View Full Version : Do you worry about getting looser?
I've had 3 kids and have always been told I have unreal muscle control and have had a few different guys go on and on about how tight I am. So no, having kids does not make you loose.
kittygirl
11-26-2006, 01:32 PM
Didn't you say you were still married to the guy you had the kids with?
PleasureVictim
11-29-2006, 04:08 PM
I always thought you got a loose coochy from having a baby. At least that's what my friend told me was the reason hers had loosened up. it seems like that would be the only thing that might do it since there's all kinds of muscles in there. In fact, sex might tighten it up since you are using the muscles. Who knows.
Vaginas can loosen after giving birth, especially the more vaginal births you have. It happens to some women, and not others.
Lysondra
11-29-2006, 04:14 PM
Vaginas can loosen after giving birth, especially the more vaginal births you have. It happens to some women, and not others.
You can actually lose complete control of all the vaginal muscles after birth (I believe it involves tearing of some sort)... and be completely unable to tighten... Kegels are REALLY good to do both before and after birth.
You do losen up... but if you've done your kegels it shouldn't be bad at all... plus if you do them after birth, it takes something like A WEEK to go back.
Vaginal muscles strengthen noticeably VERY quickly.
LilSweetVixen
11-29-2006, 08:37 PM
^ wait say that again, I didn't understand what you meant. It sounded like you said you lose complete control of your vaginal muscles once you have a baby.
Lysondra
11-29-2006, 08:43 PM
^ wait say that again, I didn't understand what you meant. It sounded like you said you lose complete control of your vaginal muscles once you have a baby.
You CAN. It's very VERY rare.. and usually you lose control of your bowels as well in this condition.
Sirona
12-01-2006, 04:45 AM
It's caused by tearing of the pelvic floor if i'm not mistaken.
It's one of those freak things that can occur during childbirth. Pretty uncommon though.
leilanicandy
12-01-2006, 05:27 AM
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leilanicandy
12-01-2006, 05:52 AM
You CAN. It's very VERY rare.. and usually you lose control of your bowels as well in this condition.
Do you know what the name of that condition is?
I also notice that when you breast feed. Your vagina seems to tighten. I felt super tight(like a virgin)when I did have sex.( But my husband at the time had to go back on the ship. not to long after birth so I waited for six moths before having sex). I also notice when you push the baby out! If you have your baby by vagina. You are more in touch with that muscle. When you have very good control of your vagina muscle. Your vagina will snap back into action. I think the vagina is like any other muscle in our body. If we dont use it we will loose it!
Sirona
12-01-2006, 12:16 PM
Do you know what the name of that condition is?
Uterine prolapse, cystocele, rectocele, enterocele and vaginal vault prolapse are all caused by tearing etc of various pelvic floor muscles. I don't believe there is a blanket name for it other than pelvic floor disorder which encompases all of the above disorders.
Saying sex will loosen you up is like saying if you sit a lot your butt will get flatter. NO IT WONT. Not unless you never work the muscle. If you lay down a lot, you stomach will get flatter, we all know that isnt true. Yawning will make your mouth bigger .. nope.
Normal use of your vagina shouldnt make it larger. Having a baby isnt really normal everyday use of your vagina. Things can get torn and stuff. If nothing is damaged during birth it shouldnt make you any looser. Many women have to be cut down there... so it wont be normal again till that heals.
Everyones body is different. Some people have small vaginas, some have larger ones. Soem have big butts, some have small, some people have small feet. It is just like any other part of your body.
Unless you practice strethcing, your vagina should be about the same as it always is. Stretching bythe way, causes damage which is what makes it get bigger.
Didn't you say you were still married to the guy you had the kids with?
Is this question for me? Wasnt sure but I'll answer it in case it was...lol.
My oldest is from my first marriage. My two youngest are from my second and current. There were men between the two. There was also others from the almost year my current hubby and I were split up and then got back together, and from when he and I were swinging which we dont do anymore.