View Full Version : Girls getting in your face after getting turned down.
cameronfl
12-29-2006, 01:23 PM
Perhaps we're talking about two different things. When I say a bad stage show, I mean BAD. I will NOT give 1 cent to a girl that's high, obnoxious, conceited, bored-acting, or rude now matter how good she looks or how much skin she shows !!
Well..like I said before, the exception to the rule was if the girl had given you a specific reason not to tip her...and being fu**ed up or rude would qualify.
My point was that you shouldnt not tip(if you are sitting in tipping seats) for reasons such as: you dont like her look(she's too big,skinny.tall,short,blonde,latin,etc......whatev er isnt YOUR type), you only like girls who do a lot (or no)pole tricks, etc...etc...
If she is up there doing her best, has not done or said anything to offend you, etc....she deserves a tip from all in the tipping seats, whether you think she is a 10 or a 3.
hot4ablackchick
12-30-2006, 12:48 PM
^^^^^YES!!!!!!^^^^ I am sick of guys who think they are entitled to sit at the rail and enjoy the free show. Like Cameron said, unless she is really rude, f-ed up on something, drunk, smelly, or commiting some other serious infraction, then give up the dollar. Simply because a woman is not your cup of tea, or is not the most terrific dancer is no need to hold on to a single dollar. Every man at the TIPrail should give every girl a buck, IMO, there are little exceptions to the rule. New dancers will not be able to dance for weeks or months and lack the finesse and "dazzle" of most seasoned entertainers. Doesn't mean that she shouldn't get a buck b/c she can't dance and may be 6 to you on a scale. If a girl is good enough to sit and watch, but not good enough to give a dollar to......well thats fucked up. Taking up prime seats for other potentially paying custies is just wrong, rude, and inconsiderate-we go up there for tips, show appreciation for the woman entertaining you (or at least trying to)
I didn't mean to rant but this really bugs the hell out of me, as I am often on the end of the I'm not gonna give her a dollar sh*t, even though I dance well, smile often, and at times do some kick
[email protected]* pole tricks. I just can't fathom why some guys think it is OK to sit and not tip. GRRRRR When I go, I tip EVERY girl regardless of whether she is ugly (to me)and a bad dancer. I may only give her 1 dollar, but I can't sit and NOT tip. If she is a good dancer or attractive to me she'll get more than average. If she is a good dancer and is attractive to me, then she'll get a BIG tip or a couch dance out of me. Any guy that sits at the rail and does not tip deserves to be kicked in the face.
jannisary
12-30-2006, 04:02 PM
And once again a thread started to highlight an all too common problem caused by some dancers is hijacked.
jannisary
12-30-2006, 04:43 PM
Sorry JZ, I've got to watch the posting with attitude. Its really not me, well at least most of the time.
To veer things back to the OP topic:
1. I think it is pretty pathetic when dancers get in your face in situations similar to the OP.
2. I also think its pretty weak to let that ruin your night at the club. Why let an incident like this ruin your night?
3. Does anyone have helpful suggestions on how to deal with these situations?
cameronfl
12-30-2006, 04:47 PM
Sorry JZ, I've got to watch the posting with attitude. Its really not me, well at least most of the time.
To veer things back to the OP topic:
1. I think it is pretty pathetic when dancers get in your face in situations similar to the OP.
2. I also think its pretty weak to let that ruin your night at the club. Why let an incident like this ruin your night?
3. Does anyone have helpful suggestions on how to deal with these situations?
If it was truly unwarrented behavior...you can either 1)send her a drink saying you hope her night gets better...assuming you just caught her at a really bad time and hoping this will turn her attitude around or...2) tell the manager and hope something is done about it.
Otherwise..people are people and everywhere you go you'll meet people with crap attitudes. I've gone to Publix and gotten cashiers with snotty atttitudes, Walgreens..I've had doctors, accountants, etc...who did the same. I just chose to not give them any more of my buisiness....or if it was somewhere I'd HAVE to deal with them...I informed the manager of my disservice.....it's no differant with strippers
crackncash
01-01-2007, 09:52 PM
If you are a regular at the club and the managers/bartender knows you, then I'd post a complaint against the girl(s). This has happened to me a few times and if they are in my club where I am a regular I'll do something about it. Whether it be giving you crap or trying to double charge you.
If you're in a new club, the girls may have the upper hand but remember you are the customer...you pay the bills and if necessary you need to act in a strong but polite manner.
Star Player
01-03-2007, 09:34 PM
Never had one get really angry after I rejected her exept one time I said to a gal asking me if I wanted her company "no I am just here to chill" then very coldly and angrily she said "well go chill then" and walked off. She was really insulting, probably she was mad bc she was not making any money that day. Gee, I wonder why.....
The truth was I had just got to the club and wanted to see what kinda babes were available before deciding on one to get dances with, etc.
Sexymama26
01-04-2007, 12:18 AM
Radar, I thought that was you. I remeber you. One can't forget that name. I went by the name of Gemini out there in Wisconsin and gave you some dances on occasion. You might not remember me. I worked at Vixens, Beansnappers, and Foxtails. I live in Vegas again. Just wanted to say hello. Fuck those girls. Your a nice guy and the professionals know it is only business. If your not interested, your not interested. Simple as that. Those of us who know what we're doing, don't take things like that to heart. You have to be able to take rejection and if not, then they are not in the right business. It may be because of the time of year and things are slow. Who cares. You can't please everyone.
cameronfl
01-04-2007, 09:15 AM
Never had one get really angry after I rejected her exept one time I said to a gal asking me if I wanted her company "no I am just here to chill" then very coldly and angrily she said "well go chill then" and walked off.
Gotta say ...hearing " I am just here to chill" will at least get a roll of the eyes from me as well. A strip club isnt a place to "chill"...people WILL come up and try to talk to you. Telling someone you are just there to chill is akin to saying you just came in for a beer...it will likely annoy us. Saying you want to watch the show for awhile before choosing a dancer is much better.
Star Player
01-14-2007, 09:00 PM
I try to be as tactful as possible but some will get hacked when I say "no dances for now - just here to chill and watch the show." There are times I just go to a nearby SC to have a beer and then leave.
Don' t let them intimidate you - I simply tell them if they get rude "hey babe its my money." I go to SC for fun and I consider this an arena where I am in control.
Your not gonna be scared of a girl are ya?