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Daniela
10-31-2006, 01:01 PM
Yeah, I'm a slut..

This year: 4 men and 5 girls... I'm a swinger, I dunno, seems like I can only get off on freaky shit, now. I found my group, so I'm happy :D

Lifetime: I'm sure under 50..I hope :O

JennyDahl
10-31-2006, 01:35 PM
Hmmm , i don't know what to make of this .....is everyone really being honest ?? I guess it doesn't matter either way .

I have no idea how many guys I have slept with in the last 13yrs but I know that number is going to keep growing . I have been celibate for 14 months now , on purpose . I just wanted sometime for myself and it has really been amazing , my garden looks great and my house is so clean !!

From July of 04' to august of 05' I slept with I think 11 , I feel like I am forgetting someone though .....so maybe 12 . I haven't been with anyone since August of last year though . and for 3.5 yrs before that I had only been with one guy ......before that I really have no idea though .


None of you are sluts and neither am I .

danni0316
10-31-2006, 01:35 PM
Hmm, I have to say between 20 and 30. Geez I am only 24... does that make me a slut?

Daniela
10-31-2006, 02:49 PM
Hmm, I have to say between 20 and 30. Geez I am only 24... does that make me a slut?

Yes you are, and I’m sooo proud of YOU! (as Daniela takes Danni’s head in her hands, kisses her on the forehead and gives her a big hug).

Seriously, Fck it.. As long as you are SAFE and fucking because you want to, who cares

miss marina
10-31-2006, 02:59 PM
"From what i can see, none of you are getting any"


that would be me!! haha

blondi553
10-31-2006, 03:27 PM
i only count 1....but i have cheated (only once) and if u count that it would be two....but it sucked anyways!!!!!

Bridgette
10-31-2006, 04:37 PM
You know, this thread just makes me think about the BS double standards again between men and women. Here we are, a bunch of women supposedly comfortable with our sexuality, and a whole lot of us still won't tell our numbers. That is definitely a product of the way we've been taught that girls are supposed to be virginal and pure ::) I hate that!!

Vyanka
10-31-2006, 04:41 PM
You know, this thread just makes me think about the BS double standards again between men and women. Here we are, a bunch of women supposedly comfortable with our sexuality, and a whole lot of us still won't tell our numbers. That is definitely a product of the way we've been taught that girls are supposed to be virginal and pure ::) I hate that!!

I'm just embarrassed to admit about the "small penis guy". :D

danni0316
10-31-2006, 04:48 PM
Yes you are, and I’m sooo proud of YOU! (as Daniela takes Danni’s head in her hands, kisses her on the forehead and gives her a big hug).

Seriously, Fck it.. As long as you are SAFE and fucking because you want to, who cares

Thank you gorgeous!! I am always safe and always get tested. Sh*t, you only live once and nobody says anything when guys do the same. *kisses* right back at you! :-*

Emily
10-31-2006, 04:58 PM
I am comfortable with my number, but I just don't want to share. But I wanted to add my "it's a lot" because I wanted to represent the promiscuous girls on here (although I've admittedly slowed down in my old age since sex for the sake of sex has lost its novelty and bores me.)

It looked like only the lower numbers chimed in.

Hello_Kitty27
10-31-2006, 05:21 PM
I don't really know my number anymore, and when I did, I didn't really share it with many people. I can say that I was pretty promiscuous. I lost my virginity at 13, I'm 26 now. From the ages of 13-21, I slept with a ton of people. Probably not EVERYONE that wanted some, but a good majority. My standards weren't even very high :O but if I find myself single again, I plan on doing the same thing, except with higher standards and probably more women. }:D

Can I just say that I laugh at all those Cosmo-type polls that show a majority of respondents being with 2-5 people or something like that. Or when radio shows take calls about how many men women have slept with and what constitutes a slut. It makes me laugh and laugh. :D

krchab99
10-31-2006, 05:37 PM
I am a slut oh well lol }:D

Bridgette
10-31-2006, 05:45 PM
Of course only those of us with lower numbers actually posted their numbers.

So, just to break the trend: I am quite sure I forgot some, but I got up to about 55 in my count. I had my first at 16 and I'm 33 now. The vast majority were before I was 25; as someone else posted, sex purely for the sake of it lost its novelty after a while. I never really counted before because it just wasn't important to me, and when I tried today, I kinda lost track LOL! And hell, it's hard to remember all those one-nighters and short flings that happened 10ish years ago. I was in some monogamous relationships for 1-3 years here and there, so I packed in quite a few in my single times. LOL

I have also seen a truckload more cocks than I've actually played with - due to one particular job at a lingerie place in Texas. I would guess I've seen hundreds of em ;D

Girls: Probably somewhere around 20-30.

So there.

carolina6
10-31-2006, 05:51 PM
6 guys and 1 girl. I'm 24 and started having sex at 18. So that's 1 a year. Guess I better start looking for next year's catch :) I've had 2 relationships that lasted 2 years or more, one for the past year, and 3 that were just for fun.

LilSweetVixen
10-31-2006, 06:18 PM
Of course only those of us with lower numbers actually posted their numbers.

So, just to break the trend: I am quite sure I forgot some, but I got up to about 55 in my count. I had my first at 16 and I'm 33 now. The vast majority were before I was 25; as someone else posted, sex purely for the sake of it lost its novelty after a while. I never really counted before because it just wasn't important to me, and when I tried today, I kinda lost track LOL! And hell, it's hard to remember all those one-nighters and short flings that happened 10ish years ago. I was in some monogamous relationships for 1-3 years here and there, so I packed in quite a few in my single times. LOL

I have also seen a truckload more cocks than I've actually played with - due to one particular job at a lingerie place in Texas. I would guess I've seen hundreds of em ;D

Girls: Probably somewhere around 20-30.

So there.

:beer2:

asianlady
10-31-2006, 06:25 PM
well I guess I will blow them all to hell I am 49 and have had hundreds as a dancer and a swinger had lots of oppertunity and took advangage of most of them .I guess I am a total slut queen, most were fun but some were duds and some were absolutely fantastic given me lots of time and chance to learn what I like and need sexually thats for sure and still love it I am totally a new sex partner junkie the thrill of the first time never fades for me

GoldCoastGirl
10-31-2006, 06:37 PM
100 or more pensises is really not that many considering there are billions of people in this world... it's only a drop in the ocean so I don't think anyone is a slut if they've had even 300 penises in their lifetime... still a drop in the ocean.

I am just lazy. I don't 'hunt' for it actively enough hence the reason my numbers were so low (plus my year and a bit of celibacy would have hampered things as well as having lived with my parents until I was 21 made it hard to have a sex life).

MishaBliss
10-31-2006, 06:39 PM
I would be totally comfortable with my number...if i knew it, but i don't. I'm not a guy, i have no notches that i feel the need to count.
I have a friend who is 45, who counted her partners a few years ago. They were well above 300. Whilst that is WAY above my number, i am comfortable with her lack of prudence. She's happy, insane, but happy. Whatever. Sex is healthy.

PleasureVictim
10-31-2006, 07:02 PM
Bridgette inspired me- fuck it. Honestly I have lost count, but It somewhere around 50. I lost my virginity at age 17 and went buck wild for about 3 years. It took an abortion for me to slow down and gather mysef together. Thankfully I escaped clean...so I don't roll like that anymore- to much of a risk even with protection.

Hedder
10-31-2006, 07:14 PM
Yes you are, and I’m sooo proud of YOU! (as Daniela takes Danni’s head in her hands, kisses her on the forehead and gives her a big hug).

Seriously, Fck it.. As long as you are SAFE and fucking because you want to, who cares

Thats my philosophy. The way I feel is once you lose it that first time what matters after that? As long as you are safe of course what really is 1 more? Is there that big a difference between 11 guys and 12? Once you lose your virginity its over. I basically fuck like a guy. I'm not afraid to admit it. If I see a guy I like I will make the first move or get to the point. Am I a slut? Sure, i dont mind cause i'm living life to the fullest. I carry condoms in my bag and I'm not afraid to use em. As far as my numbers go I lost count senior year in highschool but I'm guessing it would be 90's }:D I lost it at 13 and i'm 24 now. So 11 years of sex adds up quick. I probably racked up the most during 16-22. I still have lots of sex now but tends to be the same people.

AkashaM
10-31-2006, 07:54 PM
I didnt think that anyone would answer this question. I'm 25 by the way, started the journey at 15 or 16. After so long it does add up! I think as long as you're protecting your health (and can handle it emotionally, thats really important) thats fine.

I agree with Bridgette--there is most definitely a double standard when it comes to what is acceptable partner count for women versus men. What amazes me is that people dont think that women can be as sexually charged as men. I personally just like variety--different ages, body types, races, situations. I'm such a boring person otherwise, LOL cuz all I do is read books and work. I use it to relieve stress as well--aint nothing like a booty call!

I did have period of time where I racked up alot of partners--I have slowed down considerably. but once my current relationship ends--I will be playing the field once again.

What is ALOT? 10's? 100's? 1000's?

I don't think anyone is a slut for having a long past, you had fun, right?

PS: I didnt mean to offend anyone with the question, I just sorta wanted to compare notes.

destiny2980
10-31-2006, 08:07 PM
I stopped counting several years ago. I started to add it up and freaked myself out.

JennyDahl
10-31-2006, 08:08 PM
Yeah !!!! I can't wait to start having sex again so I can add to my numbers , like most of you though I have stopped counting along time ago . Like I said in my last post from july 2004 until august of 2005 I had been with 11 or 12 guys . I think I am around 50 guys but I really have NO IDEA .

14 months of celibacy and I am ready to scream ...maybe I should try women this time .

Optimist
10-31-2006, 08:20 PM
You know, this thread just makes me think about the BS double standards again between men and women. Here we are, a bunch of women supposedly comfortable with our sexuality, and a whole lot of us still won't tell our numbers. That is definitely a product of the way we've been taught that girls are supposed to be virginal and pure ::) I hate that!!

Alright, alright...27. Ya, happy Brigette?!!>:( ;D

Jenny
10-31-2006, 08:31 PM
Well, not that many. Although, Bridgette, if it makes you feel better I'm not posting my number because I think it is too low. It's embarassing. It makes me feel undesirable. Whole new stereotype!

I think it's funny though, that women apparently DO self-censor their sexual partners. I realized that I do Scarlett's "that guy didn't count" thing. Like if it wasn't good, or wasn't memorable, or I don't remember (eek) it's like it just never happened.

Katrine
10-31-2006, 09:24 PM
When I was going through the 4th step in AA, my sponser had me write a "sex" list of all the people I had sex with. I'm 29 currently. So I sat down and had counted over 50 by the time I turned 24. Ugh, gave up, put the pen down and went out for a beer. ;)

I like to categorize them as boyfriends (<10) dating (<20) sex for money (<15) short-romances (<45) one night stands (~40) women (~30). That sounds about right, but I'm totally pulling it out of my ass.

CupCake
11-01-2006, 01:39 AM
I'm 18 and....well lets just sayi had some interesting party days. 5 guys ....erm i dunno how bad that is....lol }:D

miss cleo
11-01-2006, 03:03 AM
im 32 and i ve had 40!

MADAM LIZZ
11-01-2006, 03:53 AM
:-\ hey do ( strap-ons ) count too ( LOL),,,,, id say,, real cocks ( 2),, strap ons ( ohhh my lord for give me :-\ ) ive lost count ( hahaha)........ :D :D . HUGGS & KISSES ( MADAM LIZZ)

Isolabella
11-01-2006, 04:34 AM
I'm 33 and started having sex at 16. I've slept with 20 guys, and 7 girls. Only two of those guys really did it for me, and the girls were just mutual fun.

PaigeDWinter
11-01-2006, 07:59 AM
Due to my waning memory, I can only count 11 men, from 17 to now (29). I was a late bloomer with penis.... I had been sleeping with girls since I was 13! Oops.... I hate penis anyways.... BLAH!

susann_gardener
11-01-2006, 11:40 AM
Many, many. I don't want to think about starting to count. Contrary to many here, I think I enjoyed them all (well, some more than others ;) )

asianlady
11-01-2006, 11:56 AM
well I never thought about it before this thread and doing so I guess I have had three dates a week on average sounds like not so many, but add that to the 23 years I have danced and escorted and well the number becomes quite a few, thats for sure

FrustratedBunny
11-01-2006, 02:12 PM
Well, not that many. Although, Bridgette, if it makes you feel better I'm not posting my number because I think it is too low. It's embarassing. It makes me feel undesirable. Whole new stereotype!

I'm the same way. Not that many but it should have been more. I feel like a loser. But really I very rarely want to sleep with someone. Like right now I have absolutely nobody I'm sexually interested in. I've always been that way. I have to have a certain kind of chemistry or it's not happening. And I rarely find that chemistry. And at least half of the ones I have been with weren't even worth it so I guess they don't count.

Sinful333
11-01-2006, 02:24 PM
I used to be ashamed of my numbers and wouldnt tell anyone, then an old boyfriend once told me... "Never ask a man how many women he has been with, unless you want to get hurt." And I was more hurt by that comment than him telling me. So I started fessing up myself. Not to hurt anyone, but to just be honest.

Im 27 and I lost count at 65 men and 13 women.

I have slowed down a lot in the last couple years, and I am in a committed relationship now with the best dick I have ever had!! ;)

Mimi Mae
11-01-2006, 04:44 PM
right now I have absolutely nobody I'm sexually interested in. I've always been that way. I have to have a certain kind of chemistry or it's not happening. And I rarely find that chemistry. And at least half of the ones I have been with weren't even worth it so I guess they don't count.
I have the same problem, or at least I did. For a year and a half I had a casual long-distance partner that I was almost monogomous with because no-one else was interesting enough to fill in the gaps. It sucked. Fortunately for me, I started doing it for money and found that I'm much more likely to enjoy it when I'm paid, and if it's mediocure it's no problem because I still made a lot of cash. Damn convenient, that.

I've had 14 just for fun, which would have had to have been more if it wasn't for the paid ones. 90 paid, which is kind of low for two years of work, but comes out to more new ones per month than I would have guessed.

I keep a list. One of my housemates insisted that we make a cake when my total got to 100. :)

exotisch23
11-01-2006, 04:55 PM
I'm 25 and I've had about 12 :-[

wonderkitty
11-01-2006, 05:46 PM
I'm 22 and I've been with 6.

Rockette
11-01-2006, 06:22 PM
I'm 22, and I've been with 12 guys. Not that bad, lost my virginity when I was 17, and been averaging a little over 2 per year after that. I'm more of the relationship or even "fuck buddy" type. Only had just 1 one-night-stand and that was in Myrtle Beach 2 years ago. }:D

PhillyDancer1982
11-01-2006, 06:53 PM
Haha ok I see that a lot more people added their numbers to this thread, so I don't feel too bad saying my number now. (After all, me and my slutty friend Ed G. brag about our numbers when we hang out!) I started at age 17, am 24 now, and have been with...109 people. (all guys) LOL when I hit the "Centennial," I celebrated with friends and threw a mini party for myself! And the number of STDs that I've ever had has been...zero!(isn't that ironic?? I couldn't believe the test results myself when I got them! LOL. This is one of the rare few facets in life that I've been very, very lucky I guess.)

The reason my numbers are so high, is due to overcompensation. I was one of those unattractive losers when I was younger, so I didn't start dating until I was 16. When I was finally allowed to date and was finally able to attract guys, I made sure that my first date was this really hot 24-year-old guy(yep, the parents sure loved him! sarcasm)...hey, if I was gonna wait that long just to go to a movie with a guy, I wanted to make my first date was worth the wait! I wish I could say that I "got some" from that hottie, but unfortunately I didn't have a chance. :-( Because I got off to a late start with dating, I felt the need to overcompensate by jumping into sex. This "overcompensation" just resulted in the gradual development of a sexual addiction and an unhealthy dependence on sex. It got to the point that some of my friends recommended counselling for this problem, but I just laughed them off and went on my merry way. To this day I have not overcome this addiction, nor do I want to. :) I do not do drugs, so sex is like a drug for me...I actually feel more of a high from sex, than I did when I smoked pot or experimented with other substances. Plus, sex is healthier than drugs(as long as there are no STDs involved), and unlike drugs, it is legal(LOL except for the times I had sex in near-public places or with younger guys! :O) Lately I have slowed down on obtaining new partners, but I still keep around a few "tried-n-true" fuck buddies.

As far as the sexist gender stereotypes go...I can relate to Bridgette and the other girl who said that she treats sex the same way that a typical guy would. I act like a guy and am proud of it! But then again, what makes one's sex life "girl-ish" or "guy-ish" anyway? I could never understand why it was "slutty" for a girl to have many sex partners, but "studly" for a guy to do the same thing. To this day, I disagree with that old-fashioned sexist stereotype and I try my best to defy it daily. I've actually gotten into arguments and sometimes even fist fights with sexist guys over this issue!

scarlett_vancouver
11-01-2006, 07:00 PM
Wow, I've got some catching up to do

tRoUbLeMaKeR
11-01-2006, 07:26 PM
This is a funny thread! :) I always find it interesting to chat with my friends about their number....

So I will add mine....I'm 22 and I started at 15 and my number is 23. As for the people I grew up with mine is on the lower end. LOL!

OliviaDC
11-01-2006, 07:44 PM
^Troublemaker, are you an army wife?

I'm under 10, mostly cos of relationships, and cos I don't really like new cock. Feels weird and all that, new guys haven't learned how to do me yet, etc. I like to freak and surprisingly not so many guys go that way. I'm always horny, but I'll satisfy myself and be okay. Most men turn me off anyways, really.

Eh. Penises are kinda nasty anyways.

Kaiyla
11-01-2006, 11:59 PM
28 years old, 7 guys. I have been in three long-term relationships in my life. However in 2004, I was 26 and single and slept with four guys within a three month span. I think long-term committed relationships are good for me in terms of keeping my numbers down, I have a feeling that being single just unleashes my inner slut. If I were to be single again, the inner slut potential is definitely there..waiting. }:D

Vyanka
11-02-2006, 07:16 AM
Dang, i'm ashamed of posting my low ass number in this thread. :P

I wish I had me some fun. *pouts*

krchab99
11-02-2006, 07:36 AM
This is a very intreasting thread i would post my details but my avatar is not as private as i would like it to be to post that but it would also be intreasting to see the number of virginites people have taken or number of husbands borrowed I am not asking to people to post that info becuse i am not myself its just something neat to ponder.

britt244
11-02-2006, 11:21 AM
ok, im starting to feel slutty reading some of these haha.. im between 30-35 and in 21. i started 2 months before i turned 18. but now i actually want to make a list and figure out how many it actually is(haha, im a dork :P ). worst part is the only sex ive been having lately is with my trusty vibrator!

Green Apple
11-02-2006, 05:33 PM
Well, i'm 22..lost virginity at 19... and i've slept with only 2 guys! ;D

Paris
11-02-2006, 05:47 PM
Don't know, don't care. But I did "love" every one. At least for a few minutes;).

2 Chris's
2 Steve's (both evil!)
1 Rock star (before he was famous, A one hit wonder group that's not famous again;))

teeth_of_the_hydra
11-02-2006, 06:46 PM
I've been with something in the neighborhood of 25 people. I am 23, 24 in 2 weeks, and lost my virginity at age 13. However, I didn't start having a bunch of sex until age 19, and between 19 and 21 I made a valiant effort to straddle all cute boys I met. What can I say, I lived in a small town, so not TOO many cute boys materialized. Had I stayed in NY and put forth the same effort, I might have broken a record by now. Or had a baby. Either or.

I've calmed it the hell down recently. Since this very date 2 years ago, I've been with 7 people (but only 3 of them count). A lot of this is because I came to terms with the fact that I am an honest to god freak magnet and my interactions with men were making my life worse. Something about me is irresistable to the well-intentioned but poorly adjusted. I get followed and emailed and called and obsessed over and borderline stalked-- and sometimes actually stalked-- VERY often by MANY men. I realized it would behoove me to be more discriminating in my choice of partners, because I was creating constant misunderstandings. I would think we were having casual sex, but he would think I was in love with him, and then I'd have a problem on my hands.

But that's another topic entirely. PhillyDancer is my hero. If I got around that much I'd have been put into the witness protection program years ago because of the type of guys that I run around with.