TroJaN SeTrA
03-29-2007, 07:23 PM
One night stands are just meant to explore the wild side within or just get sexual moments out of your system.
Ahh aruba brings tears to my eyes to bad the jacuzi guy didnt know what was in that water!!! lil foam never hurt anyone after the deed was done.
TroJaN SeTrA
03-29-2007, 07:25 PM
^^^
Yee-aah, I'm pretty sure that's an urban myth. I've only rarely met women desperate to have a boyfriend, let along desperate to get married (and keep in mind, LSV - I'm a little older than you. My crowd runs 25-40). Guys on the other hand - can't stand being out of a relationship for more than 35 seconds. I mean, I would suggest that is why you might perceive an imbalance - because guys would rather steadily date ANYBODY than nobody, and girls really don't seem to mind being single for long periods of time. Or such is my anecdotal experience.
Sadly its True ; ;
Moneywise
03-29-2007, 07:40 PM
I don't have any problem with a woman taking the initiative. If anything it's complimentary.
I agree. I think a woman that takes the initiative is incredibly sexy. I'm definitely going to "take the initiative" and I like my initiative to be matched or exceeded.
Johnnyk
02-24-2008, 05:03 AM
the double standard exists because i think it is true. the average being 16 for men losing viriginity makes no difference because number one it is mostly based on what men report, and two at that age thats mostly popular, outgoing guys who arent being bullied getting laid(often the bullies themselves). now i am not picky in the leastt bit i tend to get attracted to a large variety of women and a lot of women who i would hear guys mock their appearance or size i find quite pretty and sxy. i approahc, talk to women and try to get with more women than the majority of guys. u talk about minor shit like ur nose, i dont care if a girl has imperfections or is chubby because it doestn matter. even though im low bodyfat % and in shape and do the best i can with my appearance and wud never allow myself to put on weight like them. i was going to get nose surgery too but i would have to quit boxing and im still deciding which to choose. but im 20 years old and still a virgin who hasnt kissed a girl. u talk about thers diference between getting laid and getlign laid by who u want. in other words the men arent good enough for u but the women are good enough for us. the fact that the simple emotional deprivation of having no one who wants u to hold and make love to them out of their own will can be far more easily relieved as a woman makes a huge difference and is evidence that that double standard is actually quite accurate.
I tell my friend M--k to keep standards at all times, despite his bad luck with girls. He told me that with the bad experiences he has, that he "can't afford" to have standards. But if he has standards, at least he shows a bit of dignity and can hold his head high, knowing that he is self-respecting enough to screen his partners. THAT is attractive. However, him nodding his head and saying "uh, sure!" when I ask if he would fuck various different girls, shows desperation and a lack of what he truly wants and that is NOT good at all. how do u konw he didnt have high standards in the past for a long time, and realised it got him nowhere so lowered them. i dont think uve ever been in his position. some of us actualy cant affford to have high standards.
These days I'm both picky AND lazy. Another cute coworker was fondling my boobs last night. I've been wanting to hit it for a while, but I just sent him on his way. In a year, I've already slept w 3 male coworkers and fondled a female coworker (with consent, I think) so its just not worth it to add another notch on my office-whore belt. now u provide evidence YOURSELF that it is true. i woudl not be able to sleep with 3 female coworkers but u were able to sleep with 3 male coworkers. on a slightly unrelated note, i know i wouldnt have been one of the male coworkers u slept with. "hes just putting on an act of nice and is really bitter because he wait so long" ok but most likely he wasnt bitter before he went so long. it is hard being surrounded by people who succeed while u fail. this putting quotes on the "nice guy" shit i dont really understand, i am nice to people who are nice to me becasue thats what i do, not to put up some facade. i dont understand y some women on this forum pick on people who are nice to others just because they may have issues which they are hiding, as if u dont have any issues you hide yourself. wtf do u expect, for men to share every issue and annoyance in public like some fucking attention whore? no one is being a holier-than-thou martyr who tries to be better than u, they are just being nice, if someone is nice to me i am nice back.