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metal_n_mitsu
12-04-2006, 04:57 PM
I am technically married right, this is a very long and complicated story. My husband and I are separated right now, we are possibly getting back together, but he has a lot of things that he's dealing with right now, including a girl who MIGHT be pregnant, we don't know yet. That has to be solved first and foremost. And we are best friends still and he said that I should go for it as long as EVERYTHING is in order and this guy is for real. And by the way he booked me out in VIP the whole night when he came into the club. All in all he gave me a grand total of about $1800. But about my husband, yes I had filed for divorce, but dropped it when we decided that we were going to try and fix things in the future. But for right now he said that he will do anything he can to make sure I'm safe and if it goes to shit with this guy then he'll be there for me. This isn't going to be a long term arrangement anyway, I already talked about this with the SD, he doesn't want long term, he said he was thinking maybe 6 months. Time for me to save up money and be well off when our "rendezvou"(I can't spell) is through. Any other advice, or anything I haven't covered for anyone??

tampadancer
12-04-2006, 05:00 PM
^ heh, nice catch, Emily ;) I second what you said.

Chrissy68
12-04-2006, 05:04 PM
how in the world is your husband ok with you selling sex? i mean, that's what this is, let's not cover this up as something else. you are selling sex for the high price of 15K a month and a 75K car.

skoolgirl
12-04-2006, 05:17 PM
Any other advice, or anything I haven't covered for anyone??

Until you see a dime of this money or ACTUALLY receive a car, this guy isn't a sugardaddy. For now he's just a man making a whole lot of promises. Best of luck to you, I hope it works out. Do yourself a favor though and don't get your hopes up until you actually get the goods.

ExoticEngineer
12-04-2006, 05:26 PM
Metal, did you meet this guy at the same club you were working at a week or so ago?

Red Ferrari? Tall guy? About late 30's maybe early 40's? Curious if he is the same "high roller" who used to frequent my old club. If so...he's a nice guy, pretty straight forward. Good luck to you...and DO be careful!

PookaShell
12-04-2006, 05:32 PM
Ohhh Julia Roberts didn't even get a car! :) Who knows - maybe he's her Richard Gere. For a bit anyway. I would be skeptical, but I hope hope hope for your sake that all of our doubts are false. As long as you don't have your hopes up too high and you are comfortable with the situation, then just be careful and good luck. Like they said - get things in writing, watch your back, but if it works out then.....a round of drinks all around SW on MM. :D

metal_n_mitsu
12-04-2006, 05:33 PM
It was a Red Ferrari, but he wasn't really that tall....I mean like maybe 5'11 or 6 feet max, and I'm at Le Girls(yes, I went back I know I know) Just till I can try out some new places.

Blade
12-04-2006, 05:38 PM
how in the world is your husband ok with you selling sex? i mean, that's what this is, let's not cover this up as something else. you are selling sex for the high price of 15K a month and a 75K car.Shit if Dea found this kind of situation, you bet your ass I'd be cool with it. She sleeps with me for free, why not use the pussy for monatary gain?

Blade
12-04-2006, 05:40 PM
It was a Red Ferrari, but he wasn't really that tall....I mean like maybe 5'11 or 6 feet max, and I'm at Le Girls(yes, I went back I know I know) Just till I can try out some new places.Good luck, watch your ass and if ya ever need someone to send a message(like it's over leave her alone) lemme know,lol.

Deni
12-04-2006, 05:41 PM
Shit if Dea found this kind of situation, you bet your ass I'd be cool with it. She sleeps with me for free, why not use the pussy for monatary gain?

Why am I not surprised this is coming from you, Blade? :P

cinammonkisses
12-04-2006, 05:52 PM
I wouldn't get excited untill you are DRIVING that 75k and you have that 15K a month IN YOUR ACCOUNT.

Seraya.

Exactly, and make sure you get the car in YOUR NAME

cinammonkisses
12-04-2006, 05:57 PM
Shit if Dea found this kind of situation, you bet your ass I'd be cool with it. She sleeps with me for free, why not use the pussy for monatary gain?

Ah, this was the funniest shit I've read all day! :rotfl:

avacheetahs
12-04-2006, 06:10 PM
Any other advice, or anything I haven't covered for anyone??

So if you went on Tyra now, would you tell her the same story? All that stuff about it just being a job, and you are just a dancer

Tyra:"Do you have guys propositioning you for sex?"
Me: "When men proposition me for sex I explain to them that I am worth a lot more than that and that I will not be degraded in that way. I get paid because I'm a talented exotic dancer, nothing else"

What happened between now and then?

CuriousJ
12-04-2006, 06:11 PM
Although I do understand the motivation for money I guess I have a problem with the situation as a whole . But its not me so that doesnt matter ,I have seen many people hurt by these type of arrangments . Just be careful these men can have wives , and how would you feel about that if it were on the other side ? ( purely an observation )

JustJayda
12-04-2006, 07:00 PM
Okay, what's gonna happen is yall are gonna give the girl so much shit that we'll never get to hear how this cliff-hanger pans out! Can we at least pretend to be supportive???LOL???

We told her to be careful, and all the details that fall within that broad warning. I wanna know what's gonna happen. This is a Captain-Save-a -Ho (no offense 2 anybody)story in progress, and you guys are gonna make her not tell us damn-it!

PookaShell
12-04-2006, 07:06 PM
Okay, what's gonna happen is yall are gonna give the girl so much shit that we'll never get to hear how this cliff-hanger pans out! Can we at least pretend to be supportive???LOL???

We told her to be careful, and all the details that fall within that broad warning. I wanna know what's gonna happen. This is a Captain-Save-a -Ho (no offense 2 anybody)story in progress, and you guys are gonna make her not tell us damn-it!


:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Casual Observer
12-04-2006, 07:09 PM
Okay, what's gonna happen is yall are gonna give the girl so much shit that we'll never get to hear how this cliff-hanger pans out! Can we at least pretend to be supportive???LOL???

Great point, JJ. <S>

Just as an open question to the board members, am I more of a fucking asshole than I usually am because I feel like I've seen this movie before and said so? Anyone else seen this flick before?

Just a thought...

leilanicandy
12-04-2006, 07:11 PM
Ohhh Julia Roberts didn't even get a car! :) Who knows - maybe he's her Richard Gere. For a bit anyway. I would be skeptical, but I hope hope hope for your sake that all of our doubts are false. As long as you don't have your hopes up too high and you are comfortable with the situation, then just be careful and good luck. Like they said - get things in writing, watch your back, but if it works out then.....a round of drinks all around SW on MM. :D

I hope he is your Richard Gere. Anyway congrat! I think a woman is allow$17,000.00 a year in money as gifts. At least I think so. I am not sure. Please make sure the Irs will not confuse his money with your dancing money. Make sure I guest gives you something in writing saying this is a gift I do not know how that works. But you should look into that! I dont it you will talk to an accountant about that or somebody else. But good luck!

Miss_Luscious
12-04-2006, 07:23 PM
Well if he is going to give you all this money then can you be my sugarmama? We can have sex if you want. I'll even fly to wherever the hell you are. All I want is $1000 a week.

hardkandee
12-04-2006, 07:25 PM
Well if he is going to give you all this money then can you be my sugarmama? We can have sex if you want. I'll even fly to wherever the hell you are. All I want is $1000 a week.

LOL!

Nice sale!

JustJayda
12-04-2006, 07:29 PM
Well if he is going to give you all this money then can you be my sugarmama? We can have sex if you want. I'll even fly to wherever the hell you are. All I want is $1000 a week.

Shit, I can afford that now! Where do I send your W-4?

Magdalena_666
12-04-2006, 07:33 PM
I wasn't going to say anything but after reading all the post's I have to say something just doesn't seem right here.
I agree with the other people on here who have said that you really need to be careful before you jump headfirst into this.

When I was dancing I heard this sort of thing so many times it was ridiculous, and so did every other girl I worked with.. and it was usually the younger girls who got it the most. I always took it with a grain of salt. In my experience when a guy from the club talks really big like this guy, they usually never follow through. It's always the one's who don't tell you they're going to buy you the world that end up suprising you in the end with gifts and money. The big talkers bullshit a lot. It's part of they're game. I think if a guy has all that money and charm he wouldn't feel the need to brag.
Those who are confident with themselvers generally aren't as flamboyant in flaunting it in my opinion. They don't need the approval from others because they know what they posses.

I do hope this guy is legit because that would be amazing for you, but to be on the safe side, and to keep yourself from getting dissapointed if he doesn't follow through maybe you shouldn't let yourself get excited until you have the car, money, ect in your hands.

Either way, Good luck and please be careful:)

Vegas_dancer
12-04-2006, 07:52 PM
It is entirely possible. I had a sugar daddy. he bought me a house, and a car( jeep grand cheroke) and several shopping trips, cash whenever I asked. I asked for 10grand to move to Vegas, and he gave it to me.
However, we had an agreement for no sex, and when he started wantign sex, and I reminded him that we agreed to no sex, he began taking things off me.
I lost the car, I lost the house. But I still got Vegas, and tons of great clothes!

So yeah...get the shit in your name.

And really think about how this may affect you emotionally in the future. You sold yourself for sex. Sure, you get all glittery eyed at the thought of all that money, but in the end, can you look at your self in the mirrior? Is the money worth it?

Do you know what he is expecting from you for all that cash?
You know what kind of freaky/kinky shit he's into?
What if all he wants is for you to lick his asshole for hours on end?
Or if he only wants anal sex. What if he wants to have sex with you every day that ends in y?
You may be getting in deeper than you know.

Since it is a business arangement I woudl sugest you sit down and discuss ALL the details, on what you will and wont do, what he expects from you, ask questions. make sure your clear on what the deal is.
Good luck.
And if it does work out....do something nice with all that money.Donate a little to some charity or something.

FBR
12-04-2006, 08:00 PM
Its a good story either way. Sugardaddy threads are near and dear to my heart :P

My initial reaction was that he is bogus. $1800 VIP buyout is not chump change but not that exhorbitant. The Ferrari is a good hook but maybe his cousin owns an exotic import dealership and loaned him the car. Hell, it could be a 15 year old model and who of us would know the difference? I'm a little suspicious too of the "I'll give you $15K a month for six months". I dunno...a guy with that kind of money, seems to me, wouldnt put a time frame on it up front. Thats just not classy. And the OP, while very attractive, doesnt seem to fit the mold, visually, of a woman that a weathy man would try and secure as a mistress. And, if she was honest with him about having a husband, I cant imagine how he would comfortable with that situation. If he is what he claims to be, there are hundreds of less encumbered women out there who would jump at the chance.

The flip side, he apparently comes across as a business man of means, not some needy twisted fucker. She sees it as a legitimate opportunity and she was there to get the gut feel. That counts for a lot. It might behoove the OP to do some serious detective work on this guy. If he checks out, why shouldnt she go for it?

FBR

Katrine
12-04-2006, 08:04 PM
I know two girls with current sugar daddies. Sure, they give them shit like mercedes and plasma tv's, but they don't give them the straight up cash necessary for living and savings. They have to feel as if its a "generous gift." WTF, no 18 year old needs a $75,000 car. If this arrangement is for 6 months, ask for a sensible car and more cash. The minute you walk out of the lots with your car, it loses value. I don't know, if its too good to be true. Guys I've been involved like this with just gave me the cash and small gifts. That was my preference, but I've never had anyone actually follow through on extravagent promises.

Perhaps you are different, good luck :)

Katherine
12-04-2006, 08:24 PM
I hope for your sake this guy is real!!!!

(And fyi, it's not a 'gift' if he electronically deposits funds in your account. My girlfriend had a sugar daddy who took her routing and account number. He had money wired in each week. Our accountant said straight up that that money is not looked at as a gift. So get an accountant to help you with this stuff if you don't already have one. You'll need one now!!) :) :) :)

Xiomara
12-04-2006, 09:36 PM
i never follow threads but my own..usually....but im interested to know what happens. wish i had a fast forward button.

Lola Rose
12-04-2006, 09:46 PM
I'm also sceptical, but when your 6 months runs up, can you give him my number? No, really. I'll be his next victim!!!!!

Deogol
12-04-2006, 10:10 PM
i never follow threads but my own..usually....but im interested to know what happens. wish i had a fast forward button.

Yay! You're not in jail! ;D

TigersMilk
12-04-2006, 10:16 PM
Why do I feel the need to chime in which "Im Wayne Brady bitch!"?

twisterinAZ
12-04-2006, 11:40 PM
The car will be paid in cash and in my name, or no deal. He said that was no problem. And I opened up a seprate bank account and gave him the routing number and account number, his name is not on the account and the bank told me that he could not access my account at all without my permission or his name being on the account. He just has the number, all he has the ability to do is deposit money. And I am not giving him my address, I have a P.O. box if he wants to put things in the mail for me while he's away on business, etc. I told him that when we are together it will be at a hotel or out and about. He said that he totally understood me not giving him my address, he said there are a lot of bad people out there and I have every right to be extremely careful. I also told him that he needs to get my a seperate cell phone for communication between him and I and I will keep my other phone for what I use it for now. And I will still be dancing and just keeping that money, that way if it does go bad, I'm just where I am now. And I'm keeping the same apartment and everything.

I'm just noticing a lot of "he said".....actions speak louder than words. Wait and see what happens before you bend over backwards(pardon the pun)

FrustratedBunny
12-04-2006, 11:52 PM
I hope it's for real because that's a sweet deal, but of course if it sounds too good to be true it usually is.

I knew someone whose step mom used to have a guy that she married just for the money. He married her because he was gay and needed a wife as a cover. He bought her a house in Audubon Place (VERY nice private street) and an SL Mercedes and she didn't even live with the dude. But eventually he divorced her because she was dating my friend's dad and it was becoming obvious to everyone her marriage was a sham. She lost the house but got to keep the car. The dude was a raging alcoholic and a real asshole too.

But really, be careful. It COULD be true but it probably isn't. For all you know he bought that Ferrari with money from another woman who he scammed. BTW, what kind of Ferrari is it? There's a big difference between an old 308 and a 360 Modena or something.

tootsie
12-04-2006, 11:52 PM
^ heh, nice catch, Emily ;) I second what you said.


she just explained everything the post above yours, didn't you read it?::)

Sunshine73
12-04-2006, 11:55 PM
I would tread carefully here. Think this through before you do it. I agree with the others on here...
-Don't get excited/believe the guy till the $$$/car is in hand, in your name.
-Don't give the guy your address (but doesn't he need this info to give you what he wants to give you?)
-consider if you'll be able to handle the fact that you'll be having sex for money
-are you willing to do the kinds of sex acts he'd want for you to do?
-how is this going to affect the relationship between you and your (ex?) husband?
-do you realize that this man is going to feel that he "owns" you? That if you are not willing to do everything he wants then you could seriously get hurt in more ways than one?

I'm not hating, but, like with any highly lucrative business proposal, I think you need to really think about this and think about whether or not the $$$ is really going to be worth it all. Is this guy even for real? Do you have any way of getting more info on him (like doing a background check on him?) Be safe and do your research before jumping in. If he is legit, are you willing to jump through all his hoops? Because that is what he will be expecting you to do.

Don't be so quick to believe everything! Get the facts first! And don't deny your true feelings on this matter either. Lord knows, I have been very naive at times, so don't feel like I'm knocking you, but shit pay attention to what your gut is telling you and don't ignore your true feelings on this matter. Don't be naive! If there is anything telling you not to go into this then don't.

If everything checks out then congrats and, um, enjoy the ride!

If this doesn't work out, then it will be another one of life's lessons.

tootsie
12-04-2006, 11:58 PM
I read her post and didn't see anything about our input, but since you all insist i will give mine too. TRIAL AND ERROR! have you ever heard of that? Can you be happy for someone? or is this going to continue to be a bitchfest? I'm glad for her, why keep saying over and over again doubting comments? she read one, let it lie. Don't tear her apart.

twisterinAZ
12-04-2006, 11:59 PM
Honestly, some men have so much money they don't know what to do with it and for them it is a small price to pay for companionship.

Sure.I've known these types of men and they don't just throw offers like that at girls they barely know from a SC. I'm not trying to salt your game here, but I just think that a lot of us have heard these stories and men with that kind of money just don't throw it at random strippers they just met...sorry if that sounds harsh but from what I have seen it's just true. Guys that rich dont talk about it and the ones that do are trying to impress you to get what they want. A man who is as loaded as you have described and who is intersted in a situation like the one you are talking about would want to know more about YOU before divulging financial details . Think about it. Who has more to lose? He has money, a business , a reputation, maybe a marriage.... I just think the whole thing seems shady. I think what your fellow SWers are saying is BE CAREFUL. I just dont want to see you with your hopes dashed and end up feeling used. Voice of experience talking here.

tampafldancer
12-05-2006, 12:06 AM
Good luck with that. Although i always have my doubts I REALLY HOPE THAT WORKS for you.

Kinda like a fairy tale (without the forever ending) Even though its not happening to me the idea is always nice.

Well i don't know i guess the idea of forever in love is the nice idea to me. Sugardaddy was never anything i am part. looking for.

azdd
12-05-2006, 12:37 AM
I hope for your sake this guy is real!!!!

(And fyi, it's not a 'gift' if he electronically deposits funds in your account. My girlfriend had a sugar daddy who took her routing and account number. He had money wired in each week. Our accountant said straight up that that money is not looked at as a gift. So get an accountant to help you with this stuff if you don't already have one. You'll need one now!!) :) :) :)

Alexa - You also need an attorney. If this guy is actually going to give you real cash and assets, and you're still married, your hubby may have some rights to a share of it if and when you actually divorce. I would be looking for ways to segregate any newly acquired assets from the divorce settlement. Arizona is a community property state.

You could also hire a PI to do a basic background check on this guy. Anyone can run the plate on "his" Ferrari for you. If he is the owner, and the name of the registered owner is the same as the name he gave you, then it would be pretty simple for a decent PI to find out anything you might want to know about him. Cheap insurance if you ask me.

Best wishes for a good outcome, but like most everyone else here I am extremely skeptical.

tampadancer
12-05-2006, 03:20 AM
she just explained everything the post above yours, didn't you read it?::)

yeah, and if you check the time of the posts, we both hit submit at the same time.

Chrissy68
12-05-2006, 03:42 AM
i think lelanicandy mention that a woman is allowed to receive gift money.

here's the law: ANYONE, male or female, may receive a total of 10 K a year from a single individual without PAYING taxes on it. beyond 10 grand, she will have to pay gift tax on it. so, if he drops money into your account, you WILL be flagged by the IRS. and you WILL owe taxes on it. (you can receive 10 grand amounts from multiple individuals, but from one person to another 10 is the limit without taxes)

I REPEAT: YOU WILL BE FLAGGED BY THE IRS.


If you are not honest about the money received from him you will get into some seeeeerious trouble with the taxman and you dont need that metal. so make sure you claim whatever he gives you. once it goes in the bank, you must claim it. i knwo im repeating myself in a few different ways, but i want to make sure you understand that deposits that high will be flagged by the bank and sent to the IRS. little chunks, 2,3,5 grand even, are not flagged. i believe it's 10 grand that sends up the red flag.

I, too, think that this guy is telling you a load of CS, because, for one, he must know about the gift tax law. and why would he want to pay those extra taxes? good luck. and xiomara, im following this one thoroughly too :)

leilanicandy
12-05-2006, 04:02 AM
i think lelanicandy mention that a woman is allowed to receive gift money.

here's the law: ANYONE, male or female, may receive a total of 10 K a year from a single individual without PAYING taxes on it. beyond 10 grand, she will have to pay gift tax on it. so, if he drops money into your account, you WILL be flagged by the IRS. and you WILL owe taxes on it. (you can receive 10 grand amounts from multiple individuals, but from one person to another 10 is the limit without taxes)

I REPEAT: YOU WILL BE FLAGGED BY THE IRS.


:)


I thought it was 17 grand and women had more of a open windows than men. Well hon you will need to get an accountant. Of course when you recieve payment. Some accountants are worth every penny. It will be best if you hire an accountant. That is familar with the entertainment industry. You really do not want to be screwing with the wrong person. It will be hard to do your taxes yourself, when tax law changes every year. Also when you coming into a large amount of cash. When will he start making payments to you? If this year I recommend cash. Just put in a safe somewhere in the house. Because the Irs dose look at bank accounts. The bank to report your banking information to the IRS. If the law say 10 grand now, 15 grand will cause you to pay a little more in taxes. Cash might be a good idea with other payments also!

Bank accounts leaves trails. Cash really do not! do you get my point! But please talk to an accountant about this! He/She might carries some bright idea.

Miss_Luscious
12-05-2006, 06:33 AM
Shit, I can afford that now! Where do I send your W-4?

Don't play with me Jayda, I'll be hopping my ass on a plane to Phoenix in a minute!

VenusGoddess
12-05-2006, 06:49 AM
i think lelanicandy mention that a woman is allowed to receive gift money.

here's the law: ANYONE, male or female, may receive a total of 10 K a year from a single individual without PAYING taxes on it. beyond 10 grand, she will have to pay gift tax on it. so, if he drops money into your account, you WILL be flagged by the IRS. and you WILL owe taxes on it. (you can receive 10 grand amounts from multiple individuals, but from one person to another 10 is the limit without taxes)

I REPEAT: YOU WILL BE FLAGGED BY THE IRS.


If you are not honest about the money received from him you will get into some seeeeerious trouble with the taxman and you dont need that metal. so make sure you claim whatever he gives you. once it goes in the bank, you must claim it. i knwo im repeating myself in a few different ways, but i want to make sure you understand that deposits that high will be flagged by the bank and sent to the IRS. little chunks, 2,3,5 grand even, are not flagged. i believe it's 10 grand that sends up the red flag.

I, too, think that this guy is telling you a load of CS, because, for one, he must know about the gift tax law. and why would he want to pay those extra taxes? good luck. and xiomara, im following this one thoroughly too :)

Wishful thinking, however, you are wrong. ANY amount deposited into the bank will be sent to the IRS. Any amount. Its done so via a 1099-MISC schedule. If you earned 1 cent interest on anything, its reported. Also, if you have a new bank account that was opened with no opening deposit and then all the sudden start depositing $2500 a week...they'll report it due to the new money laundering laws (that are more strict due to 9/11). If your general style of living goes up (new clothes, more expensive car that is in your name...etc) but you are still reporting to make what you make at the club...you'll be audited...and you'll lose. If you get the car in your name, you are responsible for the taxes on the car, the money, and the value of any clothes that you get. Yes, he can give you up to $10,000 in gift money a year...but from what you are saying, you'll bypass that in the first month. You need to hire and attorney and an accountant if you really do get that car and that money. THE VERY FIRST MONTH. I would also have a background check done on the guy as well.

BTW...whoever said that an electronic deposit was not considered a gift is high. I don't care who it came from. If money is deposited into an account with your name on it...and you are using that money...its a gift. The IRS doesn't care what form that gift comes in whether its a credit card, cash, electronic deposit or check. Money is money and if you get more than $10,000 of it from one person, its a gift that you will need to pay taxes on.

In short, line your ducks up in a row and don't try to pull one over on the IRS.

doc-catfish
12-05-2006, 07:18 AM
If my memory is correct, I think that the donor is one responsible for paying the gift tax, unless special arrangements are made. I also think the maximum exclusion is now $12,000, not $10,000.

http://www.irs.gov/businesses/small/article/0,,id=108139,00.html

scorpio
12-05-2006, 08:00 AM
So if you went on Tyra now, would you tell her the same story? All that stuff about it just being a job, and you are just a dancer

Tyra:"Do you have guys propositioning you for sex?"
Me: "When men proposition me for sex I explain to them that I am worth a lot more than that and that I will not be degraded in that way. I get paid because I'm a talented exotic dancer, nothing else"

What happened between now and then?

Maybe Tyra is setting her up. Stay tunes for a "very special" tyra banks show!

KamrynAnne
12-05-2006, 08:57 AM
Maybe Tyra is setting her up. Stay tunes for a "very special" tyra banks show!

oh shit... that would be crazy....

Xiomara
12-05-2006, 09:03 AM
Yay! You're not in jail! ;D

;D ;D ;D

seraya
12-06-2006, 02:12 PM
Any update?

wonderkitty
12-06-2006, 06:50 PM
Why is it that now that I've met a handsome, older guy he has no money?

Anyway, I wouldn't be counting on this money until it was in my hot little hands. Don't go buying buckets of caviar or anything.

shakti
12-06-2006, 08:38 PM
Yeah, it's the donor that pays the gift tax, not the recipient. The gift tax is so people who have big bucks can't just give it all away before they die to keep their heirs from paying inheritance tax. You can give away a million dollars in a lifetime before paying taxes, but only $11,000 per recipient, per year.