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sassfire
11-10-2006, 09:17 PM
First, it is not true. I was being ironic.
Anyway, it is to think that only a certain race of women have features or attributes that is somehow consider attractive. Sure I may date one type of man, but I don't think that ONLY THAT TYPE has the attributes that I prefer. I don't limit myself to ONLY ONE TYPE of man.
So, let's say that you were dating a woman that you thought was asian. You really love her. You hit the extra prize by getting a sweet girl that you think is asian. Well she is not asian. Do you dump her, because she is not asian and has tricked you?
Yes it is racist. If it is not racist it sure is stupid. You guys are just saying.... "Gee, she is a nice girl, considerate, nice body, petite, too bad she ain't asian" It is no different from a white guy who won't even consider dating a black woman, just because she is black. Yet another example a white guy has 2 choices only. A nice and hot black girl or a bitchy and hot white girl. He will pick the white girl, because she is white. Sure she is a bitch, but she "IS" white. Yes, he could choice to pick neither girl. Leaving empty handed is just dumb.
sassfire
11-10-2006, 09:21 PM
If I dated a race that I have never dated before. I will give it a chance. I'm not going to say no at the get go. Who knows, he may be the perfect guy. I won't find out if I don't at least give him a chance.
greentea
11-10-2006, 10:56 PM
That may be true, but how is it racist to prefer Asian women over other women?
Its not racist,some girls are just bitter that Asian dancers get more attention.
greentea
11-10-2006, 11:01 PM
Again, it's one thing to respond to a clientele on a business front, scream queen. My blonde friend gets blonde fetishists all the time as a stripper. What she doesn't do is date blonde fetishits. Would a guy that says "I only date asian women because I like the way they look?" Or would that come off creepy to you? You may dance for a guy that says that, but dancers dance for guys they don't care about. It's how you make money. Just because you dance for them, doesn't mean you have to like or agree with their attitude. I'm not down on women that dance for any guy- that's how you make money. As a bartender, I didn't throw drinks in the guys faces. My job is to serve drinks. That's not to say that I can't speak out against shitty attitudes I see with some men. I'm not down on women that date interracially. I've done so on different occasions. I'm not down on the women, I'm down on men that have racist fetishisms - and not all men that date out of their race are fetishists or racists. However, men like greentea that have this savior and romaticizing complex about saving us poor asian women and being a knight in shining armor from mean asian parents, can go screw themselves on a splinter-filled pole.
If you read carefully, I'm not again interracial relationships or same-race relationships. I'm against people that assume one is better than the other- and you don't, unlike this greenpee here.
I never said interracial relationships are "better",you should try READING my posts.I simply said I think its great when people cross racial lines to be with each other,there are certain barriers that are there when 2 people from different races date each other,and I think its great that some people dont care and date anyhow.
My preference is Asian women,they are my type,simple as that.Im not racist for that,Id be friends with any race,I have friends of all colors.But when it comes to who I date I prefer the look of Asian girls.Sorry that offends you so much.
Againm,EVERYONE has thier "type",there are certain aspects of women they prefer,may it be blonde hair,blue eyes,slanted eyes,dark sin etc...everyone has thier "thing",just because I prefer the looks of asian women doesnt make me a "moron",if you dont like inter-mixing,thats fine,but no need to call someone stupid for deciding to intermix.
And where in the world did you get the idea that I want to "save" Asian women from thier parents? get real.Your just crazy.I think your inserting your own stereotypes into this,I never even implyed that.Just admit your true feelings that you dont like white guys dating asians.
greentea
11-10-2006, 11:06 PM
You don't limit yourself to Indians guys, and you also haven't said things like "interracial relationships are more romantic than same-race relationships. Oooh, like Romeo and Juliet.
so what do you think of those Asian guys who call Asian girls "sell outs" when they date White guys? thats ok to you?
sassfire
11-10-2006, 11:10 PM
My preference is Asian women,they are my type,simple as that.Im not racist for that,Id be friends with any race,I have friends of all colors.But when it comes to who I date I prefer the look of Asian girls.Sorry that offends you so much.
Not piss, just find it limiting. Some closet racist white people use that same line when refering to blacks. "I have lots of black friends. I prefer the look of whites, and I think that only whites have good looks." Gee thanks for blessing the other folks with your presence.
Once while working in a casino as a change girl, this old white man with a thick southern accent said to me with no hesitation... "Damn (surprised)? You sure are pretty for a black girl". As if I lost attractive points because I'm black. I didn't know what the hell to say to that dumb comment.
greentea
11-10-2006, 11:12 PM
Not piss, just find it limiting. Some closet racist white people use that same line when refering to blacks. "I have lots of black friends. I prefer the look of whites, and I think that only whites have good looks." Gee thanks for blessing the other folks with your presence.
Once while working in a casino as a change girl, this old white man with a thick southern accent said to me with no hesitation... "Damn (surprised)? You sure are pretty for a black girl". As if I lost attractive points because I'm black. I didn't know what the hell to say to that dumb comment.
so if I choose to limit myself whats it to you? Theres plenty of Asian women out there,not exactly limiting anyhow.
yeah and saying "your pretty for a black" is very rude,I agree with you there.Im not like that,I think ALL races are pretty in thier own respects,however I prefer to date Asians.
sassfire
11-10-2006, 11:21 PM
Nothing to me. I guess if your happy to be like that then more power to ya. When I try to limit myself, I just can't bring myself to it. I love men, all men. Treat me good and give me good sex, plus you look f'n hot. I'm yours. Wish I could be more like you green, I'm just too weak, at least you are focused.
kittenkat
11-10-2006, 11:49 PM
Hey greenpea, I'm asian, and I've dated out. I'm not a fan of men calling women sellouts, either- but you're the opposite spectrum of the same idiocy. If you don't see it, your intelligence (and lack thereof) is not worth wasting my time on.
Greenleaf, do what you want. I could care less, but I can find your fetishistic POV to be assinine, and I can say so. Positive racism sucks as much as negative racism.
Than simply dating your own race which is the "safe boring thing" to do.In my opinin I think its more romantic to date outside your race
You're the ones making generalizations. Relationships are complex- race is only but one facet of a relationship. You're simplifying and romanticizing interracial relationships, which is as retarted as those that do the same to same-race relationships. Race of the partners does not make a relationship any more romantic. That's my point.
sassfire
11-11-2006, 01:05 AM
Once upon a time this "was" an innocent thread praising the glory of asian women. When, where, and how did it turn? What a way to burst a guy's bubble.
TheSexKitten
11-11-2006, 02:44 AM
Than simply dating your own race which is the "safe boring thing" to do.In my opinin I think its more romantic to date outside your race
That's a ridiculously asinine statement. Race has nothing to do with the amount of romance in a relationship. Granted, I'll give points that cultures which make interracial dating a hardship are more thrilling in a sense, but color and facial features aren't anything to get all excited about.
I live in a predominantly Asian military town. People date Asians all the time here. People date whites. People date blacks. People date Latinos/Afghanis/Somalians/etc. No one blinks an eye here, maybe some backwards-minded parents but even that's few and far between. And let me tell you, the relationships aren't any more romantic than your run-of-the-mill relationship.
greentea
11-11-2006, 04:07 AM
Hey greenpea, I'm asian, and I've dated out. I'm not a fan of men calling women sellouts, either- but you're the opposite spectrum of the same idiocy. If you don't see it, your intelligence (and lack thereof) is not worth wasting my time on.
Greenleaf, do what you want. I could care less, but I can find your fetishistic POV to be assinine, and I can say so. Positive racism sucks as much as negative racism.
You're the ones making generalizations. Relationships are complex- race is only but one facet of a relationship. You're simplifying and romanticizing interracial relationships, which is as retarted as those that do the same to same-race relationships. Race of the partners does not make a relationship any more romantic. That's my point.
ok point taken,however your "simplifying" interracial relatinships just as much as I am by saying that all guys who prefer Asian women just have a "fetish",and somehow its just not as "real" as someone who doesnt have a preference.You dont know that,your oversimplyfing it.Just because a guy prefers Asian women doesnt mean he has some wierd fetish,there could be MANY reasons as to why he prefers Asians.Plus I think its possible to have a certain type without it being a "fetish".
Look,in terms of being more "romantic",I think your taking what I originally said a bit further than it was originally intended.My original point was that I think its great when 2 people cross racial and cultural lines,regardless of what thier family and freinds might think,to be with each other.In that,I think its romantic,and its something same race couples dont have,thats a fact.Does this mean same race couples are "bad" ? no,not at all! I just think its great when people interracially date against all odds,to me,thats romantic.Its just my opinion.
greentea
11-11-2006, 10:30 AM
That's a ridiculously asinine statement. Race has nothing to do with the amount of romance in a relationship. Granted, I'll give points that cultures which make interracial dating a hardship are more thrilling in a sense, but color and facial features aren't anything to get all excited about.
I live in a predominantly Asian military town. People date Asians all the time here. People date whites. People date blacks. People date Latinos/Afghanis/Somalians/etc. No one blinks an eye here, maybe some backwards-minded parents but even that's few and far between. And let me tell you, the relationships aren't any more romantic than your run-of-the-mill relationship.
Read the post above this one :)
greentea
11-11-2006, 02:46 PM
Ya know I never understood why some people just cant live and let live.This thread started out as something innocent,simply asking why there arent more Asian strippers in the industry,instead its morphed into this "its bad if you only date Asians" thread.Why it would be anyone elses concern whom (or anyone else for htat matter) dates is beyond me.
Bottom line is,everyone has thier preferences,I dont beleive for one second that the same people who claim to "date anyone as long as they are nice" really live up to that mantra.They have thier preferences too,and date people based around those likes and dislikes.
Katrine
11-11-2006, 02:47 PM
Greetea, forgive me if this has already been asked: are you in the US or another western country? Do you prefer Asian immigrant girls? How about ones who have been here for possibly multiple generations?
Oh, and if this has already been brought up I don't care. I have such a huge celebrity crush on Ken Watanabe. Maybe its the samurai thing, so mean and sexy, rawr!
http://imdb.com/gallery/ss/0325710/Ss/0325710/lastsam-characterposter-1.jpg?path=pgallery&path_key=Watanabe,%20Ken%20(I)
greentea
11-11-2006, 02:50 PM
Greetea, forgive me if this has already been asked: are you in the US or another western country? Do you prefer Asian immigrant girls? How about ones who have been here for possibly multiple generations?
Oh, and if this has already been brought up I don't care. I have such a huge celebrity crush on Ken Watanabe. Maybe its the samurai thing, so mean and sexy, rawr!
http://imdb.com/gallery/ss/0325710/Ss/0325710/lastsam-characterposter-1.jpg?path=pgallery&path_key=Watanabe,%20Ken%20(I)
hey Katrine :)
Im in the US,Ive never dated a asian immigrant girl,all the girls I hvae dated have been pretty Americanized.I dated a few who were only here for several years but they assismilated into our culture really well and didnt come off as "immigrants"..in other words,enjoyed American culture,spoke perfect english etc.
I find it kind of ironic that Ive dated mostly the Americanized Asian girls,because it appears that the immigrant Asians,the Japanese etc who come over there really dig White boys.But Ive just never had the opporutnity to date one.Wouldnt mind it though.
Ive dated:
Chinese
Japanese
Philipina
Vietnamese
Korean
Cantonese
Indonesian
sassfire
11-11-2006, 02:58 PM
Greentea, enough already. I have a question why does all of your post refer back to the same subject? Yes, you do have a fetish. For christ sakes branch out a bit. I wouldn't be surprised if you decorated your house with asian nicknakes. When I saw your name pop up, I just knew you were going to post on this thread. I'm with kittenkat, you are pathetic.
greentea
11-11-2006, 03:03 PM
Greentea, enough already. I have a question why does all of your post refer back to the same subject? Yes, you do have a fetish. For christ sakes branch out a bit. I wouldn't be surprised if you decorated your house with asian nicknakes. When I saw your name pop up, I just knew you were going to post on this thread. I'm with kittenkat, you are pathetic.
Like I said,live and let live,If Im happy dating Asians,then whats it to you or anyone else? IM pathetic yet your trying to convince me what I should date! lol maybe YOU both should get lives?
maybe your just bitter because Asian dancers get more attention than you do? I dunno,but you seem to have an axe to grind about the subject.With that said,Im done arguing the subject with you,its stupid and pointless.You can go ahead and date whatever race you want,and I will do the same,sound good? cool.
sassfire
11-11-2006, 03:08 PM
You see that's just it, I could care less who the hell you date. I noticed that 90% of things you post about relate to the same thing. Don't you have an opinion on anything else? I am sure that you do have an opinion on other things, but no one would know that seeing that you are stuck in the asian fetish. Do you eat, sleep, think, and breath asian. Damn.
sassfire
11-11-2006, 03:10 PM
****maybe your just bitter because Asian dancers get more attention than you do? I dunno,but you seem to have an axe to grind about the subject.With that said,Im done arguing the subject with you,its stupid and pointless.You can go ahead and date whatever race you want,and I will do the same,sound good? cool****
LMFAO. Tell that to kittenkat. Oh yeah, I forgot she is asian so you just keep ignoring the fact that she repeatedly thinks and said that you are a fool.
greentea
11-11-2006, 03:12 PM
You see that's just it, I could care less who the hell you date. I noticed that 90% of things you post about relate to the same thing. Don't you have an opinion on anything else? I am sure that you do have an opinion on other things, but no one would know that seeing that you are stuck in the asian fetish. Do you eat, sleep, think, and breath asian. Damn.
Obviously you do care because youve dedicated ALOT of your time on here arguing with me about my dating habits lol Do you eat,sleep,think and breath my dating preferences. Damn.
sassfire
11-11-2006, 03:14 PM
Anyway Katherine, who was that guy in the Joy luck club? You know the one who sliced the watermelon and tongued it and did that girl right on the wall. Now he is sexy. Ken is old, handsome and distinguish but seems set in his ways old.
greentea
11-11-2006, 03:15 PM
You don't limit yourself to Indians guys, and you also haven't said things like "interracial relationships are more romantic than same-race relationships. Oooh, like Romeo and Juliet.
and I dont limit myself to Asians,I find Latina girls very attractive as well,I wouldnt mind dating a Latin girl.Something I have mentioned here a few times.Look in the 2 girl lapdance thread I started not too long ago,its about a Puerto Rican lap dance I got that was VERY good.
sassfire
11-11-2006, 03:20 PM
Obviously you do care because youve dedicated ALOT of your time on here arguing with me about my dating habits lol Do you eat,sleep,think and breath my dating preferences. Damn.
Greentea, I pointed out a flaw in your thinking. Funny how several asian women came on here and basically agreed with me. Yet you chose to ignore that fact. You are not the center of attention in this thread and you are not doing asian women a favor by dating them. What was that stupid thing you said to kittenkat again?
So be thankful there are guys out there that like Asian girls,otherwise you wouldnt be able to pay your rent
Oh yeah there it is. Get over yourself, thank you.
sweetjuices
11-11-2006, 03:26 PM
Sassfire, just drop the subject. Let the man like who he likes and post what he wants. I understand where he is coming from. I prefer primarily black men, I think men of other races are attractive, but I have a huge preference for black men. Every one has a right to have preferences, u don't know his background or anything like that. Just leave him to worship and adore Asian women if that's what he likes. I just don't see how criticizing his posts is doing anything, u can't change someone's preference, so just leave it alone. Greentea if you choose to glorify Asian women, then do so. I personally think Asian women are beautiful too.
greentea
11-11-2006, 03:28 PM
Sassfire, just drop the subject. Let the man like who he likes and post what he wants. I understand where he is coming from. I prefer primarily black men, I think men of other races are attractive, but I have a huge preference for black men. Every one has a right to have preferences, u don't know his background or anything like that. Just leave him to worship and adore Asian women if that's what he likes. I just don't see how criticizing his posts is doing anything, u can't change someone's preference, so just leave it alone. Greentea if you choose to glorify Asian women, then do so. I personally think Asian women are beautiful too.
Thank You :)
Couldnt have said it better myself.
Her and others have spent page upon page trying to convince me to like a certain thing,to me its pointless.Everyone has thier tastes,and somehow Sassfire thinks that if a few Asian girls "agrees" with her then it automatically vindicates what she is saying.Funny how shes using the Asian women in this thread to vindicate her own argument,shes basically saying that all Asians think alike and I should take what 2 or 3 Asians say on this board as gospel truth for ALL Asians.Talk about stereotypes and lumping people together.
As for my backround,I went to a prodominatly Asian high school and live in a mostly Asian/Latina area,so its no wonder thats what I am attracted to.But you know some people have to be haters and claim its just a fetish.And even if it IS a fetish.i dont care,I like what I like.
sassfire
11-11-2006, 03:47 PM
Okay, why are you folks constantly refering back to me. Several asian women here are saying the EXACT SAME THING. GEEZ wake up.
kdogg247
11-11-2006, 03:51 PM
Once upon a time this "was" an innocent thread praising the glory of asian women. When, where, and how did it turn? What a way to burst a guy's bubble.
This thread turned when you and kittenkat started accusing Greentea of being a racist because he likes Asian women. Racism is the belief that one race is inherently superior to another race. His post didn't say anything like that. He simply said that he finds Asian women more attractive than other women. If this is racism then almost every man walking on the face of the Earth is a racist, because most men prefer a certain type of woman.
greentea
11-11-2006, 03:58 PM
Okay, why are you folks constantly refering back to me. Several asian women here are saying the EXACT SAME THING. GEEZ wake up.
So because a few Asians have agreed with you that makes it "ok" to attack what I find attractive? oh because all Asians think the same so if 3 of them agree with you then they ALL must? ha! thats laughable! talk about stereotyping and racism..quit being such a hypocrit.
lookie lookie! even the Asians agreed with me!
puhhhlease,get over yourself.
greentea
11-11-2006, 04:00 PM
This thread turned when you and kittenkat started accusing Greentea of being a racist because he likes Asian women. Racism is the belief that one race is inherently superior to another race. His post didn't say anything like that. He simply said that he finds Asian women more attractive than other women. If this is racism then almost every man walking on the face of the Earth is a racist, because most men prefer a certain type of woman.
Exactly!
Everyone has thier own preferences.Im sure even the 'holier than thou" Sassfire has certain things she likes and dislikes in a guy.
To me saying I prefer Asians is no more racist than Hugh Hefner saying he likes only Blondes...they are just preferences.
Thank you for your input, everyone.
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