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Cameo
12-15-2006, 02:01 PM
Ok, so I was having sex with my bf and it came time for him to 'finish' so I told him to do it on my stomach. He does, and when I'm right about to sit up and clean it off, he leans down and licks it all back up. Is this common for a guy to do? It's never happened to me.

Any explanations are appreciated! :D

Jenny
12-15-2006, 02:16 PM
Okay.
You did not seriously just come here and ask these guys if they lap up their own cum.

Oh my god. I love you so bad. I just laughed so hard my stomach hurt.

That was awesome.

Cameo
12-15-2006, 02:17 PM
But I'm serious! ;D

I_luv_dancers!
12-15-2006, 04:38 PM
Ok, so I was having sex with my bf and it came time for him to 'finish' so I told him to do it on my stomach. He does, and when I'm right about to sit up and clean it off, he leans down and licks it all back up. Is this common for a guy to do? It's never happened to me.

Any explanations are appreciated! :D

Cameo,
Yes, there are guys who are turned on by that. It is also possible that the sex was so fucking good that he cast his squeamish inhibitions aside and was showing his appreciation. I am personally aware of a coworker who loves to eat his own "cream pies."

From personal experience, I had a FWB years ago who literally gave me the best BJ of my life, which I still remember. After finishing in her mouth, I kissed her deeply and passionately. Then I laid her back, DITY, and fucked until she had a big O. Never lost wood. The BJ was THAT good.

It's also within the limits of possiblilty that I would DITY my own cream pie. Depends on the woman and the curcumstance. (and ONLY if I was the last one that fucked her! ;) )

Hell, guys really love to cum in their partner's mouths, I figure that I shouldn't expect my sex partner to taste/swallow cum if I'm not willing to do the same. Same goes for DITY - if she's ok with tasting her own juices when we kiss afterward, or tasting her juices on my todger after I have been in her vag, then I ought not be squeamish about the inverse fluid exchange. No double standard here, I'm all about fair play.

Vyanka
12-15-2006, 04:56 PM
Hottt.

Katrine
12-15-2006, 05:34 PM
It doesn't do anything for me.

Jenny
12-15-2006, 06:18 PM
^^
Yeah, me neither. Moreover, I would say that kissing a woman after she has swallowed your cum is qualitatively different that actually lapping up your own cum. To me, the former is a basic element to being a man; if you are so insecure in your sexuality that you cannot kiss a woman after she has blown you, you do not deserve the label. The latter - meh.

I_luv_dancers!
12-15-2006, 06:19 PM
More on the topic:
It's all about communication. The best intimacy I ever had was when my partner and I were in touch and in tune. Synchronicity.

If you want something from a man, please ask for it. Let us know what you want, we'll do it. Guide us, teach us, communicate with us. You may be surprised what a guy will do if he knows that it pleases you - turns you on, if it will get you to ecstacy. Concentrate more on telling/showing what you like and how you like it, versus "no" or "stop that". "Do it like this" works better.

That's the great thing about intimacy - when you have that trust to let go and reveal your inner desires to your partner without judgement. Example: I'm not gonna slurp my own jizz of my own initiative - except in a situation to the one previously cited ^^^, but if my lover lets me know that it would drive her over the edge if I lick her clean after I pop, I'll do it gladly.

If it would turn my partner on to do my ass with a dildo or strapon, go ahead babe. (I had a female co-worker - a solid 9.5 - that liked to do this - but I never had the opportunity to get with her)

Lots of things are possible if you're willing to communicate your desires, relax and let go....

I_luv_dancers!
12-15-2006, 06:23 PM
^^
Moreover, I would say that kissing a woman after she has swallowed your cum is qualitatively different that actually lapping up your own cum.

She didn't swallow...:P

mr_punk
12-16-2006, 12:02 PM
Ok, so I was having sex with my bf and it came time for him to 'finish' so I told him to do it on my stomach. He does, and when I'm right about to sit up and clean it off, he leans down and licks it all back up. Is this common for a guy to do?yes, it's very common among men and animals. you know how dogs puke and eat their own vomit? well, this is sort of the same thing.

Okay. You did not seriously just come here and ask these guys if they lap up their own cum.yes, she did...seriously.

That was awesome.not really. OTOH, if she asked about snow balling. now, that would have been awesome.

She didn't swallow...:Pokay..well, it didn't take long to get an answer.

To me, the former is a basic element to being a man; if you are so insecure in your sexuality that you cannot kiss a woman after she has blown you, you do not deserve the label.perhaps, it's not insecurity. maybe, he doesn't want to kiss a nasty, cum-guzzling skank. i'm just saying...

Jenny
12-16-2006, 12:43 PM
perhaps, it's not insecurity. maybe, he doesn't want to kiss a nasty, cum-guzzling skank. i'm just saying...I actually think one loses the right to be that discriminating after letting the said nasty cum guzzling skank put her nasty cum guzzling skanky mouth on one's genitals.

mdiver
12-16-2006, 03:41 PM
Ok, so I was having sex with my bf and it came time for him to 'finish' so I told him to do it on my stomach. He does, and when I'm right about to sit up and clean it off, he leans down and licks it all back up. Is this common for a guy to do? It's never happened to me.

Any explanations are appreciated! :D

It sounds kind of gay to me, does he have any other homosexual tendencies?

I_luv_dancers!
12-16-2006, 07:09 PM
I actually think one loses the right to be that discriminating after letting the said nasty cum guzzling skank put her nasty cum guzzling skanky mouth on one's genitals.

<<<<< spits his beer all over the keyboard. :laughing:

Jenny shoots....she scores!

SlyGrin
12-16-2006, 07:24 PM
I actually think one loses the right to be that discriminating after letting the said nasty cum guzzling skank put her nasty cum guzzling skanky mouth on one's genitals.

Oh damn. Well played. This board kicks ass.

In other news... A guy that licks up his own cum? Nasty. IMO

yoda57us
12-16-2006, 08:52 PM
Never done it, never will

FBR
12-16-2006, 09:15 PM
I dont think that its gay. More likely narcissistic. But wierd.

FBR

ChloeTheRed
12-17-2006, 01:21 PM
Odd. Uncommon. Not "gay" in any way -- after all, he's getting his rocks off with a girl.

Personally, I'll swallow after a bj but not lap up my boy's cum -- the thick/gooey/stringy-ness of it is a little gag-inducing. I tried it once, and it was all trying to stick together, it actually felt like it was goo-ing back out of my mouth, yuck!

Basically, sounds like your boyfriend may be a bit kinky, but as kinks go, it's pretty mild and mostly harmless.

mr_punk
12-18-2006, 06:12 PM
I actually think one loses the right to be that discriminating after letting the said nasty cum guzzling skank put her nasty cum guzzling skanky mouth on one's genitals.LOL..okay, but that's not insecurity. it's a matter (or lack thereof) taste. you know, like drinking a "bloody mary" made from a used tampon in a glass of water.

Cameo
12-20-2006, 11:59 AM
I dont think that its gay. More likely narcissistic. But wierd.

FBR

that makes the most sense to me!

BTW, thanks everybody! your thoughts are much appreciated! ;)

Vyanka
12-20-2006, 12:31 PM
I dont think that its gay. More likely narcissistic. But wierd.

FBR

Yeah I see no point in licking up your own cum. But some ppl are into snowballing.

I like ILuvDancers' post. :)

xdamage
12-21-2006, 02:22 PM
It's not something I feel any inclination to do, and it don't think it's common, but I suppose there is room for a lot of different types of fetish behaviors that are unusual but harmless.

Nicolina
01-15-2007, 10:27 PM
Guys eating their own cum? Does nothing for me.

Girls snowballing/cumswapping/sucking boy cum out of each other? Totally different story. }:D :-X

yoda57us
01-16-2007, 05:30 PM
Guys eating their own cum? Does nothing for me.

Girls snowballing/cumswapping/sucking boy cum out of each other? Totally different story. }:D :-X

Agreed!}:D;D

AkashaM
01-19-2007, 12:57 AM
Ok, so I was having sex with my bf and it came time for him to 'finish' so I told him to do it on my stomach. He does, and when I'm right about to sit up and clean it off, he leans down and licks it all back up. Is this common for a guy to do? It's never happened to me.

Any explanations are appreciated! :DI find that strangely hot...not sure why. Dont know what i'd think in that situation. but yeah, very narcissistic. hmmm.

I had a guy eat me out and when came he sucked he juices out of me, spat it out on my stomach and then lapped it up. Wierd, once again, oddly hot.

Oh, the unsanitary things we do for sexual pleasure...

Casual Observer
01-21-2007, 07:54 AM
That behavior just reeks of self-absorption and possibly some degree of latent homosexuality.

You're supposed to decorate her for her pleasure, not your own gratification.

xdamage
01-24-2007, 07:40 AM
I guess I'm unusual then in that I don't relate to "decorating" her for either of our pleasure. I know that it's thing to do in porn (and the poor man's birth-control), I guess proof that the deed was real, and gets off the fetish types, but I've so far assumed it's just that a, fetish, most guys would rather cum "inside". Then again, maybe I'm the unusual one.

Bob_Loblaw
01-24-2007, 11:34 PM
Relatively speaking, it's pretty tame compared to scat. I'm not into either btw.

Daniela
02-01-2007, 10:06 AM
You're supposed to decorate her for her pleasure, not your own gratification.

wanting nothing more than to be objectified by her master..;)

Casual Observer
02-02-2007, 06:32 PM
^ Touch&#233;

;)

CuriousJ
02-04-2007, 10:19 AM
Not my thing . It did save a tissue or two ;) - think green .

WillStrip4Shoes
04-26-2007, 07:14 PM
Any man I've slept with has been too 'homophobic' to do such things. Although I do not personally find it 'gay' to do that, I think a lot of men do. If I've slept with a guy who WAS okay with it, I missed out because they must have only been brief encounters.. lol :)

LatinaRose
04-28-2007, 05:07 AM
It's a little odd. I've never been with a guy who would do that. In fact, they would say it's flat out homo. I don't think a lot of men do this. I've tried to get my bf to just taste a tiny bit (ya know, like how girls taste themselves) and he refuses.

crizgolfer
04-28-2007, 03:58 PM
Well, each person has their own things that turn them on, so I won't judge it. I have no interest in tasting my own cum. Although I do like the taste of a woman's.