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Madcap
04-23-2007, 12:30 PM
Main Entry: 1prick
Pronunciation: 'prik
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English prikke, from Old English prica; akin to Middle Dutch pric prick
1 : a mark or shallow hole made by a pointed instrument
2 a : a pointed instrument or weapon b : a sharp projecting organ or part
3 : an instance of pricking or the sensation of being pricked : as a : a nagging or sharp feeling of remorse, regret, or sorrow b : a slight sharply localized discomfort <the prick of a needle>
4 usually vulgar : PENIS
5 usually vulgar : a spiteful or contemptible man often having some authority

snoopy
04-23-2007, 12:37 PM
that is just a stereotype few age good just like any race but a lot don't. I really have yet to see an attractive 30 year old asian female...my mom looks great for 68, definitely passes for -20 years. even moreso ten years ago.

i'm very grateful to her and my dad for my age genes. i'm 37 and can pass for a teenager (i've been carded twice recently! booyah! ;D ).

my ex is a hawt looking 30-yr-old. want me to get you her number so she can slap you down herself?


oh and madcap, "plick" is probably more appropriate here. :D

Bridgette
04-23-2007, 12:50 PM
Is it the "tiny" penis rumor?From what I've experienced it's not just a rumor (stereotypes exist for a reason ya know), and yes, that's it. I often find some Asian guys attractive, especially Filipino, but the small peen thing keeps me away. Sorry.

Aine
04-23-2007, 01:28 PM
I'm white and I've never had any issue as to race when it came to dating someone. One of my long term relationships was with a Filipino. I've also dated someone who was half Filipino half Somoan. I've dated someone part Japanese, one full Chinese, Mexicans, Black, and all varieties of white. My oldest daughter is 17, her boyfriend is Thai. There are definite cultural differences but so long as you can respect and appreciate the differences it's no big deal.

Snowles
04-23-2007, 05:05 PM
I'm a half-chinese, half-caucasian male, and I've only dated white girls. Granted, in my town there's not many Asians (I think I myself am a double-digit percentage). In the end you can't really generalize, it comes down to the girl herself. Just look for the ones who frequent the anime/manga shops ;)

TheSexKitten
04-23-2007, 05:25 PM
that is just a stereotype few age good just like any race but a lot don't.

UH OH! Here we go again!

Just to clarify: this is a compliment. Be offended if people say Asian women age like progeria-stricken infants.

:-X

Windy
04-23-2007, 11:29 PM
im a white girl, and i love asian men. If you connect with someone, who the hell cares what race they are?

Windy, i agree that asian women seem to age better. their skin seems to hold up longer or something..idk.

i agree. who cares? lol.

cottoncandy
04-24-2007, 02:07 AM
I've dated an Asian guy. I always thought that you don't see much Asian guy white girl couples because the family pressures the male to be with another Asian while the female doesn't have that much pressure since the son traditionally has more responsibility to the family more than the daughter. And the height difference.
I agree that Asian women age well- I heard Asians say they think it's because their skin is oiler than many of the other races.

TheSexKitten
04-24-2007, 08:31 AM
I think Jenny had an excellent point about Asian females being the more fetishized. Asian women have the stereotype of "oh, how kinky/submissive/feminine she'll be". Sort of how I've noticed black dudes with white chicks more than vice versa. Black guys have the "big dick" stereotype.

Just a little something to consider I guess?

Jenny
04-24-2007, 09:03 AM
Just in case it is unclear - I said what I said analytically, not with approval. I don't like race-specific standards of beauty, either of an exclusionary or fetishizing nature. While the OP would be way, way too young for me, I like asian guys just fine.

mild2wild
04-24-2007, 09:50 AM
asian guys are the best! compared to most white guys, they seem to be more sensitive, caring and the rest!

The biggest problem is meeting family of the asian guys, while his brothers and sisters and father thinks his a champ for dating a white girl, his mother always thinks the contrary!

I live with my partner, whom I love with all of my heart, and his from the philipines, and I would not have any thing different!

Maisumi
04-24-2007, 11:31 AM
ok and?.........
Like I said, I have nothing else to contribute. Okay and...?

mina loy
04-24-2007, 03:58 PM
lookswise, i am very attracted to asian men and i am white.

Casual Observer
04-24-2007, 04:06 PM
asian females don't age well and usually have large labia (yuck)

Spoken like someone who's never been face to face with the beast, so to speak. At least not more than once.

futuregoat
04-25-2007, 08:10 AM
Spoken like someone who's never been face to face with the beast, so to speak. At least not more than once.just because you are part of the very few that like your women with large labia don't put it out on me LOL


Like I said, I have nothing else to contribute. Okay and...?

ok then how is what you were saying contributing anything in the first place???


I think Jenny had an excellent point about Asian females being the more fetishized. Asian women have the stereotype of "oh, how kinky/submissive/feminine she'll be". Sort of how I've noticed black dudes with white chicks more than vice versa. Black guys have the "big dick" stereotype.

Just a little something to consider I guess? Its kind of true

most of the people really don't like asian girls for who they are they like them because they are asian. Same with black men you will mostly see someone like one just because he is black


Just in case it is unclear - I said what I said analytically, not with approval. I don't like race-specific standards of beauty, either of an exclusionary or fetishizing nature. While the OP would be way, way too young for me, I like asian guys just fine.huh? why clear things up?

I am sure you have stated "stardarized" type of beauty about bodies/body parts here or in real life.

KaliThorne
04-25-2007, 12:11 PM
I think Jenny had an excellent point about Asian females being the more fetishized. Asian women have the stereotype of "oh, how kinky/submissive/feminine she'll be". Sort of how I've noticed black dudes with white chicks more than vice versa. Black guys have the "big dick" stereotype.

Just a little something to consider I guess?

Yup, my ex boyfriend and boytoy before that both had Asian wives. These dudes were really into the whole fetishizing of Asian chicks before they realized their wives were psychopathic. So much for that stereotype.

And I have met lots of white chicks who are with black guys for the sole reason that they are black. I am not saying that all interracial relationships are like this, but too many are.

As for me, I have dated every single race you can think of. As far as body types go, people tend to forget that there is the most diversity within races. Like some patrons in the club don't understand why I don't have a huge ass because I am a black girl and they think all black girls have huge asses. If they would really get to know some black people, like my family, they would meet absolutely tiny petite black girls and amazons.

TheSexKitten
04-25-2007, 12:43 PM
Excellent and very true post on all counts, KT. :yes:

Maisumi
04-25-2007, 02:56 PM
ok then how is what you were saying contributing anything in the first place???
My original post was input made on MY behalf, which counts as contribution to this thread, irrespective of its content value. Whether you deem it to meaningful or not, that's merely just your 'opinion'.

For future reference, there's this really neat thing called a dictionary. You should use it some time.

Lysondra
04-25-2007, 04:24 PM
Yup, my ex boyfriend and boytoy before that both had Asian wives. These dudes were really into the whole fetishizing of Asian chicks before they realized their wives were psychopathic. So much for that stereotype.

And I have met lots of white chicks who are with black guys for the sole reason that they are black. I am not saying that all interracial relationships are like this, but too many are.

As for me, I have dated every single race you can think of. As far as body types go, people tend to forget that there is the most diversity within races. Like some patrons in the club don't understand why I don't have a huge ass because I am a black girl and they think all black girls have huge asses. If they would really get to know some black people, like my family, they would meet absolutely tiny petite black girls and amazons.

My mum is like this. She only dates black men because white men are 'boring'.... okay....

futuregoat
04-26-2007, 12:31 AM
My original post was input made on MY behalf, which counts as contribution to this thread, irrespective of its content value. Whether you deem it to meaningful or not, that's merely just your 'opinion'.

For future reference, there's this really neat thing called a dictionary. You should use it some time.that's the problem there was no "opinon" in your post you just said "hey everybody I am asian and I have a fetish for white guys that is all" that is all i was saying


yes i know you did not say that word for word.............



Yup, my ex boyfriend and boytoy before that both had Asian wives. These dudes were really into the whole fetishizing of Asian chicks before they realized their wives were psychopathic. So much for that stereotype.

And I have met lots of white chicks who are with black guys for the sole reason that they are black. I am not saying that all interracial relationships are like this, but too many are.

As for me, I have dated every single race you can think of. As far as body types go, people tend to forget that there is the most diversity within races. Like some patrons in the club don't understand why I don't have a huge ass because I am a black girl and they think all black girls have huge asses. If they would really get to know some black people, like my family, they would meet absolutely tiny petite black girls and amazons.

So true I see that all the time where i live...Its so common with asian females here. Guys date them just because they want to say "hey I was with an asian chick".

LilyLove
04-26-2007, 01:11 AM
that's the problem there was no "opinon" in your post you just said "hey everybody I am asian and I have a fetish for white guys that is all" that is all i was saying


yes i know you did not say that word for word.............



So true I see that all the time where i live...Its so common with asian females here. Guys date them just because they want to say "hey I was with an asian chick".

I don't see any kind of problem with what Maisumi wrote. She may have only had a little thing to say, but whatever. She basically said what a lot of other people have said in this thread: "I'm one race and I've fucked some other races." Only she said it more concisely. So stop being dramatic.

Vinnie
05-05-2007, 02:03 AM
I'm Chinese, but i was born in the US, so I'm pretty much white with yellow skin. But I'll still give you my 2 cents. Hopefully none of this is offensive to anybody, I dont intend for it to be.

So the original question was something along the lines of "Why aren't more white women with asian men?"

Three things I can think of that dont help the cause:

1. Well first, comparing "Asian Male + White Female" against "Asian Female + White Male" is just unfair. Of course there's gonna be more AF/WM couples than AM/WF couples, anyone with a vagina can pick up a guy, but females are much more picky about their partners, unless they're hookers, but those aren't real couples so that doesn't count.

2. Mainstream Media, how many asian guys do you see in movies, music videos, and on TV? Not much. (Marital Arts movies don't exactly count cause that doesn't exactly help me get laid.) But you always see girls who are into emo guys, punk rockers, or rappers, because they're always on TV, so it's popular to say they're hott. I'm sure in a few hundred years when there's more asian entertainers, there will be more AM/WF couples.

3. Theres a lot of asian stereotypes out there and while some aren't necesarily bad, they dont exactly help either. How the hell am I suppose to get a date by being good at math? (I'm not good at math btw).

There's also a fourth reason I just thought of but only really applies to some asians and that's the whole parents/culture thing. I personally don't care what my parents think about who I date, but my parents would rather me date an asian girl though if they actually had any say in it.

So the next time an attractive asian guy hits on you, give him a chance, Asian guys definitely love the white women, I know I do :D

Then again, I love ALL women.

Kaiyla
05-05-2007, 10:05 AM
My two cents:
I was in a relationship with an asian guy for three and a half years. We had a decent relationship but his family's opinion of me interfered often. His mom "didn't like me," since I was not asian. I was a good girl but apparently all his mom cared about was my ethnicity, privately referring to us as "crazy white people." The irony is that he is now engaged and has a child with an asian girl -and she's a f*ckiing hellraiser. He and I were speaking on the phone and I told him "your mom must be in her glory." He didn't say anything.
She made things really dififcult and I'm glad to not be around that kind of prejudice anymore.
I've spoken to other girls who have dated AM and they agree -sometimes these guys' families can make it really difficult if they have this same fixation my ex's mom did. NOT something I'd ever choose to get into again.:-\

Hatshepsut
05-05-2007, 11:05 AM
^I hear you on the families. I had to break things off with a Chinese guy because his grandpa was in Nanjing when the massacre occurred. His Yeh-yeh hated Japanese people with a passion, and would have disowned him had he known. The guy I dated also had a tendency to get hooked up with crazy Asian girls by his family.

madmaxine
05-05-2007, 12:44 PM
^I hear you on the families. I had to break things off with a Chinese guy because his grandpa was in Nanjing when the massacre occurred. His Yeh-yeh hated Japanese people with a passion, and would have disowned him had he known. The guy I dated also had a tendency to get hooked up with crazy Asian girls by his family.

Not uncommon. I worked with a British girl who claimed her veteran grandfather would have disowned her had he known she had been working for an Asian automaker. He saw some terrible things during World War 2.

I've noticed the Hmong & Vietnamese back home (California) are a little more casual in letting their kids date out of their races...might be that they're from colonized races, or that they're hoping their kids will "marry up"....

Back to the OP topic.....As for the guy "size" thing, I've been with one it was all good.

Vinnie
05-05-2007, 02:26 PM
I had a white girlfriend a couple years ago, my mom said she was pretty.

Windy
05-18-2007, 02:25 AM
that is just a stereotype few age good just like any race but a lot don't. I really have yet to see an attractive 30 year old asian female......

yes and men have different sized gentials too what is your point?/:O


ok and?.........

haha yet to see an attractive 30 year old asian female?

puh lease. im sure that any "attractive to your eyes" asian female u saw probably WAS 30! most of the time u cant tell!!!!!

visit hawaii. ull see tons.

i KNOW men and women have different sized genitals...so why did u bring up asian woman all have "large" labias in the first place, then???

if u personaly dont diig asian females, keep yer rude opinons bout them to yerself or go somwhere wehre you're SURE That NO asian females will be...cuz apparently there are a few on here! i dont know what nationaly YOU are, but im sure u wudnt apperiate anyone on here badmouthing and sterotyping whatever race u are.

kittenkat
05-18-2007, 04:30 AM
Hatsheput and Jenny- great posts.

As for the asian penis thing- I've talked to several urologists- they seen peen- erect and flaccid all day long- and they say there's no race correlation to penis sizes. The smallest dick I ever saw was a black guy, and after him, a white guy. Does that mean black and white guys have small dicks- no. Unless you've seen thousands, you're just having a bad run. My friend works for Trojan, and they've done studies of penis sizes for their product line where the participants were measured by someone else, not self-measured, for accuracy. Granted, most of their study was done on men 18-25, but their study concluded a less than 1/4" difference between races once the numbers were tallyed up. In fact, in terms of girth average, caucasian men came in last, but again, the differences were really small.

kittenkat
05-18-2007, 04:34 AM
To the OP- I think the fetishizing and parental pressure is a one-two punch in terms of the interracial disparity. I know a lot of asian parents would accept a white guy over a white girl, for example, and I just don't get it.

On the other hand, being Asian, I've had some of my white, black and hispanic boyfriends' families not care for my race- so it isn't just asians that are strict about who you date. The worst was a greek guy that I went on 2 dates with. Fuck if his parents didn't wanna shoot me down with the laser shooting out of their eyes.

Corgan
05-18-2007, 05:30 AM
my boyfriend is half phillipino and i think he's sexy as fuck. i don't like WHITE guys... i don't really care for BLACK guys either.

i'm a fan of the brown boys :)

Sirona
05-18-2007, 05:56 AM
I like asian guys. I've dated Laotian, Filipino and Korean guys.