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mermaidnz
11-15-2006, 08:49 PM
how did i miss this thread before?!
i love it rough too- choking,slapping and being dominated omg love it!
sounds really really wrong, but i sort of have rape fantasies- something i get off on in my head, but if it ever happend id be devastated. being held down and 'used' by a group of guys,or being made to perform sex acts gets me off.
slow sexy sex is boring, even with someone i love, id rather get nasty :)
Lola Rose
11-17-2006, 01:32 AM
Must be a rare quirk since this has not come up yet, but I absolutely love for a guy to suck on my toes. In fact if done the right way, sufficiently intense and long enough this alone will make me come practically every time.
LOL, he did this to me yesterday, in a fashion. the curved, middle kinda part on the inside of my foot, where the arch is, on the big toe side. It wasn't enough to make me come alone, but we were also having sex. It definatly kicked it up a notch;) It seems like such an intimate kind of thing. I don't think I'd let him suck my toes, but I love my fingers being sucked.
I also like my lips licked (say that 5times, fast) "like lips licked" and
my wrists the insides kissed and sucked.
Lola Rose
11-17-2006, 01:35 AM
If find that the best way to get a guy to call you dirty names without having to ask for it would be to say it yourself first... "i feel like beeing your little slut tonight" or " dont you love it that you got your own private little dirty whore" You know stuff like that. They usually go on and say stuff too...It's as if you are leting them know that it's ok to say theses things and that it the heat of the moment you certainly wont get offended! Worked for me in the past hihi!!
ahhhh! I'm so going to try it. We'll see if he picks it up. He's generally good at picking up my clues, so we'll see.
He's a quiet one tho. He says the funniest thing "oh ya" in the cutest way, it always makes me smile. I sound so lovesick, my g-d! I keep telling myself not to get too involved.... we'll see.
Tefnut
11-22-2006, 02:00 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jNhkzpFfMlA
I contribute my fetish! :D
Hell yeah i love long hair on men. totaly hot. Thats bar the fact i love being strangeled hit, spat on, analy raped yada yada...well its not really rape as i'm far to willing lol and a number of other abusive things hehehe
Lysondra
11-28-2006, 11:48 PM
Hell yeah i love long hair on men. totaly hot. Thats bar the fact i love being strangeled hit, spat on, analy raped yada yada...well its not really rape as i'm far to willing lol and a number of other abusive things hehehe
My partner won't 'rape' me.... feels it's wrong/can't see me cry.
Blah.
gothicgoddesstx
10-26-2007, 11:10 PM
Im really into biting and hair pulling... Uhm sex in public rocks my socks... On the shower thing...Meh i could really care less about him... Me i like to be clean i shower like twice a day most of the time so...*shrug* I dunno... I just like my sex fun and good...
Kaylinn
10-26-2007, 11:27 PM
I like to watch.
When my boyfriend and I go to strip clubs, I like it when he gets a dance on the other side of the room and I can "spy" on him. I like to think thathe doesn't know I'm watching, and he's being naughty with the stripper.
I also like to watch him bang other girls. Unfortunatly, it creeps the girls out to have me sit there and stare so we never get to do that...
I would like it even better if I could stand in the doorway unseen and watch.
LatinaRose
10-27-2007, 12:06 AM
If find that the best way to get a guy to call you dirty names without having to ask for it would be to say it yourself first... "i feel like beeing your little slut tonight" or " dont you love it that you got your own private little dirty whore" You know stuff like that. They usually go on and say stuff too...It's as if you are leting them know that it's ok to say theses things and that it the heat of the moment you certainly wont get offended! Worked for me in the past hihi!!
Haha, that's exactly how I went about it. Worked like a charm, highly recommend.
StrawberrySwitchblade
10-27-2007, 11:32 AM
Hmm...let's just say I'm a lifestyle bottom. My habits can be pretty odd.
I wear a steel collar. If my Dom grabs it, I instantly get wet. It's like flipping a switch. If he yanks on it, then it's all over.
Embyr
10-27-2007, 01:43 PM
oooHH good revival thread!!
hmm... well, IRL i'm a little hardass, but in the bedroom i'm definitely more of a sub. I LOVE being told what to do and then made to do it. I like having marks left on me. I like dirty talk to an extent- NOT when it gets mysogynistic...instant turn-off. But I adore rough, hard, hip-grabbing, hair-pulling, neck-biting, limb-pulling, flip-me-around sex. Mm-mm-good...
Of course, it's gotta have some variation... Slow it down for a few minutes, pulse it nice and deep and rhythmically... pull out and tease me for a second, or let me tease you... (*goes waaay too deep into fantasyland*)
ok, i need a 5 min break brb :P
wait... those aren't weird, huh... ok, how about... I like to see how much I can take. Feels fucking GOOD. My ex and I played with .. girthy vegetables once? I came a lot with a rather large zucchini. ok.. yeah... THAT's weird. Not a habit per se... but....
Yekhefah
10-27-2007, 01:48 PM
I think my weirdest habit is that I can only masturbate in one position - on my back, on the bed, with the covers pulled up completely over my head. I'm the most sexually open exhibitionist I know, but for some reason I simply cannot masturbate unless I'm hiding under the covers. I guess it's a holdover from my Catholic upbringing or something.
cherry_sin
10-27-2007, 02:02 PM
Um, I've freaked a few guys out by asking them to pull my hair while doing doggie style, or to choke me during misionary or if I'm on top. I also like being bitten, and a shower or not doesn't matter to me. Also, I like when the guy comes on my tits. Wow, ok, I'm starting to feel emarrassed.
Dear God... if that embarasses you I think I'm gonna keep my mouth shut about mine. LOL
EDIT: Strawberry, as always, I'm right there with you. Thanks for making me feel like less of a pervert. You're good for that. ;)
SundayMorning
10-28-2007, 04:15 PM
Hmm what's weird about me is that I don't do well with pain OR pleasure. Orgasms are difficult as hell to achieve; even if I'm all by myself and no one's watching, it takes me upwards of 15 minutes of exactly the right vibrations/hand motions to get off, oral is next to impossible, and penetration alone won't do it no matter what angle I'm at.
Sometimes I think that's why I got into pain, because at least I get a range of sensation with my non-orgasmic self. But I have such a low pain threshold for things like biting, impact play, nipple torture, hair pulling--y'know, standard kink. Mentally I get really excited knowing that my partner(s) want to hurt and abuse me, but physically I can only go so far before my cute little squeals of pain turn into safewords. I kind of feel like I got a bum deal with my body, especially since I know so many painsluts and multiorgasmic women.
I do really like mindgames. Psychological shit--fear, humiliation, helplessness, taboo subjects like rape and incest, that's the sort of stuff that makes me feel squishy in my special place.
ahmeerah
10-28-2007, 04:18 PM
very deep full slow breaths. it sends nonstop quakes and shivvers. i get high. when the guy does this too throughougt the pleasure is insane. I wonder if it's tantric.
Yekhefah
10-28-2007, 04:44 PM
Oh yeah, I have a fetish for the money exchange. I think that's kind of weird. Prostitution really turns me on and I think it's part of the whole BDSM thing; it's a power play. I get a power trip out of paying for sex and I get a submissive thrill out of receiving money for "sex favors" (haven't got the guts to actually engage in prostitution though). K can make me cum screaming just by whispering in my ear about selling me to his friends and total strangers. Sometimes I'll come home from work and he'll make me give it all to him, and then he'll make me "earn" it back (it's just a game though, I keep my own money in the end).
I don't know why this turns me on so much but it really does. I think the main reason I haven't tried prostitution is because I don't want to ruin the fantasy. And I don't expect all cute funny guys either. I very often fantasize about having to fuck some ugly, sleazy pervert for $20. Yeah, I'm weird.
cherry_sin
10-28-2007, 05:09 PM
Don't feel bad, I do that too. My Boy sometimes gives me like $4 dollars for anal sex or something like that, telling me I'm such a dirty cheap whore, etc. etc. etc. and I REALLY get off on it.
Yekhefah
10-28-2007, 05:17 PM
Ooh. K loves anal sex and occasionally I indulge him. Maybe I'd like it more if he gave me a five-spot and told me I'd better earn it! That sort of reminds me of the time we had amazing sex in this alley... he shoved a $5 bill at me and told me to hold it in my teeth while he nailed me against the wall, and told me I better not drop it because I wouldn't get it back if I did. Great way of keeping me quiet too.
And I dunno why, but sex with a woman is so much better for me if I'm paying her. Lapdances too. It's a good thing hiring prostitutes comes with so much legal risk, because if it didn't I'd be even more broke than I am. I'd be on Craigslist every day, LOL!
StrawberrySwitchblade
10-28-2007, 05:23 PM
EDIT: Strawberry, as always, I'm right there with you. Thanks for making me feel like less of a pervert. You're good for that. ;)
I try. ;D
Though you say 'pervert' like it's a bad thing.
greenidlady1
10-28-2007, 07:44 PM
I'm weird, well, weirder after sex. I feel inspired and somewhat emotional. Maybe it's the oxytocin released...:-\
ahmeerah
10-28-2007, 07:58 PM
I'm weird, well, weirder after sex. I feel inspired and somewhat emotional. Maybe it's the oxytocin released...:-\
That's cool. Do tell.
Lola Rose
10-28-2007, 08:08 PM
I love when we breathe together..... i don't know how to discribe it.... like, our mouths are so close, you can feel the other person inhale, and feel their hot breaths and stuff....... it's very sexy to me.
i also like to hold his face really close to mine, so his mouth is touching my ear. i love to hear and to feel his noises. it's so hot. try it. for real.
ok. now i want sex!
ahmeerah
10-28-2007, 08:10 PM
^^^^ absolutely agree there.
Kaylinn
10-28-2007, 08:14 PM
Ooh. K loves anal sex and occasionally I indulge him. Maybe I'd like it more if he gave me a five-spot and told me I'd better earn it! That sort of reminds me of the time we had amazing sex in this alley... he shoved a $5 bill at me and told me to hold it in my teeth while he nailed me against the wall, and told me I better not drop it because I wouldn't get it back if I did. Great way of keeping me quiet too.
And I dunno why, but sex with a woman is so much better for me if I'm paying her. Lapdances too. It's a good thing hiring prostitutes comes with so much legal risk, because if it didn't I'd be even more broke than I am. I'd be on Craigslist every day, LOL!
You gotta go to the bunny ranch where it's legal.
buffie06
10-29-2007, 04:19 AM
me and my boyfriend have this thing where hes my "daddy" and im his little daughter and hes molesting me. haha, sounds perverted, doenst it? i barely just told him this was my little "fantasy role playing" and he admitted he liked it too. he just didnt wanna tell me cuz he thought i might think hes weird...but i didnt tell him either because i thought he might think im weird also! ii dont know why, but it really turns me on :) haha.
its just fun...its not like i was really molested in my childhood, or i really think of him as my ACTUAL dad. just some fun roleplaying, i guess. sometimes we do like school girl and like older guy teacher..kind of the same thing, haha.
ok now im embarased, lol. at least nobody knows me here, personally. lol.
We do that too, sometimes I will be the mommy and sometimes I am the step daughter or when Im feeling super naughty the real daughter, lol. I have a weird fetish of liking to be told im not good enough too, that really gets me going. I also love it when my huband tells me he cheats on me and gives me details( he doesnt cheat, but I make him tell me he does), I cum in like a minute, I try to hold it longer but for some reason when i think of him cheating , I go crazy and get suuuuper horny.
jaizaine
10-29-2007, 04:30 AM
I love being fingered in the ass while having sex, it heightens the orgasm.
I also really love doggy style coz I get off on the guy watching his cock go in and out.
Yekhefah
10-29-2007, 07:35 AM
You gotta go to the bunny ranch where it's legal.
I went to the Chicken Ranch a couple years ago and dropped $1200. If I could afford to do that every week, I totally would.
Kaylinn
10-29-2007, 12:35 PM
LOL. Yeah...the only problem with clean, legal prostitutes is that they are pricey.....
But, you get what you pay for (usually)
This is the one thing I can't wait to do when we can afford it. I can completly get into my vouyer fantasies at a whore house. I can stand in the dorrway and watch some chick bang my boyfriend.
Only problem is..he don't like the chicken ranch. He likes the chase of picking women up in bars and he don't find it fun to just pay for them. to easy he says. I could care less how we find the girl as long as she ends up naked.
Yekhefah
10-29-2007, 12:40 PM
Y'all sound just like me and K, LOL! He gets off on the chase and he finds prostitutes boring. Me, one of the things I love about prostitutes is that there's no bullshit and I don't have to worry about saying the wrong thing and ruining it, and I don't have to spend hours, days, or weeks playing headgames. I hand you money, you get naked, we fuck, the end!
The Chicken Ranch does give you options with choosing your girl. You don't have to do the lineup. We went into the bar and ordered a drink, and mingled with a few of the women there like it was a regular bar. So when we chose, it was more like she was taking us back to her place.
phillyvixen
11-02-2007, 07:28 AM
This thread made me so horny, if i didn't already masturbate twice this morning i would probably be wanking instead of typing. But i'll answer the OP instead. I have a huge spanking/ humiliation fetish. I like to be treated like a naughty dirty slut and told what to do. I especially like when he tapes my spankings and makes me watch them and masturbate after. My husband is a big fan of the dirty talk and mfm threesomes, he likes to see other guys "ruin" me. As far as the showering goes we kinda prefer each other dirty especially him, he sniffs my panties and my pussy and butt any chance he gets and before i got pregs i liked when his balls were kinda smelly. (now it makes me a little gaggy) I really HATE to be bitten though, it makes me super angry and not excited at all. When we are in the shower we almost always pee on each other. Sometimes he makes me stand in the hottub or outside (we live in the woods) and pee in my panties then punishes me for messing them up... I love that! God i feel so dirty typing it all out. Sadly most of what i found amazing before i got pregnant has lost its appeal, i can barely take a spanking now and can't wait till I want to be "ruined" again.
NewMoon
11-02-2007, 07:40 AM
I love being talked down to, I love being smacked around, I love it when a guy comes on my face, I love it when he grabs my ponytail while I'm giving him head.
stellaforstars
11-02-2007, 07:54 AM
Mmmmm...let's see.
I'm such a dominating person in RL, that I will always be a sub at heart in the bedroom. I love being pushed around, ordered to give head, being told not to make a sound or I will be punished, having my hair pulled, my face pushed into pillows, by body slammed against the wall, etc. I also LOVE it when a guy comes inside me, though it rarely happens--responsibility and such. I also love being called names and treated like a fuck doll. I love it when a guy wants to fuck me 8 times in a row and shows no regard for how tired or sore I might be. I also love to be teased. I adore it when the guy refuses to give me what I want until I beg for it.
Of course, all of this is only pleasurable if I completely trust the guy and feel extremely safe with him.
SundayMorning
11-02-2007, 08:11 AM
This thread made me so horny, if i didn't already masturbate twice this morning i would probably be wanking instead of typing. But i'll answer the OP instead. I have a huge spanking/ humiliation fetish. I like to be treated like a naughty dirty slut and told what to do. I especially like when he tapes my spankings and makes me watch them and masturbate after. My husband is a big fan of the dirty talk and mfm threesomes, he likes to see other guys "ruin" me. As far as the showering goes we kinda prefer each other dirty especially him, he sniffs my panties and my pussy and butt any chance he gets and before i got pregs i liked when his balls were kinda smelly. (now it makes me a little gaggy) I really HATE to be bitten though, it makes me super angry and not excited at all. When we are in the shower we almost always pee on each other. Sometimes he makes me stand in the hottub or outside (we live in the woods) and pee in my panties then punishes me for messing them up... I love that! God i feel so dirty typing it all out. Sadly most of what i found amazing before i got pregnant has lost its appeal, i can barely take a spanking now and can't wait till I want to be "ruined" again.
This is so hot.
ExoticEngineer
11-02-2007, 08:36 AM
Oh for fcks sake!!! Kaylinn and Yek, you two really need to get your butts to Az!
You two are exactly like me. I love to watch! The first time I took my guy to a party I told him "I want to see how you hang with all this, so go on, go have a good time!" And I just sort of hung out at the party, drank with freinds and watched him play....
There was one point where he had two women on a couch, one riding him, one sitting on his face...and I just kicked back in a lounge chair with my drink in one hand and my kitty in the other. *drooooool*
Watching and being watched, that's mine. For sure. Add some hair pulling and spanking to that and I'm nothing but a quivering mess on the bed/floor/counter/pool table/elevator/car hood, whatever.
(oh yah, having sex in public places drives me nuts!)
Taylorlila
11-02-2007, 08:47 AM
I like being forced. I guess its the "rape" fantasy not that I'd actually like to be raped. I like to make him force my legs open and hold me down and grab my neck. I like getting my hair pulled and being bitten.
I like if I'm wearing a dress in public and he'll descretly put his hands up my dress and OMG that gets me instantly wet.
Yekhefah
11-02-2007, 09:05 AM
Wow, there is a lot of good material in this thread!
Total exhibitionist here too. Sex in public is the best! We used to go to swing clubs a lot and we usually didn't find anyone there we wanted to play with, but we went anyway because we loved to fuck right there in the middle of the room where everyone else could watch.
And Taylorlila, right there with you on the rape fantasy and the choking and being pinned. He gets bonus points if he can scare me into crying. For some reason I come SO HARD if I'm crying!
ExoticEngineer
11-02-2007, 10:34 AM
Hehehe, what a bunch of kinky fuckers we are!
phillyvixen
11-02-2007, 11:55 AM
Oh yeah, I have a fetish for the money exchange. I think that's kind of weird. Prostitution really turns me on and I think it's part of the whole BDSM thing; it's a power play. I get a power trip out of paying for sex and I get a submissive thrill out of receiving money for "sex favors"
This is so hot!!!
My husband paid me 700$ (my rent) to have anal sex with him the first time. I had protested and claimed i hated it (i wasnt really a fan at the time, but he is so awesome at it) but something about him paying me to do it was soooo fucking hot! I felt so dirty and used after, it was such a thrill. Now if he wants Anal he has to bribe me or just take it! I get off on fighting him and negotiating it.
I cum so hard from anal sex i cry and get really disoriented but i will never ask for it. :O
greenidlady1
11-02-2007, 12:40 PM
Wow, some of you gals are kinky lil' hussies.:P
KatGrrl
11-02-2007, 07:59 PM
Awesome thread. I am so totally, absolutely submissive, and glad to hear i am not the only one! I love rough sex, painful sex, LOVE it. love that i finally found a man who will have his way with me & indulge my fantasies without worrying that he is hurting or degrading me. damn.
ahmeerah
11-02-2007, 08:08 PM
This thread made me so horny, if i didn't already masturbate twice this morning i would probably be wanking instead of typing. But i'll answer the OP instead. I have a huge spanking/ humiliation fetish. I like to be treated like a naughty dirty slut and told what to do. I especially like when he tapes my spankings and makes me watch them and masturbate after. My husband is a big fan of the dirty talk and mfm threesomes, he likes to see other guys "ruin" me. As far as the showering goes we kinda prefer each other dirty especially him, he sniffs my panties and my pussy and butt any chance he gets and before i got pregs i liked when his balls were kinda smelly. (now it makes me a little gaggy) I really HATE to be bitten though, it makes me super angry and not excited at all. When we are in the shower we almost always pee on each other. Sometimes he makes me stand in the hottub or outside (we live in the woods) and pee in my panties then punishes me for messing them up... I love that! God i feel so dirty typing it all out. Sadly most of what i found amazing before i got pregnant has lost its appeal, i can barely take a spanking now and can't wait till I want to be "ruined" again.
Hot. Oh so hot.
Zinaida
11-02-2007, 08:43 PM
i love it rough too- choking,slapping and being dominated omg love it!
sounds really really wrong, but i sort of have rape fantasies- something i get off on in my head, but if it ever happend id be devastated. being held down and 'used' by a group of guys,or being made to perform sex acts gets me off.
slow sexy sex is boring, even with someone i love, id rather get nasty :)
OMG me too! Everything you said, I am totally in the same boat. ;D
pinkkitten
11-02-2007, 09:47 PM
i like watching my partner have sex with other women. i don't really care to participate, just sit next to them and watch. Or if he has sex with someone elese and then tells me all the details, i think that's hot too. i'm not sure if yet if i get off on paying for it or if it's just that i find it really convenient and easy, since there's no way the two of us can convince someone to sleep with us for free. i've also always been a fan of doing it in public places both with pople watching us obviously, and trying to be sneaky and not be seen.
Yekhefah
11-02-2007, 09:50 PM
Wow, I feel like so much less of a freak reading this thread.
I just asked K if, when I go to visit, he will take some opportune moment to hold a knife to my throat and anally rape me while throwing ones at me and calling me a whore. He was surprised but agreed. Now I REALLY can't wait to get up to Oregon and see him.
Lola Rose
11-03-2007, 05:21 PM
just please have him hold the knife blade away from skin, k?
Katrine
11-03-2007, 05:27 PM
I really need to get laid tonight!
phillyvixen
11-03-2007, 06:00 PM
Yek you and i have so much in common. I had this crazy fantasy after reading and replying to this thread that my husband anally raped me with his desert eagle (big gun) to my head. (No bullets of course!!!) I rarely have rape fantasy's and never with guns or weapons of any kind but for some reason that turned me on so much! I mentioned it to him and he whole heartedly agreed to make that one come true. (No need for safety warnings, he would never ever put me in any real danger and is Uber careful with the guns)
While on this topic at this diner eating breakfast with his good friend this morning I was teasing him about something and he said "You better watch yourself, I will give you a public spanking right here" I couldnt believe how ultra wet I got from him just saying that. I don't like being embarrassed in public, but the guy we were with already knows were are kinda freaky and it was a huge turn on. Yum, he is deliciously evil.
Yekhefah
11-03-2007, 06:03 PM
That's hot! :D