant and I know what I do is up to me. My Asian friends don't have this view. They see their parents as the dominant authority in their life and they can't do anything unless it's approved by them or they fear them finding out. However where I live there is a vast Asian population, and the thing about Asians is, you tend to know everyone. Somehow, you're connected to everyone. Last night I went to a party, and I realised that I knew 98% of the people there and that they also knew eachother somehow. Especially here with the high abundance of gangs and groups. There's a high risk that an Asian will be caught out if it's something she doesn't want her parents to know.
One girl came in for an interview at work with the idea that only really old gross men come into the clubs, when I pointed out that no, young uni guys come in too, people that I know come in, she freaked out because she didn't think she'd be able to hide it from her boyfriend who goes to uni and knows lots of Asians blah blah so she didn't start.

Culture wise it's really something that is taboo for us. Other Asian dancers I've met (all 3 of them! and i'm only HALF Asian) have had similar upbringings like myself where we were taught to be independent and to support ourselves, unlike those that are taught you live at home until you're married and then you live in your husbands home and then your parents move in with you when they're too old to take care of themselves.

sassfire
10-28-2006, 08:49 PM
The two male posters were talking about they have a preference based on "body type". You were talking about cultural difference and attitude. I just find it a bit ironic for them to say that they only dance with a certain girl solely for a body type that can be found in other girls. That's like saying a man will only dance with an black girl because she is dark and has a big rump. Well hispanics can be dark and also have big rumps.

With that said, are you going to tell me that men don't come into a club thinking that a certain type of girl will act in a certain way is far fetch. The business of strip clubs is to satisfy a man's fantasy on how he THINKS his dream girl will act and look like.

That's just my 2c.

Eevee
10-29-2006, 01:24 AM
You see when I think of this certain Asian Goddess, she is associated with all the good things that are Vietmanese/Chinese especially when they are located in Melbourne. Spring rolls, Rice Paper Rolls, amazing soups, oh and that dish that used to be number 62 at Kim T.V. in Box Hill. The fried pork chops, with shreadded pork, eggs, more pork (kind of like a pork sausage), broken rice, and that special vietmanese sauce. Damm I love that dish.
You have not tried true VN food yet if you haven't eaten at Footscray, Richmond or Springvale!

pinkkitten
10-29-2006, 01:57 AM
I'm curious if the original poster would find an Asian woman who was not petite to be his type. The majority of Asians I have worked with were not petite and customers who claimed Asians were his preference kinda had mixed feelings about them. Also, if a white girl who could possibly be hispanic but you were not sure was very petite, like 4,9 tall, had slighly Asian looking eyes and long dark hair, would you consider dancing with her or would you first question her on her ethnic background? Just kinda curious about how it works when someone has specific prefernces, i guess.

Momomix
10-29-2006, 05:23 AM
Hey, Mia_bella, do you think that it's because you are only half that you're family is more relaxed? Cause that's how it is with my family, my mom was a "rebel" and married a white guy so she's more likely to let me do more "risque" things... not that she knows I want to strip and I know she'd be against it, but she realizes she can't do anything about it.

As for the asian preference thing I think it might be one of two things: a) the guy likes the whole stereotypical asian: black silky hair, ivory skin, slanted eyes, petite, etc or b) the guy believes the whole thing that was started back when Asians first immigrated here of their women being sexpots; They were different, no one had really seen Asian women before whereas there had been African-Americans in America for a while as well as Latinos and they had this "exotic" allure supposedly.

Honestly, I think there should only be one preference when it comes to getting dances: beauty, in some form or another.

cherryripeboy
10-29-2006, 07:47 AM
You have not tried true VN food yet if you haven't eaten at Footscray, Richmond or Springvale!

I have indeed, but Springvale was nearly an hour drive from home. I had a lot from Richmond, especially down that road Ikea is on... ah Victoria St. 62 just happened to be something I liked. I should have learnt a little bit about the language, so I could do not have to rely on descriptions. I know a few places; I'd tried at least 1/2 of the menu.

yoda57us
10-29-2006, 10:12 AM
The two male posters were talking about they have a preference based on "body type". You were talking about cultural difference and attitude. I just find it a bit ironic for them to say that they only dance with a certain girl solely for a body type that can be found in other girls. That's like saying a man will only dance with an black girl because she is dark and has a big rump. Well hispanics can be dark and also have big rumps.

With that said, are you going to tell me that men don't come into a club thinking that a certain type of girl will act in a certain way is far fetch. The business of strip clubs is to satisfy a man's fantasy on how he THINKS his dream girl will act and look like.

That's just my 2c.

Um, I never said my choices where based solely on body type though that is certainly a factor. There are certain traits-both in physical appearance and in attitude that are inherent in women from different parts of the world. I wouldn't expect you to worry too much about these sorts of things since you are not the one spending the money and, unless you like women, you are not looking at them the same way men are. I, OTOH can tell the difference between a Filipino ass and a Chinese ass, between a Brazilian woman's walk and a Mexican woman's walk...why? because I love looking at them and I remember the things that I like and don't like when it's time to open my wallet.

Body type is general thing; petite, curvy, skinny, fat, tall, short, whatever. Skin tone, body movement, facial characteristics and yes, even butt characteristics are indigenous to a woman's genealogy. North American dancers have traits that are exclusive to whatever their genealogy might be as well.

Does this mean that I blindly buy LD's from women just because of where they are from? Well of course not, that would be dumb. I sit and talk with any prospective dance partner before heading to the LD area. If we have a pleasant conversation I'm willing to invest in a dance or two. If I don't like the dances I'm not going to keep spending just because the women is Asian, South American or whatever. If I really like the woman's LD's over a period of time I may invest in a VIP room. I buy dances from individuals, not nationalities or body types.

madmaxine
10-29-2006, 10:39 AM
Totally don't wanna chime in here, but some women in the sex industry are so unique looking- they cannot be classified as one race & often make money from "race fetish" men if they just go along with whatever he thinks.
I have been mistaken for: Egyptian, Armenian, Jewish, Pacific Islander, varying Asian nationalities, Native American...when in reality I am just of Mexican descent (Indio-European.)

The reason women get peeved is that a man that truly chooses women by race & assumed behavioral traits is a short-sighted person & they don't want much to do with him.
EDIT: (after thinking back on dating experience) He probably has emotional problems too.

yoda57us
10-29-2006, 12:32 PM
The reason women get peeved is that a man that truly chooses women by race & assumed behavioral traits is a short-sighted person & they don't want much to do with him.
EDIT: (after thinking back on dating experience) He probably has emotional problems too.

Well, in the real world I would agree with you but in a strip club I honestly don't see what the big deal is. It's a fantasy. I'm paying women money to grind on my lap and make nice to me. These women would not normally give me the time of day OTC. What difference does it make what criteria I apply to my fantasy?

If women are getting peeved INSIDE the club I have to assume it's just part of their competitive nature and not liking the fact that something they have no control over may cost them a customer.

madmaxine
10-29-2006, 12:51 PM
Oh, you're correct yoda57us.

Some of these fixated types are prone to confuse the "fantasy" in the club with a real chance to get "the girl of their dreams"....It's not a race-based issue.....but has more to do with their mindset....

When I was young & dumb I dated a couple guys who were the "Type" type...I didn't realize what a bad idea that was.

greentea
10-29-2006, 01:48 PM
I rarely see Japanese dancers,which sucks,I would pay big $$$ to see a girl at a strip club that looked like my avatar! but it never happens =(

sassfire
10-29-2006, 02:35 PM
Well, in the real world I would agree with you but in a strip club I honestly don't see what the big deal is. It's a fantasy. I'm paying women money to grind on my lap and make nice to me. These women would not normally give me the time of day OTC. What difference does it make what criteria I apply to my fantasy?

If women are getting peeved INSIDE the club I have to assume it's just part of their competitive nature and not liking the fact that something they have no control over may cost them a customer.

Didn't I say that your desire for one type of women is your fantasy? No there is nothing wrong with a fantasy, I have fantasy too. I like a certain type of man, because I believe (fantasize) that that type will be the right man for me. That is my right, and I like you have that right to. A Fantasy (http://education.yahoo.com/reference/dictionary/entry/fantasy;_ylt=Aq_2ZjH5zStuG0vfpVvpWT6sgMM) is based on a false or made up imaginated notion on what they believe someone will be like.

Just like Pinkkitten said, what about heavyset Asians or asians who are dancers don't have that typical small frame.? How do they fall? I have worked with 1 or 2 who were like that.

sassfire
10-29-2006, 02:43 PM
I think Pinkkitten and Madmaxine is getting what I am saying. People have a misconcieved notions on what a race is suppose to look and act like. Yes, I said race because the 2 gentleman said they liked Asian women, because of their body type. Not women who have a small body type similiar to an asian.

I'm betting that a few dancers have experienced this. A customer is hell bent on getting a certain type (wink wink) of girl. He wants an asian, well the girl that he picks is probably only 1/4 asian. In fact she has curly hair and has spent hours straightening it out. Anyway, when the customer gets into the VIP area he proceeds to confess that he only gets dances from full blooded asians. Well hey if this guy wants has these false notions on certain type of girl, let the dancer make that money. Of course he is lying to himself.

I am a light skinned black woman (both parents are black) with hazel eyes, and I don't act like the stereotypical black woman. I've gotten dance from many of customers, who assumed that I am mixed or from the islands. What is a joke when they tell me that they don't get dances from "black chicks unless they are mix and that I am not like those OTHER black dancers". Should I enlighten him. Maybe, but he came in for a fantasy. A fantasy that can be easily deceived and fabricated, but nonetheless it is a fantasy. Hell I'll even try to put on a fake island "Yaa Maon!!!" island like accent if that what he wants.

If a customer wants an european from france, I am sure that a dancer from Texas can drop that Texas drawl and put on a Oui Oui accent for ya. Whatever you guys want a stripper can replicate it. Yeah it may be lying and decieving but half of the guys who comes into the clubs want to lied to anyway.

yoda57us
10-29-2006, 03:21 PM
A Fantasy (http://education.yahoo.com/reference/dictionary/entry/fantasy;_ylt=Aq_2ZjH5zStuG0vfpVvpWT6sgMM) is based on a false or made up imaginated notion on what they believe someone will be like.

False or made up? Well maybe but not always. I think you are oversimplifying things a bit. My preferences, and my "fantasies" are based on past experiences with the women I have spent money on over the last 25 odd years of clubbing and also on real life experiences. There may be guys out there who just flagrantly spend money on women because they are of a certain back ground. I'm not one of them.


Just like Pinkkitten said, what about heavyset Asians or asians who are dancers don't have that typical small frame.? How do they fall? I have worked with 1 or 2 who were like that.

I have a fav who I've known for about five years. She is Asian, she is lovely and she weighs about 20 pounds more than she wants to. She has a younger sister who is absolutely perfect body-wise but doesn't have anywhere near the personality of her older sibling (note: another part of my fantasy, no young dancers). For years they both danced together at the same club. I never once had the desire to buy a dance from the younger more perfect looking sister, not even when my fav was away on vacation.

I guess if a guy just blindly buys into a preconceived notion of what his perfect woman is he deserves to get bad dances or whatever it is you are trying to warn us all about here. I just don't buy into. My decision making process is applied with my eyes and my mind wide open.

yoda57us
10-29-2006, 03:37 PM
I am a light skinned black woman (both parents are black) with hazel eyes, and I don't act like the stereotypical black woman. I've gotten dance from many of customers, who assumed that I am mixed or from the islands. What is a joke when they tell me that they don't get dances from "black chicks unless they are mix and that I am not like those OTHER black dancers". Should I enlighten him. Maybe, but he came in for a fantasy. A fantasy that can be easily deceived and fabricated, but nonetheless it is a fantasy. Hell I'll even try to put on a fake island "Yaa Maon!!!" island like accent if that what he wants.


I say get as much of his money as you can!

Actually, with the popularity of Brazilian dancers I've encountered quite a few women of Puerto rican, Dominican and even black descent who have tried to pass themselves off in order to capitalize. They don't fool me but they do fool some guys.

I had a light skinned black woman who was a fav of mine several years ago. She approached me for a dance and I took her up on her offer because she was gorgeous and a sweetheart. I didn't give any thought to her lineage though she turned out to be Portuguese.

I don't think the onus is on the dancer to enlighten the customer. If he thinks you represent what he wants, or if you can convince him of such then go for it and do your job. If a guy wants to limit himself that blindly he's going to get taken for a ride more often than not anyway...not really your problem

I'd advise against trying to fake the accent as that's where most fakes usually give themselves away.;)

sassfire
10-29-2006, 03:39 PM
As long as YOU know that asian you are getting a dance from may not be an Asian. Well at least she is for 30mins to an hour.

sassfire
10-29-2006, 03:42 PM
I say get as much of his money as you can!

Actually, with the popularity of Brazilian dancers I've encountered quite a few women of Puerto rican, Dominican and even black descent who have tried to pass themselves off in order to capitalize. They don't fool me but they do fool some guys.

I had a light skinned black woman who was a fav of mine several years ago. She approached me for a dance and I took her up on her offer because she was gorgeous and a sweetheart. I didn't give any thought to her lineage though she turned out to be Portuguese.

I don't think the onus is on the dancer to enlighten the customer. If he thinks you represent what he wants, or if you can convince him of such then go for it and do your job. If a guy wants to limit himself that blindly he's going to get taken for a ride more often than not anyway...not really your problem

I'd advise against trying to fake the accent as that's where most fakes usually give themselves away.;)

Don't be so sure. You have been fooled, you just don't know it. Don't worry I've been fooled to.

greentea
10-29-2006, 04:05 PM
As long as YOU know that asian you are getting a dance from may not be an Asian. Well at least she is for 30mins to an hour.

I think its fairly obvious if the girl is Asian or not.Asians have a distinct look,either she has Asian eyes or she doesnt.i dont think anyone is "tricked" into beleiving some White girl is Asian.Come on.

sassfire
10-29-2006, 04:08 PM
I think its fairly obvious if the girl is Asian or not.Asians have a distinct look,either she has Asian eyes or she doesnt.i dont think anyone is "tricked" into beleiving some White girl is Asian.Come on.

Oh really.....

I have been mistaken for: Egyptian, Armenian, Jewish, Pacific Islander, varying Asian nationalities, Native American...when in reality I am just of Mexican descent (Indio-European.)

I rest my case.

Lysondra
10-29-2006, 04:30 PM
Once a Japanese person asked if I was Chinese the same day I was asked by a Chinese person if I was Japanese. When I speak Japanese, I am asked if I am a mix. I have westerner eye shape but easterner hair and eye colour. So if THEY can't tell sometimes, how can you? Because if I do my make-up JUST right...

Katrine
10-29-2006, 04:44 PM
I got confused all the time for being everything except for Afr. American. I've had Mexicans convinced I was South American when I had black hair and spoke fluent spanish to them. I've had guys flat out refuse to believe I'm russian because I don't look like a female Ivan Drago. When my hair is dark more so. Slavic people have Asiatic eyes too, so I could pull off a bit of the "ghengis khan influence". I had a guy refuse to believe I was Ukrainian when I was BLOND because all the girls he has met from Ukraine had dark hair.

It all becomes pretty irrelevant if you speak to enough ignorant ppl.........

I do understand that some men have fetishes. What about men who have tall girl fetishes? Do they think a tall girl will act a certain way that a short girl won't. No, not at all. They just like that look, the long legs, etc.

I've also danced with many tall Asian girls that BANKED. They did not have the petite body frame, but they had the eyes and hair. And who cares if the guy wants a girl who is 3/8 Asian 12/17 Subsaharan African and 146/793 Icelandic. Its their stupid fantasy, lol!

greentea
10-29-2006, 05:11 PM
I think its more of a "type" than a fantasy.If you date Asians in real life,chances are thats what youll want to get dances from at a strip club.If its your type,thats just how it works.

To me a fantasy is more on actions,how the girl acts etc.

doc-catfish
10-29-2006, 05:21 PM
I don't know what all the silly bickering is about. I mean doesn't life condition all of us to be attracted to someone with a certain type of form, complexion, demeanor. Everything from personal experience to inaccurate depictions by popular culture makes it easy to throw inaccurate preconceptions of what those people are like on top of that.

I sometimes wish I could be gallant here and state that if I walked into a strip club, and every gal quality-wise was the same level of attractiveness, that every gal would have an equal shot at my money, but thats just not realistic. While I've bought dances from women of every race, I almost instinctively look first for a "non-Barbie" dirty blonde caucasian gal around 5'3" with a skinny frame. Boob characteristics seem irrelevant. Of course, despite that, I occasionally hit it off with a gal who deviates from the norm. My current ATF happens to be a brunette.

But hell, this whole business is based on illusions and suspension of disbelief. So if some ignorant customer so engrossed in his fantasy thinks a dancer is something she isn't, and she can capitalize on that, more power to her I say.

yoda57us
10-29-2006, 06:17 PM
Don't be so sure. You have been fooled, you just don't know it. Don't worry I've been fooled to.

I'm not worried, I haven't been fooled. You can believe that I have if it makes you feel better but it simply hasn't happened. I'm OLD, I know the difference, at least as much as I need to know.

Yes, I've met Brazilian girls who where half Italian and Filipino girls who where half Malaysian or Chinese. So what? That's not even the point of my argument here. I'm looking for beautiful women that I can have a good time with. I don't ask them for a pedigree and I don't tell women who approach me that I only dance with Asians or South Americans or whatever.

Kat, on the other hand, could tell me that the sky was falling and I would run to buy an umbrella.

Maybe I could have been fooled 20 or 30 years ago but back then all I liked where blond American dancers with big boobs...life was so much simpler.

greentea
10-29-2006, 06:22 PM
Sassfire,you almost seem bitter that there are guys out there who prefer Asian women...I dunno your posts just seem very jaded in my opinion.

greentea
10-29-2006, 06:30 PM
according to this,Asians dont "stick to thier own" like some claim.
In fact its very common for Asians to date outside thier race.

http://www.asian-nation.org/interracial.shtml

susan22
10-29-2006, 07:01 PM
Sheesh, I think I really have to start promoting myself as the brazilian-japanese combo that I am. I may be missing out on business with all those guys out there who will only buy dances from girls with that particular attribute.

yoda57us
10-29-2006, 07:05 PM
Sheesh, I think I really have to start promoting myself as the brazilian-japanese combo that I am. I may be missing out on business with all those guys out there who will only buy dances from girls with that particular attribute.

I've got Priceline open on another browser right now, If you'll just tell me where you dance I'll book a flight tomorrow!;D

lopaw
10-29-2006, 07:14 PM
If you date Asians in real life,chances are thats what youll want to get dances from at a strip club.If its your type,thats just how it works.

I agree.
I "married" my Chinese sweetheart, and when I go to clubs I seek out Asian dancers too.

It's just the way it is. I never really gave it too much thought.
Til now!

Momomix
10-29-2006, 07:35 PM
according to this,Asians dont "stick to thier own" like some claim.
In fact its very common for Asians to date outside thier race.



Okay, yes there is interracial dating among Asians, but the majority most definitely "sticks to their own". I mean, there's China for example haha.. how many Asian-non-Asian couples there? And even if you are talking about the U.S. Asians almost always marry Asians. Also, Asian guys very, very rarely ever marry a non-Asian girl. When you do see Asain-white couples it's a white man and an Asian girl. Sure there are exceptions, but they aren't the norm.

Although, I believe that they will probably become more prevalent in the future as more generations of Asian are being born here in the U.S and growing up with an American mindset.

But I suppose I am proving your point by marrying a white boy myself... (but again, I'm only half so it doesn't count).

As for the fantasy stuff: just my personal story, most people can never figure out my ethnicity, but some guys who would walk past me usually find out that I am part Asian and then start to like me. This means it's not just a physical thing. It might be the impression people have of what Asian girls are like.

Which is rather ridiculous at times, but stereotypes are exaggerated truths.

sassfire
10-29-2006, 07:35 PM
I think its more of a "type" than a fantasy.If you date Asians in real life,chances are thats what youll want to get dances from at a strip club.If its your type,thats just how it works.

To me a fantasy is more on actions,how the girl acts etc.

LMFAO!!!!

Ohhhh so now it not about bodytype, but how the girl acts. Inwhich goes back to actually what I said.

Lesson learned8) !!!!

sassfire
10-29-2006, 07:43 PM
No Greentea, I'm not jealous. Hell many of white girls try to look like black girls. This is a forum and I would hope that people on a forum want the truth. The truth is that a dancer can be whatever you want her to be. You may feel confident that you getting the real deal, but that just means she is doing a good job. Clubs are all about fantasy, of course no one says that those fantasies has to be fullfilled by the real thing.

Anyway, are you guys aware that some clubs will only hire a certain type of girl because the owner thinks that is the customers fantasy? I have heard that the Olympic Garden in Vegas only hires really tall barbie like and looking girls. That is fine for a certain percentage of thier clientale, but every once in while a customer will complain about not seeing his desired girl.

sassfire
10-29-2006, 07:49 PM
Okay, yes there is interracial dating among Asians, but the majority most definitely "sticks to their own". I mean, there's China for example haha.. how many Asian-non-Asian couples there? And even if you are talking about the U.S. Asians almost always marry Asians. Also, Asian guys very, very rarely ever marry a non-Asian girl. When you do see Asain-white couples it's a white man and an Asian girl. Sure there are exceptions, but they aren't the norm.

Although, I believe that they will probably become more prevalent in the future as more generations of Asian are being born here in the U.S and growing up with an American mindset.

But I suppose I am proving your point by marrying a white boy myself... (but again, I'm only half so it doesn't count).

As for the fantasy stuff: just my personal story, most people can never figure out my ethnicity, but some guys who would walk past me usually find out that I am part Asian and then start to like me. This means it's not just a physical thing. It might be the impression people have of what Asian girls are like.

Which is rather ridiculous at times, but stereotypes are exaggerated truths.

Did you see Flavor of Love and how the black girls treated that chinese/african-american girl like crap? Even races think their own kind is suppose to act a certain way. When that girl didn't fit their mode they started ragging on her. I'm glad she left, she doesn't need that shit.

Momomix
10-29-2006, 07:54 PM
^What a god-awful show.

greentea
10-29-2006, 10:47 PM
Okay, yes there is interracial dating among Asians, but the majority most definitely "sticks to their own". I mean, there's China for example haha.. how many Asian-non-Asian couples there? And even if you are talking about the U.S. Asians almost always marry Asians. Also, Asian guys very, very rarely ever marry a non-Asian girl. When you do see Asain-white couples it's a white man and an Asian girl. Sure there are exceptions, but they aren't the norm.

Although, I believe that they will probably become more prevalent in the future as more generations of Asian are being born here in the U.S and growing up with an American mindset.

But I suppose I am proving your point by marrying a white boy myself... (but again, I'm only half so it doesn't count).

As for the fantasy stuff: just my personal story, most people can never figure out my ethnicity, but some guys who would walk past me usually find out that I am part Asian and then start to like me. This means it's not just a physical thing. It might be the impression people have of what Asian girls are like.

Which is rather ridiculous at times, but stereotypes are exaggerated truths.

Im 27 and White,and I have ONLY dated Asian races (ie: filipina,viet,chinese,japanese,korean etc),obviously if dating outside the Asian race was a "rare" thing for Asians,I dont think I would have dated as much as I did.

Momomix
10-30-2006, 04:01 AM
Maybe you have, but every full blooded Asian I have ever known were forced by their parents to date only-Asian, and not only Asians; specific Asians from specific provinces.

Keep in mind that there are a lot of them, so just because you have dated a bunch doesn't mean the majority does.

sassfire
10-30-2006, 12:56 PM
The vast amount of asians you see in the US, is large for you because the concentration is dense. Besides most minorities who come to the US will date outside their race. Their parents may not like it, but their kids have no problem, since they go to american schools and are raised in american societies. If you go to Asia, Mexico, Africa, and etc you will probably find that they basically stick to their own kind. Sure they will date outside thier race, but marriage rarely. How many times have you heard of european celebrity say that she is tired of american men and choice to marry an european. There is also the idea that people marry outside to get out of something be it proverty or to have new way of life. Lastly it is because of love.

Greentea, haven't you heard of statistics? The population in 2000 was 281,421,906. Out of that # 75% were white and only 3% were asian. The small amounts of asians you come in contact with, can hardly represent the millions of asians in the world or every asian in that 3% bracket.